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RUYAK, ROBERT F.

ROBERT F. RUYAK, 81, who resided in Erie, PA died May 24, 2006 at the Johns Hopkins University Hospital in Baltimore, MD from complications following cancer surgery. He was an engineer, inventor and an avid golfer. Bob Ruyak was a devoted, committed and caring husband, father, brother, grandfather and great-grandfather. He was preceded in death by his wife of 56 years, Rosemarie "Fritzie" Ruyak. He is survived by one son, Robert and his wife, Elizabeth of Silver Spring, MD; four daughters, Marjorie Matha of Erie, Joan Stammler and her husband, Henry of Ashburn, VA, Janet Chrostowski and her husband, Christopher of Erie, and Jeanne Niebauer and her husband, Phillip of Erie; 11 grandchildren, and one great-granddaughter. He is also survived by two brothers, Francis and Bernard, and four sisters, Mildred Trygar, Mary Vargesko, Rose Baker, and Theresa Tomasic. A Funeral Mass will be held on Monday, June 5, at 11 a.m. at Our Lady of Peace Catholic Church, 2401 West 38th St., Erie, PA. Interment will be in Gate of Heaven Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to St. Julia's Church, 638 Rosalyn Ave., Erie, PA 16506, or the Second Harvest Food Bank, 1703 Ash St., Erie, PA 16503, or the National Shrine of Our Lady of the Snows, 422 South DeMazinol Drive, Belleville, IL 62223-1023.

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Published by The Washington Post on Jun. 4, 2006.

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Shirley Schell

June 8, 2006

Our sympathy and prayers to your family. I've been reading about what a wonderful man Bob was, and how much he was loved and respected by his children and grandchildren. He and your late Mom were special to Mercy Center for Women, and will be greatly missed.



We will keep you in our prayers, and ask that God will richly bless each of you.

Nancy Ruyak Kerr

June 8, 2006

I remember Bob and Fritzie as always being there and for the enitre family. Their grace and wit were just wonderful.Their trip from Erie when his nephew (my husband) Ed died was very supportive to Ed's family and me. Bob is surely there with the angels now.

Karen Sloan

June 6, 2006

I wish to extend my sincere condolences to the Ruyak Family. Bob was a true gentleman. I had the priviledge of working with Bob for many years at Autoclave and he will always be remembered as a most kind and gentle person. I will never forget his smile and he was one of the most thoughtful men I've known. He will be greatly missed.

Janice & Daniel Niebauer

June 5, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to the entire Ruyak family on the lost of their great mentor. Obviously he will be greatly missed by all who met and have know this wonderful man.

Our thoughts and wishes go out to the entire family and his friends.

He is at great peace with God and Fritzie at his side once again. Again, our deepest condolences in you time of sadness, from: The Entire Niebauer Family

Brian Bedel and Family

June 5, 2006

Our deepest sympathy to the Ruyak families. I remember hearing my mothers endless stories about cousin Bob and all of his humorous antics. I feel very fortunate to have shared in his incredible witt and charm. When we saw Bob at family get togethers he always had something kind and funny to say,he always made us laugh. The last time I saw him was at my parents 50th Anniversary last October and he hadn't changed a bit. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten.

Susan Storey

June 4, 2006

To Red, Bernie, Millie, Mary, Rose and Teresa, Bob's children and grandchildren. This news brought such sadness to me. I have so many childhood memories of Bob, Bernie, Red and my brothers Ed and Steve gathered in a group laughing and telling never ending stories. Not too long ago I had the joy of sharing a table with Bob and his daughter Margie at the Bedel anniversary celebration. We hadn't seen each other for quite awhile and I was so glad that he made the trip down. He loved life, he loved his family and he will certainly be missed. My deepest sympathies to his children, who have had to endure the loss of both parents in such a short time. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Dr.and Mrs. John Euliano,Jr.

June 4, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers both for Bob and his loved ones at this time of sorrow and loss.God bless you.

Carol&John Ahrens

June 3, 2006

Margie,Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,Your Dad is with your mom now.and they are very special angels,love Carol&John

Jim Pepicello

June 3, 2006

My family and I are truly sorry about your loss. I had the privilege of meeting Bob when I was quite young since he was a great friend of my father. I also had the pleasure of sharing time with him, my Dad and others of their friends through the game of golf, which I know Bob loved. He was indeed a kind and considerate man and always had a smile and an unmistakable laugh! I am certain that God has welcomed him home and I will keep him in my prayers.

