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Lee Barry Obituary
Two bicyclists participating in a cross-country ride to raise money for brain injuries died Sunday after a wreck with a van in Lancaster County.
Lee Anne Barry, founder of The B.I.G. Ride, was taken to Carolinas Medical Center and died around 6 p.m., said her husband, Ben Barry of Waxhaw. She was 43.
Thomas Hoskins, 49, of Columbia, S.C., died at the scene of the wreck, which happened around 2:15 p.m. on U.S. 521 about 11 miles north of Lancaster, the S.C. Highway Patrol said. The crash remains under investigation.
According to The B.I.G. Ride's Web site, Barry was hit by a car when she was 5 and 1/2 years old. She laid in a coma for months, then had to relearn how to walk and talk. At age 15, she convinced doctors to let her undergo a new brain surgery that helped her regain much of her physical strength and agility.
Ben and Lee Anne Barry started their cross-country treks in 2001. This year's trip began Aug. 28 in Seattle.
On Sunday, the group started the last leg of the ride in Columbia. Ben Barry said his wife, their 15-year-old son and Hoskins were riding toward Waxhaw when the accident occurred. The group had planned to meet a police escort, then complete the ride to Charlotte.
Ben Barry had driven ahead to Waxhaw in a van, then was riding back on his bike to meet the group.
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Memories and Condolences
for Lee Barry
Jim Chifane
February 18, 2010
I just found out about Lee Anne (Lori Genix in our neighborhood). I remember the accident for she had just left her home town of Jackson Michigan. I didn't recognize her new name. She hung out at the Gillett's Lake park with us and would jog often. What a fun person. You will be missed. The Gillett's lake crew.
Craig Annen
August 9, 2009
Ben I start thinking about this time of year I would be receiving a call from you and Lee Anne and discussing your route and if you would be traveling through our area. Lee Anne's loss is still a large void in Beth and my life in cycling. Still hoping we can somehow stay in touch. We have moved to Arkansas. You can contact us at [email protected]. Craig and Beth
Edward Mays
July 14, 2009
Ben I am sorry about your loss of your soul mate. If you would like to ralk sometime, my telephone number is (704) 817-8754. helps to talk with someone who has buationeen through a similar situation.
Ed Mays
John Barber
December 10, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
Our heart and prayers go to you in this Season. This difficult news has just reachd me, but I am so warmed remembering meeting Christian and leading him in Scouts and seeing your familys steady, loving support of him.
Goldman
November 14, 2007
I do not know you, but was sadden to hear of your very difficult loss. My husband and I love biking and we were listening to David on the Fred Cast and Lee Anne's story touched our hearts and left us with tears for all of you. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you, we hope that you are guided through this difficult time and find peace. Know words can express your loss, Lee Anne sounded like a wonderful, heartfilled woman; someone who I would want to ride and try to keep up with.
Peace,
Goldman Family
Elizabeth Drake
November 5, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian
I only can say you are a great family and had a great life together and God will bring you together again in heaven
Please call us as we dont know how to reach you 704-554-0221
Elizabth Drake
Aaron gibbs-drake
November 5, 2007
my heart is upset that i didn't get to know your family ben and christian amd i did not get to know lee anne as well as id like to im very sorry for your loss .
Barb & Bill Milligan
October 29, 2007
Dear Ben & Christian,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you both. Lee Anne was such an amazing woman. Her faith and determination leaves us in awe. We didn't get to spend enough time with her. We all could see how she made you so happy. It's a true blessing to be loved like that. We're always here for you both. We love you.
The Reule's
October 29, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Lee Anne was an angel and will be remembered and greatly missed. We are here for you. Love The Reule's
Alice Peets (Hicks)
October 28, 2007
We are deeply saddened by the news of Lori's (Lee Anne's)death. She has been very close to our family since she was a small child. In fact, we all considered Lori and her brothers and sisters a part of our family. Our sympathy and prayers go out to them, and Ben and Christian. Lori was an amazing person. She always wore a brilliant smile. She loved every minute of every day, and everyone. She was such an optimist, always finding the good in everything. Lori and her family will always remain in the hearts and memories of "The Hicks Family".
