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Terry Oakley Obituary

OAKLEY TERRY W. OAKLEY Terry W. Oakley, 46, of Fairfax, Virginia, was placed into God's hands on August 18, 2017. Funeral Mass will be held at Ft. Myer Old Post Chapel on February 21, 2018 at 2:45 p.m. A ceremony will follow at the Arlington National Cemetery Columbarium with Military Honors. Adams-Green Funeral Home of Herndon, Virginia will be handling the funeral arrangements. Terry was born in Rochester, Pennsylvania, on July 14, 1971 and he was baptized in the Roman Catholic faith. He graduated from high school in 1989 in Knob Noster, Missouri. He joined the U.S. Army in August 1989. At the age of 19, Terry served in Operation Desert Storm and was awarded the Southwest Asia Service Medal with two Bronze Service Stars, the Kuwait Liberation Medal, and the National Defense Service Medal. In 2007, Terry was sworn in at the U.S. State Department and worked for ten years with the Bureau of Diplomatic Security as a Program Specialist. Terry loved his job, his beautiful daughter, and his friends and family. He was a dedicated sports fan of LSU football, the Kansas City Chiefs, the Boston Red Sox and the Washington Nationals. Terry is survived by his daughter Noelle Oakley, his mother Paula Verban Davis and stepfather LtCol Bradley S. Davis, USAF, Ret., his father William Oakley, his sister Kelly Hanson and brother-in-law COL Steven G. Hanson, USA, his sister Karey Oakley, his nieces Megan Hanson, Sara Hanson, Lily Tuck, his nephew Joshua Hanson, and numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins. He is preceded in death by his grandfather, World War II Purple Heart recipient, Steve Verban, his grandmother, Helen Verban, his grandfather, Allan G. Davis, his grandmother, Billie Marie Davis, his grandfather, Walter L. Oakley, and his grandmother, Katherine Manning Oakley. The family wishes to express their sincere gratitude to the Bureau of Diplomatic Security for all their support to Terry and his family. Memorial donations may be made to the American Heart Association at: https://donatenow.heart.org or the National Desert Storm War Memorial at: http://ndswm.org/donate. http://ndswm.org/donate.

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Published by The Washington Post on Feb. 15, 2018.

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United States Army

June 1, 2025

Your sister Karey

June 1, 2025

Hard to believe we laid you to rest seven years ago. By the grace of God and the caring people at Arlington cemetery, Mom has been laid to rest within steps of you. May you both rest in peace and I will continue to honor you and your legacy through love of our country and in service to others. Love you forever, my brother, my Wonderwall.

Sharon and Bob

February 9, 2025

We do remember him. He was a wonderful Daddy to our granddaughter and she adored him. He was a good man whom we believe suffered from PTSD and passed too young. We still talk about the sorrow for his daughter and family and wish we had understood what happened to him.

Kelly Oakley

December 24, 2024

I will continue our tradition of cheering for the Chiefs, listening to rock from the eighties and nineties, and helping others to stay United States Army Strong. Godspeed to my first brother, and fellow Quartermaster, who always stood up for me.

Mom & Dad

February 10, 2023

It´s been five years since we laid you to rest in the beautiful Arlington National Cemetery - a place of honor that you cherished with each visit. Seems like yesterday. Our love for you will last forever and grows each day.

Jason Watson

February 23, 2018

My heart goes out to the Oakley family. Terry was my best friend in high school and I still remember the amazing friendship we had to this day, 30 something odd years later. Peace be with you.

Marilyn

February 23, 2018

My condolences to all who loved Terry- a true patriot and fellow Soldier.

Julie, Tony, Maddy and Emilie Hill

February 17, 2018

Our sincere condolence to the Oakley family. Rest in peace Terry.

Bob and Sharon Campbell

February 16, 2018

He meant so much to our granddaughter Noelle. She adored her Daddy. We are saddened at his passing and remember him as a devoted Dad. Our condolences to his family. May your soul Rest in peace, Terry.

Maranda Fulp

February 15, 2018

We miss you every day, Terry. We hold onto the memories and moments shared and feel honored to be part of your world. Race day is your day...we were always your fans. Your commentary had us on the edge. The Fulps love you! Our hearts are with your family.

February 15, 2018

Dear Uncle Terry, I miss you and I love you so much. Rest in Peace.

Lily

American Heart Association

February 15, 2018

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Debra Fricano

February 15, 2018

The Fricano Family send their deepest condolences to the entire family.

February 15, 2018

Rest in Peace Terry. Our thought and prayers are with your family.

Chuck and Judy Holsinger

February 15, 2018

Darling Terry, We miss you and will Love You until the end of Time! Love Forever, Mom & Dad

February 15, 2018

Terry, your light in my heart will always shine bright. You're forever my Wonderwall. Love, your sister Karey.

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