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ROXANA VARASTEH Obituary


Roxana Mina Varasteh  
On May 24, 2018 of Chevy Chase, Maryland. Beloved Roxana, lover of animals and children. Full of talent and creativity, may she rest in peace. Survived by her mother Farideh Cupples and her brothers Christopher and Steve Varasteh. Friends will be received at PUMPHREY'S BETHESDA CHEVY CHASE FUNERAL HOME, 7557 Wisconsin Avenue Bethesda, Maryland 20814 on Wednesday, May 30, 2018 from 12 Noon untill 1 p.m. where services will be held at 1 p.m. Interment Gate of Heaven Cemetery.

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Published by The Washington Post on May 29, 2018.

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Christopher Varaste

May 27, 2025

Foxy Roxy,I saw Renee yesterday. We talked about her brother Billy - remember you would see him in Hawaii? Well, he's closer than you think. Rox, I also mentioned how I am such a better person because of you. You know I finally got a cat - and he's funny. He has a cute face almost like a cartoon. Again, thanks to you. Kathleen speaks about you and Vivi - because you are a sweetheart. Send me an angel. Lol. You know what I mean. Know that I love you. You sweet thing with your butterfly wings! XX Chris btw, Vivi sent this pic. Please say a prayer for her. She is so kind to me.

Christopher Cupples

May 25, 2024

Hey Rox, I almost didn't make it! I did a version of McArthur Park for you which I'll try to upload - it's so you. I gave it as much oomph and a rocking beat because I know how much you loved to dance. Sweetheart, your pics are all here and cousin Roya wants some of them so I'm going to send them to her. Roya was so close to you - she misses you. Why don't you send her a sign - a butterfly or something. Here's a pic I might have posted before. Oddly, like the song, "I recall the yellow cotton dress foaming like a wave on the ground around your knees..." It was your birthday and you were playing Barbies with Melanie. There's a Facebook page for The English School of Vienna and maybe, just, maybe, I might be able to find Melanie. There's a photo of Queen Elizabeth on the day she came to visit us and she staring at you know who - yeah. It's his turn next month. Lucky me! Say hi and please tell Regis I love him and thank you. Love, Chris

Happy Birthday Angelface!!! XXX

Christopher Varaste

October 26, 2023

Dear sweet angel, today I got a head start on celebrating your birthday. Kathleen gave me your fave Barbie and tomorrow we're going to celebrate with friends who still can't stop talking about how wonderful you are. I was the luckiest brother in the whole wide world to have you - everything I have is because of you. I know you are always here, and always helping me out. I love you so much Roxana. Thank God for you. Chris

Christopher Varaste

May 23, 2023

Dear Roxana,
I found a butterfly pin last week - and remembered you had found the butterfly garden in Maryland. You loved seeing all those butterflys everywhere. Butterflys start out as little caterpillars and then they transform and turn into beautiful fragile winged angels and fly. Like you. Dante says hi. I'm so glad you met him and Cynthia. There's not a day that I'm not reminded of my sweetheart. I love you so much Roxana. Chris Here's a photo of you and Aunt Sammi with Maya in your condo.

Christopher Varaste

March 14, 2023

Rox, I wrote a song for you. Another song. I can't remember why- I think I posted it on your other tribute wall. Well, here it is again. Btw, say hi to Raquel Welsh!

Roxana,
Queen of Nirvana

She creates grace in her own image,
She's Miss Roxana to you,

She waves heaven to earth with one hand,
The way Nirvana Queens rule,

Roxy Roxana,
Got a wild streak in her eyes,

The Queen of Nirvana,
She's rules over felines, (meow)

Roxy, Roxana,
She runs free with Tarzan, yeah.

We run through the jungle,
In dreams every night,
We're kindred spirits,
We're two of a kind,

Roxy Roxanna,
Fast on her feet, swinging from vines,

I can sense her prowling outside,
When I call, the light catches her eyes,

We're kindred spirits, two of our kind,

Roxy Roxana,
Queen of Nirvana,

Green eyes stare in the dark,
We know each other,
Roam around the wildlife park,
Find the black panther,
Say hi to our brother,
Soon it will be dawn.

Roxy Roxana,
Queen of Nirvana,
I see her in dreams,
We're kindred spirits,
Two of kind,
That's just the way it is.

Roxana, you don´t have to put on the red light,
The name on everybody´s lips is gonna be Roxy,
Roxana, I´ll see you later on tonight,
Good luck to ya, Roxy.
XX

Christopher Varaste brother

May 25, 2022

Dear Roxana, I sent you a nice message but I'm sending it again. I wanted to say you're the best! I got your message. Thanks. I wanted to remind you that you were my muse when Daddy got me a camera when I was 12. Here's a photo of you holding Sheba. I also included one from our photo shoots. You're striking the Rita Hayworth pose. You're so beautiful. I have so many others of you modeling for me. Thanks to you I continued my photography and dedicated an entire book to you for inspiring me. Say hi to everyone and remember I'm always here for you. We're two of a kind with a bond that will always be strong. I love you, Chris