Carol Sentell
October 27, 2007
I was so sad to hear of Lee Anne and Tom's accident. They will both be terribly missed. I had the opportunity to meet them both along with your entire family at the first reception held at BellSouth a few years ago. The Pioneers would donate money to help their cause. The one thing I always remembered about Lee Anne was her smile. She never complained about the long trip she just made, she just kept smiling.
Always remember what an impact she made on so many people while she was here, and what a tremendous journey she set out to accomplish to help others.
God Bless
Carol W. Sentell
Hilton Head, SC
Formerly Columbia, SC
Daryl and Katharine Trackwell
October 26, 2007
Ben and Christian
Although I wasn't home when you, Lee Anne, and Tom stopped by on your way to Florida in 2005, I heard nothing but wonderful things from my husband. He was so glad that you all stopped. I only wish I had been here to meet Lee Anne myself. Tom was a good friend to us and we were fortunate that he stayed with us earlier this month when he took the trip to Florida solo this year. He talked of meeting you for the final leg of this years B.I.G. ride, he was so excited. Even though we are saddened and hurt by their loss, the legacy they left behind is testimony to their love of life and their faith in God. Know that we will be in contact and hope we might be able to help continue the work Lee Anne and Tom started on this earth. Our prayers are with you always.
Dora Richards (Hicks)
October 26, 2007
I have not seen Lori in many years, since I babysat her when she was very young. I did see her when she was staying with her father in Jackson back around 1985. She was something then and from all I hear from my sister & brother;she had truely grown into an utstanding woman. I would of really liked to of seen Lori when she home in Jackson recently but didn't get the chance. My thoughts are with you and your Son in these sad and trying times...May God Bless you and help through the pain.
Dave Blankenship
October 25, 2007
Dear Barry family,
Although I did not know Lee Anne, I was honored to participate in the bike ride to the service. Her dedication to Brain Injury research and cycling is truly an inspiration.
Anje Roney
October 25, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Joe Hradil
October 25, 2007
It is always sad to loose a fellow cyclist. My prayers are with you.
Beverly Holmes
October 25, 2007
Ben and Christian,
I am deeply saddened to hear the news about Lee Ann. Sending you my deepest prayers and pray God will watch over you and know she has been loved by many and will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you and Christian. God Bless you both.
David Bullock
October 25, 2007
Coach Barry,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Beverly Holmes
October 25, 2007
I was deeply saddened to hear the news about Lee Ann. My prayers are with you and Christian. She will be greatly missed. May God watch over you and know I am here for you.
Darrell Wright
October 25, 2007
Lee Anne - a special friend of my daughter Julie Silander
Barbara & Jamie Santamour
October 24, 2007
Ben and Christian,
Our thoughts and prayers are with both of you and we cannot begin to imagine how you must feel at the loss of such a special individual. We know she has gone to a better place and it is such a blessing to see an individual who has lived life well and had such a caring heart and desire to reach/teach others. May she continue to reach others thru you/Christian and the christian community. You all are in our hearts and prayers.
Lori Curtis
October 24, 2007
Ben and Christian,
It was truly an honor to participate in the bike ride leading up to the memorial service for Lee Anne. Thank you for sharing the memory of Lee Anne with us. She is an inspiration to us all.
Beverly Lueke
October 24, 2007
Ben
I am deeply saddened to hear the news about Lee Anne. I had such a wonderful time working with her in the tech booth at Church at Charlotte. She was an invaluable part of the weekly production team as well as our Christmas production staff.
Lee Anne's gifts and talents were exceptional and given to others with complete love and abandon. She was a role model for us all. Would that each of us develop the strength, fortitude, character and gentleness that Lee Anne so perfectly displayed throughout her life.
Please know that my love and prayers are with you and your family during this time.
Dawn Hedrick and Ricky Kimel
October 24, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
I was shocked when I heard about this yesterday. You all are in our prayers. Lee Anne was a great person her life story was amazing and we are glad to of meet her. She will be greatly miss.
Jonathan & Emily Carmichael
October 24, 2007
Ben & Christian -
Our prayers are with you. How telling of our times that we didn't really know Lee Anne's story until now. She leaves a remarkable legacy. We know you will grive her loss, treasure her memory, and that hope and comfort will surely be given to you.
