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for Jayton D. Patterson
Charles Anderson
July 31, 2025
Brother it's been a long time since PI! Just wanted you to know you are still thought about Brother! SEMPER FI!!
SGT Anderson Lima Co. 3/24 Al Anbar Iraq 2004.
Dawn Madsen
September 12, 2023
Jayton,
Rest easy buddy. We all miss you everyday. Love you always and forever. Semper Fi Marine!!!
Nicholas Poulter (Sgt USMC)
September 1, 2023
I miss you bro, it´s been tough down here lately. I think about that last deployment often. I know you´re looking down on all of us now! Semper Fi Jayton!!
Nicholas Poulter
September 1, 2023
I miss you Jayton, there´s not a day that goes by where I don´t think of you. That deployment was definitely a rough one. It felt like every week we lost someone. I remember right before you had gone out on your last patrol we were all hanging out inside of our tent talking about playing cards or going to the phone center when you got back. As a fellow Sgt you and I held a special bond. You and I would always bounce ideas off of each other before heading out on patrol. When we kept getting attacked DAILY while building the forward FOB you and I kept yellowing each other that we were ready for this!! There´s so many things I wish I would´ve said to you bro. You´re a damn good marine and I´m damn proud to not only say I served with you I´m combat but to also call you my friend! It was an HONOR being in the presence of a Hero like you! SEMPER FI!! Sgt. Nick Poulter Bravo Co. 1st Plt!! 0311!
Charlie Gili
October 28, 2022
Hello,
We wanted you to know that we will be honoring and remembering your loved one this holiday season. We are sending Care Packages to our deployed troops in his name. Each package will carry the name, photo, service branch, rank and hometown of Jayton D. Patterson US Marine Sergeant.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families, friends and many others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Mary Patterson Vick
August 4, 2015
My the flame of your memory continue as we are about to celebrate another birthday without you. You are always in my heart.
Sam Bays
August 31, 2013
Jayton, I have good news for you! Steph, Claire and Molly Wolly have moved back to Ivor!! Everyone is extremely happy that they are back. Me and Claire are Co-owners of a fantasy football team this year. She went out and bought everyone in the league notebooks and pens yesterday for our draft tomorrow. All her idea. We definitely plan on winning! I love that kid!!! We are going to kick some butt and take some names this year! We wish you were here. We miss you and we love you.
Sam Bays
August 31, 2013
Jayton, I have good news for you. Steph, Claire and Molly have moved back to Ivor! Now they are much closer to both of our families. Everyone is extremely happy. Me and Claire are partners this year on a fantasy football team. She went and bought everyone notebooks and pens for the draft tomorrow. All her idea of course! I love that kid! We are splitting the winnings because we definitely plan on winning. I love you brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Christopher Rock
January 17, 2013
Hey Sgt, everything is going good, I am not in anymore and currently on my way to a degree. I made Sgt myself when I was in and I hope I did as good a job as you did your self. I will never forget you and everything you taught myself and the rest of the Marines. You are my hero still to this day and I will never forget.
Dave Marino
January 17, 2013
Miss and love you my friend. Glad to have spent these last few years with your family and remember the good and the bad times as the years go on. I think of you everyday and miss my brother. I love you and my heart will always have you bunkered down in it. Semper-Fi! God Bless JDP...
Peggy Childers
January 16, 2013
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jayton D. Patterson:
It has truly been my honor to sign Jayton's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Jayton will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy
September 27, 2012
home you are peeking from heaven as your precious mother has now come to work with us.
Christopher Rock
September 26, 2012
Hey Sgt Patterson,
We all miss you and hope you are doing good where you are now. You will always be my hero and mentor.
Rock
Sgt Patterson, in turret on san juan.
Christopher Rock
September 26, 2012
August 31, 2012
They say time heals, but my scares still weep and cry for you my friend. Love and miss you everyday.
GySgt Marino Dave
spencer thomas
August 30, 2012
Hey Sgt. Patterson
wanted to let you know I'm still missing you brother, I still tell stories about you and they bring a smile to my face every time. I love you brother.
SGT Spencer.M.Thomas 1/2 B.co
Rob Gregory
August 28, 2012
A chance phone call I received today brought your name up. Hard to believe it's been 7 years already. You are still missed by many of us. Your sacrifice is still appreciated by many. We all miss you, and hope to see you again on the other side. God bless you, and God bless the family who is still here. We know you're watching over us, but we still miss you. Thank you for your service, bro.
