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Dre
December 29, 2023
Watching football and thinking of you Bro. You were a leader amongst men. I miss talking to you, love you 4 life big boy!!!
Dre
Tara
July 28, 2023
Still missing you. I hold on each day of the conversation and memories that I have of you. Continue to rest.
Your Wife Tonya Whetts
July 28, 2022
My life forever changed the day you left. I still cry often. You were more than my husband you were my very best friend. You will always be my forever love. My Superman. My Gentle Giant. I can still hear your laugh and see your smile. With you I never felt alone. And you always treated me like a queen. Rest easy my love. Until we meet again.
Dee
July 1, 2021
Our time capsule was delivered to me this week & I haven’t talked to you since AAFB days so I started searching for you. Nothing on fb but there you wereHERE on google. I have so many emotions right now & cry in disbelief that you’ve passed. I’m glad to see you went HOME a happy man. Beautiful wife & I see you even have more kids. Ohhh what a blessing & I hope they are truly blessed now n forever. People say be careful of what you go looking for because you just might find it. I don’t think I wanna know how it happened because knowing just that it did is too much. I will bury the time capsule again as I can’t open it alone. Many blessings and love to your family as they have truly lost a kind gentle giant!
August 28, 2012
Missing you like crazy! You always believed in me when I didn't even believe in myself. #forevermyqb #forevermyluv
tony whetts
August 1, 2012
unc wassup just checking in u know boxing career is bout to take off wish you was here to see it its ok tho i kno u watching luv ya unc
Rita Gray
July 29, 2012
Missing you. You were a great friend and very easy to talk too. You have helped me through some rough times and long days. I find myself picking the phone up to call you. I think about you all the time. I still can't believe how real it is. Whetts I know you are watching over me and making sure I stay out of trouble:-) I love you and miss u!
Tanya Parks
July 28, 2012
I still can't believe you're gone. My heart just aches. I think of you often.
Matthew Steeple
July 27, 2012
July 28th marks one of the worst days in my life. this will be the one year anniversary of the passing of my co-worker, my friend & my Brother Spencer Whetts. I still don't understand why you were called home so soon and in that manner. I know its not my place to understand so i just cherish the time that we spent laughing, joking and playing ball together. Man the pain of knowing you are gone still hurts as if it just happened yesterday but i am at peace knowing that you are in a better place. Just wanted you to know bro that you are gone but you will never be forgotten. Continue to rest in peace and i hope we will meet again in heaven one day.
/Grov
July 16, 2012
RIP Homie!!!!! Stay Strong Tonya!
July 12, 2012
Still wishing this is all a bad dream...miss you like crazy.
Tanya Parks
April 15, 2012
My heart is heavy.. Sleep well my friend
Tony Whetts
March 8, 2012
Wassup unc just checking in ain't talk to I in awhile been doing good boxing bout to turn pro wish you could see it but I know you watching luv ya unc
Tonya Whetts
February 16, 2012
My husband and my very best friend. I miss you so much. Its been a while since I wrote anything. I have really been in a slump but trying to get it together. Life for me is not the same. You were my traveling man. By now we would be returning from another tropical destination. It still amazes me how people were in awe of you every where we went. Walking thru the airport, and at the resorts. We would just laugh. We met so many people. You made sure that no matter what I would always return to one of our favorite places. ARUBA!! When you said lets buy a condo fraction with 5 weeks vacation time every year I thought you were crazy! But now I see it as always having that time no matter what to relax just the way we liked. You made sure of that. Thank you for your love. You had such a big heart. You were truly a gift from God. I will never understand why you were taken from me but I thank God for the time that I had with you. You taught me what true love was. Every couple has their good times and bad times and I am happy to say we had WAY more GOOD! I have been thru a lot these past months but with Gods grace I am holding on.I am trying to get stronger. I know that is what you would want. I know that you are with me still. I talk to you every day. Its amazing how I am finding all of your notes, letters and cards to me in the house. I even found the very first card you ever gave me. I thought about how you used to buy me flowers every week. What a man. I will always love you "Superman". Our son KeShawn turned 13 Sunday. He still will only eat buffalo wings whenever we go somewhere in honor of you. Its been that way since you passed. I said a Happy Birthday to your mom on Valentines Day. As we always honored her on Valentines because we showed our love for one another all year long. I know that we will be together again when we join our Father forever in our eternal life. Love you always husband. Your wife Tonya.
