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Robert Rexrode Obituary
He was born August 12, 1939 in Detroit, MI. He graduated from Western Michigan University in 1962 with a BBA Degree, and in 1972, he graduated from Baylor University with a Master's Degree in Hospital Administration. He entered the US Army in 1962 and served for 25 years in the Army Medical Services Corps in Germany, Vietnam, and in numerous stateside assignments. His last assignment was Assistant Chief of Staff and Director of Administration at Walter Reed Medical Center. In 1988, he went into real estate and worked for 23 years, retiring as Principal Broker and Owner of Rexrode Realtors. He served in numerous Fairfax County boards, serving children at risk. Bo was an avid tennis and pickleball player.
Col. Rexrode was predeceased in death by his wife of 58 years, Judith Rexrode, in 2021 and in death by his brother Lt. Col. USA (Ret) Thomas Rexrode, in 2013. He is survived by his daughter Teresa Bennett and her husband Tor Bennett of Stafford, VA; his son Michael Rexrode living in a group home in Springfield, VA; his oldest brother Ron Rexrode of Houston, TX; his grandson Ryan Bennett and wife Madison Bennett of Richmond, VA; and his granddaughter Nicole Bennett of San Diego, CA. The love Bo had for his family is eternal.
Christian services will be held at St. John's Lutheran Church, 5952 Franconia Rd., Alexandria, VA 22310 on Saturday, June 22, 2024 at 10:30 a.m. A reception will be held at the Church following the service. He will be inurned beside his wife at a later date at Arlington National Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. John's Lutheran Church.
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Joe B
January 23, 2025
I just found out today that Rex had passed. A warm smile and a nice greeting every time we met on the PB court ! RIP my friend !
Allan Shnerson
June 19, 2024
"Hail fellow, well met" says it all for me . I didn´t see Rex enough nor speak with him at any length, but it really felt good everytime I saw him arrive to play pickleball at TJ. What a gentleman and classy player . I will miss you, Rex .
Jenny Otto
June 17, 2024
Bob had the best smile and knew how to put anyone at ease. He was complimentary and left every room he entered a happier place. I am sorry I didn't get a chance to tell him he was such a rockstar in my book. He will be sorely missed. I'm happy he gets to be with Judy again.
Love, Jenny Otto (neighbor on Epinard)
Mehri & Majid
June 17, 2024
We were deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Bob. He sold the house to us 22 years ago and ever since we were neighbors. He was kind; funny & full of life. We are going to miss him.
Audrey Weisiger
June 17, 2024
My condolences to the family of Rex. He was a big part of the pickleball community and everyone enjoyed playing with him. He used to call me "a quarterback " and urged me to run after shots on the court. We will miss you.
RIP.
Audrey Weisiger
Marian Lapp
June 16, 2024
Rex was a wonderful, jovial presence on the court and wherever he went. He loved life, loved people, loved connecting with and learning about whoever he was with. He served his country and family honorably and steadfastly. He was a true stand-up guy. We will all miss him.
Dyane Bronson
June 16, 2024
Rex was just on the courts a few weeks ago, friendly, funny and enjoying himself. He will be greatly missed.
Emily Pavot
June 16, 2024
I played pickleball with Rex, and I loved hanging out with him! What a character! I will miss him.
Bo and Peggy
June 16, 2024
Bo and Peggy
June 16, 2024
Bo and Peggy
June 16, 2024
Bob was our neighbor for over 30 years. He loved the neighborhood and we loved him
Carol Fagnani
June 16, 2024
I knew Rex from pickleball. He was always in good spirits and nice to everyone. He will be missed.
Karen
June 16, 2024
Rex was one of the kindest, funniest, sweetest people I´ve met on the pickleball court. He was a heck of a player, a heck of a person and he´ll be thought of often and sorely missed.
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