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for James Ellegate
Penny Wightman
October 24, 2008
To Jim's family and friends.
Jim was my student at SUC Oneonta more than 20 years ago, but his good humor, kind nature and keen intellect distinguished him from his peers. He clearly did the same as a professional, friend, and father. The sorrow I feel at his passing is tempered only by the priviledge and honor I feel for having known him as a friend. My sincerest sympathies.
John Bagnardi
October 24, 2008
The Ellegate Family,
My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you. Jim was a great friend growing up and leaves me with nothing but positive memories. May God watch over his family.
Kevin Morley
October 22, 2008
The Ellegate's, Julie & Kids:
Hard to admit I first met Jim nearly 25 years ago, but first impressions last a lifetime and Jim's is certainly without comparison. Many have already expressed the compassion and even keel that carried him forward with seemingly little effort. As a result it is the monster wake of positive energy and good will that will be an everlasting influence and tragic loss. My deepest sympathy to the whole family and gratitude for the wonderful times I enjoyed with you and Jim.
Vicki Hayner (Reynolds)
October 20, 2008
John & Ellegate Family,
I was so sad to hear of Jim's passing. I didn't know him well, but my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. May your memories help carry you through these dark days.
Love and prayers
Larry Hollist
October 15, 2008
When I think of Jim, I go back to those early mornings in Jr. High and Sr. High walking to school with the Allens, Royce Johnson and others. Some days that was the best time of the school day.
I remember fun times in the library and at school. I also enjoyed meeting up with Jim after spring track practice and getting a ride home through upper Wilber Park on his snowmobile.
Of all the memories of Jim that I have the one I love the most was at our 20th High School Reunion. We were able renew our friendship. I was able see his concern for friends that were not there. Most of all I was able to what a wonderful father he was. The world is need of good fathers and now we are one short.
My deepest sympathies go out to all that knew him. May we always remember what a good man he was and find peace in our hearts.
My love and prayers go out to his family.
Rich & Jackie Ellwood
October 15, 2008
We just learned of Jim's untimely passing, and we are shocked. He was a good friend and advisor, and your loss must be intolerable. We have been praying for him, you and your dear family.
Cindy George-Speanburgh
October 15, 2008
Carolyn and Family
I was so sorry to hear about Jim. May the love of family and friends help you through your grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Denise Corna
October 15, 2008
Dear Ellegate family,
My sincerest condolences on your loss. Jim was a classmate and, more recently, a friend as we communicated via e-mail. We're never prepared for such losses, but it's even more difficult to lose someone so young and so suddenly, especially someone as wonderful as Jimmy. Know that there are many out here who will miss him and who keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. May the love and support of family and friends help you through this most difficult time. May Jim's memory and love for you sustain you.
With sympathy, Denise Corna
Jenny (Pearson) Flynn
October 14, 2008
Dear Carolyn & Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Jimmy will always be remembered as a great guy. I fondly remember riding back to Oneonta from SUNY Albany with him in the early 80's. He is missed.
Mary Sisson EIbs
October 14, 2008
Carolyn, I am so sorry to hear about your brother's death. I don't think I knew him but it certainly sounds like he was loved and respected by many people.
Kim (Dibble) Tennity
October 14, 2008
Grace and beloved family of Jim:
I met you both over 20 years ago and will never forget the impact Jim had on my life, my family and my friends. He was the driving force of encouragement behind me during those difficult college years when I just wanted to give up. Although we broke contact many years ago, I credit Jim with the success I have met. He is one of few truly caring and compassionate men. Peace be with all of you at this difficult time.
Bobby Brown
October 13, 2008
Jim was a very honorable man, he was certainly the last people who deserved a fate such as this. I only knew Jim for about 4 years I wish I had been fortunate enough to know him longer. I looked highley upon him and respected the way he lived his life, he worked hard but never forgot his family and friends. He was one of the greatest people that I have ever met and blessed are all of us who got to know him and be a part of his life. My prayers and sympathy reach out to those who morn and considerably to his wonderful wife and precious children
Joseph & Eva Ferrara
October 13, 2008
Julianne,
Our deepest condolences go out to you, your children and Jimmy's parents, brother and sisters. I just heard and we are so very sorry for Jimmy being taken away from you and your family. I hope James Jr. and Nicole are recovering from the accident ok. Jimmy was my closest friend from high school and we spoke often. He will be missed by many. May god be with you and your family in this very trying time.
