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Scott A. Eberly Sr.

Scott Eberly Obituary

EAST MANCHESTER TWP. Scott A. Eberly, Sr., 52, of Manchester, died Sunday, August 8, 2010, at York Hospital. He was the husband of Beth A. (Bailey) Eberly, to whom he was married for 32 years. Born February 24, 1958, in York, he was a son of the late Bruce and Violet (Barshinger) Eberly. He worked 23 years at the former Jack Whorl Chevrolet in Manchester. In addition to his wife, Mr. Eberly is survived by a son, Scott Eberly, Jr. of York Haven; a daughter, Kristen Eberly of Manchester; four wonderful granddaughters; a brother, Gary Eberly of Etters; and two sisters, Judy Waltersdorff of Dover and Linda Bubb of York. He was preceded in death by a brother, Bruce Eberly, Jr. Funeral services and burial will be private. William E. Little Funeral Homes, 60 S. Main St., Manchester, is in charge of arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 924N Colonial Avenue, York, PA 17403. KuhnerAssociates.com

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Published by York Daily Record on Aug. 10, 2010.

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December 16, 2010

Saturday Dec12 we,the famoly went to my Moms side Christmas party,which I haven't been to in 31 years. I got to see all my Aunts and Uncles.I got a picture of Mom,me,and my Aunts and Uncles. I also got a picture of my cousins Glen,Wendy,Paula and Jerry my half brother and sister.
They had a table set up for the family members that has gone to heaven and next year if I go I'm to bring a picture of you to add to the table. I got to see a picture of Grandma and Grandpa and Uncle Luther and Aunt Ethel.I had a talk with Kristen on Monday about Illy and her and so far it's getting a little better each day.
Each day I am feeling a little bit more happy for you that your in Heaven and out of pain,but I still get flashbacks and feel like crying.
Illy's been talking more about you and last night (wed) I seen you in the office and one of our cats in the living room. I want to get off half of my meds so I can dream and remember them , and visit you and remember the journey. We all Lov and Miss you Dearly.Lov,Babe

December 13, 2010

Dec 8th all day something kept telling me to play the lottery but I didn't know which one.It turned out Dads 369 numbers came in the evening lottery as 396.I didn't play,oh well!
Saturday the whole family went finally to the Lehr Christmas party. I got to see my Aunts and Uncles after 31 years and they had a table set for all who have past.I got to see a picture of Grandma and Grandpa and Uncle Luther and Aunt Ethel.I got a picture of me with my Aunts and Uncles and Mom and then a picture of Paula,Jerry,Glen,and Wendy and me. If we go next year I'm supposed to take a picture of you to add to the table.
I had a long talk today with Kristen about her and Illy. I'm hoping she listens and gets the Mommy and daughter connection that they need.
It was my day off but I was called in because the President,Rick Herring.Yes he finally came after three false times.
I hope your finally being able to rest peacefully,I'm trying every day to be happy for you that your in heaven and out of pain. Dad will not let me sit in your chair at the table when we have suppers. We all LOV and MISS YOU ALOT.LOV BABE

December 8, 2010

I wrote this Sunday night but it didn't make it to the book. Please let this go in the book,this is my diary for the first year which is hard to remember.
Yesterday was Scotty's 31st birthday,Shanna had a surprise party for him and today we had dinner here at the house. I finally got Illy's fairy tattooed on me.
Yesterday was Illy's first appt. with the theropist.She didn't do to good.Kristen had to leave the room and Illy acted like a three year old instead of 5 year old.she was asked what her favorite color is and she named all the colors. I told her your color was blue and she said "No your favorite colors are all of them."
She goes back on saturday and she's going to take your picture with her.
She came out on Sunday with her "Grandpas side kick" teeshirt on and asked me what it said ;I told her and she said you mean Pappy up in Heaven, I said Yes. I asked her if she misses you and she said yes,I did to, then she said that you told her you were going to die when she visited you in the hospital the last time (why didn't you tell me instead of just saying you don't know whats wrong! (there is no way a 5 year old would be able to come up with that).I got my hair colored black with red highlights and with it being short and the black glasses it makes me look younger and I'm positive you would like it. Your Son even commented on it. I told him he's 31 and I'm 41(ha,ha) and he said I should feel that way cause I look younger. I miss you Hun!!! Lov Babe

