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SHIRLEY M. BATES

SHIRLEY BATES Obituary

SHIRLEY M. BATES
Quietly on Wednesday, August 12, 2015. Devoted wife of Elijah Bates; beloved mother of Wanda Scales, Wendell and Brian Bates. Also surviving are three sisters, Beverly and Mildred Allen and C.J. Allen-Hood; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren, other relatives and friends. Friends may call on Friday, August 21 from 9:30 a.m. until time of service 11 a.m. at Friendship Baptist Church, 900 Delaware Ave., SW. Rev. Dr. J. Michael Little, Pastor. Interment Resurrection Cemetery.

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Published by The Washington Post from Aug. 19 to Aug. 21, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
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25 Entries

Joy Scales, granddaughter

September 4, 2024

I just looked at a picture of you and burst into tears. I miss you so much Nana. I can't believe it's been 9 years... it still feels like yesterday sometimes. I love you a bushel and a peck and a hug around the neck Until we meet again

Wanda Scales, daughter

January 17, 2023

Totally missing my mama, today. As my anniversary approaches, along with her wedding anniversary with my dad, AND her birthday, I'm just a mess of emotions.

Mommy, if you can feel my heart, know that I love you. Know that I miss you. I just had to let the world know how much you are loved. I think there's a party coming up with your name on it. Stay tuned!

Wanda Scales

August 13, 2022

Wanda Scales

August 13, 2022

Wanda Scales

August 13, 2022

Missing you physically since 2015; but always having your spirit makes life better. Loving you always, Mommy. Until we meet again.

Wanda Scales

August 13, 2021

My Dear Mother, you are so in my thoughts. Memories are coming and going into and out of my mind. Yesterday, August 12, was the 6th anniversary of quiet relocation to your new mansion; your new home. Yesterday was a hard day for me but you sent your comforting love from above. God sent His peace. I miss you, Mommy. Remembering your last spoken words: `what are you up to?´ Well, today I´m up to working hard and making you proud. Thank you for thinking of me. I´m `thinking of you.´ I love you, Mommy.

July 19, 2016

Here are some thoughts of my dear mother, Shirley M. Bates.

A year ago, July 18, 2015, while a visiting nurse was interviewing and examining you, it was determined that you needed to be transported to the nearest emergency room: your sweet heart was beating much too fast. Bill, Joy and I were attending a lovely social event as a family; something that we'd done too little of in recent times. Little did any of us know at the time, you would only return home to prepare to transition home to be with your Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Little did any of us know at the time, you were showing us just how important it is for families to be REAL families. Mommy, please keep sending all those reminder messages.

I miss you. I miss your hugs. I miss your laugh. I miss the way that you used to sing while doing your housework. I miss your cold oven pound cakes. Mommy, I miss you. I miss you so very much, but I know that you are looking down on me, loving me, encouraging me, reminding me not to be sad because you are gone, but to be glad that you are in the home prepared just for you and that I have one, too! I'll meet you there some day. Rest on, Dear Mommy. I love you and I'll see you "in the morning."

Love always, your daughter,

Wanda

C JILL Allen-Hood

May 26, 2016

I recently posted a picture for Mothers Day 2016. The picture I posted showed my "Big Sis, My Mom, and My Dad. I carefully looked at the pic before I posted and found myself in tears. Everyone in that pic is no longer here. Yes, I grieve, still, but I am comforted in knowing they are not in pain, no longer suffering, and most importantly...They are with THE MOST HIGH LORD!!

Wanda Scales

May 25, 2016

In loving memory and honor of the best mother in the world. Dealing with all the firsts without you, Mommy, is so hard: the first Thanksgiving, Christmas, birthday, and Mother's Day. The only thing that makes it bearable is knowing that you are at peace. Rest on, Dear Mommy. You may be gone, but you are never forgotten. I love you.

Wanda Bates-Scales

December 25, 2015

Mom, this season is so different without you. But the memories of Christmases past bring a smile and warmth of your ever-present love. I really miss you, but I know I will see you again. Make sure you tell Jesus that I said happy birthday. With love, Mommy, until we meet again.

Anne Yale

September 16, 2015

"Blessed be those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4 As I remember Mrs. Shirley Bates, I draw comfort from the song lyric, "Going Home to Live with God," and I know that this is true! May God continue to bless you all and bring you comfort. May the Peace of Christ be with you, always! My deepest condolences at this time, but know that even though she has passed from this Earth, Mrs. Shirley Bates, your dear Mother is never really gone, as long as she lives on in your hearts. I love you all! Peace & Blessings!

September 3, 2015

God bless you and your family and I am very sorry for your mom passing.

Mahamadou

Tony and S. Yvette Williams

August 28, 2015

Praying for your comfort and strength. We will always thank God for allowing Cousin Shirley to be such a loving, supportive, compassionate part of our lives. Her sweet, gentle, kind ways will never be forgotten. She has left us a legacy of Christian womanhood as a loving wife, mother, and family member. Love you much!

Eugene Thomas

August 27, 2015

Remembering Mrs. Shirley M. Bates. May God always bless the Bates/Scales family with Peace and Blessings.

Laura McQueen-Whitaker & Family

August 21, 2015

My family would like to send our condolences to the family and may GOD bless you.

john Stone

August 20, 2015

not there in person but always with you spirtually God bless the family

Vicki Moore

August 20, 2015

Sending my love, thoughts and prayers to the Bates family. May God comfort and keep you today and always in all ways!

Jackson Thompson

August 20, 2015

To the Bates family very sorry for the loss of aunt Shirley to you all. I remember her as always one of the sweetest aunts and the times with your family growing up will all be treasured. Aunt Shirley will always be with you all in spirit although her outer shell can no longer be seen. All of you will never need to worry for she will always guide you from above and her love will always be in your hearts. Much Love to you all and big hugs!

Anita Lambert

August 19, 2015

Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. Much love to you all. May the peace of God rest, rule and abide with you now, and always.

K. Nichols

August 19, 2015

I wish to express my condolences to the family. May you find comfort from the God of all comfort who will help you to cope with your grief. It can be so hard to face each day without your loved one, but the love and support of family and friends and, of course, our loving Creator, can help to ease the pain and sorrow. Again please accept my sincere condolences.

henrietta Turner

August 19, 2015

peace and comfort to all of you god will take care of you

Marjorie Foreman

August 19, 2015

I am praying for you in your time of need. Please let me know if I can assist in any way.
Love,
Sister Marjorie Foreman

Maurice King

August 19, 2015

My Prayers to You &Your Family

Roger Moses

August 19, 2015

May God bless you and your family during this time of sorrow. Shirley lived a long and wonderful life. Remember, God is too wise to make a mistake. Love You.

Joyce

August 19, 2015

Sending my prayers to the Bates family from afar...I know your love and support for each other will help you in the days to follow...There is no GREATER love than that off a MOTHER...Love you and take care

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