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E. J. Hanes Obituary

HANES CLEMMONS - E. J. Hanes, age 71, of Sandhurst Drive, Clemmons, beloved father and grandfather passed away unexpectedly Thursday, Sept. 9, 2010 at his home. A gathering of family and friends will be held at Davidson Funeral Home, Hickory Tree Chapel on Sunday, Sept. 12, from 4 until 6 p.m. and at other times at the home of son Brian, 3226 N. NC Highway 150, Lexington. E. J. was born in Davidson County on October 16, 1938 to Elmer James Hanes, Sr. and Ruth Pickett Hanes. He was owner and President of E J Hanes Construction, Inc. He was a successful entrepreneur and businessman. He will be truly missed by his family and many friends. He served his country in the US Air Force. He was preceded in death by his father. Surviving are; his mother, Ruth Pickett Hanes of Lexington; two daughters, Loye Vaughan of Clemmons and LaRue Creson and husband Jeff all of Advance; two sons, Brian Hanes and wife Angie of Lexington, Brent Hanes and wife Susan of Conway, SC; four brothers, Robert Hanes and wife Mary, Jerry Hanes and wife Trina, Bobby Hanes and wife Donna all of Lexington and Don Hanes and wife Pat of Linwood; six grandchildren; Joseph, Bailey, Dylan, Ian, Taylor and Logan; numerous nieces and nephews and many friends. In lieu of flowers, memorials should be directed to Winston Salem Rescue Mission 717 Oak Street, Winston Salem, NC 27101. Online condolences may be made at www.davidsonfuneralhome.net.

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Sep. 11, 2010.

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LaRue Creson

February 25, 2025

I sure do miss you Dad.You were a brilliant and wonderful man.You taught me so many things I will always remember and have taught my children as well.Until I see you again.
I Love you,
LaRue (Dilly)

paul wagoner

September 6, 2020

It doesn't seem like it has been 10 years I think of EJ often.

Tim & Ginger Burge

September 23, 2010

We are deeply saddened by the loss of our neighbor and good friend. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family. He will be missed.

Kent & Amy Moorefield

September 20, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Cynthia Royal

September 17, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Don (Snuffy) Smith

September 17, 2010

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Larry Scruggs

September 15, 2010

I just learned today of E.J.'s passing. I got to know him the last few years through meeting him at Starbuck's for coffee. They don't make his kind any more. He truly was a unique and great man. I'll miss his insights and friendship. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. God's speed E.J.!

Kimberly Hayes

September 15, 2010

My prayers are with the Hanes family. I am so sorry for your loss. EJ will be missed by so many.....Waffle House in Clemmons will never be the same!

Bridgette Reaves

September 12, 2010

EJ I will miss serving you at Starbucks with your tall cup of coffee and the blueberry muffin.....

Jessica Sheffield

September 12, 2010

I used to wait on EJ, he was a good man. I always liked to hear his new stories. My heart goes out to the Hanes family. I know how hard it is to lose someone close so suddenly.

Donovan Fansler

September 12, 2010

So sorry to hear of the passing of EJ. It was a pleasure to build some of my most memorable homes with his company. While I can not be there for the services, please know that the whole Hanes family is in my prayers, and in "Daddy" God's arms of comfort. EJ is not dead, just moved on and will be in our hearts and minds forever.

Donovan Fansler, Watson Electrical

WENDY VESTAL

September 12, 2010

I DID NOT KNOW E.J. PERSONALLY. I HAVE WORKED WITH BRIAN, MY THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU AND YOURE FAMILY. I KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO LOOSE A LOVED ONE AND MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.ITS A HARD THING TO DEAL WITH , JUST KNOW THAT TIME HEALS.

Leonard Block Company

September 12, 2010

Our condolences to the Hanes family. It was a shock to hear of his sudden passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you from all of us.

Charley and Barbara Weir

September 12, 2010

Grandma Ruth, Bobby, Morgan and the Hanes family,

Our deepest sympathy for your loss of a very kind and generous man.

Wagoner Wiring

September 12, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to E.J.' family at such a great loss. Melissa and Paul Wagoner.

Kelly Cates

September 12, 2010

EJ was truly a unique person and friend. He will certainly be missed!!

Coby Bishop

September 12, 2010

Our family is very sorry about E.J.'s unexpected death. He has been our neighbor since we moved here. Our children were always welcome in his house. Our sincere sympathies to all his family,
The Bishops, clemmons

Jerry Hunt

September 12, 2010

E.J. will truly be missed by me and others. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Amanda Knight

September 12, 2010

my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

Kent Davis

September 12, 2010

E.J was a good friend for many years, one that I will miss dearly and my thoughts and prayers will be with the families.

Sandra Elliott

September 11, 2010

Mr. Hanes will be missed in the real estate community. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Frances valentine

September 11, 2010

Brian im so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Donna Schehr

September 11, 2010

Thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Lance and Shawn Lanning

September 11, 2010

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

mike DEAN

September 11, 2010

Our prayers go out to Morgan and Zack and the entire family, Just know God will supply all of our needs if we just rely on him


Mr and Mrs Mike Dean

Scott & Teresa Owen

September 11, 2010

Brian,
We are praying for you and your family.

Susie K

September 11, 2010

EJ was certainly a legend in his own time. He was always a warm hearted gentleman, filled with natural charisma.

May his family find peace and comfort in their memories.

Susie K

Juli Cservenko

September 11, 2010

Loye, my prayers are with you and your entire family. May God bless you and give you peace.

April Wilson

September 11, 2010

My thoughts & prayers go out to Brian and his family in this time of need.

Bogie Cates

September 11, 2010

EJ, rest in peace....your friend forever !!

Robert/MaryEllen Clodfelter

September 11, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers to the Hanes family.

September 11, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May God bless you in this time of sorrow.

June & Nell Lanier, Winston-Salem, NC

Lisa Chambers

September 11, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with Loye, Larue and the family!

Cindy Hodnett

September 11, 2010

My condolences to you all. E.J. was a delightful gentleman, and our community will miss him greatly.

John-mark Mitchell

September 11, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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