Debra Youngblood
August 27, 2012
God bless you Jayton for your service to our country.
Jason Schmelz
May 17, 2012
Miss you brother!
B co. 1/2 01-05
Peggy Childers
January 15, 2012
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jayton D. Patterson:
Always remembering Jayton. "Some gave all."
Dave Marino
October 12, 2011
I love and miss you everyday Jayton, I look forward to seeing you again someday in a better place...love you buddy ...your Marine Brother Dave M.
Debbie Bays
October 12, 2011
Thinking of you today. Claire will be 8 yrs.old Saturday you would be so proud. She is the sweetest little girl.
Hunter Patterson
October 11, 2011
Hey brother just dropping in to tell you I love you. I think about you everyday it seems like yesterday me you and sam shooting ball. It tears me up everytime I see Claire. She looks so much like you. I would do anything to have changed what happened to you. I think about it all the time if God could of given me a sign so I could warn you. I feel like my life would be so much different if you were here. Anyways love you. I'll talk to you later.
August 31, 2011
Hey Jayton I just wanted to say hello and let you know that i was thinking about you. Cpl Spencer Thomas 1st plt Bravo Co 1/2
Sam Bays
August 9, 2011
"Jayton, Happy Birthday! I love you! I wish you could be here with me playing Madden and playing in my fantasy football league. Everytime I see Claire I think of you. I bought her a Redskins jersey from the Pro Football Hall of Fame when I went last year. It was an awesome trip. I wish you could have been there with me. Claire is spoiled rotten. You would be so proud of her. She is so smart. She is the most awesome kid I have ever met. Not a day goes by that we don't miss you and appreciate what you sacrificed for us. I wear your dog tags every day that I got from your package you sent Steph right before you were supposed to come back. Me and Hunter both got superman tatoo's just like you. It seems like just yesterday we were partying together and drinking miller high life the whole week before you left for boot camp. I can't believe its been 6 1/2 years. I kept that letter in my safe and gave it to steph just like you asked me to. I think it meant alot to her. It was my privilege to keep it safe for you. I would give anything to go out to the 4H center and play one last game of basketball with you. It was an honor and a pleasure to have been a part of your life. 8/9/2011"
Lucy Drewry
August 9, 2011
Jayton is very close to our little Luke at the cemetary. I did not know he was kin to one of my coworker.Jayton's mom was has been a support to me since we lost our son I visit him everytime I go to visit Luke. we know they are not there but up above and we continue to love. Think of his family so often. Thank you Jayton for all you have done for us
Amanda Mason
June 28, 2011
To the entire Patterson family my heart and prayers are still with you. And especially to little Claire, your dad was a magnificiant person, he loved you so much. He was my husbands sgt and a very good friend. We miss him very much!
HM3 James Marron (FMF)
April 14, 2011
Its Been along time, yet it seems as though it was just yesterday. You were a great Marine. Loved by all your brothers, you are missed deeply. I have vowed that from the sacrifices you and the other brother we lost .That I will try to a great person and try to have as much honor and integrity as my fellow brothers I lost Over there. Semper Fi
Jason Tarleton
April 13, 2011
Sgt. patterson. I miss you man, and always think of you and our brothers we lost over there. Your gone but not forgoten. The thought of you and your sacrifice keep me going when the days are hard and i dont feel like going, or start to get complacent with my marines. i look back and think of you and our brothers, it gives me the strength to stay on top of my marines. semper fi brother.
Will James
April 12, 2011
I just meet Jayton's father today, and thanked him for the service that his son has given this country. To the Patterson family , keep him in your hearts, he will never be far.
Spencer Thomas
January 16, 2011
Hey Jayton if you can here me up there today in 04 was one of the worst days I have ever had in my life. I miss you dearly and will see u again sometime. Semper Fidelis brother. Cpl Thomas
Peggy Childers
January 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jayton D. Patterson:
Please accept my remembrance of Jayton on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
PFC. DAVID HAGELSTEIN
September 12, 2010
SEMPER FIDELIS marine barracks 8th&I 2001-2004
Lead From The FRONT
Cpl. Aaron Brown
September 1, 2010
Sergeant Pat, I Miss you terribly everyday! Your sacrifice can never be repaid. I will honor you forever and will pass on the heroism you instilled to my children. Thank you for the best leadership a Marine can have. Semper FI
Debra Youngblood
June 2, 2010
I don't know if you remember Travis Youngblood, but he too was killed in Iraq, in 2005. I feel so bad for your family, and all those who knew and loved Jayton. Memorial Day is a hard one for us, but know that I honor and respect your son for his service and sacrifice to his country.
