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Nicholas Rapavi Obituary
NICHOLAS PAUL RAPAVI, Cpl., USMC
Of Springfield, VA on November 24, 2006 while serving his country in Iraq. He is survived by his parents, Paul R. Rapavi and Cathy M. Rapavi-Burnley; paternal grandparents, Andrew and Carmela Rapavi; maternal grandparents, Carl and Ruth Radzio of Washington, NJ; brothers, Jonathan and Christopher Rapavi; aunts, uncles, cousins and extended family. Funeral services will be held Friday, December 8, 1 p.m. at the Marine Memorial Chapel, Kellon Ave., Quantico, VA. Interment will follow at Arlington National Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Nicholas' name may be made to the Injured Marine Semper Fi Fund, 825 College Blvd., Suite 102, PMB 609, Oceanside, CA 92057 or at www.semperfifund.org.
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Memories and Condolences
for Nicholas Rapavi
Jm
February 4, 2025
Was thinking of Cpl Rapavi. Just wanted to stop by.
Susan Kolb
May 26, 2024
Today, I remember Nick and his bravery. I will pray for his family today as they lovingly remember his selflessness as a true hero for our country. God bless you Rapavi family. We met at bootcamp graduation. I will never forget meeting your beautiful family.
Kyle
May 30, 2021
I went to high school with Nick at Hayfield Secondary, Class of 2000 in Army JROTC. I didn't know Nick very well but I was saddened to hear of his loss and visited his grave at ANC when I started work in Arlington, Virginia.
May his memory never die and to all the fallen during the Global War on Terrorism and Operation Iraqi Freedom.
November 24, 2019
One life, given in service to his country, has touched people you do not know. His sacrifice has impacted so many lives and the ripple effect only recently hit me. To Nick's family and friends I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for your sacrifice. You are not alone in your grief. He will not be forgotten. Semper Fi.
Melinda Morrell
May 27, 2016
Once again, remembering Nick and other American veterans who paid the ultimate price. As the Bible tells us, there is no greater love than that of a man that lays his life down to save another's. Thank you, Nick.
Stephen Shook
January 15, 2015
Nick and my son, Stephen were friends when they were young. He was always friendly, polite and just a plain good kid.
I've seen your vehicle with Nick's hero ribbon on the back and the "Nichlas" license plate. Made me sad all over again and I said prayer for him and his family.
Melinda Morrell
September 23, 2014
To the family of Nick Rapavi,
Remembering you all this week as Nick's birthday nears. He was a good friend to my daughter Kelly Walsh and we have never forgotten him. Whenever we are in the DC area we make a point of visiting 2 places--Arlington National Cemetery where we know, unfortunately, several of our fallen heroes and the National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial, where Kelly's brother Brian Walsh is honored (we lost Brian in 2010 in a line of duty death). We understand your loss like few others do and raise our voices often in prayer for you all. May God provide your family comfort as you continue to struggle with your loss--it may diminish but it never goes away. May our lives from this day forward always honor their memory.
January 19, 2014
Sometimes I can barely remember "those days" and I feel way older than I am. Then you pop into my head and it's like we're at the beach house again, going to play pool, or on the way to someone's 21st birthday party, and all I see is your beautiful smile.
Emily Rapavi
March 20, 2013
Dear Nick, my guardian angel,
I miss you very much cousin. Your love and sacrifice for your country, family, and friends is inspiring and will never be forgotten. You are proof of God's love for all of us. I just want you to know that you make me stronger and give me so much faith. I know you are watching over all of us. Praying and thinking about you!
Love you so much,
Emily
I just lost my daughter so I do know your pain
Julie LaVecchia
May 28, 2012
Thank you Nicholas and the entire Rapavi Family for giving our Country the ultimate sacrifice. You are always in my thoughts and prayers.
May 27, 2012
I served with Cpl Rapavi in Iraq, and I cannot say anything about him that hasnt already been said on this forum.
Saepius exertus, Semper Fidelis, Frater infinitus
N. Carius 1st plt golf co. 2/8
Peggy Childers
November 24, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Nicholas P. Rapavi:
Please accept my remembrance of Nicholas on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
May 7, 2011
Hey bud,
It's done. OBL is gone, he was hiding in Pakistan. Finally, we got him. Finally.
Rest well friend.
December 2, 2010
Remembering a hero and fine young American, Nicholas. I am sure that he is still watching over his troopers wherever they are.