Jonathan Joachim
February 2, 2012
The other day I was on Facebook and someone ask who was the best quarterback and rec combo i ever seen in the pup.. I told them hands down spencer Whetts and Javer.. Man you left a mark in this world and touch so many people homie,dudes that never played with you our even talk you still they no how Spencer Whetts is.... I tell every body that I can that i came a better rec at lincoln cause of you with all them 7-7 camp we had up g-town feild and i think you homie for teaching me and for being a friend... I am sorry that I had to hear bout this the way I did but my heart is with you and your family.. From one #10 to the other you are truly miss bro... Rip my friend
tony whetts
January 23, 2012
Yo spence wassup i kno u good up there i used to b really sad but now i kno u in a better place so now i can deal with tht i fight again next month golden gloves i am going to win don't worry bout tht u gone have. To. Pull up a chair u and the big man watch the shown i put on lol u kno how us whetts do it lol.. luv ya unc i am out
Lakeeta Jones
January 22, 2012
God looked around his garden,
And He found an empty place.
He then looked down upon this Earth,
And saw your tired face.
He put his arms around you,
And lifted you to rest.
God's garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best.
He knew you were suffering.
He knew you were in pain.
He knew that you would never,
Get well on Earth again.
He saw that the road was getting rough,
And the hills were hard to climb,
So He closed your weary eyelids
And whispered, "Peace by Thine."
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you didn't go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
duane whetts
December 24, 2011
damn unc man cant believe u aint here man every day i think u gone call but u never do man it aint really the same with out u i always look at tht last pic we have togeather and wish i would have came to dc more often man i thk bout u all the time we miss u out here unc i just wish we could hang out one more time man miss u unc luv ya man rip aint gone never gonre forget u spence luv ya unc
T Corporal
December 12, 2011
So sad to hear about Spencers passing. He was my friend at FAMU and I was wondering how he was doing today so I googled him. Imagine my heartache when I landed on this site. My condolences to the family. You will be missed.
michelle
December 8, 2011
4evrmyqb...missing you like crazy!
Spencer & Tonya Whetts wedding day
Tonya Whetts
November 27, 2011
My precious husband. I miss you more than anyone could ever know. I still talk to you every day and I feel your presence with me all the time. Thanksgiving was hard for me. It was the first Holiday we ever spent together. My life has changed so much. I spend more time with God than ever before. He is what is getting me thru. And I talk to our daughter every day. I know you are proud of her and Tony. You still keep me strong and I know you are always still here for me. Someone asked me one day why do I still wear my wedding rings? My answer is "because I am STILL MARRIED"! Till we meet again my love. Your wife always and forever.
tony whetts
November 25, 2011
Hey unc been awhile man i still to this day look at your number waiting for u to call and say wassup lol remember tht table u asked me to put togeather i never finished it it took like four hours just to start it lol wish u was still here so u can see wht i am doing me and casey talk everyday wish we all could have hung out togeather i kno i am raming but i miss u so much unc we gone meet up one day but till then keep watching over us and we never gone forget u unc luv ya rip
Brittany Whetts
November 16, 2011
Hey uncle spencer....I haven't talked to you in a while but I know you can hear me.. I wish you were here but i know your living freely now. Love ya
Ty Robinson
November 16, 2011
I wish I could have met you but I heard many good things. I try everyday to leave a legacy like you did. I want you to know I love your neice Brittany and I promise to treat her and your family like my own. It's crazy how you inspired everyone you touched. I am proud to be a part of your family. I know your in a better place RIP
Vidyapati Bey
November 9, 2011
I went and play football with Spence @ Germantown. It was hard to hear that he was no longer her with us. He was a great player and leader on the field and I truely am sorry to hear that he's gone. I trust the family and friend had as many and more great time as I had with the brother. I know he still shining where ever he may be. PIP # 73 G-Town HUDDLE UP
audrey whetts
October 28, 2011
llove you dad forever and ever but its hard to get over this but thanks for ever thing you did for me just hope you can still talk to me like always just want see you again remeber always thank you
audrey whetts
October 28, 2011
love you forever dad never forget about you thanks for everything
tony whetts
October 15, 2011
Well unc i won wish u could see the belt it crazy it aint the last one tho really dont kno wht to say man this is really crazy luv ya unc u at peace now
tony whetts
September 28, 2011
I fight sat unc wish u were here to see it but i know u watching over me this one for u spence get your popcorn ready put ya feet up and get ready for the show luv u unc you are really missed aint the same with out u man
Tonya Whetts
September 27, 2011
My husband and best friend. It has taken me a while to write something. This is the hardest thing I have ever been through! My love for you is deeper than anyone could ever know! Your bday was hard for me. We had big plans. I look out the window waiting for you to come home. When the phone ring I pray its you. I still wear my wedding rings because you are still with me. We will be together again my love. I will always love you!