December 7, 2010

(lets see if the nice people at the company will put this in for me,since I'm going to be paying for the book)
sunday the 5th Illy wore your teeshirt to bed ,the one that says "Grandpas side kick". She said that she had a dream that you came back to life,she said yous talked but she can't remember what was said.I told her thats how they come to see us.She also said that we can go to Heaven to visit you. I told her yes,thats right.Kendall and Jaiden and Ciarra are getting closer to me which I hope never stops.
I'm finally, (each day),feeling more about you being happy and pain free instead of crying so much. It's been 17 weeks and it doesn't feel like it. I keep thinking your going to call me at work or be sitting at your desk when I come home.I love you soooo much and miss you even more. Lov Babe

December 6, 2010

Hi Hun,Yesterday was Scotty's 31st birthday,Shanna had a surprise party for him and today we had dinner over here at the house. Friday night I finally got Illy tatooed on me.
Yesterday Illy had her appt. with the therapist,Allison, She kicked her Mom in the face shortly after we got there and Kristen left the room. We played with magic play dough and a game of candyland. Illy acted like a 3 year old instead of 5,by doing uh and pointing at things. Allison asked her what her favorite color was and she named all the colors off. I told her your favorite color was blue and she said "no,all colors are your favorite"
She said she's not going back on Saturday but she will. She's also going to take a picture of you along.
Today Illy came out and had the teeshirt on that said"Grandpa's side kick" on it and asked me what it said . I told her and she said you mean the Pappy up in heaven, I told her yes and that they didn't have one that said Pappy on. I asked her if she misses you and she said yes,I did to ,then she said that you told her you were going to die,I asked if you whispered it in her ear in the hospital and she said no you told her in the hospital the last time she visited. (There's no way that a 5 year old would be able to come up with that.)
I guess you were busy tonite cause I asked you to flick the lights so Scotty and Dad could see for theirself that you do do it.Thats okay,I'm sure God has alot for you to do up there.
Today is 17 weeks, doesn't seem that long! I got my hair colored black with red in and it looks good,I think you would like it. Lov you and Miss you, Babe P.S. Dad will not let me sit in your chair at supper time.Lov , Babe

November 30, 2010

Illy and I ut up the tree Sunday night. She helped decorate it and ti turned out pretty. One of the cherib angels that we put no the tree, Illy decided that one of them were for you. I put out a couple of reindeer and santa and sliegh. Kristen and Andy are getting closer and Scotty and Shanna are still trying to work out things.
Illy goes to her first session on Saturday, Kristen and I are supposed to be there also. Jaiden,Ciarra Illy and Kendall all made a countdown to Cheistmas poster on Monday(I had the girls while Scotty,Shanna and Kristen went to the shooting range(they were supposed to go hunting).LOv and Miss you,I actually am having some seconds were I am happy for you that your not in any pain or suffering anymore,amd then I go back to feeling empty again. Lov You and Miss You !!!LOv Babe

November 28, 2010

By the way it's Sunday ,9:30 pm. and the tears are running.

November 26, 2010

Hi Hun, I called Judy to get her spinach tomarrow.Illy goes next Saturday to her doc (kristen and I are going also).About a week ago when I was going through a rough time I was sitting at the computer reading your book and I felt this coldness on my lips and when I went to bed I felt like someone was tucking me in. Thank you for the kiss and tuck. Linda, your sister almost joined you. She had a heart attack and they put a stent in and balloon and then the stent got a blockage and they put another stent in ,she's at home doing okay now.
Scotty and Shanna and Kristen are going hunting Monday morning and I'm watching the girls pleasa be with them and keep them safe.
The Critical illness insurence payed me $50.00 for one of your stress test. They said they couldn't give me any more because you did'nt have a heart attack,didn't have kidney dialisis treatment for your kidneys eac would have payed 10,000.00if it would have been done right but owell it's just money and I'm not going to worry about it. LOV YOU Babe

November 25, 2010

Happy Thanksgiving Hun, Supper turned out good,(you must have been there by my side helping) cause it tasted alot like your cooking. Scotty,Shanna and the girls came over to eat which ment the world to me!! Lov and Really,really, miss you . Lov Babe

November 24, 2010

Hi Hun, We went to see Illys doc and it turned out okay .Andy behaved himself and Kristen and I did well telling the lady about Illy . Her name is Alicen and I think Illy will be able to open up to her in no time at all. I also think Kristen and I will be able to do better around Illy. It's going to be a long road ahead of us but I think we'll make it! Lov ya Babe

