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April 19, 2015
Tony,
Seems like I was breezing along when I was hit with a ton of bricks. I can't stop crying...I'm feeling such a deep, painful ache in my gut. I miss you so much...
April 21, 2014
My Little T,
I'm thinking of you and listening to the music that Grandma, you and I would listen to while driving you to school in Maryville, MO. I remember I would pull the car over and make you and grandma get out and look out at all the stars and moon! They seemed to shine so much brighter in the country without the interruption of the city lights. Tony, I miss you like crazy and my heartache without you never seems to lighten up. I love you! Always!
March 14, 2014
Tony,
I want to talk to you so badly. I want to hear the sound of your voice! I need you, my best friend, cause I have so many things I want to share with you and I need your advice. You thought I was crazy sometimes, okay most of the time, but you understood me and loved me anyway! I can be in a room full of people and yet feel so lonely! Mijo, the pain is unbearable...I love you, I love you, I love you and I miss you! I can't catch my breath.
June 25, 2013
Anthony Franciso Rios (Mi Unico)
Tony, (My one and only!)
We just celebrated the 38th anniversary of your birthday! Dang, it's hard to believe that it's been that long since I cradled you in my arms and sang to you. I used to sing you this lullaby and everytime I did you would start crying. lol Not sure why but I don't think it was my singing. You were such a cute baby but a bald baby for the longest! I was laughing remembering how your dad would get mad at us for eating fresh califlower because it was too noisy and he couldn't hear the tv. Remember how scared he was of Santana that he would try to talk without moving his lips? So funny!
I miss you so much...I can't even say it without my heart aching so badly I have to remind myself to breathe.
I saw your Godson today. He's so handsome! He's 20 now and a junior at KU. Time is going by so fast. Your God Daughter just had her 15th birthday!
I love you and think of you every day! I just wanna hold you soooo tight!!! I love you Tony, always and forever!
April 25, 2012
Tony,
Thoughts and memories of you are vivid in my mind. With your and Liv's birthday right around the corner, summertime memories of cookouts in the backyard, dinners at The Jazz, and Cinco De Mayo boxing matches are clear. Today, it was hot and I was picturing you mowing the lawn, jumping in the pool, running inside to change clothes and taking off with the fellas. It doesn't feel like 10 years have gone by, I can hear your voice so clearly as if you're standing right next to me. You're my one and only...of all my sons, you're my favorite!!!!
Love you, T, I'll always love you!
December 22, 2011
Tony,
I got through another day, another year without you. I thought it would get easier but it hasn't.
Today, the sun was shining bright after several days of cold, gloomy weather. I know that was you and Liv smiling down on us. No doubt!!!
I was looking at pictures today, some of which I hadn't seen in a long time. Pics of when you were a little boy with Santa and others of you playing with your cousins. Never thought you wouldn't be here to reminisce with me. I love you and miss you and think of you each and every day. Love you, always and forever!
June 20, 2011
Anthony Francisco Rios
Mi Unico
Tony, I miss you so much my hearts aches just as much today as it did the night you were taken from me.
I can still hear your voice...your last words to me...I love you, Mama!
I can still hear your laughter when you would talk to the fellas on Saturday and Sunday mornings, laying in bed and talking on both your cell phone and the house phone at the same time.
I miss you coming in the room and hugging me for no reason!
I miss talking to you about boxing, one of our favorite subjects.
We argued about Vargas vs. De La Hoya!
I told you the Golden Boy was gonna take him!
We agreed on Barrera vs Morales 1 and who really won that one.
You had such a big heart and would help anyone who needed your help.
You were always there for me and were not only my son but my best friend.
You also blessed me with my second best friend, Santana! Who woulda thunk??
I remember when I told you about my good friend who was sick. You just hugged me tight for the longest time.
You continued to shop with me and hang out with me long after it was cool for a son to hang out with his mom!
I remember when we went to see A League of Their Own and you didn't want to admit that you liked it but later laughed and said you did.
I remember you correcting me every time I said something about your black car. You'd say, it's not black it's dark gray! I don't know why I never could get that straight!
I remember how we loved singing "Let's Stay Together" by Al Green! We bought his tape at The Landing and we thought we sounded pretty good singing away in the car.
Tony, you have always been and continue to be my inspiration.
