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Helen Ward Mannix

1931 - 2019

Helen Ward Mannix obituary, 1931-2019, Wilton, CT

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1931

DIED

2019

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Helen Mannix Obituary

Helen Ward Sperry Mannix
Helen Ward Sperry Mannix, of Wilton, Connecticut, died peacefully at her home on Nod Hill Road, on November 9, 2019, surrounded by her family.
Born to Elmer A. and Helen (Duffy) Sperry, Jr., in Brooklyn, New York, in 1931, she was the third of their 5 children. Helen Ward attended the Brearley School in Manhattan until her family moved to 200 Nod Hill Road in Wilton, Connecticut, in 1941. She then attended the Gilbert & Bennett School in the Georgetown section of Wilton. Helen Ward graduated from the Convent of the Sacred Heart, in Greenwich, Connecticut, and subsequently graduated from Newton College of the Sacred Heart (now part of Boston College), in Newton, Massachusetts, with double majors in music and mathematics.
Throughout her life, Helen Ward was a creative and inventive spirit taking after her father, Elmer A. Sperry Jr., her grandfather and her uncle, who were aviation pioneers inventing the autopilot, gyrocompass, artificial horizon, and gyrostabilizer, among many other innovations.
When she was 17 years old, Helen Ward met her beloved husband of 51 years, the late John F. Mannix. Together they built a home on Nod Hill Road, adjacent to the Sperry homestead in Wilton, and raised their eight children. The center of Helen Ward's life was her family. She loved being a wife and mother above all. She brought her love of the outdoors, her creative talents, and her inventive, adventurous spirit to her family, and she gave great support to her husband in his business and political careers as well as in his philanthropic endeavors. Together, the family actively enjoyed a range of activities: spending summers at their home on Pocomo Point, Nantucket; travels exploring the US and Europe; and sports and cultural activities. A life-long pianist, painter and photographer, Helen Ward imbued her love of the arts in her children. Active in her church, Our Lady of Fatima Parish, as well as in many charitable and community organizations including the Wilton Candlelight Concerts and the semiannual Minks to Sinks sale, Helen Ward was truly an involved and committed citizen during her 76 years in Wilton.
Helen Ward is survived by her eight children: John F. Mannix, Jr., of Durango, Colorado; Helen W. Mannix, of Wellesley, Massachusetts; Mary M. DeBlois, of Sherborn, Massachusetts; Catherine J. Mannix, of Redding, Connecticut; Sheila A. Mannix, of Long Grove, Illinois; Lawrence S. Mannix and his wife, Deidre, of Wilton; Aileen T. Mannix and her husband, Eric Friedenson, of Bethesda, Maryland; and James H. Mannix and his wife, Ann Margaret, of Wilton. In addition, she is survived by sixteen grandchildren; her sister, Ann McGrath; and her brother, Richard Sperry; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Visiting hours will be held at Our Lady of Fatima Church, 229 Danbury Road, Wilton, Connecticut, on Wednesday, November 13, 2019, 6-8 p.m. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at Our Lady of Fatima Church, Wilton, on Thursday, November 14, at 10 a.m.
The family requests that in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to either the Family & Children's Agency, Norwalk, Connecticut, or Our Lady of Fatima Church, Wilton, Connecticut. To offer the family online condolences visit www.boutonfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Wilton Bulletin & The Hour on Nov. 11, 2019.

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Irene Rosenberg

November 5, 2022

I think of Wardie often, and miss her at every piano group! Sending hugs...

November 13, 2019

Deepest sympathy Bobbi and Bill Esposito

November 13, 2019

I also knew Wardie through the Wilton Piano Group. She was a quietly remarkable person - humble about her piano playing and yet a wonderful musician; relaxed and welcoming as a hostess that made us comfortable in her glorious home; mother of 8 and devoted grandmother who made everything look easy. A light has gone out with her passing, and I will truly miss her.

Deepest condolences to her family,
Irene Rosenberg

November 12, 2019

I got to know her about 14 years ago from Wilton Piano Group getting together every month to show what we were practicing at the time. She was quite a good musician. We loved her house with the beautiful lake view when she hosted. She always had the big fire place going during the winter month. What I remember most of all is her big smile, the twinkling eyes and cheerful voice. She made us feel so comfortable and happy because she was a relaxed and happy person. We will miss her so much! Rest in Peace, Wardie!
With much Love and Wonderful Memories, Hiroko M. Dutton

Drew / Nancy Norman

November 12, 2019

To the Mannix Family,

The Norman family would like to send there condolences to your family. Your mom was a wonderful person and made are live better for knowing her! Now she is with all her friends and loved ones once again! Remember all the good times and her memory alive!

Sending our love.

Drew, Nancy, (Marcia + Chuck from heaven)

November 12, 2019

My heartfelt condolences. As you honor a life well lived, may your hearts be filled with joy and laughter of happy times shared with Helen. May your treasured memories bring you peace.

Nancy & Al Mather

November 11, 2019

Wardie was such a good neighbor and friend to so many of us who moved to Wilton during the 1960's...one of the warmest of those who'd moved there years before us. Our favorite memory is watching her skate on Pope's pond one crisp winter day. John was there, and together we watched her glide about effortlessly. On remarking on her skill, John confided to us that when she was living in New York City she skated for the Ice Follies. We believed him totally, which must have given him great satisfaction. Our great regret is that we never got to verify what John told us. Her daughter Eileen and our daughter Laura met in Wilton and have been great friends ever since. Wardie will be so missed. Nancy and Al Mather

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