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Spencer Aaron Kirson

1986 - 2024

Spencer Aaron Kirson obituary, 1986-2024, Washington, DC

BORN

1986

DIED

2024

Spencer Kirson Obituary

Spencer Aaron Kirson, of Bethesda MD and Denver CO, born on Thursday, February 20, 1986, passed from this life on April 3, 2024 at Dove House Hospice, in Westminster, MD. He was surrounded by the people he loved most: his parents, Ben Kirson and Karen (Brennan) Kirson; his brother Adam, and his sister-in-law Alexandra Ducasse. After a truly courageous endurance of a brief, but aggressive, illness, his final days were spent in the comfort, warmth, and love, that were the defining forces of his brief but brilliant life. Spencer's incomparable personal style, his good humor, and his radiant positivity, penetrated every dark corner, and brought light and joy to everyone who crossed his path. He cared about, and he cared for, all the people who crossed his path, regardless of the circumstances, and his model of generosity and acceptance is an example for us all. His life was punctuated by joy, curiosity, and the wonder of nature and the world around him. The power of his mind, his energy, and his driving Will were matched by his humanity, kindness, and compassion. He was a leader and pioneer, on a national level, and gave 14 years of his life to help build the medical cannabis industry, advancing the understanding of the industry, to serve those who needed comfort and help. We are poorer for his passing, everyone who knew him was enriched by his life. His family invite all who knew him to mark his passing in their own way, by some act of kindness, which regardless of how small, never goes unnoticed, and never goes unrewarded. He burned brightly, warmed us deeply, and planted his light to grow in each person who knew him. May he rest in peace.

Funeral services in his honor will be held in the chapel at the Garden of Remembrance on Friday, April 5, 2024 at 11 a.m.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Washington Post from Apr. 4 to Apr. 5, 2024.

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Gloria Blake

April 5, 2025

Dear Spencer, I think about you everyday! I love to reminisce about the good times we had together! I
tell my grandchildren how "Special" you were to me.
Love you forever,
Aunt Gloria

Susan Pulaski

April 3, 2025

I know this a a tough day for you, Ben, Karen and Adam. I´m always thinking of you. Spencer is missed

T. LaBarbera

July 27, 2024

Dear Ben and Karen....I am so very sorry. The world has lost a very special person...

mary murphy John mother

June 27, 2024

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Myrna and Steve Parket

May 18, 2024

May he rest in peace and may his memory be a blessing
Myrna and Steve Parker

Rita and Sol Barr

May 18, 2024

We send heartfelt condolences for the death of your son. Our thoughts are with you. Rita and Sol Barr. 5713 Magic Mountain Drive.

Devin Hale

April 10, 2024

This man was a blessing. Always put the people first and to be there till death to prove what is right! May his soul live on for eternity! R.I.P.

The One Who Said Connect-e-cut

April 9, 2024

I was an immigrant who had just moved into this country and my accent and mispronunciations were my biggest insecurity in high school. After a traumatic presentation, I went back to my seat in complete disappointment and Spencer who was sat behind me in Mrs. Carter´s English class, said "It´s okay". It was unexpected from him. It was a blanket of kindness that I needed at that moment. I still tell that story to this day, and more recently to my kids. He was one of the few kind souls I got to meet at WJ. Rest in peace, Spencer.

Jessica Therrell

April 9, 2024

Spencer was a wonderful friend to me and my late husband. I will be forever grateful knowing him as that. RIP

Kathy Bruce

April 8, 2024

Ben and Karen our hearts are broken with you. We are at a loss for ways to express our love to you. When we think of Spencer we think of his loving spirit and big laughter. I specifically recall Spencer coming down to the beach and just hanging out in the mom circle. Did he ever know a stranger? He was always tagging with the older boys and seemed like a pet that was welcomed along. Kristin even remarked that she hadn´t realized he was her age because he was always with the big boys.
We have so many fond memories of you all and just wanted to send virtual hugs and love to you and Adam.

The Pierson Family - Crystal, Marcus, Asher, Murphy, Piper and Connall

April 8, 2024

Ben, Karen & Adam
I didn't get to know Spencer personally, but Ben shared so many stories of the boys as they grew up and he shared Spencer's career and you could always see the pride in his eyes and hear it in his voice. I know the world is a darker place without Spencer's light. May G*d hold each of you in his hands as you learn to live a new normal, remembering the good times. Prayers of peace for each of you.

Patrick

April 6, 2024

Hi Ben, Very sorry for your loss.

Dan vogel

April 6, 2024

So sorry to lose such a funny, brilliant soul. I will always remember the good times on magic mountain, Bethany etc.

Eddy and Patti Schneider

April 5, 2024

Benji & Karen:
Patti & I are so very saddened to hear about Spencer's sudden passing. There are no words that can provide solace and understanding at times like these. We pray that the love of family and friends will bring you strength in the days ahead. Wishing you comfort and peace.
Eddy & Patti Schneider

Mary Anne and Ozzie Schneider

April 5, 2024

To Karen and Benji,
We are so very saddened and shocked to hear the news today about Spencer´s passing . May God bless you all in this time of sorrow . We will truly keep you in our prayers.
Mary Anne and Ozzie Schneider

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

The Taff Family

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Gary Schneider

April 5, 2024

Benji, Karen, My Brother Ed called me around Noon today to share your VERY SAD NEWS. During times like this I truly have NO words! I can only say we are thinking about you and your family! With Love and remembrance, Gary & Grace Schneider

Phil and Susan Pulaski

April 5, 2024

Dear Ben, Karen and Adam,
We were stunned and saddened to hear of your tragic loss. Our kids remember playing on the court with Spencer as children. You are in our thoughts.
Phil and Susan Pulaski

Ernest Sandoval

April 5, 2024

Hey. Boss standing by as you know I will be. Waiting on my next marching orders. I love you and the way you lived life and you will ever be cherished in my whole family hearts and memories. Bro we got it from here you gave us the tools. And anything Your Famliy and friends need I´m here. In your memory I will strive to be the Man you are. "It´s all in love". Karen Ben We send our love now and always. The Sandovals.....

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Ellen Broder (Sherman)

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Funke Oyewole

April 5, 2024

Dear Ben, Karen and Adam. Please accept our deepest condolences. What a loss! Keeping you and your family in our prayers and wishing you comfort at this very sad time.

Funke and Bayo Oyewole

Meryl Margolies

April 5, 2024

I knew Spencer through my son - and his dear friend - Ari. His kindness and caring heart will be missed and remembered. I truly believe that he is at peace and will continue caring for those he loves. Rest in peace, Spencer.

Emily (Bruce) McCullough

April 5, 2024

Kirson Family,
So very sorry to hear about Spencer´s passing. This obituary was beautifully written and such a testament to who Spencer was. The Bruce Family has such fond memories of time with Spencer and your family at Bethany Beach. He was so much fun and always bringing laughter. Thinking of you all during this time.

Emily (Bruce) McCullough

Andrea Jacobs

April 4, 2024

May your memory be a blessing. I have so many memories of our families growing up together. My deepest condolences to Karen, Ben & Adam.

Gloria & Marc Blake

April 4, 2024

In loving memory of an our wonderful nephew, Spencer. We will remember all the great times we shared together. We will love you forever and miss you so much! Rest in peace now. You will always be in our heart!
Love, Aunt Gloria & Uncle Marc

Andrea and Stan Book

April 4, 2024

Please accept our deepest and most sincere sympathies on the loss of Spencer. I have heard from his Aunt Gloria, how very special he was. He will be greatly missed by many.
Andi and Stan Book

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