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DINKINS EAST BEND - James William Dinkins, 48, of East Bend, passed away Tuesday, June 29, 2010. He was born in Yadkin County on January 11, 1962 to Athalee and the late Nell Gray Wilhelm Dinkins. James was the first person in the United States to be treated at Duke Medical Center and Cancer Treatment Centers of America in Philadelphia to be offered the treatment he received. Through him, others will live a more fulfilling life. James was an outstanding father and was good to everyone he knew and met. He was saved and he loved the Lord. James was preceded in death by his mother, Nell Gray Wilhelm Dinkins. Surviving are his wife, Scarlet Hicks Dinkins of the home; his son, Jordan Blake Dinkins of the home; his father, Athalee Dinkins of East Bend; Brothers, Joe (Candace) Dinkins and Von Dinkins both of East Bend; his mother-in-law and father-in-law, Wayne and Donna Hicks of Boonville; two nieces, Hannah Dinkins and Callie Dinkins both of East Bend; and special friends, Patricia (Odell) Hutchens and Tina Long both of East Bend. Funeral services will be conducted Friday, July 2, 2010 at 2:00 p.m. at the Union Grove Baptist Church, with the Rev. Kenny Gooden officiating. The body will be placed in the church at 1:30 to lie instate. Burial will follow in the church cemetery. The family will receive friends Thursday, July 1, 2010 from 6:00 until 8:00 p.m. at Huff Funeral Home in East Bend.

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Jul. 1, 2010.

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Matthews Family

July 6, 2010

Scarlett and Jordan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and will be in the days to come. Saturday @ the Legion building was not the same as we watched the fireworks. All of you were missed as that had become a tradition over the years to be together there.We look forward to seeing him again one day in Heaven.
Love and Prayers,
John ,Clara, Chelsea, Little John and Jacob

DAWN WILKINS

July 6, 2010

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Mary Jane Spillman-Swain

July 6, 2010

Scarlett,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. You have so many great memories to hold on to. I remember James hanging out with the "Davis-Miller Gang" back in high school. He was always was joking around and made everyone laugh. May you find peace with God, knowing that He will be with you during these hard times.
Love and prayers,
Mary Jane Spillman-Swain

Mary Collins Craddock

July 5, 2010

Scarlet and Jordan,
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. James was good person and a great friend to everyone. He will be missed.

July 4, 2010

God's hand touched him, and he slept.
Tom & Carla Moser

Wendy Griffin

July 3, 2010

Scarlett, My thoughts are with you and Jordan. So sorry that you are going through this. Love ya girl.

Jamie Perkins McCollum

July 3, 2010

Scarlett and Jordan,
I am so sorry for your loss. James fought hard during his illness. During our years at Forbush, I remember his smile and sense of humor. My father, Tommy Perkins, thought a lot of him and enjoyed the times they worked together. He was very sad when he called to tell me of his passing. My hope is that you will find peace and comfort from your friends and loved ones as they surround you with love, prayer and compassion during the difficult days ahead.

Melissa Taylor

July 2, 2010

Scarlett & Jordan,
James will be greatly missed. I will miss the texts, calls and stories from James. He was always telling me about how proud he was of the things that Jordan had done. He even gave me a picture of you (Jordan) and made sure that I put it on my desk. Scarlett, he would always tell me about how much you meant to him and that you were the light of his life. James made a mark everywhere that he went and now he is a healthy man in heaven watching over his family and friends. You both are in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please let me know.

Cammie Hudspeth-Forrest

July 2, 2010

Scarlett,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

July 2, 2010

Scarlet, Jordan, and the Dinkins family,
I am so sorry for the loss of you husbanc, daddy, son, brother, uncle, and brother-in-law. James' was an exceptional person who loved life. I can't imagine what Cole would do without his daddy. Scarlet, God bless you. I am saddened that I can not be there to support you and your family today. God be with you all. In Christ name,
Tracy C. Matthews, Keith and Cole

Carolyn Reavis Mundt

July 2, 2010

I was so saddened to hear of James passing. I was at Forbush with James and over the years would see him on occasion when he was working for Yadkin County. Always enjoying life, having fun and a joy to be around. I have been lifting the family up in my prayers. God bless you.(Class of 80)

Randy & Kristy Dinkins

July 2, 2010

Our hearts are heavy with thoughts of your departed. It is comforting to know where and whom he is with. Our prayer for you and Jordan is that you will receive unusual grace from our loving heavenly Father during this difficult time and in the days ahead. The memory of the just is blessed and to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord...may you draw comfort and strenghth from the precious word of God. (2Cor.5:8,Prov.10:7)
We love ya'll very much!