November 23, 2010

Scotty and Shanna and the girls made it over for Shannas b-day dinner Sunday. It was almost an hour up and Scotty said they would have to go cause he could'nt stay more than hour.They actually stayed 2 hours which made me feel better. Illy goes tomarrow night to see the doc. Kristen and me are supposed to go to talk to the doc, and Andy has to come to cause thats what "Kristen" wants. Illy will actually be staying at Scotty's while we go. I was supposed to go see mine but I had to rescedule count of work,so I have to wait until jan 5 2011 to see mine . Dr. banford says if I can get things straightened out with Illy and Kristen that I should be able to go off some of my pills and become half normal.(ha,ha).Talk to you tomarrow night , lov and miss you and I just felt all day like you should have called me at work.lov Babe

November 23, 2010

Hun I've been writing to you for the past week and someone will not put my notes in from the company.Lets see if this gets put in.Thank You for the kiss the other night and the tuck in at bedtime. Love and Miss you sooo much Babe

November 13, 2010

Hi Hun, I went over to Scotty's last night to see the girls and I asked Scotty where his necklace was . he said it was on the window ledge in the bedroom. I said "what ,are you letting Dad get some sun" ,he said he's been wearing it (so I guess it is helping him).I'll talk to you tomarrow night

November 9, 2010

Well I guess I wasn't supposed to send out a good number for inventory. It was a 10.02% and I was allowed a 8.02%.
Kristen isn't going to go for the house .I'm really felling very empty right now.I just feel that you should come out of your picture and be here. Illy said today that she can talk to you; and you to her. Luv Ya!!!!!

November 7, 2010

Well Hun it's Sunday again and inventory is tommarrow; could God and You please help me to hit the inventory within the budget. Pat says I wouldn't make it and I feel I should. My bills verses sales were within limits,yes I had a high shrink but I thnk I can still make it . Please help me !!!!!
Kristen found a house on Canal rd. thats going up for auction.It would be the right size for her but I guess I will have to see if I can back her or get a loan for her.We'll see !!!!
I've been wanting to cry for the last couple of days and can't.If you are listening to me ,Please help me with tomarrow.Luv You!!!!

November 5, 2010

Tuesday night Kristen came home saying that Shanna and Scotty were heading for a breakup. I decided that Wednesday I was going to go over after they were both home from work and talk to them and try to make them understand lifes to short.
It just so happened that I bought tires and rims off of Mark for $250.00 and Scotty called for me to go over and have them put on. I had ordered a necklace to put your ashes in for Scotty to take with him to race the Nova.I wasn't going to give it to him until his birthday. So when I went over I took along the necklace and stuffed siberian husky of yours and gave it to him. The first thing he said was "I'm not sleeping with a stuffed animal". I told him he should wear the necklace and see if it helps and to only hold the animal if need be. I didn't have to do alot of talking (Scotty did most of it) and said that they talked alot and it should be okay. I had asked you and God tha night before to help me find the right words to say to them ,it just so happened that you and God answered my prayer by them having a talk and then Scotty had a dream that he was at the trailor working on a car and you and pap came and opened the windows and told him to get his act together and straighten up, he said he threw a gas can or something up in the air. He said he had been dreaming before about beating people up and wierd dreams and when he would wake up his mind would race; but this time he woke up and was calm and just held Shanna the rest of the night.
I went to the eye doctor and went in the room and sat in the chair in the corner like I've been when you went and she said come over in this chair. We both laughed about it. I got a pair of wings around a heart on the right side of my chest with your 2010 on and the rose on the left with the year we met 1976. You were so jealous that I wasn't getting any tattoos on for you and I wish to God that it didn't have to be under these conditions but Hun your on me now three times.
Rick hired a man for the deli that had to have been in a car or motorcycle wreck ;he has a fake leg and is slow in the head.Rick says this is my challenge, I can only work him when I work so I've had him 2 days and I think he's making progress(slowly).Illy is going to go see a play therapist to try to help her with your death,I'm going to see a shrink to help me; and Scotty and Shanna are going to go to church to help them ;Kristen will probably end up talking either to Illys person or my person. I just realized tonite coming home from work that the lights don't fricker anymore like they used to so you must be in school up there now and staying busy. We all Luv and Miss You Dearly!! take care and please watch over all of us especialy the girls.

