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Frederick Ayers Obituary

Frederick Slaven Ayers of Scituate, passed away on April 13, 2021, peacefully at home, with his wife, Elizabeth, after a 2-year battle with ALS. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his 4 children, Michael (Ginny) Ayers, Sarah (David) Hull, Timothy (Amy) Ayers and Katherine (Mike Diamantopolous) Ayers and grandchildren, Jack (Tricia) Ayers, Meg Ayers, Luke Ayers, Sam Hull, Coco Hull, Maggie Ayers, Nate Ayers, Titus Breen, Lilly Diamantopolous and Callie Diamantopolous. He is also survived by his sister Margaret Thompson, his brother Raymond (Marte) Ayers and his dog Ed. He will be missed by his friends and colleagues from all aspects of his long and interesting life. Fred was an Eagle Scout at age 14 and a caddie at Cohasset Country Club, receiving a Francis Ouimet scholarship which helped him to attend Holy Cross College, followed by Tufts Medical School. After training at Boston City Hospital, he served in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam era, reaching the rank of LCDR by age 28. He joined the staff of South Shore Hospital (SSH) in 1972, serving until 2018. He was well known for his leadership roles at SSH where he worked as an orthopedic surgeon and became Chairman of Surgery. From the CEO to the hard-working people who cleared the sidewalks and swept the floor, his devotion to staff, patients and the community of the South Shore was admirable. Known for his blue-collar, lead-by-example style, he helped usher in a new age of health care and was a pioneer in arthroscopic orthopedic surgery. Away from the work he enjoyed sailing, skiing, hiking, drinking bourbon, spending time in the company large dogs and traveling the world with his beautiful bride and friends. He never missed an opportunity to spend quality time with his family or to teach them the virtues of getting up early on weekends to do yard work. In his later years, he discovered a talent and passion for wood turning. He was quick with his wit, gifted with his hands, passionate with his heart and always hungry with his mind. A lifelong learner, he always shared his opinions, whether wanted or not. He regularly practiced random acts of kindness such as routinely paying the toll for the car behind him. Even though he was dying, he kept learning. He knew more about ALS than most, and likely he will give Stephen Hawking a run for his money in Heaven. Visitation will be held at McNamara-Sparrell Funeral Home, 160 South Main Street, Cohasset, on Thursday, April 29, from 6-9 p.m. A funeral Mass will be held at St. Mary of the Nativity Church, 1 Kent Street, Scituate, at 10 a.m. on Friday, April 30. Church capacity is limited, and masks and social distancing will be required. Please RSVP to services and for an online guest book, please visit www.mcnamara-sparrell.com. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Compassionate Care ALS in Fred's name at https://ccals.org/donate/ or at PO Box 1052, West Falmouth, MA 02574.

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Published by The Scituate Mariner from Apr. 27 to Apr. 29, 2021.

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Tom Hughson, S.J., HC '61

January 4, 2022

My condolences, prayers, and remembrance at Mass for Fred, a Holy Cross classmate, and his family.

John Fennel Hamburg NY

January 3, 2022

I met Fred & Betty when I was stationed @ Beaufort SC (Naval Hospital) 1968/69. Still have fond memories of their son Michael & their Great Dane (Baron). Betty, I am sorry for your loss.

May 1, 2021

Rip Dr Ayers prayers with ur family . Paula

Albert Sullivan

April 30, 2021

Fred graduated a year ahead of me a Hingham HS and Holy Cross. We both waited table and skated for HC. And both ended up at SS Hospital. A great guy. RIP

Marty O'Connor

April 29, 2021

Greatly enjoyed the photo album giving us a look into Fred's life. Remember Fred from our Holy Cross days, he was always a down to earth cordial soul. He accomplished a lot in his life, served his country honorably, served his community well and he and Elizabeth served their family well. Marty O'Connor, classmate '61'.

gert condon

April 28, 2021

Dr. Ayers was one of the best men that i have ever known. i worked as clerk at SSH many years ago, and he was always making all of us laugh & feel like we were part of the team.
My sincere condolences to all of his family & friends.

Brenda & Harry Titus

April 28, 2021

Our condolences to the Ayers family, we know your loss is deep. We only knew Fred the last few years of his life, but admired him greatly and enjoyed his company. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Brenda & Harry Titus

Helen Jablonski

April 28, 2021

Life well lived...... Great Orthopedic Surgeon

Thomas Hughson

April 28, 2021

Happy memories of Fred at Holy Cross, Class of '61. My condolences and prayers to family and friends. Tom Hughson SJ '61.

Kelly

April 28, 2021

To the Ayer's family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May all the wonderful memories of Fred help you find peace in the coming days. Sincerely, Bill Rogers and Kelly Rogers Ellis (Bill and Kay Rogers children)

Rosemarie Rodophele

April 27, 2021

Dr Ayers treated both of my children in the 70’s and was kind and compassionate to the kids and also to the worried mother I was then. He made a huge impression on me. I remember him still with much fondness. Sincerely, Rosemarie Rodophele

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St. Mary of the Nativity Church

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