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JAMES RAYMOND HOLWAY, JR.  
James Raymond Holway, Jr. of Washington, D.C. and Guilford, N.Y. died peacefully at home the morning of June 6, 2015. Mr. Holway is survived by his wife, Nancy Ticknor Holway; daughter Sarah Fitzgibbon; son James Patrick; daughter-in-law Lacie Wooten and cherished grandchildren, John Patrick Fitzgibbon and Patience Wooten Messore. Born May 6, 1929, Mr. Holway grew up on the North Side of Chicago, 6 short blocks from hallowed Wrigley field. Son of James Raymond Holway and Laura Banford Holway, he graduated Magna Cum Laude from the University of Notre Dame in 1950 and received his law degree from the University of Michigan in 1953. He also received a Masters in Taxation from George Washington University Law School in the early 70's. He served as First Lieutenant in the United States Air Force JAG Corps at Wright Patterson AFB. He practiced Law in Chicago before joining the Foreign Service. He was posted to Sao Paulo, Brazil. He found his true calling working with the American Institute for Free Labor Development, which supported free trade unions in Latin America and the Caribbean. He served as Director of Social Projects in Washington and then as Country Program Director for Argentina, Barbados and the eastern Caribbean and Costa Rica. He and his family were privileged to live in Argentina, Barbados and Costa Rica during his more than 20 years with AIFLD. Mr. Holway appreciated the pleasures of living in the city of Washington, and upon retirement, using his Spanish and Portuguese language skills, he volunteered for The Library of Congress, Travelers AID, The IRS Low Income Tax Payers Clinic and the AARP Money Management Program. All the while studying French to prepare for his and his wife's many trips to France. He was an avid reader and NY Times crossword puzzle fanatic, and with his wife, an enthusiastic traveler. An accomplished and beautiful swimmer, in 2003 the family began spending summers in Guilford, N.Y. in a small cottage on a sparkling lake. There he and his wife made lifelong friends with their neighbors, one of whom happened to be a long time Chicago Cubs fan. Mr. Holway's allegiance to his beloved Cubs wavered only when they played The Nats, as they did on June 6. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a donation to the Oxford Memorial Library, Oxford, New York, 13830.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 12, 2015.

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June 14, 2015

Nancy, From what I read it sounds like you had a wonderful, warm and loving life together. May the memories help you through this difficult time.
deepest sympathies,
Laura

Luis Ascanio

June 14, 2015

Dear Nancy,

Our best thoughts of solidiraty for you and your family in this moment of loss.

June 13, 2015

With love,Suan and Sandy Berger

Andy van Melle

June 13, 2015

Jim was my uncle. He was the last of my parents' generation. We'll never know just how much he affected us: so much of it was indirect. As my mother's only sibling, surely he affected her thinking about men and boys. She later went on to raise three of them. When my own son came into the world, Jim was the one who drove his mom to the hospital, where she gave quick, yet difficult birth on the hottest day of the year.

While he lived for so long in South America, in the pre-email age, we received many exotic postage stamps from all over the region. (We kids smiled at how his very sparse signature always lacked the final "m".) My father was a collector, and his stamp collection eventually went to me. Who knows just how it affected my attitudes towards South Americans, such as my future wife? Did his fluency in Portuguese inspire me to teach myself the language soon after I met her?

Surely we were affected by his tastes and values. How he dressed, his generous politics, his love of fine women, and every little thing Washingtonian about him.

I sometimes remember him best from when I was a small boy. He would drive over in his VW bug and whisk us kids out for ice cream. Always the ladies' man, he would post his little neice in the front seat, leaving us boys, the riffraff, to cram into the back "seat". We were always thrilled to see him, and he was always gone too soon.

Thanks for all of it, Ji.

Leslie Browning

June 12, 2015

So sorry for your and your family's loss Pat. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Lacie Wooten Holway

June 12, 2015

One of the best men I have ever met. Kind, funny and full of charm. Without him, I wouldn't have my husband and our beautiful son. How do you say thank you for that?
We love you and miss you everyday.

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