October 31, 2010

Happy third month birthday with God! Tuesday night I went over to Scotty's and on the way over I had a deer run out in front of me and then stopped and looked at me.I slowed up the car and looked at the deer and there standing in a line were 7 deer . They all looked at me and then the first one closet to me turned and jumped in the woods then the next ,so on and so on. It was like watching the oylmics when the swimmers do their acrobatics off the side of the pool. I had been crying for that week and when I seen them I felt a calmness come over me. Then I thought Of Mom, Dad E. you, Dave, Mom B., micheal, and Sonny. Since than , I have wanted to cry but it's like something is stopping me and I keep thinking of those deer. Since then the deer have been hanging around the house. their out at night when I let the dogs out and Kristen seen them in the woods aside of us at 11 oclock the other night.
I gave the girls their animals from you tonite with the poem. Jaiden got the Panda , Ciarra got the koala bear, and Illy the monkey. they all loved them!!!! Last night I got a Tattoo of a heart with wings on for you on my chest and had Scotty touch up my rose and put the date we started to go together and the year you died on the wings. We all Luv you andmiss you !!!

October 27, 2010

Well Hun,Illy came to me tonite and asked me if she could have one of your cards with your picture and death anouncement on to put in her room. She took it back and a little while later Kristen checked on her and she was hiding under her sweater with your anouncement crying. I had a recent picture of you and gave it to her to put on her end table beside of her bed. I also found a letter to children from loved ones that went to Heaven to help them understand and I made one for each of the girls and also got Illy a stuffed monkey , Ciarra a koala bear,and Jaiden a panda bear that they can each hug when they need you near or are sad. We're going to take the three girls to a place called Olivias House. It's for children who are grieving. I talked to Illy after giving her the Monkey and told her any time she wants to talk to you that you'll be there listening and if she wants to talk to Mommy or me , we're here. Tomarrow night is our 33rd. anniversary and trick or treating for the girls, I'm going to try to go along with them, hope you'll be with us. Luv Babe

October 26, 2010

Hi Hun, I just got a call from Nancy and the doc thats going to see me is Dr. Delp, I'm thinking he is one of the sons of Dr. Delp that delivered Scotty.
I got my rose tatoo redone and put the year we first started going together. Luv Ya!!!

October 25, 2010

I'm an soo sorry Hun , I made you dead one week more than you are. It's only 11 weeks. Kristen and Illy drew a picture for me last night of you and me , with hearts around it.
I found out Jaiden is having a rough time this past week . she's isulating herself and saying she misses her Pappy ,I don't know if she means you or Dave.
I guess what I wrote over the weekend didn't make it to your book so, I got a letter from the court house saying I don't have to do jury duty . I made an appt. to see a psiciatrist to see if he can give me meds. to help me through this. I go Nov.24 the day before Thanksgiving. The kids want to have Thanksgiving dinner over at their place ,I said "go ahead" but I'm still making dinner at home cause I want leftovers.
Illy went bowling for the first time the other day and had fun (she went with Mommy and Andy).
I just got back from the eye doctor (it's been 3 1/2 years since I've been there. When I first went into the room I sat in the corner (where I always sat when you went)and Sue told me I could sit in the other chair. Nancy's sending me to a specialist to see if I am getting gloucoma.The way it's starting to look I'm going to take your place with seeing doctors. Luv and Miss you ,Babe

October 24, 2010

Hi Hun, It's Sunday nite, three months today since you went to God. I've had a really hard time this week from not crying. Today it really got to me. It was really busy at work,Steve Angle came in and the place was trashed and I spoke to him like I have never before.That was around 2 pm. and I broke down and haven't been able to stop.
The girls have trick or treating on Thursday and thats our 33 anniversery, I don't know if I'm giong with them or not.
I hope what I wrote Friday and Saturday gets put into the book cause it's important to me and this is my "diary" for the first year that we're apart cause I certainly am not going to remember what good or bad happened (tha last 3 months I can't remember what happened unless I read this book{it's all a blur). Luv Ya , Babe

October 19, 2010

Hun, you'll never guess who showed up at the store to see me!! Tom Gingerich My first Boss from Jordons/Super thrift. It's been around 15 years. He's doing good and still working part time stocking product for a vender . He said he's been in the store a couple of times and never seen me. He's still golfing and going to Myrtle Beach. You have no idea how much I wanted to call you and tell you he came to see me,it took a couple of times to relize that you would not answer the phone. Luv and Miss Ya,Babe