December 1, 2010
Remembering Nick Rapavi-Forever a hero, never forgotten.
Peggy Childers
November 25, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Nicholas P. Rapavi:
Remembering Nicholas on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
November 24, 2010
Sometimes it feels as if four years ago was a lifetime away...but yet as time passes it still doesn't get any easier. Miss you bud.
SSgt
March 11, 2010
An example to all. A hole was left that anyone would be hardpressed to fill.
November 23, 2009
You are not forgotten, brother. SS
Connie Aho
November 21, 2009
To the parents of Nicholas,
Recently my son was visiting Arlington. On his first visit he sent a few names for me to look up so I could remember these people in a small way. On this last visit he called me after and said how you were there visiting your sons grave. Please just know that other Marine families are holding you in thought and prayer over the loss of your son.
H C
November 6, 2009
Rapavi,
Sometimes I can still smell OP Riviera and that IP station. Then I think about you and all those who gave all. My wife doesn't know, but I think about it everyday and sometimes I cry. Just know that you will never be forgotten.
Melinda Walsh
September 11, 2009
Remembering Nick's service to his country on this day of remembrance/service. May God comfort his family and friends as they remember his life and service. While we should all forgive, we all should NEVER FORGET.
Kayla Chamblin
March 28, 2009
To the parents of Nicholas,
You have never met me, but I wanted to share something with you. My husband served with your son in Iraq the day he lost his life. Although they weren't close, my husband thought very much of your son. In fact, we are now expecting our fourth child in July, and are going to name him Nicholas. I just wanted to share this with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless
Kenna Larra
March 5, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
In Memory of Nicholas ~ (Debra Estep)
November 24, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Nicholas, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
November 24, 2008
Nicholas,
Thinking and praying for you on the 2nd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Peggy Childers
November 24, 2008
To the family of Cpl. Nicholas P. Rapavi:
Nicholas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Nicole Rapavi
October 25, 2008
Nicholas,
I think about you every single day. I
always picture you smiling and making jokes when we were at Grandpa and Grandma's house. You are so caring and courageous. This inspires me to stay strong. I know you are helping me through all of the rough times I have been going through lately. I miss you so much.
Your cousin,
Nicole
July 1, 2008
Nick, You are thought about everyday. The impact you have made on people's lives and the friendships that so many grew to appreciate will never be forgotten.
June 29, 2008
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Rapavi!
Melinda Walsh
April 9, 2008
To the Rapavi Family,
I am the mom of one of Nick's friends from the Kingstowne area. I recall Nick being at my house with all the other seemingly endless teens that came and went when my daughter was at Hayfield! I miss those days but am so proud of the fine young adults they have all become. Our family was saddened to hear of the loss of Nick almost a year and a half ago and my daughter still talks of him from time to time. She will graduate from college in a few weeks and it will be with a tinge of sadness because we are mindful of Nick's great sacrifice and often wonder what he would have further accomplished if he were still with us--no doubt something fantastic! I was fortunate enough to be showing a friend the Women's Memorial at ANC a few weeks ago and thought I would pay my respects to Nick by visiting his gravesite while I was there. Not to my surprise, his gravesite was covered by flowers and other remembrances. I was glad to see that because it means he has not been forgotten, even though many of us have very busy lives. Please know you have raised a wonderful family and your sons will all continue to contribute to this nation in many, many ways. Being from a military family and being a veteran myself, I understand the sacrifices families make when their loved ones serve--there's none greater! Thanks again for the giving of your son Nick and please know that I remember you all often in my prayers. May God richly bless you and yours.
April 4, 2008
Thank you for everything you did for us. We are eternally grateful for your ultimate sacrifice, and only hope that we can show you how much you mean to us.
Watch over us and keep us safe.
DD
March 14, 2008
Dearest Nicholas,
You only used to let me call you that in private..and that I will cherish. I went to see you last week...the 1st time ever. I still think of you often, probably more then I should. I'm sorry for everything... we've certainly had our past. Until the future...TG
Semper Fi Brother
Sgt. Graeme Stuart Carroll
January 24, 2008
To Nick's Family,
It's been a year and about two months since we lost Rapavi. Nick had a huge impact on my life. I was his room mate in Camp Lejeune and worked under him for a bit right before the Iraq deployment. I have a goofy picture of me and Nick in between training events in California right above my desk to remind me what hard work is. Nick was a tough leader and sometimes difficult to work under because he expected the best at all times from us. I don't understand why it is always his best and brightest children that God decides to take from us, but perhaps it is so that we can all understand what a short time on this earth to make a difference for someone else. I knew Nick for just over 3 years and that was enough time for him. God Bless and Semper Fidelis Marine. Go Easy Bro, you earned it
Alberto Barreto Jr.
