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Arlis Poindexter Obituary

Poindexter, Arlis Ray

October 29, 1965 - April 23, 2023

Arlis Ray Poindexter, 66, of Clemmons, N.C., passed away on Sunday, April 23, 2023. Arlis was born on October 29, 1956 to J.R. and Juanita Poindexter in Winston-Salem. He grew up in Southfork and Advance and attended West Forsyth High School. Arlis graduated from Forsyth Tech in 1977 with a degree in Business Administration and worked at Poindexter Lumber Company. Arlis met Diane Schrock and the two were married at Tanglewood Chapel on May 24th, 1985. Arlis and Diane were married for 37 years until his passing. They have two children, Dan and Julie, as well as a granddaughter, Molly. Arlis was a devoted husband and father and loved spending time with his family. He was especially involved in Julie and Dan's sports careers, committing many weekends to coaching and attending games and otherwise supporting their basketball, softball, and baseball teams. Arlis was a competitive golfer and a longtime member at Grandview Golf Course and Reynolds Park. He spent many good hours on the course with his close friends Sath Simmons, Keith Hamby, and Clayton Peele, and always looked forward to their annual beach golf trips. Arlis was a dedicated Boston Red Sox fan and could often be found in the evenings watching Sox games on TV. He was an avid fan of 60's and 70's rock music, especially the Beatles, and his expansive knowledge of the genre was matched only by his sizable album collection. Arlis enjoyed the outdoors, landscaping, and vegetable gardening, and was known in later years for his prodigious tomato harvests. Arlis is preceded in death by his father, J.R. Poindexter, and his mother, Juanita Poindexter. He is survived by his wife, Diane; his brother, Joe; his sister, Susan; his children, Julie and Dan; and his granddaughter, Molly. Arlis's family would like to thank the dedicated staff of Homestead Hills Assisted Living Facility in Winston-Salem, who provided Arlis with excellent care in his final years. They would also like to thank Arlis's good friend Paul Mullen, who provided comfort and companionship to Arlis and will preside over his funeral services. A visitation will be held on Wednesday, April 26th, 2023, from 6 to 8 p.m. at Hayworth - Miller Kinderton Chapel. A graveside service will be held on Thursday, April 27th, 2023, at 2 p.m. at Westlawn Gardens of Memory in Clemmons, N.C. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Trellis Supportive Care, 101 Hospice Lane, Winston-Salem, NC, 27103 or a charitable organization of your choice. Online condolences may be made at www.hayworth-miller.com

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Apr. 25, 2023.

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Denise January

June 10, 2023

I was just looking for the date of transition for my grandfather. He had the same name and I found you. I am so sorry for the family's loss.

Terry Morris

April 27, 2023

I had know Arlis many years ago, playing softball with him and many of his friends. What a nice guy. I had heard his health wasn´t that well. Our family went tru some of the same things. Just heard the news today about him. I to know many of his friends. I know he will be missed. Never heard anyone saying anything but good things about Arlis. I know this has been very hard on you all. He will be at peace. Those gates will be wide open for such a good guy.

Jimmy baker

April 26, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Gerry Davis

April 25, 2023

I coached with Arlis a long time ago at Southwest Forsyth Little League. He was just a genuinely good guy. All of his family are in my thoughts today.

Melinda Matlock Kyle

April 25, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Linda Freeman (Homestead Hills)

April 25, 2023

My prayers are with you and your family. All of you have gone thru such a heartbreaking journey. I am certainly going to miss you and Arlis, as we have all become a family. I pray Gods hands around all of u in the coming days. Arlis was such a love and you both will always have a special place in my heart. May God give you comfort, strength and peace in the days ahead.

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Apr

26

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Hayworth-Miller Funeral Home Kinderton Chapel - Advance

108 East Kinderton Way, Advance, NC 27006

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27

Graveside service

2:00 p.m.

Westlawn Gardens of Memory

Clemmons, NC

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