Mike Starkey
October 24, 2007
Coach Barry,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark Hagar
October 24, 2007
To Lee Anne's family and friends,
I'm saddened by the passing of Lee Anne and Tom, as all cyclists are.
Though I did not know either Lee Anne or Tom, Lee Anne came through Grand Rapids MI this year on her cross country ride, and stopped in at a local school to discuss the need for all children to wear helmets while riding, to protect them from injury. This was covered by local TV stations.
As a volunteer of the GR Safe Kids Coalition, a part of their cycling team, we distribute helmets free to area children, and insure they fit properly. I deeply respect the work Lee Anne was doing, to help educate kids nation wide.
As a member of the Ride of Silence, a ride that takes place worldwide, (274 in 2007, over 200 in the USA) to remember and honor our friends and family who've been injured or killed by motorist while riding, that fully endorses the Share the Road program, in hopes of educating motorists that we have the same rights, to be cautious/careful, and to please Share the Road with us....
I ask you all to consider joining the May 21st 2008, at 7 PM, Ride of Silence to honor and remember Lee Anne and Tom, whether you ride in Charlotte NC (a Ride held in 2007), in Jackson MI, her home town (a Ride held in 2007), or any other city across the U.S. Please visit the website below for 2007 locations.
If you wish to organize a Ride of Silence in your community, but are unsure of how to do so, or would like additional information, please feel free contact me.
May their ideals and memories live on,
Sincerely,
Mark Hagar
Ride of Silence, Board Member, Mentor & Club Communications
Ride of Silence, MI Director, 2005-08 Grand Rapids Ride Organizer
http://www.rideofsilence.org
[email protected]
616 987-9198
Tommy Fuller
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben,
I am deeply saddened by your loss and the loss we share as friends and community. The years I have known you and Lee Anne seem so brief. Yet how rich, purposeful, and full you made them as a couple! Without doubt, God brought you both together at just the right time. Through your love and support as a husband and your mutual willingness to follow God's calling for your lives, much has been accomplished for His kingdom, for our community, and for those challenged by brain injuries. How humbling it is for me to know Lee Anne's story, to have witnessed God's redemptive power in her life, and to have been able to claim you both as friends. May God comfort both you and Christian on your continued journies.
Meredith McCall
October 23, 2007
Ben and Christian,
I was very saddened to hear of the loss of Lee Anne. I am a PT at Patricia Neal in Knoxville and was there to hear her speak a few weeks ago. She was a special lady and I know she made a difference in many people's lives. You will be in my prayers in the upcoming days.
For in much wisdom is much grief
Jack Wilson
October 23, 2007
Though I never met you, I feel as if an angel received her wings. I know you will be watching down on your family and friends. Thanks for all you have done for those that were hurting.
Kevin OReilly
October 23, 2007
As a biking enthusiast, I mourn the trgic loss of Lee Anne and sympathies to her family. Cycling is a sport which we all cherish and love, the freedom of the open road. May she now enjoy the freedom of God. So sorry to see a good life cut short.
Mary Boley
October 23, 2007
Dear Lee Anne
Life is truly short. Who would have known 3 weeks ago when you and Ben were in Jackson that it would be the last time I would ever be able to hug and tell you that I loved you. I feel very fortunite that I was able to see you three times this year. I'll always remember you as such a sweet child. You grew up to such an extra special person.
(you will always to Lori to me) xxoo
Ben and Christian,
You are in my and Ken's prayers.
Love
Aunt Mary and Uncle Ken
George Davis
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
Please accept my sincere condolences. Although I never met Lee Anne I mourn her death which will be a great loss not only to the cycling world but to all humanity. The world needs more Lee Annes to show us the way.
Cyndi Young
October 23, 2007
DEar Ben & Christian,
Lee Anne and both of you have been customers of mine both at SuperCuts and First Charter. Lee Anne was such a wonderful person always smiling and friendly and I will miss her greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. She will be remembered fondly.
B.I.G. Ride biker makes a stop in Canton On Friday, Sept. 21
October 23, 2007
Kwame Alexander
October 23, 2007
Coach Barry,
I'm am saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Lee Anne 9-21-2007 Canton Illinois
October 23, 2007
Lee Ane, Jennifer, & Kevin Canton Illinios
October 23, 2007
Steve Love, Ben, Mayor Rod Heinz, Lee Anne Canton Illinois 9-21-2007
October 23, 2007
Chris Hess
October 23, 2007
God loaned us an angel.