I can't tell you how my much my life has changed without you here!
I can't help but wonder what things would be like if you were!
I know we'll see each other again and I know you're in a better place but it doesn't make the pain any less.
I can still hear your voice...
your last words to me...
I love you, mijo!
I will always love you.
vato flaco
May 24, 2011
hey big homie you got a birthday coming up soon man i miss you so much i know i only meet you a few times but those few times made a huge impact on my life man i know that you are in a better place may god be with you and olivia much love and respect
vato flaco
May 24, 2011
hey big homie you got a birthday coming up soon man i miss you so much i know i only meet you a few times but those few times made a huge impact on my life man i know that you are in a better place may god be with you and olivia much love and respect
Ciara Brown
May 10, 2007
To the Rios Family
I will always have you in my prayers always stay strong.
November 20, 2006
It saddens me to think about the fact thta your family will have to spend another holiday season without you. We are all thinking of you all the time.
Yolanda Rios
June 25, 2006
Happy Birthday! We Love You!
Uncle Dan & Dee-Dee
Yolanda Rios
June 19, 2005
Happy Birthday! We Love you and think of you all the time.When Uncle Dan goes hunting/fishing, he always says he remembers how much you loved it!We pray everyday that this case will come to a close,and your parents can ease their minds.
Rest in Peace and May Perpetual Light Shine Upon You!
Uncle Dan and Aunt Dee-Dee
Mission Kansas
Jacquey Fletcher
August 27, 2003
Dear Denise,
I am so sorry for your loss of your son, Tony. I remember how lovingly you spoke of him when we worked together at Sprint. Just know that your loss is heaven's gain and you will see him again.
My deepest sympathy,
Jacquey Fletcher
Joey Ojeda
June 24, 2003
I just wanted to wish you a happy b-day and let you know we all miss you sooo much. It's just not the same without you & Liv and it'll never be. We all celebrated for you because I know you would of did the same "Snap". Untill we all meet again one day I'll keep you both in my thoughts,mind and heart. Love Ya Your Friend,
Joey R. Ojeda AKA Sco-D J
Chasity Ruiz
June 19, 2003
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SNAPP!!!
John & Linda Harris
March 8, 2003
"Lil Tony" We love you very much. Thank you for the time you shared with us on the farm, those are memories that we will cherish forever.Aunt Linda and Uncle John
Olivia Vargas
February 21, 2003
I will never forget what a great time we had the weekend before this tragedy. I remember every little word we spoke and how much we laughed that night. Just to write this, brings a smile to my face!
Throughout life people make mistakes, some bigger than others, I am one of those people. Lil' Tony and I shared alot and although not related in blood, we had so much in common. I will always remember him for his generosity and for accepting me into his family with open arms. We were just beginning to get close and make plans for future celebrations. As I continue to dream of him and Olivia I wake up with a promising feeling that this will not go on unsolved. There are no words that can console a parent or grand-parent but I can promise you that they are watching. In your everyday activities when you think you feel that wind, or a picture falls, or the phone rings but no ones there, feel special because there is no place like home, and they made it home.
Rose Padilla-Frazee
January 26, 2003
Dear Denise and Rios Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I never met your son and grandson, but my heart broke when I found out what had happened. Frank and Lupe were great friends of my mom and dad, and I have so many fond memories of our childhood Denise.
Please accept my condolences and know that God is your strength and a very present help in time of trouble.
January 13, 2003
You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cindy Wilson
January 8, 2003
Denise, I'm so sorry for your loss of Tony and Olivia. You are in my prayers.
Linda Swayzer
January 6, 2003
Denise,
May God bless you and keep you strong. If you need anything, please do not hesitate to contact me.
January 6, 2003
To the family of Tony Rios,
May God keep you close during this time of tragedy. I knew Tony from grade school and from reading the other entries he hadn't changed. He was always a fun guy to be around and he will be missed.
Juan Moya & Maureen Murphy
January 6, 2003
Lord make me an instrument of Thy Peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love. Where there is injury, pardon. Where there is doubt, faith. Where there is despair, hope. Where there is darkness, light. Where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master; grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love; for it is in giving that we receive, it is in in pardoning that we are pardoned, and it is in dying that were are born into eternal life.
