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Milton Joseph Socolar  
Passed away peacefully on July 20, 2021 at the age of 96. After growing up in Baltimore and attending City College, he served in the Navy from 1943 to 1946, where he was assigned to repair radar in the United States. In 1948, he married Marlyn Paper, and they managed an integrated diner in southwest Washington, DC. He joined the US General Acounting Office in 1952, serving first as an Auditor, then joining the legal staff after receiving his law degree from George Washington University. He was stationed in Paris, France, from 1952 to 1958, then worked in the Washington, DC office until his retirement in 1994. He was named General Counsel in 1978 and Acting Comptroller General from March to September of 1981, following which he held the position of Special Assistant to the Comptroller General. He was named Distinguished Executive in 1982 and Meritorious Executive in 1984. In 1987 he was awarded the Roger W. Jones Award for Executive Leadership by the American University School Of Public Affairs.  Milton had a special talent for fair and insightful analysis of managerial and legal problems. He was warm, honest, sincere, empathetic and pragmatic. As a father and husband, he was always patient and supportive. He was loved by extended family members of all ages and sought out for his wisdom by friends and colleagues. He was also an accomplished amateur painter. He is survived by his wife of 73 years (Marlyn), two sons (Joshua and Serge Socolar), four grandchildren (Jacob, Yvonne, Madeleine, and David Socolar), and a great-granddaughter (Isabelle Bruninga Socolar). There will be a memorial service in the fall.

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Published by The Washington Post on Aug. 16, 2021.

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Terry Brown

March 15, 2022

We offer sincere sympathy and condolences to the Socolar family. I am just now receiving the news of the passing of your beloved Milton Socolar. Mr. and Mrs. Socolar were both very kind to me in my early 20's giving me the opportunity to buy one of their multi-family properties in 1995. I have very fond memories of both of them as we stayed in touch for some time after the sale. Mr. Socolar was one of the most gentle yet firm gentleman I have ever known. May blessings be continual for Marlyn Socolar and the Socolar family.

Valerie Tate

September 8, 2021

Milt and Marlyn were wonderful friends to my family. We were all were deeply fond of them. I'm ever grateful for their generosity. Milt was a true mensch. May his name be a blessing. Much love to Marlyn, Serge, and Josh and all of Milt's family and friends.

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Donna Heivilin

August 16, 2021

I remember Milt very fondly. He was a great
Deputy Comptroller Cereal and loved and admired by all.

Paul Lacey

August 16, 2021

Milt was one of the best, most competent, kind and easy going executives the office ever had. He was a pleasure to work with and work for. He was missed as soon as he retired. Sorry to hear this news. :-(

James Dexter Peach

August 16, 2021

My prayers and thoughts go to the Socolar family in the wake of Milt's passing. I had the privilege and benefit of working with Milt for much of my 38 year GAO career. I could always rely on Milt for sound advice and counsel. In difficult times, he was a major part of the glue that kept GAO moving forward. Milt was the "real deal" a genuine, caring person that you could depend on to guide you in the right direction.
Rest In Peace, Milt

James Bothwell

August 16, 2021

I have too many fond memories of working together with Milt during my 20 years at GAO to possibly share adequately in a brief message. Suffice it to say that he was always insightful, wise and warm and extremely supportive and dedicated to the people and mission of the agency. A true public servant and gentleman of the highest order. May he rest in peace.

Linda Kemp

August 16, 2021

Marlyn and family - There are no words to express this loss. You have our deepest condolences. I was so fortunate to have known him and worked with him for so long. He was always the perfect gentleman and an exemplary leader at GAO. He will be missed by many. Pierson joins me in sending our love and blessings to you and your family.

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