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Happy Mothers Day Beautiful
Kiana Harley
May 6, 2011
Mom, it's mother's day weekend. As I thought on you today I reflect on Proverbs 31:10-31. You are a woman I strive to immulate.
Love your daughter.
10Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
Kiana Harley
February 2, 2009
It's been a while since I've wrote...
Today I am just thinking of all the times we've shared, so much has changed in 2 years.
Airiq is in Jr. High School now...WOW. I know you would question me everyday about your BABY and how he's doing! (smile)
He has gotten so tall, he's becoming my little man.
I miss you dearly, I say often that I lost my closest friend...life hasn't nor ever will be the same without you, but I know that you are in perfect peace.
Love you...today, tomorrow, and forever more....
Your Daughter....
Kiana Harley
May 14, 2007
Hi Mom.
Without a shadow of a doubt I know that you are happy. We miss you ... but I know that you are better off with God. I am working mom to get it together, I do want to see you again. My mind didn't even grasp the thought of this before today...but now, I know that I want to see you again, healthy, happy, and most of all...WHOLE!
I love you...
Kiana Harley
April 30, 2007
Hey Mommie,
I haven't written in a while, but you are always in my heart and thoughts. I had a dream about you last night. We where all together again like a family. You, me, Antwane, Lisha, and Airiq. I don't know where David was LOL. I miss your voice, these days have been lonely and I feel that there is no one to talk to...no one I can really share my heart with. That void that's in my life with you gone can't be replaced. I miss your motherly wisdom and your being my best friend.
I know Airiq misses you too...we're going through some transitions right now, but I know we'll make it through. I know your looking down on us.
I love and miss you....
Kiana
sherry perkins
March 3, 2007
I miss u shack-a-lack! I was thinking about u & Gloria the other day, u both were very special 2 me. I know you all r having a HALLELUAH good time over their, I can't wait 2 get their. See u soon soldiers, oh & kiss grandma 4 me.
Hugs & kisses family love,
SHERRY
Kiana Harley
March 1, 2007
Hey Ma.
Just thinking of you, man I really need you today. But I can say that I have my memories of you, going through what I'm going through....I know what you would tell me. :)
Airiq misses you so much, he talks about you often. I love you Ma.
Kiana Harley
February 20, 2007
Mom, my song to you....
Though I'm missing you
I'll find a way to get through.
Living without you.
Cause you were my sister, my strength and my pride.
Only god may know why, still I will get by.
If I would have known that you had to go. So suddenly, so fast.
How could it be, all the sweet memories would be all,all that we'd have left.
Now that you're gone, everyday I go on. I go on
But lifes just not the same. Lifes just not the same baby...
I'm so empty inside , and my tears I can't hide.
But i'll try, i'll try to face the pain.
Though I'm missing you
I'll find a way to get through.
Living without you.
Cause you were my sister, my strength and my pride.
Only god may know why, still I will get by.
Oh, there were so many things
That we could have shared (uh-huh)
If time was on our side, time was on our side Ooh,yea.
Now that you're gone, I can still feel you near. So I'll smile with every tear I cry.
Though I'm missing you
I'll find a way to get through.
Living without you.
Cause you were my sister, my strength and my pride.
Only god may know why, still I will get by.
How sweet, were the losses to spare.
But i'll wait for the day,
When i'll see you again, i'll see you again.(oh yeah)
(you were my sister)
(only god___ may know why)
(altough i'm missing you)
(find a way,i'll find a way, i'll find a way baby)
(missing, missng , missing, missing, missing, missing, missing)
I'm missing you
Kiana
February 9, 2007
Hey Mom. Today is hard, there is still so much in my heart that hasn't come out yet. So much that I know only you could understand. Can I make it without you? Can I do this? Really ....
Kiana Harley
January 24, 2007
Hey Mommie,
Last night I had a dream that I was a police officer (LOL) that was weird. But in the dream I turned around and there was Edna looking at me. She took me in her arms told me everything was going to be ok, and that she knows that I miss you but you are ok.
It was weird because the night before I tried so hard to dream of you, they say if you think of something before you go to sleep you'll dream of it. Well that didn't happen that night, but I know that God sent me that dream last night. He knows my heart, my emptiness.
It feels like everything happened just yesterday.....
