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Sara Simmons Obituary

CHARLOTTE - Mrs. Sara Shields Simmons, 68, died Wednesday, Nov. 2, 2005, at home in Charlotte. She was born Jan. 25, 1937, the first child of the late Holland and Ollie Yokley Shields, in Kernersville. She was a member of Christ Episcopal Church and a former member of Trinity Presbyterian Church in Charlotte. A memorial service with Choral Eucharist will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 5, at Christ Episcopal Church, 1412 Providence Road, Charlotte, followed by interment of ashes in the Memorial Garden. The Rev. Martha Hedgpeth and the Rev. Verdery Kerr will officiate. The family will receive friends after the interment during a luncheon reception in the Christ Church Blue Room. Following the luncheon, a private interment of ashes will be in Sara's beloved woodland garden beside the Simmons home. The cause of death was a GBM brain tumor. Throughout her year-long journey, she showed what courage looks like. Never losing her love of nature and being outdoors, she took joy in every reported deer sighting, pulled weeds from her chair and relished the presence of the garden's St. Francis statue. Her sensitivity for the visually artistic became intensified after she lost the ability to read, and every card, photo and scanned image of her choice, from two daily newspapers, made her beloved books of photos and memorabilia very special to her each day. Sara retired from Omnia Design Inc., in 1990, after working more than 20 years as a receptionist and office manager. She devoted much of her time in the remaining years of her life visiting and lovingly caring for her mother, then her father and her aunt, Evelyn Shields Watlington, in the last years of their lives. Between 1990 and 1998, she tirelessly traveled to the Winston-Salem area, in one year setting aside over 130 days to the care of these loved ones. After 1998, her father and aunt lived for five and six years, respectively, at The Carriage Club in Charlotte. A friend and employee there said, "Sara put her own life on hold to visit them daily, to volunteer at resident social events, and to make her father's and aunt's lives vital and interesting as long as they lived." Survivors include her husband of 47 years, Stacy E. Simmons; her daughter and son-in-law, Dr. Rache Simmons and Dr. John DeCorato Jr. of New York, N.Y.; and a sister, Gail Shields Bowden of Blacksburg, Va. Her loss is notable for the huge extended Simmons and Putnam families, who made her one of their own and endeared her for life. Her special feline friend, Mickey, has given his love to her in large measure and will be among those who long for the warm touch of her hand. The family requests no flowers at this time. A fund has been established to purchase white Hellebores (Christmas roses) that will be planted as a memorial at the place of interment in Sara's woodland garden. Contributions may be made payable to McNair Law Firm and sent to the firm at 301 S. Tryon St., Suite 1615, Charlotte, NC 28282, for the "Sara Simmons Memorial." Memorial contributions may also be made to Christ Episcopal Church Choir in her name. Harry and Bryant Co. is serving the family.

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Published by Winston-Salem Journal on Nov. 3, 2005.

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Michael O'Toole

November 13, 2005

Stacy:



As I have written before, it was so wonderful to see Sara in the congregation during our tours abroad. She was the guest who was really family; a sister to all of us. The service music must have been a collection of magical moments. Being in a good choir has so many benefits, but perhaps the best is when we can give to one of our own. I am so sorry to not have been able to be there, but as we drove to Duke, I watched the clock closely and was certainly there with you in spirit.



You remain in our prayers.

Michael, Regina, and Meredith

Suzanne and Hank Dressel

November 11, 2005

Dear Stacy, Rache and John,

Sara was a very special person and I am so glad I got to know her and love her. She loved all of you so much and blessed everyone who knew her. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joyce Parvin

November 5, 2005

I am so sorry for the loss you and Rache are experiencing. Sara Jo and you have been an inspiration to me during this past year. I know you gave love and strength to each other. May God bless you, Rache and John as you begin healing.

Geedie and Lisa Simmons and Family

November 4, 2005

We are so sorry for your loss. Sara will be missed by all of us.

We wish we could be with you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you!

Gordon and Cheryl Gober

November 4, 2005

Stacy and Rache, the memories of our last time together in the Georgia mountains at our reunion will be thought of many times. Our prayers and best wishes are all we can offer. Along with the Good Lord, I know you can continue on.

Asa and Robbie Putnam

November 4, 2005

Stacey, Words can't express our sorry for you and your family's loss.I am sorry that we never had the pleasure of meeting Sara.MAY GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU AND LOOK OVER YOU DURING YOUR TIME OF SORRY NOW AND ALLWAYS IS OUR PRAYER.

Wayne and Miriam Gober

November 3, 2005

Miriam and I will lift you and your family up in prayer asking God's grace and mercy upon you as you go through this time. We know how hard it is to lose a loved one. May God's blessings be upon each of you.

Douglas DeCorato

November 3, 2005

Stacy and Rache

We are all deeply saddened by your loss. All of our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.



Love

Doug, Carolyn, John and Michael

Wanda Henson

November 3, 2005

Stacy and Rache, my humblest and deepest sympathies are with you at this time. Your stamina and special love will reveal a new level of inspired living to you and your families. And Sara will thank you each day through her lovely garden and your precious memories together. Be in God's peace.

Felicia and Chuck Baker

November 3, 2005

Sara's strength and courage are an inspiration that will stay with me always. She will be deeply missed.

Mary Sloan

November 3, 2005

Stacy Rache and John,



Sara was a model of devoted motherhood and diligent professionalism to me for the seven years I was priviliged to work with her at Omnia Design.

Her unbounded delight in rearing Rache was something I am now able to appreciate as my own child matures. Sara would tell you how greatly blessed she was in her life with her entire family... especially her devoted husband and gifted daughter, and now in her fine son-in-law. We will all miss Sara and her beautiful smiling eyes.

Keith and Linda Simmons

November 3, 2005

Stacy and Rache,

We are deeply saddened by Sara's passing. We are holding you both close in thought and prayer.

Love,

Keith and Linda

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