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Irene Silberstein Obituary

Irene (Getzell) Silberstein, 84, adored wife of Allen Silberstein, M.D., for 63 years, passed away on July 1, 2025, after an eight-year battle with cancer. The daughter of Solomon and Rebecca Getzell, she was raised in Brooklyn, N.Y., where she graduated summa cum laude from Brooklyn College and was elected to Phi Beta Kappa. She subsequently taught high school English in Brooklyn and in San Francisco. In 1969 she moved to the Middletown area so that her husband could begin his practice as a member of the radiology team at Middlesex Hospital, and where he originated the Radiation Oncology Department. In Portland, she and her husband raised their children, Corey Silberstein and Dena Silberstein, whom she loved fiercely. She created a home filled with love, delicious food, and beauty. A devoted friend to many, she was full of energy, kindness, and always worked to make others happy, particularly with her unique sense of humor. She worked tirelessly with local organizations, in particular as a past president of Middletown's Hadassah chapter, for whom she wrote and directed musical plays for many years. She published one novel, "Shrink Wrapped," and completed another novel, yet unpublished. A corporator of Middlesex Hospital, she was a charter member of both the Sari A. Rosenbaum Fund for Women & Girls at the Community Foundation of Middlesex County and of Middletown's Kidcity. She also wrote and recorded advertising copy for WCNX radio. In addition to her husband and children, she is survived by two brothers, Jeffrey Getzell and Michael (Linda) Getzell, M.D.; a sister-in-law, Gail Zaslow; a brother-in-law, Leonard (Mia) Silberstein; and a large extended group of family and friends. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Compassion and Choices, P.O. Box 485, Etna, NH 03750-0485. Funeral services will be held on Sunday, July 6th at 11:00 am at Congregation Adath Israel Synagogue, 8 Broad Street, Middletown. Burial will follow in Indian Hill Cemetery. To share memories or send condolences to the family, please visit www.doolittlefuneralservice.com. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Irene (Getzell) Silberstein, please visit our floral store.

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Published by WFSB from Jul. 3 to Jul. 4, 2025.

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Dawn (Ymca)

July 18, 2025

Irene will be missed. She was a wonderful person. Sending thoughts and prayers to the family.

Nancy Glick and Randy Solomon

July 15, 2025

We are so sorry. When I think of Irene I will remember her warm, friendly smile and the way she seemed to float across a dance floor in the arms of the love of her life...

Margaret Flinter

July 4, 2025

I am so deeply sorry to hear this...also very grateful that I had the opportunity to see and talk with Irene at an event at Wadsworth this Spring, when she shared the news of her illness. Like everyone, I admired her grace, wit, elegance, and obvious love and devotion to her husband, and her contributions to the community. I am so, so sorry, Dr. Silberstein, for your loss. Margaret Flinter and Paul Freundlich

Bonnie Lawrence

July 4, 2025

My condolences go out to Dr. Silberstein and family. May the angels bring you comfort at this time.

Nancy Richards

July 4, 2025

My condolences to Irene´s family. This makes me so sad to read; Irene joined my book group, to talk about her book! It was a lovely evening.
I loved dancing with Irene at the Y.

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