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Mary Malecki Obituary

Loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, friend, Mary Rappaselli Malecki, 81, of Mt Penn, Pennsylvania, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 29, 2025, surrounded by family. She was the wife of Thomas Malecki, Sr. They shared over 61 wonderful years together.
Born in Reading, Pennsylvania, she was the daughter of the late Nicholas and Caroline Rappaselli and the sister of Nicholas Rappaselli, Jr. Mary graduated from Mt. Penn High School in 1961 as the Female Athlete of the Year, excelling in field hockey, basketball, and softball.
Mary's greatest happiness came when spending time with her family: children, Carol Noga, wife of Dr. Robert Noga, Sr., and Thomas Malecki, Jr., husband of Denise Malecki; and her wonderful grandchildren, Lauren Noga; Erin Noga; Robert Noga, Jr., husband of Katherine; Margaret Malecki; and Thomas Malecki III.
Mary is also survived by many cousins, nieces, and nephews, whom she loved with all her heart.
Mary has many wonderful memories spent with her family in Ocean City, NJ, laughing on the beach and sharing ice cream, pizza, and Monkey Bread.
Mary spent much of her time working in her community, enjoying jobs at the Mt. Penn Elementary School and the Stoney Creek Middle School. She also spent many years as the manager of the concession stand at Antietam Pool. Most recently, she was the office manager for the Office of Dr. Robert E. Noga, DDS.
As a volunteer, Mary was the Treasurer for the Mt. Penn playground and the President for the Central Catholic Mother's club. Mary spent many years helping to operate the pierogi stand at St Catharine's bazaar, as well as operating the concession stand for Central Catholic's football games at Vincent Shemanski Stadium in Exeter. She fed the Antietam Valley.
Mary was always on the dance floor. Berks County could watch her moves on BCTV's dance party or at one of the many venues she and Tom travelled to each week to share their love of dancing.
Mary loved St. Catharine of Siena Parish, where she spent many years as a Eucharistic Minister.
A Mass of Christian Burial Mass will be held on Monday, April 7, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Catharine of Siena Roman Catholic Church, 4975 Boyertown Pike, Exeter, PA 19606. Visitation with the family will be held from 10:00 a.m. until the start of the Mass. Committal will be private.
Memorial donations can be made to St. Catharine of Siena Roman Catholic Church at the address above.
Mary's legacy of love and dedication to her family and community will be remembered and cherished by all who knew her.
Edward J. Kuhn Funeral Home, Inc. is honored to serve the Malecki family. Condolences may be expressed at kuhnfuneralhomes.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Obituary published on Legacy.com by WFMZ-TV 69 News on Mar. 31, 2025.

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Marilyn Johnson

April 7, 2025

I met Mary on the dance floor when Phil Long had his dances. She was fun to be with and always dancing and kidding around. My prayers are with Tom , family and other friends. May she RIP

Edward Nangle

April 7, 2025

Mary was my friend for many years as the sister of my childhood buddy, Nick Rapp. She was always a true sister to Nick all the years that have passed from elementary school to adulthood, and retirement. Condolences to Tommy, Family members and of course NICK!! I hope Tommy and family are able to bear the loss of Mary's life and remember her as the Wife, Mother and Grandmother of her family.

Charlette and ED

Jim Hartman

April 2, 2025

To me Mary will forever be a velveteen armor plated blanket that elicited caring warmth as well as tenacious strength. She was a praetorian guard concerning others tribulations of pain and missteps in life.
In this cold world her very presence refuted the darkness of man's selfish nature. Mary's choice was always selfless without regret and her light would always lead you home!

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Joyce Zeiber

March 31, 2025

Our sincere condolences to the family with Mary's passing. Jim & Joyce Zeiber

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St. Catharine of Siena Roman Catholic Church

4975 Boyertown Pike, READING, PA 19606

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Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

St. Catharine of Siena Roman Catholic Church

4975 Boyertown Pike, READING, PA 19606

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