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Jack Mellema Obituary
Greece: Went peacefully with his Maker, Saturday, July 5, 2008 at age 83. Survived by his loving wife of 54 1/2 years, Elaine Mellema; sons, Lloyd (Karen) Mellema, Donald Mellema (MaryJo Geist), William (Lucille) Mellema; daughter, Brenda (Jim) Pentycofe; brother, James (Chris) Mellema; sisters, Olive (Gordon) Simone, Linda (Greg) Lennon, Diane (Fred) Burtton; 12 grandchildren; 1 great-grandson. Jack was a retired 20- year veteran who served in World War II, the Battle of the Bulge and the Korean War. He was an avid director of many drum corps and color guards.
Family and Friends may call Tuesday 4-8 PM at the Vay-Schleich & Meeson Funeral Home 1075 Long Pond Road. His Graveside Service will be held Wednesday 10:00AM at Irondequoit Cemetery. Please meet at the gate of the cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Durand United Church of Christ in his memory. For more information or to sign Jack's guestbook, please visit:
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Memories and Condolences
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Alicia Grandy (Heeks)
July 9, 2008
What a wonderfull man, who has touched so many lives.
Gary & Nancy Korneliusen
July 8, 2008
Jack, we will miss your smile. You were always cheerful even when you were disabled. I know you have been like a father to many. God Bless you and your loved ones.
Joy Brewer
July 7, 2008
Uncle Jack, you will be missed by all who had the fortune to know you. You sparked my interest in color guard and more. Love from us all!
Mary Lou
July 7, 2008
You were the best Dad and Grandfather a family could wish for.
You will be always in my heart.
Jim Pentycofe
July 7, 2008
You have been a constant fixture in our lives all these years. We love you and will miss you. RIP, Jim,Brenda,Emmy and Bradley
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