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Patricia McArdle
December 5, 2023
"Without Jody's help, I would never have become a public diplomacy officer.
I owe her big time. Thank you, Jody!!!
Here's our story... Jody and I met when she was the Public Affairs Officer at the U.S. Embassy in Pretoria, South Africa and I was a very junior diplomat working as assistant to the assistant General Services Officer (GSO). It was my first overseas assignment as an untenured junior diplomat with the Department of State.
As a senior Public Affairs Officer at our Embassy in Pretoria, Jody was an influential member of the ambassador's staff, and the host of many official parties. One of my responsibilities as the most junior GSO in the embassy was to help USIA obtain whatever they needed for their frequent and very large gatherings. Jodie and I became good friends just as I was starting to regret having accepted my GSO assignment, which had me overseeing the maintenance of embassy staff housing; supervising our large motor pool; and managing the local crews that kept our embassy building spotless.
During one of our many conversations, I told Jody that prior to joining the Foreign Service, I had served for three years as young U.S. Naval officer at a remote communications base in Morocco. One of my assignments there was as Public Affairs officer.
I also had some writing experience as editor of my grad school newspaper and the author of several magazine articles during my Peace Corps years in Paraguay.
One day Jody asked me if I would be interested in transferring to USIA after I received tenure.
My answer was a resounding 'yes!'
The problem was that for reasons beyond my comprehension, one senior USIA staffer in DC was adamantly opposed to my transfer.
Jody, of course, had a plan.
When it was announced that USIA Director Charles Wick, was coming to Pretoria for an official visit, Jody asked me to rent a piano and have it delivered to her house for the party. She also invited me to attend (quite an honor for such a junior diplomat). She then handed me my marching orders for the evening. When she gave me the signal, I was to approach Mr. Wick, introduce myself and ask him if he would play my favorite song, "As Time Goes By". When I did, Wick smiled, sat down at the piano, and began to play my song... and many more. He played quite well -- all from memory. Jody gave me a wink and a smile as I leaned against the piano and gave Mr. Wick my full attention. A few months later, my transfer to USIS was approved and I was reassigned to the USIS office in Cape Town, where I joined my husband, a fellow State Department diplomat already working at Cape Town´s U.S. consulate. A few months later, when we welcomed the birth of our first daughter, Jody, of course, sent us a gift. She really was one-of-a-kind. I remember occasionally walking into her office in Pretoria for a meeting and finding her editing memos while lying on the floor with her feet up on her desk. "More comfortable", she said with a smile.
Jody was a leader and a powerful model for all of us young female diplomats who were, in the 1980s, still dealing with the accepted chauvinism of our male colleagues. Back then, female diplomats were still a tiny minority subject to levels of harassment that today would be considered completely unacceptable. No man ever harassed Jody and lived to tell the tale. She will be missed by all who knew her, loved her and worked with her.""
Mark Barroba
November 29, 2023
May you rest in then Lord´s presence.
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