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Joan Eirich Wikstrom

Passed away peacefully at her McLean home of 50 years on January 14, 2024 surrounded by loving family and friends. She was 90.



Born in Cleveland, OH, Joan lived in Nashville and New York before moving to Northern Virginia, where she met and married Tom Wikstrom, her husband of 31 years. She earned two Master's Degrees and was Adjunct Professor at Catholic University, developing and teaching Human Resource Management at the graduate and undergraduate levels for 19 years. A pioneering businesswoman, Joan was the first woman Vice President at First American Bank of Virginia and served as Corporate Director of Personnel for Flow General. She became a Licensed Professional Counselor and launched a successful practice providing private counseling services and HR training and seminars for federal agencies.



Joan was a life-long learner who loved flowers, reading, visiting with friends, and traveling to Europe, Asia, Australia, and the South Pacific. She is survived by two sons, two daughters-in-law, seven grandchildren, four great-grandchildren, three nieces, and many wonderful friends. In lieu of flowers, a donation may be made to the Friends of Homeless Animals (foha.org). A celebration of life gathering will be held at a later date.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jan. 24, 2024.

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flo and tom

January 18, 2025

We will always remember our dear friend....
Thomas et Florence

Leilani Clark

December 18, 2024

I met Joan and Tom when they were in Guam. I kept in touch with them through the years. Both of them were very special people. I will remember Joan through her laughter. She truly loved life. Leilani Clark

Leilani Clark

March 21, 2024

I met Joan in Guam where she accompanied her husband as he worked with the Department of Education. She had the most beautiful smile and her eyes just sparkled when she greeted you. I will never forget how gracious she and Tom were when they opened up their home while Dave and I were enroute to England.

Frank Coleman

January 29, 2024

Our sincere condolences. We will always remember her for the kindness she showed to our son, Danny, when he was a kid waiting for the bus on the corner. She would always invite him to stand in her garage when there was inclement weather.
A wonderful human being, who will surely be missed by many.

Karen Bune

January 24, 2024

I am so very, very sad over the profound loss of my dear friend, Joan. I extend to her family my deepest and heartfelt sympathy. Joan was a lovely, kind person, and I am richer for having had the pleasure and privilege to know her and call her my friend.

florence and Thomas

January 24, 2024

All our condolences to his family and also his close friends. We were extremely lucky to have known Joan and to have shared good times of friendship.
Thomas and Florence

Frisch II Robert

January 24, 2024

Joan was a lovely person and a smart cookie. She will be missed.

Tammy Brennan

January 24, 2024

I will so miss my dear friend. May she rest in peace.

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