Jim Simes
October 23, 2007
I did not know Lee Anne, but as a fellow cyclist I do know the joy and personal value of cycling. After reading a few of her accomplishments in life, I was touched. She was a very special person who has touched many lives.
Will and Ann Leach
October 23, 2007
Ben and Christian,
Lee Anne was an inspiration to us all. She really has left a legacy for us to remember her by. She has touched so many lives. I enjoyed talking with her when I took my students to Camp Thunderbird back in 1997, then at Forest Hill singles group, and again when we both worked in FH childcare. She will be missed....and remembered for the great things she has done here on earth. Much love and prayers to you both. Ann and Will Leach
Laura Lederhaus
October 23, 2007
I did not ever meet you, but what an inspiration you seemed to be to everyone around you. I am a sister cyclist and know you will be missed (not only in the cycling world), but to many who loved and cared for you. My prayers go out to your family.
Susan Poston
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben & Christian:
I was stunned when I came into work this morning and Mike told me what had happened. I am so sorry. I wish I could say something or do something that would take away your grief and pain, but only God can do that. Lee Anne was a wonderful person with a beautiful spirit. Her determination was an inspiration to all of us who knew her. Please know that I'll be praying for God to comfort the two of you and give you strength and courage to face the days and weeks ahead.
Andrea Mayer
October 23, 2007
Ben
What a pleasure it was to work with Lee Anne at
Childrens Academy at Carmel. To observe your love for one another and her desire to uplift others has truely been a Blessing. May her love smile down on both you and Christian.
Sarah Thompson
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
We are shocked and saddened by Lee Anne's death. We are praying for you! I am so glad we got to cycle together a few times and regret we did not do it more. Even though I didn't get to do the B.I.G. RIDE, she was perfectly content to take me out on LITTLE rides! She was so patient with me, but then she was probably just warming up for her next thirty miles or so! Great memories!
Sarah Thompson and children
Jack Crutchfield
October 23, 2007
Christian & Ben,
My heart is with you. Been years since I last saw you at Christian's birthday party, but I think of you two and Lee Anne quite often. God bless you and be with you! Your mom is still a winner, Christian!!!!
Michael Duffy
October 23, 2007
I am truly sorry for your loss. What an amazing story of courage. We should all strive to be this strong. People like Lee Anne will be sorely missed.
Judy Brown
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
Just to let you know that my love and prayers are with you.Lee Anne was one great person and I am so glad to say I was fortunate to know her.She will be greatly miss. I think of her often when i hear the oldies song,with her and i singing around Serendipity HOUSE
Sending My Love and Prayers
Becky Cnesich
October 23, 2007
To the family and friends of Lee Anne:
Eventhough I don't know you, I am heart-broken over your great loss. Me, my 11 year old son and his friends were on our way to the skate park in Waxhaw on Sunday afternoon around 2:00 p.m., when we came up on the horrific accident. Police nor the abulance had arrived. Members from Steele Hill AME Zion Church were with Lee Ann trying to help and comfort her. I wanted so desperately to stop, but my son and his friends were visibly upset so I decided it was best to go on. I told the boys that we needed to pray for the cyclists and their families. When I heard that Lee Anne (and Tom) didn't survive, I was devasted for you and his family. Please know that you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers in the coming days, weeks, and months. All my love and sympathy goes out to you at this difficult time.
Carolyn Aycock
October 23, 2007
Dear Christian and Mr. Barry,
Words cnnot even describe how sorry I am about the death of Mrs. Barry. I am going to attend the memorial service on wednesday to pay my respects. God Bless You Both!
Sincerely,
Carolyn Aycock
Me and my niece Alexis in Florada in 2006
Mark Smith
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben,
I met you in Canton IL (Fulton County TBI Support Group with Steve Love). My wife and I are with you and Chritian in prayer.
You were two courageous, inspiring, and wonderful people to be with! I felt honored! Thank you!