January 12, 2008
I knew Nick while I was at Hayfield. He was a cool guy. He will never be forgotten. I'm remebering the we used to crack jokes on our 8th grade english teacher! May God bless him and his family.
-Alberto Barreto Jr.
Julia LaVecchia
December 11, 2007
Dearest Cathy,
My computer crashed and I do not have your information. Please contact me. The holidays must be so difficult........Love Julie
Reeah Parker
December 9, 2007
Dear Rapavi Family,
I have been thinking of you and of Nick. I wanted you to know that he is not forgotten - nor are you.
My thoughts are with you and with Nick again.
Jennifer Wright Cramer
December 2, 2007
To the Rapavi family:
I went to Hayfield with Nick and got to know what a wonderful person he was. He is and will always be greatly missed. I can't believe it's been over a year already. Nick will forever be in our hearts.
Michael iezzi
November 26, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
A loved one lives forever in the hearts of those who cared.
A loved one lives forever in the memories that were shared.
Susan Stanley
November 6, 2007
Dear relatives of Nicholas, my son SSGT Russell J. Verdugo is buried in Arlington National Cemetery along with your hero. I took some photos last Memorial Day Week-end 2007 and have a photo of your Nicholas’s grave site and marker. If you would like a copy emailed to you, please let me know. I know we are so very proud of our fallen heroes, but we miss them so.
In loving remembrance of our heroes!
Gold Star Mother,
Julia La Vecchia
November 2, 2007
Dear Mr & Mrs Rapavi,
We are coming up on a year since that horrible day at Quantico and Arlington Cemetary. It's taking me this long to write to you. I have bought numerous cards and couldn't mail them. I still grieve daily about your Beautiful Son. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him. 2/8 got deployed again on 10/31/07. I shake at the thought of this.I was down in DC a few weeks back and wanted to make contact.......but just couldn't. I called Chris and he was so sad...Our hearts may never heal. He was one Great MAN YOUR SON..I made a book for Vinnie just For Nick...He'll never get over losing Nicholas. I worry about that too. God he loved Nick........All My Love and Prayers Julie La Vecchia
Michael iezzi
October 25, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Nicholas to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Nicholas in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Jane Russo
October 25, 2007
Our deepest sympathy for your son and family member. May he rest now in God's arms. Jane Russo and John Francavilla
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
October 25, 2007
Eternal rest paid in full.
SHIRLEY DONEY
October 24, 2007
REST IN PEACE CPL. RAPAVI, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
A SOLDIERS ANGEL, SHIRLEY
Yolanda Valdez
October 24, 2007
Another Fallen Hero ~
My heart breaks as I sign another guestbook of such a courageous soldier who gave his life so selflessly. May he rest in peace knowing that he is loved and remembered by those who knew him. God Bless this soldier and his family who gave all and made the ultimate sacrifice. May God grant you peace, strength and comfort in such a difficult time. My deepest condolences and prayers are with the entire family.
We understand what you are experiencing and feeling. No amount of words can ease the pain of your loss. We know first hand there are no words of comfort at this time. We lost our only son 9-3-2004 at the age of 19 and it fells like yesterday. Just know that there are Marines and families across the USA who is experiencing your loss and pain. You are not alone. We will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes.
I still fly my Marine flag and have my Marine tag and sticker on my vehicles because I'm PROUD of my SON and DAUGHTER, and all the SERVICE MEN and WOMEN out there. We will always be a MARINE. We are proud of you all. “Land of the Free, Because of the Brave”
Thank you Legacy.com for setting up this website so families can quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves across this great nation.
Once a Marine, Always a Marine!
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Proud Marine Parents of an American Hero
LCpl. Nicholas S. Perez – KIA 9~3~04 – Al Anbar Province, Iraq
Valorie
October 23, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
August 21, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 3, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Rapavi and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Donald Guerriero
July 28, 2007
All of the fallen from Virginia are true heroes. My sympathy goes out to this young man's family, friends, and fellow Marines. I was just going through the listing of those who died and were from Virginia when I noticed Cpl Rapavi's entry and saw that there was no picture. I've found one and sent it to Legacy.com for inclusion. Reading more about Nicholas, I saw that he must be remembered today with much sadness. He just seems so young to have died in action, but we all know better. The young are taking the worst in this war and we feel the grief of the families when we see another announcement.
