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MARY PARKER Obituary


Mary Frances (née Shuber)  Parker, MD  Colonel, US Army (Ret.)  
Of Rockville, MD, passed away peacefully on July 4, 2021 at age 59 after battling cancer. Mary was a native Ohioan who graduated from Berea Community High School in Berea, KY, where she was a high school All-American in track. Mary attended the Ohio State University on an athletic scholarship. She became a physician and was given the Board of Regents outstanding medical student award upon graduation from the Uniformed Services University of the Health Sciences (USUHS). She specialized in gynecologic oncology. Mary served in the US Army for 25 years, including time as the Chief, Gynecologic Oncology at Tripler Army Medical Center in Honolulu, HI and in assignments at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, DC, USUHS in Bethesda, MD, and Ft. Detrick, MD. She served on a remains recovery team that went to the Pentagon following the 2001 terrorist attacks. After military retirement, Mary worked as a medical analyst for the Defense Intelligence Agency and Central Intelligence Agency before her final job as a senior director in clinical development within the pharmaceutical industry. Mary is survived by her husband of 34 years Joseph Parker; sons Alexander and Jacob Parker of Rockville, MD; parents Thomas and Geraldine Shuber of Stow, OH; brother Timothy Shuber (Cheryl) of Cuyahoga Falls, OH; sister Ann Ballard (Michael) of Mason, OH; mother-in-law Bonnie Cox; sister-in-law Jean McCann (Greg) of Vero Beach, FL, and sister-in-law Judith Parker (William, deceased) of Lantana, TX, 10 nieces and nephews, and four great nieces and nephews. A funeral mass will be held at 11 a.m. on July 31, 2021, with a wake preceding at 10 a.m., at Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church in Cuyahoga Falls, OH. In lieu of flowers, consider a donation to the Jimmy V Cancer Foundation or the American Cancer Society.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jul. 25, 2021.

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Scott T Scalf

July 13, 2025

Continued prayers and blessings. Mary is now in the warm loving arms of Christ.

Earl Harrison

July 12, 2025

This reminder showed up in y emails. I only met Mary through her husband Joe. I know how much Joe loved her from the time he met her in medical school. Joe and I met when he was a Modern Pentathlon athlete at Fort Sam Houston.
Hope to see Joe when time permits.

Angela L Engel

July 7, 2023

I am so very sad to hear about Mary´s passing. I was her project director for a year at Walter Reed AMC. She was leading the congressionally funded research on HPV. My son had a few play dates with Alex as he also has Autism. I am very sorry she is gone. She was brilliant and funny. She will be missed by the world. Angela L Engel

Earl Harrison

August 18, 2021

My thoughts are with the family. I know Joe loved her so much. May the family have peace.

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Scott Scalf

July 21, 2021

I knew Mary through her living parents. She was a beautiful brave soul. She is now amongst the cloud of witnesses cheering us on to complete the race. Hebrews 12:1

Kelly Rabah

July 18, 2021

There are no words. I´m so very sorry for your loss. May the memories of her very full life bring you peace and comfort.

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Jul

31

Wake

10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

Jul

31

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

Funeral services provided by:

Going Home Cremation & Funeral Care by Value Choice, P.A. - Rockville

170 Rollins Ave, Rockville, MD 20852

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