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Viva Wittler Obituary

Viva Jo "Vi" Wittler, 83, of Valley Park, Missouri, passed away peacefully on August 25, 2025, in St. Louis, Missouri, with her daughters by her side. She was born on November 14, 1941, in Macomb, Illinois, to the late Wayne and Josephine Barth.Family was Vi's greatest joy. She was the proud mother of four daughters: Pamela (Eric) Miller of St. Louis, MO; Brenda (Mike) Howsmon of St. Louis, MO; Cynthia (Kent) Humphrey of Kansas City, MO; and Michelle (Marshall) McGrath of Camdenton, MO. She cherished her grandchildren, Tara (Zach) McGovern, Adam (Jess) Miller, James Howsmon, and Josh (Rachel) Howsmon, and delighted in being "Gigi" to her great-grandchildren, Graham and Emma McGovern.She was preceded in death by her parents, Wayne and Josephine Barth, and her grandparents, Charles and Portia Hodges, and Pete and Myrtle Barth. She is survived by her brothers, Douglas Deems of Kingman, AZ, and Gregory Deems of Cortez, CO, along with extended family and dear friends.Vi graduated from Northwestern High School in Blandinsville, IL, and attended Bradley University. Her life was defined by passion, creativity, and adventure. Music was a lifelong love - she directed her church choir and performed in local theater productions. She embraced exploration as a flight attendant for Braniff Airlines, later worked as a legal secretary with expertise in shorthand, and found great success in direct sales and recruiting with Sarah Coventry and Contempo Fashions. For more than two decades, she excelled as a real estate broker, managing hundreds of agents throughout the St. Louis area. A natural leader, she was also a gifted motivational speaker and trainer who inspired many.In her later years, Vi pursued her love of animals through showing and breeding her beloved Chinese Cresteds. This passion led to treasured friendships, travel to shows across the country, and the honor of winning awards at both the Westminster Dog Show in New York City and the Eukanuba Classic in Florida.Vi was blessed with a wonderful family, dear friends, and a rich, fulfilling life. She lit up a room and left sparkles wherever she went. Literally, she left sparkles! Her creativity and artistic abilities shone through until the very end. She requested that her memorial be filled with good music and laughter and encouraged us all to share and hold dear our funniest memories of her.In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to The American Heart Association (https://ahatribute.funraise.org/fundraiser/vi-wittler) or Pet Rescue Network (https://petrescuenetworkstl.com/donate/) in her memory. A celebration of Vi's life will be held on Friday, September 5, 2025, at Schrader Funeral Home in Manchester, MO. A graveside service will follow at a later date in Blandinsville, IL. Grave side services will be held on Saturday, September 27, 2025 at 2 p.m. at Glade City Cemetery in Blandinsville with Deacon Larry Adams officiating. Clugston-Tibbitts Funeral Home in Blandinsville is in charge of local arrangements. You may leave condolences and sign the guest book online at clugston-tibbitts.com. To send flowers to the family or plant a tree in memory of Viva Jo Wittler, please visit our floral store.

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Published by WGEM on Sep. 11, 2025.

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Marie Pitlyk Tate

September 6, 2025

I have so many memories of your mom. I can still see her smile and hear her laugh, always with that twinkle in her eye. I’m grateful for Facebook, because it gave us the chance to stay connected over the years.
She made such an impression on me. In fact, I even named my old diary “Vi,” because she was that special.
I couldn’t be there yesterday, but please know I owe you all a hug. You are in my prayers and always in my heart.

Shelly and Rich Wolf

September 5, 2025

We are so sorry for your loss Brenda and family .. know that we are thinking of you all for strength and comfort at this tough time . You are in our thoughts and prayers .

Bradley Miller

September 4, 2025

Condolences and hugs to all the Pitlyk girls. VI was a wonderful person, mother and grandmother. Love, Brad and Susan Miller

Susan Beck

September 4, 2025

In loving memory of a wonderful person; she will be missed by many!

Dawn Marquart (Richards)

September 4, 2025

I am really sorry to hear that your mom passed away. You girls were the luckiest to have a wonderful mom who was always brimming with personality and love! I have been thinking of all of you this week and will continue to keep you all in my prayers.

Brenda McGovern

September 4, 2025

I will miss her - the holidays won't be the same. She was a great lady.

Sharon Willmann

August 30, 2025

So nice to have known Vi. Will always remember her friendliness and charm.
Sharon Miller Willmann

Randy Killip

August 29, 2025

She was everything everyone said she was! Genuine as they come ! Nothing phony about her at all! The world needs more like her!

Martha Campbell

August 29, 2025

Your friendship has meant so much to me since meeting you the first time at the dog show.
And all the laughs we had with Porscha" bouncing up and down on my feet and Czar doing his little dance for you when you patted him on his rear. Going to miss you so much. ❤

Pam Browne

August 29, 2025

I miss you and love you. Think of gulf shores and you everyday.

Scarlet(to you) Carolyn Boren

August 29, 2025

I will carry your love and support in my heart forever, Truly, you were a God Given Gift to me. I cherish each and every moment we enjoyed together, I’m so grateful that God crossed our path! Love you forever! Meet you in Heaven! ✝❤

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5

Celebration of Life

3:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO 63011

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5

Memorial service

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Schrader Funeral Home And Crematory

14960 Manchester Rd., Ballwin, MO 63011

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