Cpl. Rapavi truly exemplified what a Marine is all about. He was on his THIRD combat tour on his FIRST enlistment. He was going out ahead of his squad to see what danger might be waiting them when he was suddenly shot and killed by a waiting sniper. I belief he must have saved lives that day and many days before. My feeling is he was the type of leader who did not have to tell his men what to do, he just went on ahead of them to show them the way and to look out for danger. How good this was for his men and how sad that we lost such a heroic young man. My regret is that he could not come back here to Virginia to attend college, as he hoped to do after his Marine enlistment was over.
George Gunn
April 21, 2007
The Rapavi Family
I am saddened to learn of your loss of Nicholas. I know he will always be alive in your hearts. His courageous service is greatly appreciated, and I'm sure it will not go unnoticed by the Greatest Authority of All.
I was away from the area for several weeks when this happened.
Upon learning this week about the incident, I read several inspiring articles on-line about Nicholas. His life and service are an inspiration to many.
God Bless you all.
Robyn Garside
April 5, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. Your family is in our prayers, that the Lord provide you peace and comfort. Nicholas will live on in the hearts of those who knew him, and also in the hearts of those of us who did not know him, but honor him for his courage and sacrifice. Semper Fi and God Bless.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 24, 2007
Cathy it was an honor meeting you at ANC a few weeks ago. Nicholas's head stone is there now. I took a few pictures if you want me to e mail them to you please contact me. Again Nicholas is my hero and he will NEVER be forgotten. I continue to honor him each time I am at ANC.
Debbie Elam
January 17, 2007
My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Co-Chair for the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. The Friendship Circle Quilters in Richmond, VA have a project to present the immediate family of each fallen soldier from the State of Virginia with a memorial quilt. Please contact me at the following:
Debbie Elam, Co-Chair
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
800 Hallsboro Road
Midlothian, VA 23112
Home Phone 804-794-6364
or you can email me at [email protected]. We hope to hear from you soon! God Bless.
Glen Nevogt
January 7, 2007
“Paid in Full”
In Honor of The War Against Terrorism’s Fallen and Injured Marines
Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full
We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward
What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our minds we will cherish your lives
Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the few, the proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us
They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown
Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full
January 7, 2007
ill miss you nick.
saepius exertus, semper fidelis, frater infinitas
Virginia Rapavi Lennox
January 3, 2007
I just found out about the loss of your son Nicholas on Jan 1. Please except my deepest sympathy and prayers. Your son was truly a hero and many of us will not forget.
Mike & Lisa (Douglas)Naughton
December 25, 2006
~Paul and Family
We just finished opening presents and were listening to NPR when we heard the piece on Nicholas. It took a second of listening and we suddenly realized who and what they were reporting about. We are so sorry for this ultimate loss. We can't imagine what it would be like to lose one of our children but just a couple of days ago we were reflecting how far the ripples reach, from each and every fallen soldier. Rely on each other and your collective strength will help you get through this and to stay strong. Remember that there are still many reasons to give thanks. Our thoughts are with you.
Lawrence Kovach
December 23, 2006
Dr. Rapavi:
Please accept our heartfelt condolences at this most difficult time. We didn't learn of your loss until this morning (23 Dec).
Your family will be in our prayers.
God Bless You,
Larry & Karen Kovach
Beth Belle
December 12, 2006
To the Rapavi family,
Our son, LCPL Nicholas Kirven, is buried at Arlington Cemetery. We live in Fairfax and visit every Sunday and sometimes during the week. We paid our respects to your Nicholas and will visit each Sunday. He will never be forgotten.
Please know we are here always.
Claire Zawistowski
December 11, 2006
Dear Rapavi Family,
Even though we have never met, I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed by a IED in Iraq on 10/3/05. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding you as close to His heart as He has held my family this past year. May you know God's comfort and peace as you travel down this difficult road.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
December 9, 2006
To the Rapavi family: I previously signed Nicholas's guest book. I
attended Nicholas's funeral service at ANC yesterday. It was an honor
to hear so many beautiful things about him. Know that he is my hero and he will NEVER be forgotten. Each week while I am at ANC I will visit/honor Nicholas.