Marcellus Sinclair
January 3, 2003
Denise,
There is no way for me to put into words the pain and devastation you are feeling. Please know you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers. Also know I will be there for you if you just want to talk. As awful as I can imagine this ordeal has been, it is probably 100 times worse for you. God Bless You and may your son rest in peace.
January 3, 2003
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Tony was a good guy and will be missed dearly.
Marcia Huss
January 3, 2003
You are in my prayers. Even though I didn't know Anthony and Olivia, after reading the guest book, I am sure they are in the loving arms of God Our Father. What a wonderful place to be.
Christy Alaniz
January 1, 2003
I remember the first time I met Tony. We were at a party and got to talking about how we knew the person throwing the party. Next thing I know we're talking about what family we each came from. I told him my mom's name, Liz Rivera and he said he knew his Grandma Lupe was related to some Rivera's. Come to find out, Tony's Grandma Lupe and My Grandpa Chralie Rivera were step-brother and step-sister! I asked my Grandpa about it and apparently Tony had asked his Grandma about it because the next time we saw each other he came up to me and said "We are related!" and he gave me a hug. From that time on, everytime we'd see each other he'd say "What's up, Cuz?" I'm so sorry for the loss of Tony. He's in heaven, with Olivia, and that's a comforting thought. He'll be missed by all who were blessed to know him. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
raquel raya
December 31, 2002
where does someone begin to speak on such a tragic time. tony you were truly loved by many and will be extremely missed. you were always there for who ever needed you no matter what time or situation, even if you really didnt want to you were right there. now you are at peace with liv and the love that you two shared will be everlasting forever. there are so many good memories that i have of all the times we spent together and they will forever be in my heart just like the two of you.... i miss and love you tony you were the brother i never had.... love raquel
Stephanie
December 30, 2002
To the families of the both Olivia and Tony and a special prayer for Denise.
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was a way to help ease the pain and grief you are feeling right now.
Denise, I know how much your son meant to you and how much you enjoyed spending time with him.
Please know that there are many people thinking of you and praying that you are able to find peace in your soul.
God bless you all.
Joey R. Ojeda AKA Sco-Dee J
December 30, 2002
To Tony AKA Snap:
Dear Hevenly Father,
I have a request. I'm in a need of a favor so please say yes. Please send a message to someone I think of. An angel that is now in the Heavens above. An angel of ours that truly is loved. I know you'll tell them because I have faith. So, please tell them I'll miss seeing their face and hearing their voice.
If I could I'd bring them back if it was my choice. Please say, now that their gone life won't be as bright. And that I'll think of them each day and keep them in my prayers at night. Please tell them it hurts so much to face reality and that never again in my life will I meet no one with their unique personalities. Please tell them I just wanted them to know, that all of the memories will be cherished for life and never letting go. Please tell them the pain will never come to an end. They will always be remebered in life or death and please tell them they'll always be my bestfriends.
I will never forget all the GREAT times we had together. I will cherish those memories FOREVER. Love you always and 4-ever.
jennifer (jones) oneill
December 29, 2002
TO THE RIOS FAMILY - WHEN I HEARD ON THE NEWS - I RECONGNISED THE NAME RIGHT AWAY - I AM SINCERELY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I USE TO SPEND TIME AT FRANK AND LUPE'S HOUSE BACK IN 90-91 I REMIMBER TONY. I REMIMBER YOUR FAMILY AS BEING VERY CLOSE KNIT AND EXTREMELY LOVING. I ALSO REMIMBER THAT YOU ARE ALL VERY STRONG. I FEEL EXTREME SADNESS FOR YOUR FAMILY, BUT I KNOW YOU WILL BE THERE FOR EACH OTHER.
Liz Alaniz
December 28, 2002
Our thoughts are with ALL of you as you go through this difficult time. Even though Tony was taken at such an early age, you have 27 years worth of memories to remember him by. Lots of family and friends are here to help you, our prayers are with you. Jesse & Liz(Rivera) Alaniz
Paula Alaniz
December 27, 2002
To the Rios Family, We are very sorry for your loss. Tony was a very special person, he and your family will be in our prayers and God Bless all of you.
Melissa Mendez
December 27, 2002
I have and will continue to pray for your family. Snap was such a genuine and funny guy and,I feel blessed to have known him.