October 18, 2010

Hi Hun , Illy has been waking up from her naps whining and out of it for the last three days. Tonite she said she was dreaming that you were in an ugly, awful place where people looked like pirates and fire all around . She also said she saved you . Please let her know in her future dreams that you are in heaven and not an awful place . I told her you were in Heaven were it's sunshine and rainbows and pretty all the time. She's only five and if you can get through to anyone it's going to be the girls before us cause they are more open to spirits,and as close as you two were I know you will try to be close to her as much as you can,so please show her the happy place your in so she feels better about you dying. Luv ya and Miss ya - Babe

beth

October 17, 2010

Well last night I went to Shauns and got my hair cut-short-. when Scotty seen it he said that I look more sufisticated now and "your probably rolling over in your grave I mean Urn".
Since you and Scotty never had the chance to get the nova car project done,He bought one off of Chads friend that had been racing it and wanted to get rid of it because he had other cars.Scotty got the 74 Nova with 70 front end ,plus a trailor to haul it for $6000.00 . He took the car and went to South Mountain ,with Dan to trial race it today and he took my necklace along with your ashes in .Put it on the passengers seat so you could ride with him. He didn't do all that bad for first time ( and he didn't even do much work to this one before he ran it!!! ) . We have some nice black marks in the driveway from it,ha!ha!.
The girls were here last night and when they went to leave I think Jaiden forgot your gone and thought you were in the bathroom like usual and told me to tell you she said goodbye .I told her she could do it herself and she said how , I said your picture was on the tv stand snd she could say it herself. It took Shanna and me to show her where you were and what you were in and then Jaiden blew you a kiss .
Tonite in 2 hours it will be 10 weeks. It doesn't seem that long . I'm starting to think about trying to get through Thanksgiving dinner without you (I promised Judy your spinach ,see if I can make it as good as you), also our 33rd anniversery is in 11 days. I think I'll lite as many candles as I can for us that night. Luv and Miss you Dearly!!!!! Luv Babe

Beth

October 14, 2010

Hi Hun, A couple nights ago Mom and Dad came to see me . Mom said she made squirrel pot pie for you (you always wanted me to make it but you never got enough squirrels) . Her and Dad were sitting at the table saying "okay I made it now where is he " .
Last night you came to me and told me to get on my side of the bed cause you were around all these dead people and you didn't know why . I told you I wasn't on your side and you still wanted me to move over so you could get in bed . Hopefully the next time you visit me you'll be able to tell me how it's going in Heaven instead of worrying about the bed .
Illy is doing better in coping with your death .
I went to see the doctor yesterday and I need to get the courage up to call a psychologist to help me through this , cause I'm not doing to good .
I was summoned for jury duty to go on the 1st. of November, the Doctor wrote a letter excusing me cause right now I'm in no shape to do that .
Luv and Miss You Soooo Much . I heard a song earlier about a man that died and he was just going to sit on the bench up there and wait for his lady to join him , but she could take her time getting there . I hope thats kind of what you'll do for me .
I knew that dang bird would bring some wrong , I got my e-mail today from work and Stacey Kenny's Mom died on Monday . She didn't survive the cemo as well as you did . Bye for now and Luv you !!!!!

beth

October 7, 2010

All I've done from Tuesday to Wednesday evening is cry . Illy asked Tuesday night if I'm crying cause I miss Pappy . She's going to class at school for grievence twice a week and the guidance counsler told her we shouldn't cry , we should be happy cause your happy . (I wish it was that easy). Scotty , Shanna , Chad , and Sky went to the beach with Chads car for car week , I told them to be careful cause on Wednesday I had the bird flying around above us and also a flock of geese at the same time , so hopefully the good outways the bad . They called at 3 am. this morning and said they made it there safe . I sent all your medical records from the hospital and Dr. Smiths office to the critcal illness insurence today . Hopefully Mary who is taking care of your case will find something in them that will be worth something . Luv You , Babe

