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JOHN R. DOBBYN  John R. Dobbyn, age 87, known to many as "Papa," died of kidney failure at his home in Alexandria on February 26, 2016. He was born in Sommerville, MA on Friday, April 13, 1928. He graduated Boston Latin School 1946 and then St. Michael''s College in 1950. He was drafted into the Army during the Korean War and became Sergeant. He later entered the seminary and served as as a Catholic priest with the Passionists for 13 years. After leaving the priesthood, he came to Washington DC, became a commodities broker, and retired as a Vice President of Merrill Lynch. After retirement, he homeschooled his children and raised his grandchildren. He loved God and had an excellent sense of humor. He is survived by his six children Celeste Dobbyn Byrd (Michael) of Alexandria, VA, John Dobbyn Jr (Kathryn) of Alexandria, VA, Joseph Dobbyn of Los Angeles, CA, Richard Dobbyn (Kristen) of Alexandria, VA, Michael Dobbyn (Kathleen) of Alexandria, VA and Grace Dobbyn of Chicago, IL. He is also survived by his beloved grandchildren Michael Byrd Jr, Jaelyn Hawkins, Alexander Byrd, Natalie Byrd, Mary Byrd, Victoria Dobbyn, Marie Dobbyn, John Dobbyn III, Abigail Dobbyn and Richard Dobbyn V. Funeral services will be held on Friday, March 4, 2016 at 11 a.m. at Good Shepherd Catholic Church, 8710 Mount Vernon Highway, Alexandria, VA. A reception will immediately follow the service. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Catholic Charities.

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Published by The Washington Post on Mar. 3, 2016.

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Denise & Bob Lynch

February 26, 2020

His light of love continues to shine for those blessed to have had his friendship. He left footprints on so many hearts. Thank you.

Bob & Denise Lynch

March 1, 2019

What a blessing it was to be included in his circle of friends. Jack will ALWAYS be remembered for his kindnesses, sense of humor, intellect and most importantly his modeling of his love for family. May you continue to influence us all to count our blessings.

Denise & Bob Lynch

March 12, 2016

The world has lost a magnificent human being while Heaven has claimed another angel. Jack will be missed but what a legacy he has left on earth!

Paula and Jack, San Francisco 2007

Paula Hewitson

March 6, 2016

Yes, you were a lucky bunch, Dobbyn cousins. What a great man, your dad, and you all were his legacy. I will always remember him with immense fondness.

Phil Dobbyn

March 3, 2016

Miss him already, he was always so kind.....and actually got my jokes

Joe Dobbyn

March 3, 2016

I couldn't ask for a better father. He didn't just spend time with us, he enjoyed and loved the time we spent. He loved baseball, great books and the Catholic Church. He listened to any problems with kindness and without judgement. He made a big family dinner every single night of the week and we all sat around the kitchen table and ate together. He packed lunches and drove us to school and took us all over the world and the east coast. He prayed with us every night and would rent us all the movies he watched growing up or thought were important. He taught us songs that we'd sing in the car and he had us memorize poetry. He also instilled in us a love and respect for the Church. Then he did it all again with his grandkids. Somehow he did all of this without being overbearing or weird. He was just a great man, and we became best friends. I don't think anyone who knew him would disagree that he was a legend.

Tiffany Valenti

March 3, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. RIP Papa

Don and Meg Bush

March 3, 2016

Don and I are so sorry about your dad. We saw him at almost every family gathering that we were able to attend. He always had a twinkle and a smile! And was covered with children. His legacy! thinking of you all Don and Meg Bush

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