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Stephen Teleki Obituary

STEPHEN TELEKI, passed away on August 25, 2023, in Oakland, California, peacefully and surrounded by loved ones. Born Count István Béla Teleki de Szék, in Gyömrõ, Hungary on April 7, 1934, Stephen was the youngest child of Count Béla Teleki de Szék and Countess Mária Mailáth de Székhely. Raised until the age of 10 in Pölöske, Hungary, he escaped with family in the midst of war by horse and carriage to Austria; only to realize after 3 years they would be unable to return home. His family emigrated to Argentina where he attended high school, and spent his formative years. Stephen met the love of his life, Beatriz Eggers-Lan, in Argentina in 1959. In 1962 they were married at Purdue University, in Lafayette, Indiana, where Stephen would receive his B.S. in Engineering in 1964. Together they raised two daughters and a son, first in the San Francisco Bay Area, then in Brazil and Mexico, while working as an executive for Kaiser Engineers. Later he worked in the Telecom industry, first as a business owner of Teleconsult, in Washington D.C., and later with Ameritech International, where in 1993 he was instrumental in their investment of the privatization of Matav, the Hungarian Telecommunications Company. Stephen was an accomplished mountain climber, an avid biker, skilled tennis player and committed skier into his 80s. In his late 40s, he successfully climbed the Popocatepetl volcano in Mexico (17,694 feet) the second tallest volcano in North America. Stephen loved travelling the world with Beatriz, his children, and spending time with family on both coasts, in Argentina, and remaining connected with his extended Teleki family. He is survived by his wife of more than 60 years, Beatriz Eggers-Lan de Teleki and his three children; Marianne, Annabelle, and Maximilian; five grandchildren Piera, Gabriella, Tibor, Ava and Naoma; two sons in law, Héctor Salgado and Tim Mansell; daughter in law Wendy Jagerson Teleki, numerous nephews, nieces, and extended family members whom he adored and who adored him. In lieu flowers, if you are so inclined, the family encourages support of the Hungarian American Coalition's (HAC) scholarship programs. 2001 Massachusetts Avenue NW, Washington, DC 20036. A memorial service will be announced at a later date.

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Published by The Washington Post on Sep. 3, 2023.

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John Geary

December 1, 2023

I offer my heartfelt condolences to Beatriz and family. I have many fond memories of our days in Berkeley (Oakland). Cuán rápido pasa el tiempo.

Regina Wurst

October 24, 2023

Dear Teleki family, I am sorry for your loss. May Stephen's memory be a blessing. Sending love to all of you.

Michael Simpson

September 6, 2023

A true gentleman, a kind man, a warm soul, a great human being

Paul Teleki

September 5, 2023

Istvan was one of my closest friends. He was a brother that I never had, and we shared not just the family name, but many experiences, good times, warm relationship in the US, as well as in Hungary when he and I happened to be there at the same time on assignments. In the US we spent many pleasant days over several years in West Virginia at my cabin, cleaning and cooking large amounts of mushrooms we gathered in many places, and spent time playing marathon tennis games at the Lost River State Park, as we also did at family reunions in Hungary. We took many excursions in Virginia and West Virginia and he enjoyed the sites, the history and the hikes, and endured the visits to antique stores as I was looking for old LP records. We shared family celebrations many times. I miss his kind warmheartedness, his elegant graciousness, and his willingness to listen to others' stories and problems. May he rest in peace.

My heartfelt condolences to Beatriz, Max, Marianne and Annabelle.

Marithe Miller

September 5, 2023

He will be missed.
A great person and dear friend!

Alexia Teleki Groszer

September 5, 2023

Words will never be enough to express my gratitude for the joy Istvan baci brought to my father, mother, my two daughters, and me. His charming, diplomatic, and kind demeanor put everyone at ease instantly. He was shining example of a good friend and uncle. It is my hope that I can use his example to be better person. With love and admiration, Sya Teleki

David

September 4, 2023

What a fascinating story, our hearts reach out to your wonderful family Love, The Wunderlich LeCours family

Rosa Carrillo and Julio encarnacion

September 3, 2023

Our moist sincere condolences to our dear Beatriz, his children and entire familia and friends. We will keep in my family memories the precious moments that we spent together, enjoyed his delicious and exquisite dishes that used to fix for us and our time enjoying to see Beatriz and Stephen dancing a tango. Rest in peace.

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