Evelyn Stephens
June 1, 2010
Please know that you are not alone at this time in your lives and sorrow. I lost a grandson, Jeremy Tinnel, Mechanicsville, Va. three years ago in Iraq. He too was stationed at Camp Lagune, N.C. He had only been married five months. Thanks.
Sgt Joe Burgy
May 30, 2010
Sgt P I still think of you often. Thank you for your leadership. When it gets tough you help a lot of us get through. Cheers buddy you are a real hero.
Spencer Thomas
March 25, 2010
Hey Sgt Pat Was Thinking of you again and how much i miss you. I honestly loved you and the rest of the platoon.
Melody Fitzgerald
March 23, 2010
Thank you Brave Hero. We think of you & your family often. I know you and our precious Dusty are together in Heaven guarding the gates of Heaven.
Semperfi
Proud Marine Family of LCpl Dustin R. Fitzgerald
January 20, 2010
Hey Sgt P. Like SSGT Marino I have been thinking about you a lot myself brother. I recently had a family memeber pass away and the thought came to mind "I hope she runs into Sgt P when she gets to heaven" Well again it was an honor serving with you and all the other marines from 1/2 B co.
Sincerely, Spencer Thomas
David Marino
January 16, 2010
Thinking of you last couple of days, and family members. Love and miss you my Marine Brother.
Peggy Childers
January 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Sgt. Jayton D. Patterson:
Remembering Jayton on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Andy Gray
November 12, 2009
Overall great person. We were all better because of Jayton. He will be missed, but not forgotten.
Peggy Mertz
August 19, 2009
To the family of SGT. Jayton D. Paterson, my thoughts and prayers are with your family. We, the Military Affairs Committe of Hampton, Va recogize those we have lost on 9-11 and those we have lost on the war on Terror. We invite family members that have lost loved ones to a observance we hold every 9-11 in Hampton, Va. We have read your son's name during our ceremony since 2007. If you are ever interested in attending our observance, you are always welcome.
My name is Peggy Mertz, you can reach me at [email protected]
Kenna Larra
July 20, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,660 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Debbi
March 22, 2009
Jayton, what a blessing it was this weekend to be able to meet your mom, wife, daughter and mother in law at the TAPS seminar. How much you are loved and that the your family remains together. It was so good to get to know who you are too.
May God continue to bless your family Always
In memory of my son
SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/2006 Samarra, Iraq
Denver Houck
February 8, 2009
Jayton was a great friend, an awesome roommate and an even better brother. Though not blood related, he might as well have been. He took me home several times and his family treated me as one of their own sons. He is constantly in my thoughts and it feels like it was just yesterday we were drinking beer together. He also helped me buy my truck, (LeAnn is what we called her) and I think he wanted me to get it just so he could drive it too. I miss you bro and wish I had the chance to talk to you after I left D.C. Till we see each other again.
Debbie Elam
February 3, 2009
Dear Jayton's Parents,
It has been a while since I talked with you. I was reviewing some work for me to do and wanted to send you and Jayton a note. We honor and respect your sacrifice and want you to know we care deeply about you. THE VIRGINIA MEMORIAL QUILT PROJECT.
In Memory of Jayton ~ (Debra Estep)
January 19, 2009
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Jayton, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Debbie Consolvo
January 16, 2009
Frank and Sharon,
I remember seeing little Jayton when I was a teenager and a lot of the extended "Phipps" family met up for Mother's Day one year at Mary's big old house.
I was thinking about Aunt Mart and all of you today, and wanted to extend my continuing condolences to you and to say thank you for your son, who served us all.
Love cousin Ronnie's daughter & Aunt Lucille's granddaughter, Debbie
Peggy Childers
January 15, 2009
To the family of Sgt. Jayton D. Patterson:
Jayton gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Richard Villarreal
November 12, 2008
I am a former Marine and the father of a former Marine. My son served with Sgt. Patterson and was with him when he passed away. I never met or spoke with Jayton, but my son misses him daily and often speaks of him, I'm sure from the impression he left on my son and others in his unit that he was a truely great Marine. May God bless you and yours always- Semper Fi.
