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2011

Ann Decaneas Obituary

Ann (Hoty) Decaneas, 92, formerly of Weston, MA, and Sagamore Beach, MA, died peacefully on August 22, 2011 at her home in Marina Bay, Quincy, MA.

She was born on February 11th, 1919 in Toledo, Ohio to Antony P. and Argero (Kakludis) Hoty. She attended college at The Cleveland Institute of Art, in Cleveland, Ohio, before marrying Dr. Demetre J. Decaneas and moving to Boston, MA. She managed the office for her husband’s medical practice for many years. After moving to Weston, MA in 1958, she and her husband were founding members of St. Demetrios Church in Weston, MA and she was active in The International Institute of Boston and Weston Rombas. She was also a long time member of the E.O.K. (Hellenic Womens’ Club of Boston) and served as president from 1978-80, and the St. Demetrios Philoppochos, and various other causes. She was an avid cook, gracious hostess and intrepid traveler. In order to further her love of Paris and French culture, she began studying French when she was 80.

She was the inspiration to many as the primary caretaker for her husband, Dr. Demetre J. Decaneas, who suffered in his later years from Alzheimer’s disease. For more than fifteen years, she tenderly cared for his every need at their home in Weston.

She will be remembered for her good humor, her culinary expertise, her sense of adventure, and her never faltering grace.

Mrs. Decaneas was predeceased by her husband, Dr. Demetre J. Decaneas, and her daughter-in-law, Nancy Maclaurin Decaneas.

She was the loving mother of John D. Decaneas of Barefoot Bay, Florida, Antony D. Decaneas and his wife, Ellen, of Revere, MA, and Peter R. Decaneas and his wife, Karen, of Londonderry, NH. She was a devoted grandmother to her grandchildren, Nick Decaneas and his wife, Kate Nemens, Alexander Decaneas and his wife, Amy, William Decaneas and his wife, Rebecca, Arthur Decaneas, Andrea Decaneas, and William Baldelli. She delighted in being a great-grandmother to Eliza Decaneas, and was a favorite aunt of many nephews and nieces. She was preceded in death by her siblings George A. Hoty, Nicholas A. Hoty, Nike Vasilakes, Michael A. Hoty, Mary Nenopoulos, and Peter A. Hoty.

Funeral services will be held on Saturday, August 27, 2011 at 10:30am in St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church, 57 Brown Street, Weston. Interment will follow in Linwood Cemetery, Weston. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend a visitation on Friday, August 26, 2011 from 5:00 – 8:00 pm in St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church, 57 Brown Street, Weston.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Demetre J. Decaneas and Ann Hoty Decaneas Scholarship Fund, 101 Huntington Ave # 200, Boston, MA 02199-7672.

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Published by The Wayland Town Crier from Aug. 23 to Aug. 30, 2011.

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dorothy Sophios Graham

September 1, 2011

Dear John, Peter, and Tony,
Today I read in the Hellenic Voice about the death of your Mom,my mother's dearest friend and beloved to me for 70 years and my husband for almost 50 years.
She was cherished by the entire Sophios family. We last saw her at her 80th birthday party-a beautiful tribute to a beautiful lady. We wish we had lived closer so as to have seen her these past years,and are heartbroken that we didn't know of her passing so that we could have driven to Weston for her funeral.
You were all very fortunate to have had her as your Mom and grandmother. We know that your cherished memories of her will sustain you in your grief.

Dorothy Sophios Graham, Avon, CT

Dennis and Jane Piechota

August 26, 2011

We never felt more welcomed than we did when Mrs. Decaneas met us at her door.

stephanie Dadiskos

August 26, 2011

I shall always remeber your mother with such fondness she was a sweet lady , my thoughts an prayers are with the whole family stephanie Dadiskos and family

Susan James Leyva

August 26, 2011

Nick,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family. Remember the good times and cherish those memories.

Panetha Nychis Ott

August 24, 2011

Dear John, Tony, Peter and all the Decaneas clan,

One day, when I was 4 years old, my Nouna invited me to her house for the weekend. I loved going to my Nouna's and hanging out in the kitchen (far more interesting than the discussions in the living room). But that weekend was one I never forgot because she took me to the shoe store. I didn't much like shoe stores, but I had always coveted a pair of shiny red shoes. No one every got me any red shoes. But you know what? My Nouna got me the shoes I always wanted. At the sight of those shoes, Dorothy would have surely abandoned every hope of ever getting back to Kansas with her ruby slippers, Cinderella's Prince would have discarded the glass shoes and forgotten about Cinderella, and their respective godmothers would have resigned in shame from fairyhood. MY shoes took me to far more interesting places than Kansas or the ball, and so did my godmother. She taught me a lot about a lot, just by being there. Who can forget the trips to Sagamore? And who can forget the big Greek celebrations in Weston at every holiday, when there were so many different dishes that they had to set up a table in the basement to hold them all? Peter taught us to get to the table early so that we could get our fair share of phyllo from each pita. I was fortunate to have the best Nouna - and Nouno - ever. They taught me about kindness.
I don't know where those shiny red shoes are, but they will always be as magical as the fairy godmother who gave them to me.
Love, Panetha

August 23, 2011

Nick, Kate, Tony, Ellen, Will, Becky and Eliza: Both Doug and I are so sorry for the passing of the greatest Yia-yia ever. I will always cherish my memories of Ann, her sharing of Greek recipes with me, and her fantastic cooking. Love you all,

Susan and Doug Nemens

Shawn Cody Elinoff

August 23, 2011

Tony, Nick, Will. I'm so sorry for your loss. She was an amazing woman. I consider myself blessed to have known her. And I cherish the fond memories of her in Weston and on the Cape. Lots of love. Shawn

August 23, 2011

Dear Tony and family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
Betsy Shortell

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