beth

October 3, 2010

Hi Hun , We just got back from the shore and I know you were with us cause I asked you if you could show me dolphins and on Saturday when we were all there the dolphins came across the water twice so we all could see them . You also showed me you were there cause I found a nickle washed up on the shore that had been in the water for awhile . Saturday night we all went down on the beach and put some of your ashes on the sand and took pictures of the waves taking you with them . Now you can be at the beach all the time where you like to be the most besides out walking your gun in the woods at hunting time !!!!
You always came up in our talks when we were there about how you did this or when you did that . Illy got up with me Wednesday and Thursday to watch the sunrise . I got pictures and the way the clouds were and the sun rising , it looks like steps to Heaven and then a castle with a city around it . Kristen wrote your name in the sand and put her hand print on either side of it with the date you died , and another with this year on it . Illy also got pictures to take back to school to show of a Puffer fish and Jellyfish that washed up on the beach . Kristen tried to save the Puffer fish but it was out of the water to long . We ran into Larry that you worked with and broke the news to him about you . He didn't know . I bought a Dolphin with diamonds on to go with your Angel wings and the heart with your thumbprint on . I'm going to make a charm necklace with them to wear . I also know you were there cause I was walking on the boardwalk by myself and I heard someone behind doing your throat clearing sound that you always did whenever you wanted to get my attention . I'm sorry I got the time wrong when you fell into my arm , it was 9:07 not 9:15 , so on Scotty's necklace it has the wrong time . In 2 hours it will be 8 weeks and I think tonite I'll be able to cry cause I'm starting now so don't ever again think that I'd be happy when you left me .I Love you SO SO Much and miss you and with everything thats going on with Kristen and missing you I don't know how I'll make it (I guess with God and your help I'll make it , I hope).

beth

September 24, 2010

Hi Hun , It's Friday and two days til your 7th week in Heaven . I got the records from the hospital and the jewelery from the funeral home with your thumbprint on . On Tuesday kristen , Illy and I are going to the beach . I'm going to wear your necklace with your ashes in while I'm there so you can be with me .(since you wanted to go but God took you to soon). Be glad your not here cause the
stink bugs are really bad (worse than the flies in the past).I'm all cried out . I feel like I need to cry but can't . Hope you can be by my side while we're down there so you can sit and watch the waves with me . Luv and Miss you !!! Babe

beth

September 21, 2010

It's been 6 weeks since you left us . On Sunday night I gave Scotty a vase with some of your ashes in . He's making shelves in the corner of the living room to put your things on . (He didn't want to when you first died). Luv and miss you ALOT !!! Babe

beth

September 12, 2010

I got the wish I would have done this , or did it this way or seen the signs more so I could've had the family there more blues .i should have had Kristen bring Illy along to see you one last time . Maybe she would understand better . She thinks because you left her that Mommy is going to leave her and does'nt want to go to school because of it . I had a talk with her last night , hopefully it will work (she,s only 5). It'll soon be 5 weeks and I'm holding the tears back as much as I can . LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU . Babe

beth eberly

September 8, 2010

Hi Hun , Today Scotty , Shanna and the girls stopped over for a minute (it is their 8th anniversery) . I was standing there and Ciarra walked up to me and asked me if I miss Pappy? I said yes very very very much , and
she said "me to I miss him" .
The other day I was watching Kendall and I showed her your picture and she looked at it , then me , then it again . Later she was sitting with Kristen on the sofa and she looked over towards the birds and started waving . We both said are you waving at Pappy? She smiled . And now I know she was waving at you because the lights are flickering alot . WE ALL LUV AND MISS YOU !!! HAVE FUN WITH THE FAMILY UP THERE AND WATCH OVER ALL OF US AS I KNOW YOU ARE , I know your with me cause I keep finding money where I have already cleaned . Thank you . Luv ---Babe

beth eberly

August 29, 2010

Hi Hun, It,s 3 weeks tonite since you left us , and like clock work at 9:15 to 9:45 I cry and wish you were here but I keep telling myself your at peace with god beside you . Illy's standing here while I'm writing this and she's asking me what I'm writing . Her words are " Miss you Pappy really really really much , that he's in heaven that you miss him , that he's in heaven with God, He was a great husband and tha best Pappy, and the best cooker and that she misses you and the best babysitter ever . We all love and miss you dearly !!!! Illy, Kristen and I say bye and be happy . Love Babe

beth eberly

August 25, 2010

I finally slept in our bed last night (by my self) .I slept through without even moving . Love You and Miss You !!!!
Babe