Mary Blount
September 20, 2008
I only met Emily briefly but know what a great friend she was to my cousin. She was larger than life and a joy to be around. The world will be a sadder place without her. My sympathy to her friends and family.
robert gillespie
September 7, 2008
Jan,
This family will miss Bob. He's been around here for 40 years--as a youngster, as a young teen, and as an adult. He's been a stepson, a brother and a friend. He helped many people with his "paying forward" concept. Bob will always be remembered.
God bless you Jan.
Katie Steeb family
April 27, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Patterson!
Clifford Carr
April 10, 2008
Jayton and the Patterson Family, I have thought of your son often. The times in bible school, Kindergarden at Ivor Elem, nap time, Halloween when him and Wesley were the Duke Boys. I pray for you daily and thank God that Jayton was a part of my life and that he shared his faith with me when I was in the hospital and gave me his wooden cross necklace. I miss him so very much and am Greatful for the sacriface Jayton and your Family made for this country and my Freedom. Thanks also to all the men and women serving at home and aboard. May God keep you safe.
Brandon Spruill
March 8, 2008
The good die young but not in vain. The legacy will be remembered for decades to come. Our heroes of today will be the legends of tomorrow.
Paul Martin
February 21, 2008
My name is Paul Martin. I served with Jayton in OIF II, mine and jayton's first deployment to Iraq. Sgt. Patterson was my squad leader and my mentor. He taught me more than any other person could possibly teach me about life, in the short year that I had the privaledge of knowing him. Jayton believed so strongly in what we did and looked after us all in his squad. This man was a hero and the reason I do what I do today. Jayton, Sgt. Patt, I miss you bro and I praise you for everything that you taught us back in the day. I love you.
Denise Williams, CPA
February 11, 2008
I did not know you, but I humbly thank you for your service and sacrifice. It is because of men and women like you that we are able to sleep at night and feel safe. May God bless your family at this most difficult time.
Frank Johnston
November 25, 2007
I served with his grand-father RMCM(SS) Virgil Odom Patterson from
1958 thru 1964 with one year timeout on the USS Sea Leopard (SS-483) in Norfolk, VA and again
at CinclantFlt, Norfolk, VA.
I also served 21 years in the military - 11 Navy Submarines and
10 US Army (switched so I could serve in Vietnam (served twice and once in Desert Storm). I had the
highest admiration for Chief Patterson. I talked with him shortly before his death. I would
appreciate news from his family.
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 15, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Patterson and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Aunt of a Marine deploying soon
Debbie Elam
July 7, 2007
My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Chairman of the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. Our Project's Mission is to present the immediate family of each fallen soldier from the State of Virginia in the Iraqi War with a numbered memorial quilt. Please contact me at
Debbie Elam, Chairman
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
2621 Linbrook Drive
Richmond, VA 23228
phone 804-379-3817
or you can email me at [email protected]. We hope to hear from you soon. God Bless your family and friends.
Debbie Bays
April 4, 2007
I think of Jayton everyday,and still miss him as if he had just passed yesterday.I see Claire with such a great personality and know she inherited it from her Daddy.I am so lucky to have been a part of his life.What a great sacrifice he has made for me and you. With all my Love Debbie
Spencer Thomas
February 13, 2007
Sgt Pat Well i really dont know what else to say except you were one of the best marines ive ever served with, you always kept the plt motivated no matter what kind of rutt we were stuck in. The best memories i have of you are when we went on our long range recon patrol shortly before you passed. It was great because you were the leader and every marine that was with us on that gruelish 4 day patrol would have followed you anywhere and thats what makes a great leader. I miss you and that goes for all the rest of our brothers from 1stbn 2nd marines.
Cpl Spencer Thomas
Garnet Jenkins
January 15, 2007
In Remembrance of Sgt. Jayton D. Patterson, on the 2nd anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country, with a Multitude of Thanks, for this Brave Young Marine's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
Rest In Peace Jayton, in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God be with the Patterson family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
~ Psalm 121:1-2 ~
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you each day, as this Country remembers someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Sharon Patterson
January 10, 2007
Sgt. Jayton Patterson was my son. On January 15, 2007 it will be 2 years since we learned of his death. It hardly seems possible & we still find it hard to believe that he is not coming home again. We want to thank all those who keep our family in their prayers. Our hearts go out to all the other families who have lost loved ones as well. Jayton's daughter, Claire is beautiful & is a shining light to all of us.