Robin Bruce Riddle

July 1, 2010

Scarlet and Dinkins family,
So sorry to hear of James passing. He will be missed. I went to school with James, he loved life, happy and always picking. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. (Class of 80) God's grace will comfort you.

Tammy Miller

July 1, 2010

Scarlett and Jordan......My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Van Gough

July 1, 2010

Scarlett, Jordan, Joel, Von, Athalee

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Terri Vestal

July 1, 2010

Dear Scarlett and Jordan,
I am so sorry to hear about your lost. James loved you both so much, I talked to him at Fall Creek one day when I picked up my granddaughter and both of you were all he talked about. May his love for you and the memories you have sustain through the hard days ahead, May God bless and keep you!

Margie Williams

July 1, 2010

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

July 1, 2010

To all the Dinkens Family.
We are so sorry you have lost James.I know it is doubly hard so soon
after losing Nell.You have our sympathy, prayers and love.
Clyde and Helen Hamrick (barnwell S.C.)

Cathy Kirk

July 1, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jordan, you were your Dad's world. He was very proud of you and your accomplishments. Scarlett, you are a strong woman. Keep your faith and God will see you through.

Stuart, Anne, Kacy & Austin Millirons

July 1, 2010

Our thoughts & Prayers are with you all. James was always such a wonderful fun person to be around, always smiling! May you find comfort in knowing that he has touched so many lives and made so many memories.

melany martin

July 1, 2010

Scarlett and Jordan,
We were very sad to hear the passing of James. Both of you will be in our thoughts and Prayers. May you find peace at this time. If there is anything we can do for you please let us know.
Melany and Chris Martin
Trentin Neel(from fall creek)

Leah Beck Baker

July 1, 2010

Scarlett,
You are in my thoughts and prayers>

Deanna Murphy

July 1, 2010

I went to school with James and he was always very nice to everyone. My thoughts and prayers go out to you

Chris, Melinda, Megan and Cody Styers

July 1, 2010

Scarlett and Jordan,
Our hearts ache and our prayers are with you and your family right now and the days to come. Remember that we are here for you and Jordan anytime for any reason and that we love you. James was not only a great husband and father, but a wonderful friend and we will miss him so much. Find comfort and feel peace because he is at peace now and no longer suffering. You all have fought so hard but honey, the battle is over. Now its time to rest and heal and know you all did everything you could. James is with the Lord now smiling and he will be in our hearts forever. We love you and are so sorry for your family's loss.

Lisa Speer

July 1, 2010

Scarlett and Jordan,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. If there's anything we can do to help, please do not hesitate to ask. Lisa, Brent, Brittany and Miranda Speer

Dara Spillman

July 1, 2010

Each of you are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers. May knowing that he will help with the lifes of others help you to get through and understand. And may it help knowing there is another angel in heaven to watch over all of you.

Natalie Kennedy

July 1, 2010

Scarlett & Jordan, I am so sorry to hear of James passing...I will miss his smiling face, always knew he was up to something when I saw his grin! Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers!

becky spier

July 1, 2010

scarlett and jordan,
i am very sorry for your loss i want you to know that you both are in my prayers please let me know if you two need anything

Darlene Walker

July 1, 2010

Scarlett,

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family and James family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Love Darlene

Mia Steelman

July 1, 2010

Scarlet,
So very sad to hear of James passing. It was a shock. I know what you are going through. Rest in peace knowing that James is in our heavenly Fathers arms. I know that there are no words that help with the pain and loss right now, but know that I will be praying for you and Jordan daily. Keep your Faith.
Love you, Mia Wyatt Steelman

Patty Baker Woodell

July 1, 2010

Scarlett, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Gina Calloway

July 1, 2010

Scarlett and Jordan,
I was very saddened to hear of James passing. I worked with James at the City of King. He would always make everyone smile or laugh. Please know my prayers are with your family during this very difficult time. He endured a lot during his illness. Take comfort in knowing he is in a better place where he is no longer sick.

Felicia Miller Harris

July 1, 2010

I will always remember James as a fun loving, living life to the fullest kind of guy. My prayer is that you will be able to rest in the fullness of God's grace. (Class of '80)

Lynn Forrest

July 1, 2010

James was a good person and a good friend, he will be missed. He fought his illness hard and is now being rewarded for his courage. Godspeed!

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