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Alfred Butler Obituary

Alfred Rood Butler, 65, passed away peacefully at home in Wilton, CT on June 24, 2016, surrounded by his loving family. Fred was born in Manchester, CT, graduated from Eastern Connecticut State University and served as a member of the Army National Guard. He made a career in the insurance industry for 43 years and was a partner in the Pierson & Smith Agency which was recently acquired by First Niagara. His passions were golf, singing, with both the Wilton Singers and church choirs, and scouting. Fred was passionate about his family and deeply committed to his wife of 43 years, Tina (Twomey) Butler. They married in 1973 and together raised two children, Andrew Butler and Erica Butler and lovingly welcomed their partners Marielle Butler and Catherine Lomauro. He will also be missed by his grandchildren Morgane, Savannah, and Jeremiah Butler, his siblings Barbara Allison and David Butler, and his fathers second wife Adeline Butler. He was predeceased by his parents Charles Dwelley Butler and Evelyn Rood Butler. Relatives and Friends are welcome at Bouton Funeral Home 31 West Church Street in Georgetown, CT on Monday June 27th from 4pm-8pm. A service will be held at the Wilton Baptist Church 254 Danbury Road Wilton, CT on Tuesday June 28th at 11:00am. The burial will be private at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in his honor are welcome, directed to one of the following: Wilton Singers Sponsorship Program, c/o Vivian Lee-Shiue, 116 Wild Duck Road, Wilton, CT 06897; Boy Scouts of America Connecticut Yankee Council, 60 Wellington Rd., Milford, CT 06460; Visiting Nurse & Hospice of Fairfield County, P.O. Box 489, Wilton, CT 06897.

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Published by The Cape Codder from Jun. 28 to Jul. 8, 2016.

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David Kelly

June 20, 2019

I think about Fred very often. His friendship touched me more than any person I have ever known.

Geoffrey & Christina Norman

July 14, 2016

We will miss Fred in so many ways ... as a giver of great hugs, a reliable source of practical advice, always fun to have dinner with Fred and Tina, occasional golfing buddy (even on a snowy January 1st at Woodway!), a mainstay of the Wilton Singers ... good man, good friend, Fred was one of the best ...

July 12, 2016

May the God of all comfort be with the family.

Lynn Conant

July 2, 2016

Thoughts and prayers to you all.

Kent Zelle

July 1, 2016

I was so sorry to hear about Fred's passing. I enjoyed our interactions over the years and he will be missed on Nauset Heights. I hope you and your family are doing as well as can be and offer my condolences.

Hope to see you guys on the cape sometime. Let me know if you are coming up..

June 29, 2016

I am saddened to hear about Fred's passing. Our Friday nights at the Conants will remain a fond memory. We will also remember the many concerts that we attended with good friends. Rest in peace,Fred. My prayers are with you Tina, Andy and Erica.

mike foley

June 29, 2016

Hi Tina: Bill Baker's just told me of Fred's passing. I'm so sorry for your loss. We've lost touch over the years but, needless to say, I remember m-a-n-y a moment involving both your Mom and Dad and often felt part of the home-group on Porter St.

I recall that you and Fred were married the same year as Kathy and I. As you may have heard, Kathy died on April 28th after some years of battling lots of issues.

I hope you find peace and acceptance for your new life. I'm still in the process but things are coming together. My best to all.

Mike (Foley)

Jenifer Russell

June 28, 2016

I am so sad and so sorry for your loss. Fred was a loving and amazing man whose life was cut too short. I am praying for peace for all of you. I am so sorry I was not able to say goodbye with you all.

Ann Rabinowitz

June 26, 2016

Tina, Andrew and Erica, Arnie and I are so sorry for your loss.
Fred was such a family man and a truly kind person. May your memories of him bring you peace.

David Kelly

June 25, 2016

Fred was by definition the best friend a person could ever have. He will be greatly missed by Michele and me.

Jon & Patty Rudiger

June 25, 2016

Remembered for his fierce loyalty to friends, family, co-workers, and issues that mattered to him. We love you Freddie.

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