DaVita Garfield
September 24, 2011
Happy Birthday Spencer!
Rob Ridley
September 24, 2011
Cuz its your bday. I remember us growing up together. We were the biggest rivals but it was always love at the end of day. You left too soon but I hope and pray you are at peace! Happy birthday Love Rob
Lakeeta Jones
September 24, 2011
Happy birthday my friend. Still seems like a dream. Love you lots and missing you much more!
DaVita Garfield
September 21, 2011
Its almost your birthday and I won't get to tell you what I have told you almost every year for the past 19 years "I never forget your birthday"...I can't believe how much this still hurts...I can't believe how much I miss you...I can't believe I won't hear your voice again...I miss you and I love you dear friend!!!!
denise
September 13, 2011
so sad to learn that you are gone. you were a great friend & i will cherish our friendship forever! i will miss your laugh and sarcasm but i know your family really misses you. hope you are at peace. love always friend
September 13, 2011
You will be truly miss spence. RIP my friend ..WG, Maryland
tony whetts
September 10, 2011
Man spence we was just togeather aint the same with out u man i hope i made u proud u was like my brother man love always your nephew
R Abdul-Azim
September 3, 2011
Wow. I knew something was up. I went searching for you around the time of your death and I could only find old Gtown stuff. Spence was a friend of mine in Mt. Airy elementary school (Henry H. Houston) . Spence, Des, Najah, and I used to hang tuff over the summer. I'm sorry to hear this but comforted by the fact that so many people love/d you and you have a family who will share you life through memories and stories. Welcome Home. Ra
August 23, 2011
To the Whetts Family, our deepest sympathy in loss of Spencer. He was a good brother and will be missed. From his Chiefs Football Family in Philly.
Redell 'Reds' Crabbe
Rasmiyyah Aidah
August 20, 2011
I cannot believe I am finding out about your death a month later and in such a harsh way. I am truly sorry that I was not there this time to listen and I was unable to say goodbye. I will keep our final discussions private. You will be remembered for being a sweetheart with the rough exterior. I pray that you are with your mom finally and that your soul is at peace. To everyone who loved him, find comfort in your memories, which will remain in your hearts. Although I am overcome with sadness by your absence, I will forever cherish the experience of knowing you. Goodbye, Spencer.
Love Always...
A. C
August 18, 2011
It hurts me deeply to find out my friend has passed. We shared great times at FAMU! My ddepest condolences to his wife and family. Always in my heart...
BJ Suber
August 15, 2011
You will be missed Spence, RIP and God bless the Whetts family.
George and Jane
August 13, 2011
Our deepest sympathies to the entire Whetts family. We'll keep an eye on George, who has always been so good to our sons. George has been so proud of Spencer's many accomplishments. We feel his loss deeply and our prayers are with Spencer's wife and family.
Kervin Charles
August 12, 2011
I just got the sad news today. I remember working out with you at the Y, the Germantown vs King games and that you always won but was always humble in victory even when you beat us 56 to 12 in the playoffs. My condolences to your family. You will be missed #10.