Cpl Heath Kirklin
January 3, 2007
I fought with Jayton in Iraq when he was killed and remember him well. I drove a humm v for him in patrols for half the time we were there.
Melody Fitzgerald
November 11, 2006
Sgt. Jayton thank you for the service you gave to your country and for being such a good friend to our son Dusty. I will never forget the phone call you made to me when we lost Dusty. It touched my heart so much that day. I know you are all together again, now guarding the gates of Heaven. The best together again.Melody, Michael, Brandon and Shannon Fitzgerald. Proud Marine Family of, Lcpl Dustin R. Fitzgerald December 2, 1981 - August 18th, 2004
SSGT Marino, SSGT Williams, Jayton
September 23, 2006
ROBYN GARSIDE
September 20, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR LITTLE ONE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Cpl. Paul Martin
June 17, 2006
I served with Sgt. Patterson in Iraq during OIF II. He was squad leader and I served as his 2nd Team Leader. Jayton taught me everything there was to know about being a Marine in the Infantry. I will always remember Sgt. Patt and will always live on trying to be just at least half as good of a Marine as he was. Semper Fidelis and god bless.
sgt nicholas j poulter
June 2, 2006
I served with jayton i spoke with him moments before he died he was 1st sqd leader in 1st platoon bravo co 1/2,i was the 2nd sqd leader,he was a very good friend and will be missed he motivated us all and loved his mountain dews god bless!!!
David Marino
April 23, 2006
I fought with Jayton during his time in Iraq. I was there the day he died, and carried his body. I've never met someone so determined and filled with enthusiasm to do the right thing, and make a difference while we were there. He loved his Marines and I loved him as a brother, friend, and fellow Marine. He will be dearly missed always in our hearts and minds. We will meet again in a better place, and I know he looks down on us all, and keeps that hawk eyes attention to make sure we are steadfast in our ways, and guided along the path of rightousness. Love Ssgt David A. Marino. "See you on the Battlefield my Friend".
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 11, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Patterson family in the loss of Jayton. I did not know Jayton, but my heart is broken and I am sadden for your loss of such a fine young man and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Jayton, it has been a little over a year since you were taken, but you will not be forgotten. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
January 30, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
Dawn Madsen
January 2, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends.
Mary (Hayner) Andrews
December 21, 2005
The Patterson family will always be special to me and my memories of growing up in Sedley. My most sincere condolences to you all on the loss of Jayton. God Bless your family. Mary Jane (Hayner)Andrews
Debra Youngblood
November 18, 2005
When I lost my son, Travis, in July, I also learned of Jayton's death. I remember them attending Ivor Elementary school together, and I remember he was a very smart, bright, and sweet young man. God bless you all, and be with you. Jayton was a true hero, and I thank him for his supreme sacrifice to his country. With prayers and thoughts of his family, friends, and loved ones,
Debra S. Youngblood
Jacqueline Epps
November 11, 2005
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. MAY GOD'S GRACE GIVE YOU STRENGTH DURING YOUR BEREVEMENT AND MAY YOUR
LOVING MEMORIES OF JAYTON WARM YOUR HEART AND MAKE YOU SMILE OFTEN.
Patricia & Normand Caron
February 23, 2005
To all of Jayton's family and friends we are so sorry for your loss
We did not know Jayton or his family, but our Nephew (McNulty) was serving with him and we know the 24th MEU feels your pain and this was also a great loss to them, we would like to thank Jayton for the service he gave to our Country. Jayton made a choice to serve & protect, and it's people like him that give us the freedom we all have in the USA, He Is truly a hero. We are very proud and salute Jayton and all the men and women that serve and protect this great land of the free.
God Bless Jayton, his family and all the troops overseas.
Our deepest sympathies go out to the Patterson family at this very difficult time.
Proud Marine Aunt & Uncle
Margaret Kellum
February 7, 2005
To the family of this fine brave young man.I want to extend my deepest and heart felt condolences to you and your family. I'm sorry to say that I know how you are feeling because I lost my only son in Iraq on April 10,2004 he was 21.God has the two best Marines guarding his gates now.Your son will always be a hero to all of america. May God Bless you and give you comfort and peace.
