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WALTER BODLING Obituary


WALTER JOACHIM ERNST BODLING (Age 90)  
Passed away on December 4, 2016. He was the second son of German immigrants who settled in New York soon after the first World War. As fate would have it, the boys' mother succumbed to pneumonia when they were only five and three years old. Walter was sent to Germany to stay with relatives until their father could reestablish family life after that tragic loss. Again, fate intervened as WWII broke out and Walter did not return to the United States until after that war ended. He immediately enlisted in the United States Army. That enlistment turned into a 25-year active duty career as an infantry soldier, captured-document analyst, personnel manager and administrator, in grades of Master Sergeant, Chief Warrant Officer, and Major. His foreign service took him to Okinawa, Vietnam, Cambodia, Germany and Greece. His decorations include the Legion of Merit and the Bronze Star Medal. He worked in the private sector prior to joining the Office of the Secretary of Defense (OSD). During part of the Reagan administration he was attached to the National Security Council staff as the Pentagon member of an interagency activity. In the course of his near 20-year OSD tenure he was twice awarded the Defense Civilian Meritorious Service Medal. Walter's beloved wife Mary passed away in February 2015; they had been happily married for over 64 years. He is survived by his daughter Barbara; his son Edward (LtCol, USA-Retired); son Gerald; his brother Paul (LCDR, USN-Retired) and their respective families, including grandchildren Kathryn, Annie, Ashley, Wesley and Brian, and great-granddaughter Briar. His half-brother Alfred (SFC, USA-Retired) died in 2010. Visitation will be held on Friday December 9 from 11 a.m. to 12 Noon at Murphy Funeral Home, 4510 Wilson Boulevard, Arlington, VA 22203, followed by graveside service at 12:30 p.m. at Columbia Gardens Cemetery, 3411 Arlington Boulevard, Arlington, VA 22201.

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Published by The Washington Post on Dec. 7, 2016.

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Elaine DelBianco

August 14, 2017

Walter, you were a great man and did so much on behalf of our country. I grieve in my heart that I missed your funeral. I am thankful that you are now at peace with the love of your life, Mary. Thank you also for supporting me when I lost my son. Our hearts easily met in the experience of losing a precious loved one. Your heart aches no more. See you in heaven dear one.

December 10, 2016

"Grief is the last act of love we have to give to those we loved. Where there is deep grief, there was great love." A man who lived an honorable and inspiring life, we can honor him by living well, showing love and compassion to others and above all, to one another.

December 9, 2016

Our family was blessed to have you in our lives. We will miss you and will strive to live by your example of one who lived life so honorably, generously, patiently and lovingly. Missy & Family

J

December 8, 2016

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Rick & Lisa Foster

December 8, 2016

Rest in Peace Walter. An amazing & honorable life, well lived, by an honest, hard working & dedicated man. It was a privilege to know you.

December 7, 2016

May the Father of tender mercies be with you.

m b

December 7, 2016

My deepest condolences to the family for your loss.Psalms 90:10 says that the days of our years are 70 years,And if because of special mightiness they are 80 years.He was very special indeed!

Me & Grandpa at Georgetown

Katie O'Hare

December 7, 2016

Mom and I miss you so much already, Grandpa. I don't know what we're going to do without you. Love you forever.

December 7, 2016

God Bless you Uncle Walter - may he wrap you in his arms.

Helga and Erika Bodling

December 7, 2016

May the God of all comfort help you through this bereavement period as you mourn.

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