Sandy Ibach
October 23, 2007
Dear Christian, Hey! We all miss you here at AG! I was so sorry to hear about your Mom. She cared so much for you and was always helping us out here at AG. I know you will miss her so much, and I will be praying for your broken heart to heal. Much Love, Mrs. Ibach
Jock, Marge & Amy Edwards
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
We were saddened and shocked by the news about Lee Anne's and Tom's deaths. You are in our prayers constantly. Lee Anne was a beautiful, beautiful woman. We enjoyed your visit with us last Wednesday night so much. You both seemed so relaxed and happy. May you receive God's comfort at this difficult time.
Buzz & Kyle Stesney
October 23, 2007
Ben & Christian,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We feel so fortunate to have spent the day with you and LeeAnne in September on your rest day, we will cherish the memories. God Bless.
Peter Thomopoulos
October 23, 2007
Coach Barry,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Hilda and George Scott
October 23, 2007
We're new to the Charlotte area but we're long term cyclists from the Tidewatr Bicycling Association from the Tidewater area of Virginia. We
were so sorry to hear of Lee Anne's tragic accident and would like to extend our sympathy and prayers to her family.
Ila Nofziger
October 23, 2007
Having had a daughter with a brain injury, I was very interested in Lee Anne's ministry and advocacy and followed her mission. Her faith and dedication meant a lot to me and to many others-she will be sadly and greatly missed, but her legacy will go on and on-she will NEVER be forgotten.
Dave and Mills Smith
October 23, 2007
Ben and Christian,
We are shocked and stunned to hear this terribly tragic news. We send you prayers of peace and comfort to support both of you in this difficult time of loss. Lee Ann will be greatly missed.
Jeanette Watkins
October 23, 2007
Dear Ben,
I was so sorry to hear about Lee Anne and the other cyclist, as I just read about her ride a few weeks ago in the Greenville News. You are in my prayers. I asked my cyclist friend Robert, of TheSlowLane.com to post a note on his blog to inform the cycling community in Bellingham, WA.
Derek and Shelley White
October 23, 2007
Ben and Christian,
We learned of Lee Anne's tragic accident yesterday morning, and you have all been in our thoughts and prayers continuously since then. What an incredibly brave lady Lee Anne was, and an inspiration to all of us to make the most of every day here. I pray that her spirit will live on in all of us. God bless you, Ben, and know that your friends from Forest Hill Church are praying for you and all of your family. Our lives were all touched by Lee Anne.
Pam, Ed & Rachel Kershner
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
You're probably still in shock and it may not seem real sometimes that Lee Anne is gone. She will always live in your minds and hearts. Grieving takes a while, and you will still be grieving when it seems the rest of the world has moved on. It's incredible how many lives you and Lee Anne touched across the country, people you met, and many who never met you and Lee Anne. That is an incredible testimony in itself of how God has used you and Lee Anne. What a privilege to have known her and you. I wish that I hadn't waited to ask Lee Anne more about her testimony and life. She had a willingness to serve, and I was a recipient of that when she volunteered to stay part of the time with me in the hospital after we lost Sean. I am so very glad to have been a witness to her testimony and her life. Losing a loved one is so very hard. A card we received after losing Sean said that life is so tender, and fragile, and precious. I believe that is true and we have to live every moment to the fullest. I believe that Lee Anne lived that way and had few regrets. I pray that you and Christian will live the rest of your lives that way. The road ahead of you isn't easy, but God has promised to sustain us as we walk through it and suffer as Christ suffered. It will take time, your hearts won't forget, but they will heal. It is obvious from the outpourings from people across the country and here that Lee Anne was blessed and loved. Know that you and Christian are, too, and that many, many people are lifting you up in prayer.
Shared Family Memories from Ashville November, 2004
Randy & Cheri Hicks
October 22, 2007
God blessed us with a Great Woman. She triumphed over much, but never failed to embrace life with a smile. We shall be apart for only a moment, as God will restore us anew.
Good night Lori, we Love you!
Mark Vereneau
October 22, 2007
Ben & Christian,
It was an honor and previlege to ride with Lee Anne in 2003 and 2005.
I will always remember Lee Anne's warm smile.
Lee Anne was passionate about her cause and she will always be an inspiration to me to do what appears cannot be done. My thoughts and prayers to you in this time of sadness.
As the day fades I will pray for you everyday
Carla, Guy, Carmela Zeuner
October 22, 2007
My Heart goes out to all of you.