Gug (Orange Hunt Estates)
Charlotte Waters
December 9, 2006
Our deepest compassion to all of the Rapavi Family for their great loss.
Charlotte & Johnnie Waters & Family
Cheryl Leverett
December 8, 2006
Dear family of Nicholas Rapavi,
Please accept our condolences for your loss. A true hero is difficult to find and the loss leaves a hole in our hearts as well. We will not forget Nick's sacrifice.
Cindy & Gary Peacock
December 8, 2006
Cathy & Paul,
May it comfort you to know that this very special person will be remembered by many. With sympathy.
Paula Dodd
December 8, 2006
Our deepest sypathy to all of the Rapavi family.
Paula,Erin,Amber, and Rachel Dodd
Dan & Lynda Griffin
December 8, 2006
I helped coach Nick in baseball when he played with my son, Daniel. Although I can't imagine the pain you are going through, please know that we believe that there is no greater love than to give your life in defense of your country. I was extremely proud of Nick for finding his mission in life at such a young age. The fact that he executed his plan and became a Marine right out of high school speaks volumes of his determination and conviction. He will certainly be missed by everyone who knew him.
May God bless Nick and the entire Rapavi family.
Dan Griffin
Colonel (ret), USAF
Robert Trost
December 7, 2006
Dear Paul, Cathy, Jonathan, and Christoper,
I'm so sorry.
Semper Fi.
Bob Trost, Lcpl,
USMC (1969 - 1971)
Barbara Hutchens
December 7, 2006
Cathy, Please except my deepest sympathy on the loss of your son, Nick. As a 2/8 mom, your loss is my loss and your sorrow is my sorrow and pain. He was a hero and brother to all of the 2/8. My son was in awe of him and he will be sorely missed. God Bless you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Semper Fi,
Barbara Hutchens and Sgt. James R. Zambito 2/8 H&S Co. MT
Dante & Julia Ibarra
December 7, 2006
Dear Rapavi Family:
Please accept our family's sympathy for the loss of Nicholas.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
David Yohn
December 7, 2006
May God be with you in this very sad time. America and the USMC, has lost a true hero!
Michele Gant
December 7, 2006
Paul,Cathy,Jonathan,Christoper
My heart is heavy with sorry. I will not say for your lost, because he is not lost. He is in the arms of the Almighty. It has been an honor to know you and your family to watch your son grow into a young man; you can be very proud of. Over the years I've learned so much from you and him. Nicholas taught me the value of fighting for what you love. He valued his family very much and his country. His selfless act proved how he would put himself first before anyone would be harmed. That's a quality he was born with, and I'm learning to do. That's a quality only God gives to special people who can handle it. All in all Nicholas accomplished what he was meant to do here on this earth. That success was to teach people how to love, work hard, and do all you can do to help others. He did that quite well. He accomplished his assingment very well and I know you are very proud of him. I believe before he passed, God was preparing a place in heaven for him. The bible says "In my fathers house are many mansions, If were not so, I wouln't have told you so. I go (Jesus) and prepare a place for you, and If I go and prepare a place for you, I will recieve you unto myself. That were I am you would be there also."
His death is not in vain he accomplished God's plan for his life, and now he's home with God. Although it's painful now, but be assured we will see him again.
Nicholas Is My HERO
Family Smith
December 7, 2006
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Corporal Nick was a hero. Thinking of you all at this time.
Pat, Roe, G, E and our
2/8 Marine, LCpl C
mary fitzhenry
December 7, 2006
Amy and I are deeply saddened by the loss of Nicholas. My mother, Millie Ripani Stephens, who passed away last year, would have been so very sad to hear about your loss as she deeply loved your family. You are in my prayers, Love, your cousins, Mary Jo Ripani & Amy FitzHenry
Samantha Kastelz
December 6, 2006
Dear Rapavi family
I am at a loss for words. My husband was Nick's corpsman (Doc) until this last deployment. Over the past couple of years Nick and my husband became very good friends and he looked up to him. I know that nothing that I say will make things better, but just know that my heart is broken. You should take solace in knowing that you raised an excellent son and young man. He will be forever missed and forever thought of. My prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Doc's wife
Amy Hogan
December 6, 2006
It's hard to know what to say, except that many that you do not know are deeply saddened by the loss of Nicholas.