beth eberly

August 22, 2010

Well Hun , Today in 2 hours it will be 2 weeks since you went with God . It's starting to hit Kristen alittle . Things happen at work that make her think of you and the tears start. Illy made the comment the other day that since you are dead and in heaven that you can't eat your candy she'll have to for you .I still think of you constantly and I'm trying not to hit the anger mode but it's hard even though I know it was God's doing this time and not yours. I guess yor staying up there more now 'cause the lights don't flicker as much . Love and Miss you , Babe

beth eberly

August 15, 2010

Hi Hun , I heard you talked to Scotty yesterday (14th) in a dream . You called him and told him you were having ice cream with Mom and Dad . Scotty asked you what Micheal looks like and you told him "a little bit of you and a little bit of him" . Scotty said he asked you something (he can't remember what) and you told him "it's to late now" . He could'nt remember anymore but it made him feel better that you came to see him . And Yes , I know your here with the flickering of the lights . It's 25 minutes until your birth backin Heaven and one week . I MISS YOU SOOOO MUCH!!! I slept with your polar bear( that I got you the last time you were in ) last night and cryed myself to sleep .
Take care of our baby and please never forget me! Luv Babe

Debbie Gabris

August 15, 2010

God Bless
We miss and love you!
We haven't had a lot of time together, but you are always in our heart and prayers.

Kathy Snow

August 13, 2010

I'm so sorry to hear about Scott. If there's anything that I can do please let me know. And Beth and Kristen, if you need to talk I'm here.

Arleta Anderson

August 13, 2010

Sorry to hear about your loss..U must stay strong for u n ur family! Ur father is no longer in pain...trust God's guidance n rejoice the fun memories that u shared with ur father....May God keep u n ur family close as u mourn for the loss of ur father! ? Leta!

Michelle Shenberger

August 12, 2010

Beth I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know it's hard but things will get better in time. I'm sure Scott will watch and take care of you everyday. Remember he is just a prayer away.

Danielle Ramsey

August 12, 2010

i am sooo sorry to hear about your loss! I will never forget all the fun times I had at the eberly residence and how scott could always crack a joke and make fun of Kristen and I. He was such a wondnerful grandfather to the girls! My thoughts and prayers are with you all and may you hold your memories close and keep him alive through memories!

beth eberly

August 12, 2010

I'm starting to feel empty inside today and scotty and I are both feeling this is not real . We started to go through your clothe and Kristen is going to take most of your clothe to the home , so at least you'll know who's wearing them. We're all glad your home with us. It makes it a lot easier . You should see all the cards and flowers your getting!!! Love Ya , Babe

beth eberly

August 12, 2010

Hun, Iwrote this on Monday the 9th. but I guess I messed up somewhere . I wanted to let you know that we went to the littles funeral home and made the arrangements . I'm sorry but I went against your wishes and am going to have you creamaited because i can't stand to put you in the ground . I hope you understand and forgive me .Babe

August 12, 2010

Thoughts and prayers for the Eberly family.
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beth eberly

August 11, 2010

Well Hun we all made it through the services today. Ronnie and Brian l. took it a little hard . I hope you were there with us and seen and felt all the love for you in the room . Let your soul rest for awile because you went through Hell here on earth , but hopefully you learned in this life what you needed to !!!! Love and miss you!!!! "Babe"

Bud Stewart

August 11, 2010

Deepest sympathy to family of Scott. I came in contact with him at the dealership for many years working in the business. Always a smile and joking. Keep all your fond memories close to your heart till you meet again. God Bless

Ron Hess

August 10, 2010

To my best friend growing up. We had great times together. We would fight like brothers but he would come back in a short time and things would be good again. I remember going to school and always stopping to pick him up to walk down the road to the bus stop. The good old days of riding bikes building snow forts watching TV on Sat. mornings. Then one day the little white house went up for sale and the Eberly family moved away. Always remembering Scott Mom Dad and Linda and the poodles. My thoughs and prayers go out to all your family.

Shirley Hess

August 10, 2010

We are so sorry to read about the death of Scott. Our family lived on Pine Grove Road close to Scott's Mom and Dad's house. Scott grew up with my brother and me. Scott spent alot of time playing with my brother, Ron. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family.
Ralph, Phyllis, Shirley, and Ron Hess (York, PA)

Sonja Reed-Spigelmyer

August 10, 2010

My heart goes out to the family. Beth & Kristin, you both are in my thoughts and prayers.

william krouse

August 10, 2010

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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