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Phyllis Shank Obituary

YORK Phyllis R. Shank, 82, passed away Saturday March 13, 2010, at York Hos pital. She was the wife of the late Richard R. Shank, Sr. Born November 14, 1927, in York, a daughter of the late Maurice D. and Ruth (Crumbacher) Fritz, she had worked at Bon-Ton Stores for 12 years. She married her husband, Richard, on August 3, 1947. She was a member of Grace Lutheran Church for more than 50 years, and had served on its Altar Guild, Parish Life Committee, the Honeycombers, and the Quilters' Group. Mrs. Shank is survived by two sons, Richard R. Shank, Jr., and his wife, Mary of York, and Kenneth E. Shank of York; two daughters, Rebecca L. Fosbrink of Pittsburgh, and Barbara A. Waltemyer and her husband, Jon of York; a stepson, Jack A. Shank and his wife, Joan of Harrisburg; 16 grandchildren; 20 great-grandchildren; and two great-greatgrandchildren. In addition to her husband, she was preceded in death by a son, Donald L. Shank; a stepson, Frederick R. Shank; a stepbrother, Don E. Fritz; and two stepsisters, Adelaide Dellinger and Charlotte Schettler. Funeral services are scheduled for 2 p.m. Wednesday at Grace Lutheran Church, 150 Jefferson Ave., York, with the Rev. Donald B. Warner and the Rev. Judith A. McKee officiating. Viewing will be from 1 to 2 p.m. at the Church. Burial will be in Mount Rose Cemetery. Kuhner Associates Funeral Directors, 863 S. George St., York, is in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Grace Lutheran Church, 150 Jefferson Ave., York, PA 17404. KuhnerAssociates.com

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Published by York Daily Record on Mar. 15, 2010.

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A. C. "Chuck" Moyer, II

March 23, 2010

Becky, Rick, Barb and Kenny,
I was sadden to hear of your moms passing. You are in my prayers and my you be comforted in knowing that others care.
Your mom was a sweet lady and I was glad to see her in Grace Church the last time I was back home!
May God Bless!

Michele (Wiley) and Ron Sanders

March 18, 2010

To the Shank Family,

May it make your sorrow
easier to bear,
Knowing there are others
who understand and care.

With heartfelt sympathy,
Mr & Mrs Ron Sanders & Shayla

Kim Ziegler

March 17, 2010

Becky, Rick, Barb and Kenny,

Please know that it is with great sadness and heavy heart that I hear of the passing of your dear mother. What a wonderful child of God, and I say that with a smile, she so very much loved her Church and I hope that she knew how much we loved her. Her smile will be forever missed in the pews at Grace.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

kelly miller

March 16, 2010

To Missy, Shawn, Collin, Stacey, Barb and Brad, you are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.

celeste jones

March 16, 2010

Chief Shank and family, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother.It pains me to see you hurting and hope that you get comfort in having your family around during this time. Please let me know if there is anything you need.

Lois & Craig Wisherd

March 15, 2010

Rick & Family

We are saddened by your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

John & Ann Krawczyk

March 15, 2010

Barb, Jon, Stacey & Brad,

We are so sorry for your loss. All the wonderful memories of your mom and grandmother will live on in your hearts forever and help you through this difficult time.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,

John & Ann

Nancy Newcomer (Glatfelter)

March 15, 2010

To the Shank Family,
Our deepest sympathies go out to your entire family. We are so sorry to hear about your loss... Praying God will give you all the strength yous need to get through your grieving..."mom" shank was a fantastic woman and i have such great memories from Smith St..
God Bless,
Nan & Charlie Newcomer (Reisterstown,Md)

Jeff Joy

March 15, 2010

Rick & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless
Jeff

Heather Gross

March 15, 2010

My heart goes out to the family. I lived above Phyllis in North York for only a year however what a kind and loving woman. She was always so sweet and caring! I pray for the family at this very sad time and pray God gives you the strength to get through this. She is no longer suffering and is with God now. I pray your fond memories of her will help comfort you till you see her again. Love, Heather & Bryan Gross

Kathy Brunner

March 15, 2010

So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mother...trusting loving memories and faith through this difficult time will be a comfort to all of your family.

Mark Kusner

March 15, 2010

I am deeply sorry for your Mom's passing, as I know your heart is sad. I have tears in my eyes, and I didn't even know her. God bless you during this time and know that she is sitting at the feet of our beloved Lord right now basking in His glory and divine love. Pain for her is no more. What a blessing to know that she is with Jesus. My prayer for you and your family is that God gives you His peace that passes all understanding. Thanks for always being an encouragement to so many.

Steven,Deb,Steven Jr and Amanda Miller

March 15, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

Collin Roache

March 15, 2010

I will forever miss you Gramma Shank. I was so happy that you were able to see your granddaughter Stacey get married. You were there closest grandmother i had, since mine were 1000 of miles away and i didn't get a chance to know them, like i did you Gramma Shank. Thank you for the memories i will forever cherish them. I LOVE YOU!!!

Stacey Roache

March 15, 2010

Gram~
Just to see your smiling face in this picture, free of oxygen makes me feel so good. I know you are breathing on your own and not struggling anymore. The pain in my hearts continues to overcome me everyday, but knowing you are no longer in pain makes me feel so good. I cant believe that only 5 days prior to your death we were shopping together. Little did I know that would be our last outing. I miss you so much and the pain is unimaginable. Rest in peace knowing we all loved you. You are an angel now to watch over us. I love you so much Gram.

Your granddaughter ~ Stacey

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