God Bless and Take Care.
Zeuner
Gastonia, NC
Don,Elizabeth, Sam & Ben Lineberger
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben & Christian,
Our family is deeply saddened at your loss. Lee Anne had an "angelic" quality about her and her contagious smile always brightened our day. Her life sparkled with the joy of the Lord. We admire the sacrifices all of you made to make the B.I.G. ride possible and to bless so many people along the way...not only across our country, but also here at home as we followed your journey with prayer. May the Lord sustain you both with his arms of love, grace you with many precious memories of Lee Anne, and give you peace that only He can give. Please know you can call us anytime.
Janie Davis
October 22, 2007
We are saddened to hear of this tragic loss. Please know that you are in our prayers. We are part of the Alabama AT&T Cycling Team and Cahaba Cycling Team.
Larry and Janie Davis
Victoria and Steve Liccione
October 22, 2007
Ben and Christian- We can't even imagine what you are going through now. As riders waiting to meet Lee Anne and who heard, right away , of the accident, please know that you, and she, were in our prayers constantly. There are no words that can dull your pain, but please know that Lee Anne left this world a much better place for having been here, even for a short time. Our thoughts are with you.
Ashley Tully
October 22, 2007
Ben,
We are so sorry to hear about Lee Anne. She was such a kind and loving heart, obviously strong in her determination and such a wonderful teacher and mentor! We were privileged to have known her. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Ashley, Brent, Spencer and Cameron Tully
Jean Mansell
October 22, 2007
Ben, So sorry to hear of your sudden loss of Lee Anne. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you all, and your wonderful memories comfort you. I only met her a few times, and she was a very loving and careing person, and I feel very blessed to have known her.
I will keep you and your family in my prayers during this sad time for you. Much love, your cuz-in-law. Jean Mansell
Breck Stack
October 22, 2007
Dear coach Berry i am so sorry for your loss i remember all the wrestling matches Lee Anne came to to see us wrestle at our best with you helping coach the Myers Park Mustangs. My heart goes out to you and your son. With much love.
Leta Flowers
October 22, 2007
Ben and Christian, it has been an honor to know Lee Anne. She was a kind and thoughtful person and really loved the little ones she cared for at Forest Hill.I want to tell you how she spoke of both of you with love and pride. You meant so very much to her! I also remember how much she looked forward to the ride across country every year. You must have so many wonderful memories! May God bless and comfort you both. Leta Flowers
Annette Tucker
October 22, 2007
Christian,
Your Mom is one of which you can surely be proud; a wonderful woman without a doubt. When I hear her name, the only thing that comes to my mind are good thoughts, her smile, her sweet spirit, and the way she has dedicated her life to others. You couldn't ask for a better mom or example in which to pattern your life. I trust you will hold each memory close to your heart as I know this must be so hard for you. She has been on my mind all day... and that has been hard enough for me! If I may share a "sweet" memory of your mom... the day she helped me make cotton candy for Forest Hill Troop 112 concession booth (festival). We were both covered head to toe in blue and pink fluff and enjoyed every minute of our time together, laughing (and choking on sugar). She didn't mind helping with such a messy task and wouldn't leave until we could leave together. I am thankful to have had her friendship and her memory is dear to me. Please know I am thinking of YOU and am sending you a BIG "mom" HUG that you can use any time you need it. Love to you .... make your mom proud ...
Lee Young
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben,
Words can not express how deeply saddened I am for your loss. Your face always lit up when you spoke of Lee Anne or Christian at our life group meetings. Our prayers are with you, Christian, and all of Lee Anne's family and friends in this time. May our Lord comfort you all and give you Peace.
Kathy Archie and Family
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
Words cannot utter how I feel. Just yesterday my girls and I signed the banner to welcome the B.I.G. riders back to the Church at Charlotte.
Our hearts and prayers go out to you both. Lee Ann was a tremendously caring and kind individual who always left you inspired with her determination and joy of life. She will be greatly missed. We look forward to seeing her again in the Kingdom.
Yours Truly,
Richard & Norma Laguna
October 22, 2007
Condolences to the Family from the Port Saint Lucie Life Member Club.