My wife, Sherry and my mother, Eleanor send their condolences as well. May God comfort you in you time of sorrow.

Jean TOQUE

June 3, 2006

I first met Bob in 1971 when I start to work with Autoclave Engineers. As it was my first trip to USA I appreciated his smile and his frienship to help me; and the ride in his plane..I had the opportunity to meet him in PARIS last April 2005 with his son Robert.

Pease accept my sincere sympathy to all his family and mainly to his son Robert.

MARY & AL VARGESKO

June 3, 2006

BOB WAS SUCH A WONDERFUL BROTHER. ALTHOUGH THE MILES HAVE KEPT OUR FAMILIES APART OVER THE YEARS, HE ALWAYS TOOK THE TIME TO CALL HIS SISTER AND KEEP IN TOUCH. HIS PHONE CALLS WERE LIKE "LITTLE VISITS". THEY WILL TRULY BE MISSED.

BOB RAISED A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. HE CALLED HIS CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN HIS TREASURES. EVERYONE WHO KNEW HIM LOVED HIM. WHAT A SPECIAL MAN!

WE WILL REMEMBER HIS KINDNESS, HIS AMAZING SENSE OF HUMOR, AND MISS HIS LAUGH AND HIM....SO VERY MUCH.

HE IS IN OUR HEARTS FOREVER.

Edward Lopus

June 2, 2006

To the Ruyak family; I worked with Bob for 17 years at Autoclave. He was a wonderful man and I am proud to say I was one of nhis friends. He was fair and above board in all of his dealings.

Linda Olson

June 2, 2006

Jean,

My thought and Prayers are with you and your family, It was a great honor to have known your Mother and Father, I will miss his smiling face and wonderful personality, as I do your Mothers. He was a wonderful man, and you have been blessed to have had such loving parents..........

My Love to you and your family,

Linda Olson {Floral Mgr. Yorktown Giant Eagle}

Richard Reber

June 2, 2006

I first met Bob when I started my engineering career at Autoclave Engineers in 1973. I will always remember him for his ingenuity, his constant smile, his laugh, his friendship and as the only person who let me fly a plane! He's right at the top of "my favorite people list".

Sam Ciprich

June 2, 2006

I worked for Bob for many years at Autoclave. I will never forget what I learned from him about work and life. He was truly one of a kind. He will be missed and remembered always.

Carla and Bob Gutting

May 31, 2006

To the Ruyak Families,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. We hope you take comfort in the belief that your Mom and Dad are now together with Our Lord. We are sure Bob received a joyful welcome. Our deepest sympathy to all of you.

The Guttings

John & Marianne Corbett

May 30, 2006

John and I are truly saddened by the loss of Uncle Bob. We thoroughly enjoyed the few times we had to spend with him and Aunt Fritzie. We cannot tell you how sincerely sorry we are for your loss as well as anyone who had ever met him. He was truly a great guy and a wonderful joke and story teller with an infectious laugh. We will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this most difficult time.

Valerie Dentler

May 29, 2006

Uncle Bob was a legend.Even though we only visited as children a few times, there was always happiness and the gift of laughter in uncle Bob's home. My mother speaks of his brilliant things he added to this life. His life must have been very special. What a beautiful family he has as a result. God be with the family through this loss of a special life here on earth and have a great hope in our Lord Jesus to see Uncle Bob in heaven once again.

Aunt Tillie, Chuckie, Eddie and Marianne Boenigk

May 28, 2006

We are all so saddened by your tremendous loss. Uncle Bob always had the best stories and most infectious laugh. We always looked forward to your visits back to Pittsburgh. They say you can never go back, but so often we do go back in our memories to those wonderful, happy times when we were all together.

The terrible and unexpected loss of your Mother, our Aunt Fritzie, less than two years ago, and now the loss of your Father, our Uncle Bob, seems to us, an unbearable sorrow. We love you all and we are with you in your grief. Please know that you will all be in our prayers.

Marge Kranking-Sovec

May 28, 2006

I had the great pleasure of knowing and working for and with Bob for over 33 years. He was truly a gentleman and one of the greatest men I've ever known.



He always had a smile on his face, was fun to be around, always had something nice to say--he was a great family man.



I am extremely saddened by his death. What a great loss for his children and grandchildren. He touched the lives of many in such a positive way.

Margot Else

May 28, 2006

"Uncle Bob" was absolutely the Best Boss I ever had. His charm, humor and wisdom (not to mention his laugh!) made everyday a delight. As a second father to me, I will miss him dearly.

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