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Gary M. Behm

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Gary Behm Obituary

Gary Michael Behm, 68, of Middletown, loving husband of Susan (Grimaldi) Behm, passed away on June 14, 2025. Born in Middletown to Gerald R. Behm Sr. and Elizabeth (Dyer) Behm, Gary dedicated his life to his family and community. As a devoted coach and volunteer with the Middletown Little League, he touched the lives of countless young players. He is survived by his wife Susan; children Brendan (Caitlin Huynh) and Jess (Jason Woods); cherished granddaughter Harper; sister Kim Modlesky Behm (Holly); brother Gerald Behm Jr.; and beloved dogs Champ, Scooby, and Tommy. Visitation will be held on Thursday June 19th from 10 to 11 a.m. followed by a funeral service at 11 a.m. at Biega Funeral Home, 3 Silver St. Middletown. Burial at Indian Hill Cemetery will follow. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to the CT Humane Society in Gary's memory. To share memories or express condolences online please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.

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Published by WFSB on Jul. 30, 2025.

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10:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Biega Funeral Home

3 Silver Street, Middletown, CT 06457

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19

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

Biega Funeral Home

3 Silver Street, Middletown, CT 06457

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