Christina Roseburrough
December 27, 2002
Tony will be deeply missed, my deepest sympathy is with your family.
monica MUZQUIZ
December 27, 2002
TONY, DENISE, MR & MRS RIOS, LINDA, CINDY,DROPS,AND ALL THE RIOS FAMILY, ALTHOUGH I DID'NT KNOW "SNAP" AND OLIVIA I DO KNOW THEIR FAMILIES AND I KNOW THEY CAME FROM GOOD PEOPLE, I WISH WE COULD TAKE SOME OF THE PAIN AWAY, BUT ALL WE CAN OFFER IS FRIENDSHIP. ALL THE CARRILLO AND MUZQUIZ FAMILY WISH YOU ALL THE BEST.
MONIE
Mr.Mrs Brian Hernandez
December 27, 2002
i have known Tony since we were kids and he was always a friend who made you laugh. Although he is gone Tony will always be remembered by everybody. He is now in the kingdom of God and him and Olivia can now be together in heaven. To the Rios family my prayers and condolences go out to your family may your hearts be healed...Rest in Peace Tony"Snap"Rios
Veronica
December 27, 2002
To the Rios family, I have been Tony's friend for many many years. He has always been a great person. I will never ever forget him. He has and always will be a special part of my life. I just want the family to know that he is GREAT in all ways. He's honest and loving and would always, no matter what, be there for anyone who called on him. Did'nt matter if it was three in the morning, he would always make his way to be there. We have lost a TRUE ANGEL here on earth, but heaven has gained someone so special and loving. I know deep in my heart, he's watching over all of those he has ever loved. I know it.. and with Olivia right next to him, how can we not still feel the love? May God bless you and keep you always.
Jose (Chato) Garcia Rios
December 27, 2002
I am in anguish after being informed of the loss of Tony Rios. My sister, Irene Garcia Rios called me late on the 26th to inform me that a member of the family had died. I am the son born to Isabel Rios Garcia , sister to Francisco, and Ruben Rios. She died in 1952. So that makes me a 3rd cousin to Tony. Words cannot express my sorrow and grief for your loss.
Chrissy Ryan
December 26, 2002
Dear The Rios Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Elizabeth Ramos
December 26, 2002
To the Rios Family:
I knew Tony through school at St.Pius,and through mutual friends. Everytime I saw Tony and Olivia they had a big smile on their faces.
They will be greatly missed, their smiles, their laughter, and just their precence. Your family is in my prayer in your time of sorrow.
David & Marce Hernandez
December 26, 2002
We are very sorry for your loss. You now have a very strong Angel on your side.
P. Marinez & Family
December 26, 2002
To the Rios Family, We will miss Tony(Snap) very much. Our heart goes out to you. You are in our prayers and heart. Snap was a close friend and like a brother. He was always there for everyone when needed and never asked for anything in return. He was a man with a big heart. I never dreamed this would happen to a person like him, but God has his reasons for doing the things he does. He will always be in our hearts and memories. You all will be in our prayers.---"Snaps" your gonna be missed ,but never forgotten. You and Liv can be together forever now. Love ya brotha...
Rita Yslas-Hernandez
December 26, 2002
To the family of Anthony Rios, I am cousin to Olivia Raya.
Our heart and Our prayer go out to you and your family. We are so very sorry for the loss of your loved one. We know your feelings and it hard to get used to. It will take some time. But always remember, the good things about him. You will never forget Anthony. Be Strong it will take time and soon it will get a little easier as time goes on. Again, Our thought and Our Prayer are with you.
From: Rita Yslas-Hernandez, Mark Yslas and Alejandro Yslas
Raul & Sarah Gonzales
December 26, 2002
To the Briones and Rios families:
Please accept our sincerest and deepest condolences regarding Tony's death. I (Sarah) have known Tony for almost 20 years, since grade school. He was a good person and very loyal to his friends and family. We know it's hard for most people to understand how hard it is to lose a loved one in this type of tragedy. Being cousins of Olivia's, we unfortunately have an idea too. Our prayers are with the families in their time of sorrow.
Charise & Dewey Garcia
December 26, 2002
To the Rios family,
It breaks my heart that your families have to suffer over the loss of such a wonderful young man. I've known Snapp since grade school and through the years I've seen him around, and he's never been happier than when he was with Olivia. The sadness is so thick in the air, but I get some comfort in knowing that at least they are still together. I pray that he is at peace....
