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Sara Thatcher Obituary

Sara Jane (Cook) Thatcher, 75, wife of John Gardener Thatcher, Jr, of Clark Road, Ipswich, died December 24, 2012 following her brief illness. Born in Melrose December 2, 1937, she was the only child of the late Charles W. and Marjorie J. (Rowe) Cook. Raised in Wakefield she was a graduate of Brimmer and May School in Boston. Married on October 6, 1984 in the First Parish Congregational Church in Wakefield, the Thatchers made their home in Ipswich. Mrs. Thatcher was the owner and operator of the Arnold House Nursing Home in Stoneham, which had been founded by her mother in 1949. She was a member of the Stoneham Chamber of Commerce for over thirty years. She faithfully kept her Thursday appointment to have her hair and nails done, enjoyed boating, reading, playing the piano and spending time with her family. In addition, to her husband of twenty-eight years, she is survived by her children Kimberly Jane Arpin and her husband Roger of Brookline, NH, Jil Sullivan and her husband Mark of South Boston, Robert Cox and his wife AnnMarie of Ipswich; stepchildren, Susan Martin and her husband Wayne of Merrimac, NH, Rebecca Thatcher-Lord and her husband Thomas of Campton, NH and John G. Thatcher III and his wife Karen of Billerica; sixteen grandchildren and one great grandchild. Her Funeral Service was held 11am Saturday, December 29, 2012 in the Ascension Memorial Church, 31 County Street, Ipswich. Family and friends were welcomed. Visiting hours were Friday 4 to 8 pm in the Whittier-Porter Funeral Home, 6 High Street, Ipswich. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions in her name may be made to VNA of Middlesex East Visiting Nurse Hospice, Suite 17, 607 North Ave., Wakefield, MA 01880. For directions and or to leave a condolence please visit www.whittier-porter.com

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Published by The Ipswich Chronicle from Dec. 28, 2012 to Jan. 4, 2013.

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January 5, 2013

Dear John and family, Sally was one special lady, and no words will be able to express our sadness. Sally was a true friend to us, more than that she was part of our family and we loved her dearly. Our love and thoughts are with you at this time. Love Sue and Bill and Family.

Sharon & Tom Iovanni

December 31, 2012

Dear John and family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you as you mourn your loss. Sally was a true treasure - a beautiful, gracious, caring woman who gave all she had to her family, her residents and all those with whom she came in contact. Stoneham is a better place because of Sally and she will be truly missed by all of us who knew and loved her.

December 29, 2012

John and Family, The Waterfront will not be the same without her. She was dedicated and always willing
to pitch in and help. She was certainly one of a kind. She leaves so many friends that will miss her. It is our sorrow that she is no longer here.
Dianne and Cliff

Jeanne Craigie

December 28, 2012

John and Family,
Sally was one of the "Grand Ladies" of Stoneham for so many years! She was so devoted to the Arnold House and the Town and left her mark in so many hearts. Please accept our sincere sympathies and prayers during these difficult days!May the angels carry her to Paradise!

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December 28, 2012

John and Family,
Sally was one of the Grand Ladies of Stoneham for so many years. Her devotion to the Arnold House Family and the Town will be dearly missed. Please accept our heartfelt prayers and sympathies during this difficult time!!
Jeanne and Paul Craigie

December 28, 2012

Please accept the heatfelt sympathy of our family. Sally was a kind, energetic and generous woman and will be missed by all.
Our Condolences to all of you.
The Hart Family of Woburn,MA.

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