My brother is in Ramadi right now, though with 1/6 -- but I know they are all brothers and they all fight for each other.
May your brave son rest in peace, and may you and your family find peace.
Rick & Cathy Robidoux
December 4, 2006
Please accept our family’s heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Marine Parents of
LCPL Craig Robidoux &
LCPL Derek Robidoux
Erin Payne
December 4, 2006
To the Family of Cpl. Rapavi,
I would like to express to you my deepest condolences. I knew him through my husband, Cpl Bradford H Payne-2/8 Golf Co 2nd PLT. He spoke numerous times of him and he has visited our house as well. He has come over to eat my home cooked chow. I kind of know where you are coming from. I lost my husband on October 6, 2006. It has been almost two months and it still doesn't feel real...I hope it never does. I am leaning on God to help me through these very hard times and hopefully you may also find comfort with that.
I send my thoughts and prayers, Erin Payne and our expected son Gauge Payne
Reeah Parker
December 3, 2006
Dear Rapavi Family,
My son serves in 2/8. He said that if ever there was a Marine, Nick was the best Marine there could be. My son never gives faint praise. I wanted you to know that he expressed this about Nick.
Reeah Parker
David Glass
December 3, 2006
To those who knew him Nick was a great man and a true hero. I'm honored to have known him like i did and i appreciate all that he went through for every person in this nation. My deepest condolences go out to his family and his friends and may he forever rest in peace and never be forgotten for his bravery.
Gary Allain
December 3, 2006
Cpl. Nicholas P. ZRapavi
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.
Susan Holbrook
December 3, 2006
While I didn't know Nicholas, I wanted you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family. From the Tributes it sounds like he was a very special person and will be missed greatly. I had sons to served in Iraq and I can only imagine the sadness your family is going through. My sincere smypathy and prayers are extended to you and your family in this tragic loss of your love one. I also send my deepest respect to your love one for the sacrifice that he gave in serving his country. May God wrap HIS arms around you and comfort you.
Rosanne Kohake
December 1, 2006
To those who loved this brave young soldier, I pray for the Lord's comfort in this dark time of grief.
Rosanne Kohake
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
December 1, 2006
Dear Paul, Cathy, Christopher, and Jonathan my heartfelt sympathy to each of you in the loss of Nicholas. My heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and truly a hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Nicholas you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I am at ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY two or three times a week. I promise you each time I am there I will visit/honor Nicholas.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Phyllis Schuster
November 30, 2006
While I wish I knew Nicholas enough to speak personally of him, I only know of the kind of person who has the generosity of spirit, and rare personal commitment to serve his country in time of war. I know that he had to be willing to go into danger for his brother and sister soldiers, and be willing to put himself on the line for others. My son Benjamin Schuster was killed by sniper fire in Ramadi Iraq on February 25th, 2006. I know who he was, and know it will never be all right. So I know how much shock and pain you see now. Let me assure you that Nicholas's sacrifice will never be taken for granted by so many of us, and he will always be esteemed for the truly generous and decent person he was and is.
Don Elseroad
November 30, 2006
In recognition of Corporal Nicholas P. Rapavi's Honorable Service in the United States Marine Corps, the Tri-Cities Tennessee, Detachment Number 969 of the Marine Corps League would like to extend our appreciation and gratitude for his service to God, Country and Corps as well as our sincere condolences to his family.
SEMPER FIDELIS
Don Elseroad
Junior Vice Commandant
MCL Detachment #969
Trudy Lowe
November 29, 2006
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Joshua and April Morales
November 29, 2006
To Nicholas's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05
Jackie Lenhart
November 29, 2006
Cathy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Nick is a hero who proudly served his country and gave his all. God has a wonderful, special new angel in His kingdom!
Love,
Jackie Lenhart and Lance Corporal Kyle Gilbert, USMC
Garnet Jenkins
November 28, 2006
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Cpl. Nicholas P. Rapavi, with a multitude of Thanks for this Young Hero's Courage, Service and Dedication.
The price Nicholas and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may God's Loving
Grace and Comfort be with the Rapavi family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago
Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrow.
Isaiah 53:4
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times you spent with Nicholas. Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
Renee Owens
November 28, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero, and my sincere thanks for his service. May God grant you peace.
The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave
In memory of PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 4-6-06
November 28, 2006
To the Family of Cpl. Nicholas P. Rapavi:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
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