David Cannistra
October 13, 2008
Carllyn and Family
My most heart felt regrets to read this. May time hopefully bring peace to you all. My prayers are with you all.
David Cannistra-Binghamton, NY
Bonnie Jones
October 13, 2008
Carolyn, Tom and Family,
I'm so sorry about he loss of your brother Carolyn. I can somewhat relate as we just lost my brother-in-law a few month ago very suddenly as well. It is a horrible shock to quickly lose someone you love. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Bonnie Jones and family
Donna Scull
October 13, 2008
Julie and family,
Words can't express how shocked and saddened we were to hear the news of Gater's (Jim's) sudden and untimely passing. He was a truly wonderful person who will be deeply missed by all. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of the joyful times you had together.
Jerry and Donna Scull
Donna DeMunck
October 13, 2008
I worked with Jim at the Animal Shelter and I don't think that I have ever had the pleasure of meeting a more wonderful person; he so loved those animals and they in return loved him. The family, friends and PAWS Shelter have lost a great person, he will be missed by all. He did so much for the shelter, he was patient with the animals and worked with them because that brought him joy. We are all very sad and know that there is no way we will ever be able to replace him. God must have needed him more than we did; my thoughts and prayers are with the family. I feel very lucky to have known him, I am a better person for the experience.
Joan Van Vranken (Jackson)
October 13, 2008
Carolyn and Ellegate Family:
There are no words that can adequately express the sorrow you must feel. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carolyn, I hope to see you soon. All my love,
Joanie
DWIGHT&NANCY PACKARD
October 13, 2008
WE ARE SORRY TO HEAR OF THE LOSS OF YOUR SON JAMES.MAY
MEMORIES BE CHERISHED AND LOVE
REMAIN IN YOUR HEARTS.
Linda Perry
October 13, 2008
My thoughts and prayers to you all.
Steve & Karen Jackson
October 13, 2008
Julianne, we were very sorry to hear about the accident. Jim brought a lot of joy and laughter to all of us at E&Y. You and the children are in our thoughts and prayers.
Shelley Ayers
October 13, 2008
Dear Julie & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. My son, Patrick, attends school with James Jr, and we would like to express our deepest prayers to you and your family during this difficult time.
Marty & Marianne
October 13, 2008
Dear Grace & family,
Our heartfelt sympathy in the tragic loss of your brother, husband and father. May God give you unfailing strength to bear this pain. Keep his memory when the stars shine at night. He will always be in your hearts. Sincerely,
Rose and Jay Carey
October 12, 2008
Our hearts and prayers with you all. Jim touched all of our lives and he will be truely missed.
Judy Cummings
October 12, 2008
Mrs. Ellegate, Grace & Leah,
We were so sorry to learn of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love always, Judy & John Cummings and Family
Lou and Barb Michel
October 12, 2008
Julianne & Children - We are so saddened to hear of Jim's passing. Over the past 15 years we had come to respect Jim as both an astute business person but also as a caring, concerned person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
jim byrne
October 12, 2008
Grace, Leah, and family, Sorry to hear of your loss. Bless you all during this difficult time,
Mugsey Byrne
Peter Barberio
October 12, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Jay Wallace
October 11, 2008
My deepest sympathies go out to the entire Ellegate family. Jimmy was a lifelong friend, make that brother to me, words cannot express how much he will be missed. John, Carolyn, Grace and Leah and Mr. & Mrs. Ellegate, Julie and children, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sincerely, Jay, Larissa & Wyett Wallace
Kathy Littman (Waters)
October 11, 2008
Julie,Liana,Jimmy and Nicki:
I was shocked and saddened after learning of your horrible accident. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God bless
Lisa Foti
October 11, 2008
Jim was a truly wonderful man who made an impact on all those he came in contact with. I'm truly sorry for your loss Julie. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dick & Jeanne Schuyler
October 11, 2008
Julianne and children,
We were so saddened to read of your loss!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
David and Debra Hall
October 11, 2008
Julie,
We are so sorry for your loss. Words cannot express the shock and sadness we feel for you and your family.
Ali Muhsen
October 11, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Jeffrey Kindron
October 10, 2008
Julie,Liana,Jimmy and Nicole.