Longing to see you again,
Kiana
Kiana Harley
January 23, 2007
Hey Mommie just thinking of you today. I miss seeing you in that little red number of yours! You looked so cute this summer in it. I'll see you this weekend. Love ya! Kiana
Sherry Perkins
January 3, 2007
I'm back again SHACK-A-LACK! I get so emotionally out of control each time I try to send a message of love to you. Knowing you are not around anymore makes me sad, but it also makes me want to keep my life in order so I can see you again one day. I know you guys are having so make fun up there, give grandma a hug for me and tell her I will see her soon. Keep enjoying your new home you deserve the best.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!
Love,Sherry
P.S. God will give Kiana "Peace in the midst of the storm", I love you Kiana & family!!!!!!!!!
Kiana Harley
January 2, 2007
Hey Mommie,
Another year has come for us to work on making it better, brighter, more successful than the year before. I have high hopes for things to be a little easier than last year. It was a dosey! The time has flown by so fast. I was thinking the other night about how much chaos happened last year and how I spent alot of my time living with you. I think back and realize that everything happens for a reason, I shared so much of your last days with you and didn't even realize it....but now I'm so happy I did. I remember taking you shopping and you got all the cute clothes that I wanted! How we went to Williamsburg on the trip and we had to sleep on that bed that had me and Kenny's back tore Up! LOL!!! How we spent your birthday together, we went on our family vacation, and even though you couldn't be here for Christmas or the New Year...we had our family time. We did, for that I'm grateful.
I love you beautiful....
Kiana
Keisha Lovitt
January 2, 2007
Hey Shellia, I was thinking about you last night, what was funny was that I bought a 2 liter soda of Mountain Dew! your favorite lol, only you would know what I'm talking about, You told me that you CANT STAND Mountain Dew it reminds you of Vegetable Oil lol, and whats funny is that I couldnt drink it, because I pictured your face everytime I use to joke with you in church about wanting one. I love you and Happy New Year, I know your looking down on us everyday to make sure your family is ok, but they are, dont worry... Love ya Keisha
Tea
January 2, 2007
Just leaving a message to let you know that I'm still missing you Auntie!! HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I Love you always & forever,
Tea
Kiana Harley
January 1, 2007
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!
LASHAWN LEWIS
December 25, 2006
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
BLESSED YOU ARE AND OH SO BLESSED ARE YOUR SEEDS!
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE AND WATCH OVER YOUR CHILDREN TO KEEP THE PACE OF YOUR NEVER ENDING JOURNEY.
(SPECIAL FRIEND OF YOUR DAUGHTER KIANA)
KIANA AND FAMILY HOLD YOUR BEST GIFT SHE GAVE YOU FOREVER NEAR!
***MEMORIES***
kenny Harley
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas Ma!! Boy oh boy where do I begin! I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH! I know you are better but, the selfish side of me wishes you here. Heck everybody wishes you were here. Airiq hasn't said anything yet but, I know he miss his "Baama". Its just not the same without you around. You were like my mom and I needed that. You helped me when I needed it most. You Blessed with a Beautiful daughter. I will Honor you MA in everyway possible. I will do my best by Kiana and Airiq and your kids. Ma no words can explain how I feel about you. NONE! Everyday I look at Kiana and just say how does she do it? Of all the things I know I can't figure that out. Ma, I gonna go now and be with the family, but I know your with us all. I LOVE YOU!
Kiana Harley
December 25, 2006
Merry Christmas Mommie. You are the first person I said that to today :-)
I tried to make sure that the kids will have a good Christmas, but I know that they miss you so in there own way. Christmas will never be the same for us again. But you know Ma, its ok because I know that you are at rest. I have to remember that because its my sanity & peace.
I wish I could see you today, I know that you are looking down on us and I imagine you adorned in all white. Looking so beautiful and most of all...I know your "WHOLE" again.
Mom, I know that it took alot for you to let go and leave us. I saw the look in your eyes when I was at the hosptial that day. I could tell you wanted to say so much, but you just looked at me with such love, compassion, as if you didn't have the words to say...but your eyes said it all to me. In my heart, I knew that the day was coming that my best friend would have to journey home. I just didnt think it would come so soon.
As I sit here though I have to remember all of the "good" times we shared. How every time things in my life didn't go according to my plan...you were right there to hold my hand. I miss that, it was like you were my directions. I'm so lost without my directions...
I love you mommie, I know that you know that. Look down on us today and every day and help us to all remember that if we do what is expected...that our goodbye is not going to be forever, we will meet again!
I love you, today, yesterday, and forever more...
Tea
December 22, 2006
Well Hey There Aunt Shack,
I finally got enough courage to come & talk to you today. It's not just because it's almost Christmas time but it's because it's been a long time since that cold day in October when you decided to pack up & leave me. I can't express in words what you meant to me, there's no word in the English dictionary that can describe my Love for you & how much I miss you. I guess now that you're gone you'll never really know.