Proud Marine Mom Forever of
Lcpl.John T Sims KIA 4/10/04
Margaret Kellum
Courtney Minor
January 28, 2005
I went to Tidewater with Jayton, my sister graduated with him also. Jayton always had a smile on his face and always in a good mood. I am very sorry for you and your family for having to lose him. I know that he will forever be in my memories. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.
Anna Fleming Padgett
January 27, 2005
Dear Claire,
I graduated from TA with your dad. I hope you will always know that he died for your freedom and mine. The true Americans are those fighting for us and making a better life for those in other countries. I'm not sure I have the courage your dad had and I'm not sure that we can say we are real Americans...I'm just grateful that I can call myself that. I hope your dad passed on his passion for life to you. He always put his whole heart into whatever he attempted. He showed us this in school as he let everyone know he was a Christian. Jayton was never ashamed of what he believed. Neither should you. I know Jayton and God are watching over you. Be strong, have faith and always remember there is someone in heaven on your side.
Wanda Pittman
January 27, 2005
Frank, Sharon & Family,
It has been years since I have seen or spoke with you all. As I have heard nothing but wonderful things about Jayton and his achievements, it has truly sadden me for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Take care of each other and remember Jayton will be watching over you all each and everyday.
Wanda S. Pittman
Sandy Castor
January 25, 2005
Dearest family,
I am so saddened to read of Jayton's death. I pray your fond, wonderful memories of Jayton, live on in your hearts forever, and help ease your pain. He will forever remain in our hearts and pryaers. God Bless you all,
Sandy Castor
January 25, 2005
Dearest family,
I am so saddened to read of Jayton's death. I pray your fond, wonderful memories of Jayton, live on in your hearts forever, and help ease your pain. He will forever remain in our hearts and pryaers. God Bless you all,
Sandy Castor
Jamie Graves
January 25, 2005
So saddened to hear of your loss!! Jamie
Lori Wagstaff
January 25, 2005
Dear Sharon and Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Jayton and please know that our prayers are with you and your family at this time. I remember Jayton as he was growing up and know you will also keep those memories close to your heart. Lori and family
Jay&Mac Dunn
January 24, 2005
Dear Patterson Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I really do appreciate what he did for our country. May God Bless you all.
Terrie O'Neal
January 24, 2005
I am very saddened to hear of your loss and I am praying for your entire family to find the strength to carry your way through this difficult time and then peace. God will offer both. I don't know your family - I have a son, a Marine, in the Al Anbar province, I just know that your Marine, Jayton, is a special angel on watch over his brothers.
Pick and Anna Lyman
January 23, 2005
May God Bless you and your family. We will never forget his smile and friendly greetings when we would see him around town.
Jayton made the ultimate sacrifice to protect our freedom and for that we would like to say Thank you. His and your family sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Forget Never!!!!!
Mack Britt and Family
January 23, 2005
To the Patterson Family:
We are sad to hear about your loss and we are thinking about you during this time. We are proud of what he done while he was over in Iraq and we know that he is going to be greatly missed by his family and especially by his daughter.
Ashley Jarratt-Protzman
January 22, 2005
Jayton and I worked together for 3 years at the 4H Center. He always kept us smiling and laughing. His personality and love of life was contagious. Jayton was a dear friend to me and will be desperately missed. My thoughts and prayers remain with his family, wife and little girl.
Claudia Miller
January 22, 2005
Dear Patterson Family,
From one Military Family to another. My deepest condolences on the passing of Jayton.With sadness i read this obituary today. We will pray for you, be strong. He is a Hero and some day will greet you on the doors of heaven with his beautiful smile.
C.Miller Army wife to Gary and
Navy Mom to Eric.
Brandie Wentworth
January 22, 2005
We did not know Sgt Patterson,but he is a brother, none the less. My husband is a marine and served in Desert Storm. We live in Ohio but were long time residents in Hampton. Our prayers are with you. Please know that our family greatly appreciates the sacrifice that Sgt Patterson made for our country and the sacrifice his family has made. He did not die in vain. Semper Fi
Michael, Heidi, & Chris Pittman
January 22, 2005
Dear Sharon & Frank,
We are so sorry for your loss and want to extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We are very proud of Jayton and are honored to have known him. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you in the days ahead. God Bless!!!
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