Words don't exist to express my heartfelt sympathy. I admired Jim for his patience and dedication to the Boys on his teams. "Coach"Jim had a mastery of helping Boys who were struggling, offering gentle but firm encouragement and direction
Sincerely, Jeff Kindron
"A Man is never so tall as when he stoops to help a small child" -
Abraham Lincoln
SCOTT ALLEN
October 10, 2008
I WAS VERY SHOCKED AND SADDENED TO HEAR WHAT HAPPENED. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY.
R. Douglas Voelker
October 10, 2008
Sorry to hear of your loss. Jim will be greatly miss by all he ever came in contact with.
Carol & Lance Meschkow
October 10, 2008
We are deeply sorry about the sudden and tragic loss of Jim. Words can't express our heartfelt sadness for you and the children. We wish you and the kids all the strength and serenity to endure this loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Arthur & Sherry SPINA
October 10, 2008
Ellegate / Rizzo Family-
We are truly sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences to your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
amy belbas
October 10, 2008
Julie and family,
We only knew "Coach Jim" a few weeks, but he was very good with the boys and he truly cared about them. His dedication is greatly appreciated.
May god bless you and a quick recovery for your children.
Amy, Dave, Dominic and Peyton(Roy-Hart Football)
Tommy and Ashley Brigham
October 10, 2008
We were so shocked and saddened to hear the news. Jim was a wonderful man with a heart of gold. He will be missed.
Jeff and Vickie Anderson
October 10, 2008
Deepest condolences to your families. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lauren, Ken, Daria, and "TP" Paisley
October 10, 2008
Julie and family
We feel very lucky to have met Jim and to have called him friend for the past 3 years. The good times our 2 families have shared are happy memories we will cherish. We mourn with you the loss of a husband, father, son, and brother but perhaps, more profoundly, “just” a very good man. The world lost a very special person in Jim and our prayers and thoughts are with you and the kids.
John Sanderson
October 10, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of grief. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Your friends from Sanderson and Company
National Vacuum Corporation Albany Regional Office
October 10, 2008
We know that no words can ease your pain but, please know that we are thinking of you.
Wishing you hope, in the midst of sorrow and comfort in the midst of pain. Jim was a wonderful man and will be missed.
With Heart felt sympathy
Joe Gruver
October 10, 2008
My prayers and sympathy are with you.
Darren & Erin Moore
October 10, 2008
Julie And Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Jim was a Fantastic person. Anybody who came in contact with him knew that instantly. We were all blessed to have him in our lives. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.
Carolyn Edmister
October 10, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
michelle bruning
October 10, 2008
We are sorry for you loss your family is in our thoughts and prayers.Jim was our sons t-ball coach he was always able to make our son laugh.He was a wonderful person. The Bruning Family
John & Nancy Van Dorp
October 10, 2008
We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Please let us know if we can assist you in any way in these sad times. Jim was always there for so many years to "just listen and advise". We shared a great deal of mutual respect- he will be missed by all of us.
Karen & Will Sullivan
October 10, 2008
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Jim. May your strength be guided by faith and pain healed with time. God Bless.
Gary Sheedy (Tecmotiv)
October 10, 2008
Ellegate/Rizzo Family-
Everyone at our company was surprised and saddened by the sudden death of Jim. Although sympathy is only a small consolation, even from the hearts of us who share your sorrow, We want you to know how deeply Jim's loss is felt here. We cannot eliminate your sadness, but each individual of our company joins in this expression of our deep sympathy.
pratt family
October 10, 2008
your family is in our prays
April Flesch
October 10, 2008
Jim used to volunteer at PAWS Animal Shelter. He and his children would spend countless hours taking the orphan dogs out for a run. We loved to see Jim come to the shelter! He was fun, had charm and wit. He was also one of the smartest business men we knew. We are going to miss him!! We hope that Julianna and children will still be able to come visit at the shelter from time to time! You are in our hearts!
George wheeler
October 10, 2008
To Carolyn,John and Grace,
Please accept my deepest sympathy
October 9, 2008
Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Although words cannot begin to ease the pain, know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Staff at Tecmotiv
Lenny Siegel
October 9, 2008
Julie,
What a shock! I admire your strength, and I wish your kids a smooth, rapid recovery.
# 20 Albion Purple Eagles
October 9, 2008
We are very sorry to hear of your loss.Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
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