Steve Fine
October 22, 2007
As a co-rider of Lee Anne's on the Face of America, I came to know her as a wonderful person, dedicated cyclist with an infectious attitude of determination, love and joy. She was thrilled with every pedal stroke and what the next turn would bring.
My favorite memory of Lee Anne is after the completion of her first
Century - Bob Connors and I convinced her that a tradition was to throw the rider into the closest pool. She screamed and wiggled while we carried her by feet and hands to the pool. As we got closer, she stopped, smiled and said. "throw me in the deep end!", then resumed the screaming and wiggling!
What a character!
Our prayers and sympathies for Ben and their son. As with any
loss, our wonder of why, our memories of good times and prayers that God is now holding her in His hands.
With fondest memories,
Steve Fine
Member - East Coast Team - Face of America 2000
Dana and Bill Kumerow
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben,
We are so saddened to hear of the loss of Lee Anne. You and Christian are in our prayers and thoughts. Lee Anne was a woman of great courage, faith and committment. Your loss is shared by all who knew her. May God walk with you and give you His peace.
Bob Connors
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben,
It is with a heavy heart I write this letter.
I rode with Lee Anne and World Team Sports (W.T.S.) to St. Louis and she became like a daughter to me on that ride.
The joy that she got from finishing her first century ride was very special to share with her. I will always remember the hard work she put into every mile she rode.
My prayers are with you and Christian in your time of sorrow.
Lee Anne will not be forgotten.
Gordon Williamson
October 22, 2007
Ben,
It was a priviledge to ride with you and Lee Anne to the Kentucky Horse Park in 2003. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
John Barry
October 22, 2007
To Ben and Christian
Lee Anne thanked me for the prayer we had together here two weeks ago. She testified to her faith in Christ many times when I have talked to her and we can be sure she is now at home with Him in heaven. Losing a wife and mother is very hard. Thanks to Jesus, we have His promise that we will meet again in heaven.
Dad and Grandad
Denise Pittenger
October 22, 2007
The members of the Chattanooga Area Brain Injury Association send our regrets to Ben and Lee Ann's family. It seems like yesterday Lee Anne was receiving a new green helmet from us (2001). We will miss Lee Anne and all that she did to bring recognition to brain injury survivors and awareness to each community that she visited.
Earl and Linda Kalb
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben,
Earl and I am so sorry to hear about Lee Anne. Crikett had phoned us this morning. I can't believe this has happened. Since we meant you guys in Canton, Il. we have been following your trip day by day and was planning on phoning you after you arrived back home. Ben, it was an honor meeting the both of you. Our hearts go out to you and Christain. As I had told you before when ever you are in Peoria you are always welcome to stay with us.
Joe Goodman
October 22, 2007
Ben ,Liz and I are so sorry about Lee Anne . We met her when she came to our insurance agency and as her agent we participated in her beginning of BIG. We remember how happy she was when you two married and know your loss is immersurable. She will be remembered by us as a very special person forever . Joe & Liz Goodman , Nationwide Insurance
Roger & Sharlene Hamilton
October 22, 2007
Our hearts are broken for your loss but also rejoice in the legacy Lee Anne left with us all. Thank you for sharing her life with us. Our future rides will be to honor her and the great works she accomplished.
May God comfort you in the days to come.
Candace Alarcon
October 22, 2007
My condolences are with the Barry Family. My (now) 16 year old brother was hit head on by a vehicle when riding his bike at the age of 9 years old causing him to be in a coma for several months and caused severe brain damage. It has changed my family and him. But it has not changed his spirit. Although he is unable to walk, talk, and do all the things a normal 16 year old does. We believe that he will "come back to us" when we least expect it. Joshua was not wearing a helmet but speed was definitely a factor. Since the accident occurred. Children at Play signs have been posted and speed limit signs as well. Josh is still going strong; attending school everyday. Its a blessing just to see him smile.
Jennifer Jones
October 22, 2007
Ben and Christian,
Please know that you are being thought of and are in the prayers of Tennesseans who have all been touched by your family. It was so good to have Ben and Lee Anne here just two weeks ago. I had no idea how lucky I was to have her company at that time. I feel honored to have known Lee Anne and the great work that she has done.