Jo-Van Rogers
August 12, 2011
Spence you will be missed so much. I remember the days working out @ the YMCA with Carl and our last conversation @ Delaware State when you played for FAMU. My prayers go out to your wife & kids for the LORD will keep them favored. Bless!
Ryan L.
August 11, 2011
My condolences to the entire Whetts family during this time. May God bless and keep all of you. I pray you find the peace that passes all understanding.
A D
August 11, 2011
RIP ROOMDOG! WINDRUSH CREW 96-97! SNAKES #19! I WILL MISS U!--MERTON HANKS
MELONIE MOYE-JACKSON
August 11, 2011
REST IN PEACE MY FELLOW GERMANTOWN CLASSMATE.
MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY.
Diamond Bynum
August 11, 2011
Spencer. I know you were endlessly loved, as well as by me. May your beautiful soul rest in peaceee. (;
nadine & anthony wade
August 10, 2011
spencer you are the greatest friend we ever had I remember starting on Andrews back in 2004 we used to have so much fun working at the gates you will be forever missed by us we love you so much rest in peace..
Colette Watson
August 10, 2011
Spencer and I went to elementary school together. He was always very personable and had a great spirit. I have looking for him on facebook for a while. I am saddened to hear this.
RIP Spence
KWAME HALL
August 9, 2011
Just found out I am so sorry for your lost. We had some good times together in Phila and FAMU
Quincy Wilson
August 9, 2011
i was very sad and shocked to hear this news. my condolences go out to the whole Whetts family. ive had the pleasure to know spencer since 91 when we started G-town high in the magnet program!!!! we clicked since day one and remained good friends since. R.I.P. big homie love ya!!!!! Quincy Wilson (G-town Bears)
Carmeeshia Wollf
August 8, 2011
I'm praying for the entire Whetts family during your time
of sorrow. May God bless and keep you, and give u peace. Spence, I will never know why you left us so soon. I hope and pray that you met God in peace. I love and miss you dearly!!!
Carmeeshia & Andrew Wolf
Elijah Ervin
August 8, 2011
"To the entire Whetts family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers. I am completely sadden to know that my friend has gone home. I thank the Lord for allowing us the opportunity to be together this past June in DC. I really enjoyed the time we shared reminiscing on our past experiences at FAMU. I was really looking forward to us having another great time this August. I am going to miss you my friend."
Dahmiyah Leftenant
August 7, 2011
It is with great sadness that I give my condolences. Gone too soon you are. Spencer you will be truly missed. May God bestow His grace, mercy and forgiveness upon you. With love and friendship.
SEAN MITCHELL
August 7, 2011
I would like to send my condolences to Tonya and the Whetts family. I was so sad to hear my friend was gone. I will never forget the times we had in Tallahassee! You were a true friend, your boy "Shack" will never forget you bro!!!
Damian Slaughter
August 7, 2011
To the entire Whetts Family. I am deeply deeply sorry for your lost. I personally have been in denial until just today of this sad truth. Spence and I spent a lot of time on and off the field @ FAMU. We were not just QB's trying to get the starting job, we were Friends outside of football. More so that on 7/22/11 we had(our final conversation) plan to meet after his family reunion to discuss a family vacation back in Florida. Mr. George, Tonya, and kids Our Father has a Great Man and WE have an Angle to watch over us the rest of our lives.. Take care and God Bless
DLS#16
KAREN PATTERSON
August 7, 2011
I can't believe he is gone! I have been trying to get in contact with him for over a year. He was a good friend, i am going to keep his family in prayer. Spencer was real friend. RIP LOVE!
Miquel Jones
August 7, 2011
It was the greatest privilege to have known you these past years. My condolences to the family. RIP big homie. May you live in the sky.
Ced Harden
August 6, 2011
Spence was a real dude, never mixed his words and that was a big draw for me. We had some great times that will always stay with me. My prayers go out to his wife and kids.
acie pannell
August 5, 2011
I can count on both hands who my truest and most best friends are, and you were one of them spence. You will be greatly missed by me, that's for sure. i will miss spending time and hearing the great advice you would give me. you were and great friend to me, and I loved you for it. God bless you and your family, and may you R.I.P. Big Fella.