Aunt Sheilla, you know that you were my second Mother. As a matter of fact everyone knew it. No one can or could ever take my Mother's place because she's my shining star but you were next in line Auntie. You know I used to call you "Ma" & that's because you spoiled me to death & was so rotten because of it, I was rotten to the (crappin') core, as if I was your child!! LOL!! I don't want to really admit to it but in a way I guess I just did. LOL!!
Aunt Sheilla, I guess this is just a start to me trying to find what I really want to say to you. I'll start this by saying that I really miss you so much, & there's a whole in my heart that's so great that words can't describe it & as I’m sitting here typing this to you -the tears are forming in my eyes because of the pain.
I can say that I’m Happy that you aren't suffering anymore down here on earth, & I’m even more Happier to know that you were sho nuff saved & loved God with all your heart & Praise God for that because there's no doubt in my mind that you're with GOD & all the “HEAVENLY HOST”, rejoicing & enjoying yourself in your most deserved eternity stay. But I’m feeling just a little bit selfish because I wish you were here with me & the family again. & now because it's the Holiday season I wish my wish could come true.
Well Aunt Sheilla, I'm going to get back to work. I'll (Holla) back very soon.
Just to let you know....I'm going to continue to strive on with God as my pilot, so when my time is up I can meet Jesus & then see you & Grandma & Grandpa once again!
I can't wait till that time comes!!!
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!!!!!!!
Love always & Forever,
Tiffany
a.k.a
Tea
Darlene Gaskins
December 21, 2006
Shellia, I wish I coud turn back the hands of time, and you would be here with me again. I miss you So much, it feels strange not being able to talk to you anymore. I miss all the things you used to say. No matter what was going on, you always had a little saying that would somehow bring a new joy to the situation. You were my "VERY SPECIAL SISTER", MY VERY CLOSEST FRIEND, there will never be anyone like you. I just wish we could have celebrated one more birthday together. It really took me a while to write these few words, (I have so much more in my heart) because I had a hard time accepting the fact that you could not respond. I know that you are with the LORD, and I can only imagine what you are seeing and doing now. I know that you are saying, "it was worth it all". I will Forever keep you in my heart. You will NEVER be Forgotten, EVER. Love Neicy
Kiana Harley
December 21, 2006
Your favorite time of the year is here. Airiq and I put up the Christmas tree...it reminds me so much of our family tradition. You and the kids coming over to open presents on Christmas morning. Kenny keeps telling me you are here, your presence is with us. I know what he means, but honestly its not the same. I hope that things will be okay...I know one day they will. You were my special lady. OMG how I miss you. You and grandma, I wonder why my greatest influences had to be taken both in the same year...I know there is a reason, but its hard. I often want to pick up the phone and say Ma, guess what! Or Airiq said this today, or did this! No one can take your place. Period, friend, Aunt, whoever...you were my backbone. Loving you dearly....Your daughter.
Kiana Harley
December 19, 2006
Thinking of you tonight...everynight, and everyday. I miss you mom.
Tomika Pitt
December 1, 2006
I am at a loss for words to express my deepest sympathy to you and the family. As I'm sure you've heard many times, always remember that earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. Through the tears I can smile when I imagine Shaq picking the up and putting them down. Let us rejoice, knowing she has been made whole. I will continue to pray that God will forever keep and strengthen you. Love You!
Gwenetta Mackall
December 1, 2006
To Kiana & Family.
I thank God for Shellia, cause EVERYTIME we talked she would always encourage me and make me laugh. I will miss her, but will see her again in Heaven, Be encouraged Family.
Reggie McFadgen
November 29, 2006
It's never easy to say Goodbye but it is a Blessing to know oneday we will say Hello again and never part. So to all the Family, be encouraged, don't think about it as saying goodbye but waiting to say Hello again... Love, Reggie...
Dawn McFadgen
November 28, 2006
Kiana & Family,
I never thought I would have to write about your moms memories. It’s hard to believe she’s gone, but I know she’s in a much better place. She was more than a friend to my mother and us (in her words we were blood)!! We all miss her, but I know one day we’ll see her again! Keep your hand in God’s hand and let him lead you. Remember his strength is made perfect in our weakness!
Be Blessed!
Sherry Perkins
November 10, 2006
How can I hold back my tears? Words can't express how much I miss my "Shackalack". I remember so many good times with that crazy lady.What stuck with me the most is that, never once did she judge anybody, she treated everyone equally. I can't wait to meet you in Heaven Shellia, have fun with grandma,Gloria,James,Boopie and all our other family members. Can you'll leave me a mansion please up their somewhere, I know you all are taking all the good ones.(SMILE!) Your always in my heart.