Christopher Varaste

May 24, 2022

Christopher Varaste

May 24, 2022

Hey Rox,
Thanks, I've been thinking about your name. You know how much I love it. You prefer Roxana and I call you Roxanne but they're both beautiful. Dad named you after the heroine in Cyrano de Bergerac. Mom always loved it too... so, The Police sang about Roxanne, the musical Chicago had the song Roxy Hart, and there's Roxanne, Roxanne, the UTFO rap. So you're as beautiful as you're name and you're my muse. Remember when Daddy got me the 35mm camera for my 14th birthday? And all our photoshoots? Here's one where you're striking a pose like my Cheryl Ladd poster where she's posing like Rita Hayworth in the famous photo that all the GIs had during WW2. You gave me a career! You and Daddy. That camera and you paved the way for the future. I didn't know then what I know now. You're the best. Angel. My sweet girl. Thanks for the gift and the one from mom. You are your mother's daughter. It's the first day of Taurus - Daddy's sign. Say hi to everyone and tell them I said thank you, but most of all, thanks Rox, we're two of a kind! I love you, Chris

Christopher Varaste

October 23, 2021

Hey Foxana! Your birthday is coming up! I think I'm going to get a kitten and name it after you - Roxy. Foxana is a good nickname for you since you loved foxes. I had so many nicknames for you that I can't remember if that was one of them. What's new? How is heaven treating you? You were an angel when you were here without wings - I guess you're flying around now. You're so much a part of me that I won't say I miss you. I'll just say thanks. Can't you ask God for a day off to come see me? There was so much left to see and do! We never opened the cat orphanage or go see Africa! I guess you can see everything from wherever you are. Fly, Robin, fly...up, up, to the sky. I have you music here. I love you sweet girl. Here is one of your artworks with Jesus. Chris

Cynthia Renee Troyer

May 31, 2021

Dear Roxana - I send you love and light on this Third Anniversary. Just know dear soul that many here on the Earth plane miss you very much.

christopher varaste

May 24, 2021

to my beloved sister Roxana. 3 years without you is only easy because i see you in my dreams. You are my heart sweet girl. Love, Chris
Here's a song for you.
Fly Far Away

Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away,
Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away,

You broke your chains,
You spread your wings,
You’re free now,
I’m all that remains,
I’m the hope that sings,
Eternal

Gonna know this time,
Gotta know this time,
You’re free now,
Gonna know this time,
Gotta know this time,
It’s real now,

Fly butterfly,
On this bright sunny day,
Fly buttercup,
It’s still morning in May,
No need to keep on dreaming,
No need to keep on wishing

Gonna know this time,
Gotta know this time,
She’s crying,
Gonna know this time,
Gotta know this time,
She’s flying

Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away,
Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away,

High in the sky,
How’s it feel to be free?
As time goes by,
Send a message to me

I’ll keep an eye,
Search each cloud passing by,
And I’ll know,
Even apart,
Deep in my heart,
I’ll know

You broke your chains,
You spread your wings,
You’re free now,
I’m all that remains,
I’m the hope that sings,
Eternal

Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away,
Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away

High in the sky,
How’s it feel to be free?
As time goes by,
Send a message to me

I’ll keep an eye,
Search each cloud passing by,
And I’ll know,
Even apart,
Deep in my heart,
I’ll know

Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away,
Bye, butterfly,
Fly far away,

Bye, butterfly,
You’re free now,
Bye, butterfly,
You’re free now,
Bye butterfly,
You’re free now,
Bye butterfly,

You’re free now
You’re free now
You’re free now
You’re free now
You’re free now
You’re free now

Christopher Varaste

May 5, 2021

Hello Foxy Roxy, We had so many nicknames for you and you didn't like any of them except for Roxy. I don't even think you liked the song Roxanne by The Police. You don't have to put on the red light... that's so not you. Remember I would call you Rocks and Sand to get on your nerves? God, I miss you. You sure kept everyone on their toes. It's just not the same without my sister. Well, at least you're with mommy. It was always the three of us. And of course, Mamatoory, and then came Regis. And Aunt Sammy was always a phone call away. Now you're all together so say hi and tell them I miss them. I know wherever all of you disappeared to is a lot of fun. I can't believe it's May already. You know, I used to love the month of May. Now, May means Mother's Day and the month you decided to use those angel wings and go back to Heaven. I'll see you in my dreams. Love, Chris

Chris Varaste

December 11, 2020

Chris Varaste

December 11, 2020

Chris Varaste

December 11, 2020

Dear Roxana, I wanted to let you know I think of you every day and each time I do, I discover how lucky I was to have you as my sister. I realized recently that I owe so much of the wonderful blessings in my life to you. We were like twins. Inseparable. We loved the same things, and there are so many memories like the time I drove you two hours away to get your kitty cat Maya during Christmas. You were here in LA just a couple of years ago and the host at the hotel restaurant asked about you recently. Even he misses you and mom. I wanted to thank you for always being there for me, always. I love you so much sweet girl. You were/are and continue to surprise me with memories and smiles. Thanks Roxy. You're with me forever. Chris

May 29, 2018

My condolences to the Varasteh family during this difficult time. May the love of God comfort and sustain your family in your time of need.

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