Sean Huitt
August 5, 2011
I went to Henry H. Houston with Spencer and always thought he was an all around cool person and over the years our families have loosely kept in touch with each other. I am sorry to hear about Spencer’s passing and I send my deepest condolences to the Whetts family. You will truly be missed Spencer!
Ky Adderley
August 5, 2011
The creator has a master plan! As I am struck with sadness and disbelief of another young brother gone too soon, I remember that our Lord has prepared a table for us all and Spenc def earned his seat. A Long time family friend and success story out of Mt Airy. My you rest in peace and your family be lifted in prayer.
One Love
Shayla Mills-Dalton
August 5, 2011
The news of Spencer's death is really sad and a great loss indeed to all of us who have had contact with him. Spencer was a very pleasant and accommodating person. May the Lord comfort his dear family and friends.
Shayla Mills-Dalton
Corey Brooks
August 5, 2011
My prayers are with you Tonya, the children, and loving family members. Spence will always be a life long friend of mine and former teammate at FAMU. He was "my quarterback" and one of my best buddies. We shared many experiences that shaped our lives and he will never be forgotten. We (Lamar, Shack, G, Deon, and I) called him "Cowboy" and he always had my back, no matter the situation. To be absent from the body, is to be present with the Lord. He will be loved and missed forever by the "Tallahassee Crew."
C-BO
Tara Scott
August 5, 2011
I have know Spencer for over 21 years. We attended High School together and remained in contact throughout the years. He was a very close friend of mine and I am still shock,sadden,and numb over his death.I will miss our conversations and advice he gave me. May he have eternal peace and rest. My sympathy goes out to his wife, daughter, sister, brother and father. I pray that GOD will strengthen and comfort you each day as you mourn the loss of a special man. I love you Spencer and you will forever remain in my heart. Rest in Peace.
Natashia Mitchener
August 5, 2011
Spencer I have known you for a few years now, but not long enough. I will always remember coming through the gate and seeing you with your arms crossed, looking like a proud protector. I always thought "nothing can bother this man". May you be at peace, and continue to protect watch over those you left behind, with your arms crossed. RIP
Kia Williams
August 5, 2011
I too went to Houston with Spencer. He was a great guy. We would at times walk to and from school together. My condolence goes out to his family.
August 5, 2011
Spencer! This is to YOU. I kNOW of the 'other side'. We have a ONE(ness). t-HERE is only this ONE(ness). It is me ,MR V,(James Villarreal) ,your latin teacher At Houston School. Spencer ,my "kids" are everywHERE but mostly in my heart. You have only changed your shirt. The Sacred Presence that you expressed so beautifully in this life goes on and on and on, already returned to the Source wHERE you truly never left. tHERE is no separation ,only ONE(ness). I Love you no differently NOW than I did when I first loved you as a little boy. Salvete Discipuli Forever. MR V
Myra Ferguson
August 5, 2011
My heart goes out to your family during this time may God be with you all.
Ria Adderley
August 5, 2011
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family. Our families go way back to our siblings. Spencer was always a kind loving guy. I pray God will saturate you all with love, strength and peace in this time of need.
August 4, 2011
RIP buddy
Nicole Tate
August 4, 2011
I went to Houston Elementary School with Spencer. He was a good person. My prayers go out to his family. RIP Spencer.
Omar Barlow
August 4, 2011
I played running back for Central High School in 1993 (#42)and at time Spence (#12) was playing quarterback and defensive back for Germantown. That year we played a classic football game and Germantown beat us 7-6, eliminating us from playoff contention. It is forever etched in my memory. It was a war. What a heartbreaker. Spence and I met as young warriors on the field, gazing intently at one another through our facemasks, but at this time I pay tribute for the blessing of Spence's life and ask that God may give his family peace, grace, and mercy. Omar Barlow, Central High School #42
James Cowling
August 4, 2011
To Tonya, Audrey and to the rest of Spence's family and friends. My deepest Condolences and Prayers are with you all. We lost a GREAT mentor and friend but he will always live on in our hearts!!!