Thank you Lee Anne for raising awareness and education about brain injury and for sharing it with so many people. Others simply wouldn't have done so much, but you have and it will go on to help so many people. It is a beautiful and courageous, admirable and giving life that you have shared with everyone.
With Love, Jennifer
Christine McAlarney
October 22, 2007
Thanks Lee Anne for inspiring so many of us. As a fellow cyclist and a BellSouth/ATT employee I've followed the BIG Ride each year. I hope your family finds comfort in knowing that your memory will live forever.
Timothy Stesney
October 22, 2007
To my cousin Lori (Lee Anne): Although we have not seen each other for many years, I know our bond as family is true. I apologize for having written so late, but life kind of got in the way. I have missed you, and Tracy and Louie and Joe very much. We always had fun when we were together. One of the things I love about you is your sweet spirit. Always loving, always trusting. The Lord has taken you in his arms and brought you to your heavenly home. Tell Aunt Norma and Uncle Lou I miss them too.
I love you.
To Ben and Christian: My deepest sympathies for the loss of your most precious wife and mother. Lee Anne was an exceptional human being. She’s overcome so many obstacles in her life. My you find peace and solace during this most tragic time.
With Much Love
Celese Ward
October 22, 2007
Ben and Christian,
May God comfort you both during this time of mourning.
Leeann's constant smile, good humor, and enliveninng presence will be sorely missed by us all.
Uncle Clair, Aunt Vi Myers
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian:
It was such a great priveledge to have all three of you as our guests this year. Uncle Clair and Vi and Aunt Thetis enjoyed our time with all of you and are so happy to have had this special time with Lee Anne.
May her God and ours give you great peace and comfort. We will all meet again someday.
Chris Hess
October 22, 2007
Ben & Christian, meeting Le Anne for the first time was probably one the most important times in my life. She was an inspiration to Jennifer, the necklace she gave Le Anne was meant as a gift of love. We will never forget her. They say you know how successful you are through your friends, Le Anne was the most succesful person I knew. We may thank God for her.
John and Dee Brown
October 22, 2007
Ben,
We are so sorry to hear of this tragedy. You and Christian are in our prayers.
Ash and Kelley Cook
October 22, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Happier Times
Louie Genix
October 22, 2007
I will miss my baby sister.
Cuz Teresa (Capps) Headrick
October 22, 2007
Cuz Bennie: I stepped over and hugged Lee Anne while you gave the blessing before dinner at your Dad's (my Uncle John's) house just 13 short days ago. We are so lucky the Ride came through Chattanooga and we got to see Lee Anne smile all evening long. I am so so sorry for this heartbreaking loss.
John, Asst. Caboose, Crew Member for Charlotte AWBC October 2007
John Adams
October 22, 2007
Dear Barry Family,
I was a visitor to the area this past weekend for the Avon Walk for Breast Cancer held in Charlotte. I just happened to be reading the online version of the Charlotte Observer and learned of this terrible accident that occurred this same weekend.
The story of Lee Anne strikes me to the core. I am a long time cyclist and was just cycling through North Carolina and Virginia on a fundraising tour for the Children's Miracle Network, just some 4 weeks earlier.
My travel buddy, Dave Weigel, of www.RideForMiracles.com, and I were both old time classmates and riding buddies returning to the touring road after a 20 year, or so, hiatus. We were shocked by the severity of the roadways for bicyclists these days.
The tragedy of Lee Anne's death is a call to me to pick up efforts to make pedestrian and bicycle access a part of every new roadway project in America.
Please accept my sincere condolences.
Lee Ann and Ben at Ari's for Lunch with the Brain Injury Survivors in Canton Illinois Friday, Sept. 21 2007
Steve Love
October 22, 2007
Ben & Christian,
You are in our prayers. All who met and got to know Lee Anne when she was in Canton Illinois will miss her. She was an inspiration, showing us that we could live beyond our brain injuries.
Leslie & Mitch Allison
October 22, 2007
Dear Ben and Christian,
As fellow cyclists, we grieve with you. We are inspired by Lee Anne's strength, courage and character. Her life was indeed a reflection of her love for Jesus Christ.
Randy & Wendy Anderson
October 22, 2007
Ben & Christian,
We weep with you. Our hearts are heavy with you.
We come to the throne of grace trusting that His grace, mercy & love will comfort you.
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