Love,SHERRY
(See you in HEAVEN!)
P.S. You fought a good fight soldier!!!!!!!!!!
Kiana Harley
November 7, 2006
Mom its been about 3 weeks since you left. I think about you often, no everyday; it seems so unreal that you aren't here for me to pick up the phone to call you, or for me not to come an visit you. I miss you hollering at them kids of yours, lol! I miss you calling me to check on Airiq. I know he misses you too. We are still hanging in there mommy. Please look down on us..and Lisha. Help me to help them, give me the strenght to do what's right. I think back to how patient you were with us. My patience is SHOT! But, I know that I have to learn and grow, and take my time to travel this road. There are so many days that I just want to cry until I cant cry anymore, but I know that my tears wont bring you back....I wish they would but than I know that's just me selfishly wanting you to be in my life and just a call or visit away. Mommie..I love you, I miss you. Always and Forever, Kiana....
Karen Butler-Smith
November 3, 2006
Kiana, David, Antwoine, Alisha and Airiq - I want each of you to know that I love you all. Your mother and I go waaaayyyy back. I remember when her family first moved on the block in Kentland. We all used to walk to school together and she, Carol and Neicy taught me how to "hook" school. We were bad. Thank God for salvation. The funniest thing I remember is Shellia had a little red hat that she would never take off. She ate, slept, washed and did everything in that little red hat, LOL!!! As I sit here and reminisce, I get tickled all over again. Truly, your mother/grandmother was a jewel. I will always remember her. She was just like a sister to me. It was hard for me to visit because she reminded me so much of what I went through with Edna but know that she was always in my prayers. I love you all and if you need anything or just someone to talk to or listen to you, I'm available. Remember God will give you a garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness. Hold on to all that your mother taught you in trusting and loving God and you too will see her again. This is what keeps me holding on, knowing that one day we all shall be reunited and we will know each other's face. Hallelujah!!!!
April
November 2, 2006
Kiana,
My heart and prays go out to you and your family. Any time you need a shoulder to cry on I'm just across the hall...
Much love sweety
Maria savoy
November 2, 2006
Kiana,
I am so sorry about the loss of your Mother. I will certainly keep you and your family in my prayers and if I can be of any help, please advise.
Love, Aunt Bernie
EBONY ATKINS
November 2, 2006
WHEN GRANDMA PASSED, MY TEACHER REMINED ME THAT ABSENT FROM THE BODY MEANS PRESENT WITH THE LORD, SO I KNOW AUNT SHACK IT HAVING A B-A-L-L!!!!! UP THERE.AUNT SHELLIA WAS'NT ALWAYS SICK, I REMEMBER A TIME WHEN SHE WAS IN THE BEST OF HEALTH, DURING THAT TIME I LIVED WITH HER AS WELL AS MY SISTER. AUNT SHELLIA USE TO PLAY THIS GAME WITH US CALLED: STING CITY, WERE SHE WOULD CHASE ALL OF US AROUND THE HOUSE AND TAP US WITH A SWICTH, I MEAN HOME GIRL WAS RUNNING UP THE STAIRS, HIDDING IN CLOSETS, RUNNING AROUND THE HOUSE. AND THOSE ARE THE THINGS I WILL ALWAYZ KEEP IN MY HEART.MY AUNT IS A VERY FUNNY PERSON, WHO KNEW HOW TO KEEP YOUR SIDE IN PAIN WITH LAUGHTER. HER JOKES AND WORDS WILL ALWAYS BE WITH US, LIKE THE TIME TIFFANY AND HER TOLD ME ABOUT THE DAY SHE THREW LISHA CD OUT THE WINDOW( LOL ). THAT WAS TOO FUNNY AND I WILL ALWAYZ HAVE THAT WITH ME, ALONG WITH MANY OTHER STORIES, AND GREAT SAYING .........GOD BLESS
Nikki
November 1, 2006
Wow, what to say. The last time I saw Aunt Shellia was at church and she was talking trash even then. LOL!!! She is a soldier indeed. It was really hard to watch her not be well and to go through what she went through, especially after Aunt Edna, but she never once complained, she never once quit. She had staying power, and that's what we all need - staying power to stay put when life throws those curve balls and hard punches. I admire everything about her and long for the day to see her whole again. All glory and honor be to the Lord our God for His faithfulness to His own!!!