R. I. P to my Big little Brother
Aquil Bayyan
August 4, 2011
Spence,
I just remember us working out at the Germantown YMCA in Philly all the time while we were in high school. We quietly pushed each other as we worked hard enough to be the select few to excel in football and basketball in the Philadelphia Public League, often playing against each other while you were at the G and I was at Central. While you took your football talents to the MEAC at Florida A&M I wound up playing basketball in the MEAC at Howard. Unfortunately, we lost touch after college the last time I saw you was when FAMU played a football game at Howard and we spoke after the game. Prior to you passing I didn't even know we were living not too far from each other in the DC Metro area for quite sometime. I wish we could have connected as adults. My condolences to the Family!!!!!
jannine bunn
August 4, 2011
I went to Henry H. Houston school with Spencer & although I left philly in 1990, I always remembered him and how sweet, funny & friendly he was. I send my love, prayers & condolences to the family. May God continue to bless you.
Bernard Marshall
August 4, 2011
My prayers and condolences goes out to his wife Tonya and the Whetts family.Hold on to God hand and he will help you'll through this tragic lost.
Vincent McDuffy
August 4, 2011
I played against and along side Spencer in high school. From the brief periods of being around him. I could tell he was a great guy, very humble. Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear of your loss.
Andre' Harper
August 4, 2011
I went to elementary school with Spence and we were teammates on a youth league basketball team. He was an all around good guy, mild mannered and down to earth. My prayers and condolences go out to his family and loved ones.
Mimi Evans
August 4, 2011
Spence,
The history we have goes way past HS. I've known you for over 20 years, you were and still is my close and special friend and I will always love you. No matter what.....
I miss you and love you still... Until we meet again
Leonard Brooks
August 4, 2011
My condolences to the Whetts family, my prayers go out to you. Spencer will be missed but will live in our hearts forever.
shane giddiens
August 4, 2011
Rip spence!!!!!
Rodney McNeil
August 4, 2011
Damn Spence, sad day for our Houston Family, Remember the Graduation party at his house R.I.P homie, you will be deeply Missed.
Kamilah Long
August 4, 2011
I went to gradeschool with Spencer, sorry to hear of his passing. My condolences and prayers go out to his family and loved ones.
Terasa Derry
August 4, 2011
I attended Germantown High with Spence & I remember him to be a stand-up type of guy! Nothing is promised to us in the borrowed life except that we all will eventually meet our Creator one day. Wishing Spence's family an abundance of paece & blessings during this difficult time.
Nisha (Starks) Smalls
August 4, 2011
I went to Houston Elementary School with Spencer and I remember him being a really great, fun guy. I'd like to send my condolences to his family.
Jeneane (Brown)-Williams
August 4, 2011
My deepest condolences to his family. We went to elementary school together.Spence was always nice to me. So sad to hear hes gone.
KELLY REED
August 4, 2011
RIP,SPENCER!!! GONE,BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN!!!!!
August 4, 2011
God knows, he promise to never leave us, so God will continue guide and protect the Whetts family , So rest in Peace my Brother.
Pondosa Butler
August 4, 2011
I'm deeply sadden to have lost a good friend. RIP Spence, you will be missed. My condolences to the Whetts family, my prayers are with you in your time of loss.
Andre Amos
August 4, 2011
My condolences to the Whetts family, my prayers are with you in your time of loss.
Devitri Ford
August 3, 2011
Hey Spencer we worked together for a while before i got deployed to IRAQ, you were and still are a good brother i will miss u Spencer RIP!
Jacqueline Fox
August 3, 2011
I would like to offer my condolences to the family of Spencer Whetts. We went to Henry H. Houston together and I have never forgotten him. He was one of my closest friends during our childhood. Reading what so many have to say about him, sounds like the same person I knew then. Respectful, caring, and very mild mannered. I am sorry for your lose and the world has lost a great individual. With much love and prayers.
Jeffrey Oden
August 3, 2011
Tonya,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Katara Benny
August 3, 2011
Gone but never forgotten, luv ya cuz!
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