Kashyet Jones
November 1, 2006
Kiana, I send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I can't imagine how it feels personally to lose a "Mother", however it can't be any more painful than losing a "child", but I do know the pain and sorrow you are feeling right now. I encourage you to continue to be that STRONG woman that you are! Hold on my dear, she's not gone, she just moved to another special place to carry out her journey. Gary has expressed wonderful things about you and even though we've never met face to face, I send you an Angel at heart. If you ever need anything, please don't hesitate to correspond with me.
DAVID WARD
November 1, 2006
MA
I KNOW YOUR IN HEAVEN SMILING DOWN ON US.WORDS CAN'T EXPRESS HOW MUCH I LOVE AN MISS YOU,TELLING ME WHAT I NEED TO DO AN JUST HEARING YOU VOICE OVER THE PHONE!! AND MOST HOW YOU WERE ALL WAY'S RIGHT ABOUT THINGS I DID!!! I PROMISE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY AND TO BE THE BEST MAN TO MY FAMILY I CAN BE.
LOVE, YOUR SON DAVID
P.S
I WILL GET ON A BUGET LIKE YOU ALLWAYS SAID SAVE YOUR MONEY !!!!
Mary Merrick
November 1, 2006
Kiana my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family, and when you are down just remember John 14:1
Passion Kamara
November 1, 2006
To Kiana & Family,
There are never really any right words to say at such a time like this, but one thing I do know from experience is that God can and will heal your broken heart. Right now the angels in heaven are rejoicing because your mother made it home! Be encouraged and know that I’m always here for you’ll.
Love,
Passion
Joyce Perkins
November 1, 2006
Kiana, Shellia was a wonderful person. She would make you laugh when you just did not want to. Her courage and endurance with God through it all was amazing. I can truly say that she was a now day "Job". For I believe she said, though he slay me, yet will I trust him. Now she is resting in the bosom of Jesus, OH how wonderful she must feel now with her perfect new body, sitting there smiling at her Saviour, the one that took her through it all and gave her the strength to hold on. When he saw that she had finished her course down here, he called her home to enjoy her beautiful mansion that he prepared for her. How happy she must be right now. Be strong, for God will help you to take care of your family and siblings and lead them in the right path as your Mother has led you. You are in my prayers daily. God "WILL" keep whatever we commit unto him. If you need me, just call. Love Always
Joyce Perkins
November 1, 2006
Kiana, Shellia was a wonderful person. She would make you laugh when you just did not want to. Her courage and endurance with God through it all was amazing. I can truly say that she was a now day "Job". For I believe she said, though he slay me, yet will I trust him. Now she is resting in the bosom of Jesus, OH how wonderful she must feel now with her perfect new body, sitting there smiling at her Saviour, the one that took her through it all and gave her the strength to hold on. When he saw that she had finished her course down here, he called her home to enjoy her beautiful mansion that he prepared for her. How happy she must be right now. Be strong, for God will help you to take care of your family and siblings. You are in my prayers daily. God "WILL" keep whatever we commit unto him. If you need me, just call. Love Always
Victoria thomas
November 1, 2006
Didn't know Ms. Shellia, but i know her daughter, Kiana, my heart goes out to the family and may God bless and keep you warm
MaKeisha Lovitt
November 1, 2006
To Kiana, Kenny, David, Antwan, Lisha, Airiq and Family I want to say that I Love all of you, Know that your Mother, Mother-In-Law and Grandmother had a heart of Pure Gold. What you've seen in Shellia is what you've got. Remember the funny times, remember the good times, Hold on to the Best times, and Cherish it. Only God can provide strength only he holds the answer to our questions. Be encouraged and Strong. I will remember Shellia for all the times she made me laugh out loud and how she would roam her eyes from side to side (now that use to be funny to me) I love you guys!!! Kiana you know I'm here for you Girl....
Kiana Harley
November 1, 2006
Mommy,
I miss you soo much. I knew the day would come for us to part, I just
never imagined it to be this year. You were there for me always...you
know that ever since this year began there has been turmoil in my life.
You where that beacon of light for me that held my hand through it all.
You walked with me through everything. In all my heartache and pain,
you where right there to comfort and encourage me. I face each day
wondering how I will be able to survive it knowing that if I fail, I
don't have you...my mother to help me through it. I feel so alone, so
weak, but I know that God doesn't put more on you than you can bear. I
don't understand sometimes the "right" thing to do. I have to continue
on though...for Airiq, David, Antwane, and Lisha. My heart forever
broken...my best friend, forever missed, I love you mommy. Your
Daughter, Kiana
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