Charise
Snapp,
This is Dewey, man. I know you're listening...I can't imagine what was going through your mind even though I been in that same situation. I just want you to know that I'ma miss seeing you around cause you was always coo'l. I'm so used to seeing you and your girl at the other end of the bar, kickin' it, livin' life....but now you're gone, and the Westside just ain't gonna be the same without you guys. See you when I get there...
Dewey G.
MONIC ARENAS
December 26, 2002
TO THE FAMILIES OF TONY AND OLIVIA,
MAY GOD GIVE YOU AND YOUR FAMILIES THE STRENGTH NEEDED TO GET THROUGH THIS SAD TIME, AND ONE DAY, YOU WILL ALL BE TOGETHER AGAIN IN HIS GLORY. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU.
Angelique Rodriguez
December 26, 2002
Denise and Anthony Sr.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family as life has taken a new turn. I am at peace to know that your Tony and my cousin Olivia are with our Father in heaven. Together in heaven they will continue to open their hearts and watch each and every one of us as we go through each day with them in our thoughts and memories.
Mandi Akin
December 26, 2002
My prayers and thoughts are with you. Snapp was a really nice man, Olivia is very specail to have him with her. May God bless us all in this time of sorrow.
Clarissa & Steven Hitchye
December 26, 2002
Dear Rios Family:
Although we did not know Anthony personally. We knew Olivia through Blue Cross Blue Shield. Are prayers are with your family during this time. God's timing... is never our timing. Remember you're never alone. God is always with you.
Patricia Cooper
December 26, 2002
I work at Sprint Conferencing with Denise. May God Bless you and keep you in your time of mourning.
DEBBIE & PAUL JR BRIONES
December 26, 2002
TO MY CUZZ TONY & OLIVIA,(FAMILY &FRIENDS)
SNAP,WHEN I FIRST HEARD OF WHAT HAPPENED I COULDNT BELIEVE IT.SO MANY THINGS STARTED TO GO THREW MY HEAD THAT I STARTED TO GET MAD.SO I STARTED TO REFLECT ON THE DAY WE FIRST FOUND OUT WE WERE COUSINS.WE LAUGHED AND TALKED ABOUT OUR LIVES.YOU WOULD ALWAYS TELL ME TO GO WITH YOU TO MEET YOUR MOM AND I NEVER DID.BUT I ALWAYS WANTED TO MEET HER BECAUSE I KNEW WE WERE ALL COUSINS.AND WHAT EVER WAS GOING ON WITH OUR LIVES WE BOTH ALWAYS MANAGE TO GO OUT OF OUR WAY TO SAY HI AND TALK TO EACH OTHER.AND AFTER EACH CONVERSATION I HAD WITH YOU,MIGUEL(JUJU),AND ANGELO.YOU GUYS WOULD ALWAYS TELL ME TO "BECAREFUL OUT THERE CUZZ".I WISH WE ALL WOULD HAVE GOTTEN CLOSER.TONY, YOU AND OLIVIA WILL ALWAYS HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN OUR HEARTS AND PRAYERS.GOD BLESS YOU,YOUR FAMILY,AND FRIENDS.
YOUR CUZZ,PAUL BRIONES JR.
December 26, 2002
To both of the families my prayers & thoughts are with you. I thank god I was blessed to have gotten the opportunity to know Tony. He was a sweetheart, I will miss him greatly!
secah Shahib
December 26, 2002
To the Family of Mr. Anthony Rios,
My prayers are strongly with you all during this moment of your love one ! I didn't know my Rios personally but I did know that OLIVIA RAYA was very very happy and so in LOVE with him. As a close friend of Ms. Raya all I ever wanted was for her to be happy and loved. Mr. RIOS did a beautiful job of not only making her HAPPY but LOVING HER and SHOWING HER that HE LOVED HER SO !
May Mr. Rios and Ms. Raya rest in Heavnly Peace !
GOD BLESS
Secah Shahib
(close and loving friend of Ms. Olivia Raya)
Karen Hicks
December 26, 2002
To The Rios Family:
I am very sorry for the loss of your loved one. Tony will be missed by all. May god bless and keep your family.
December 26, 2002
To both of the families, my prayers are with you. Tony's smile will be missed!!
Jeanette Hernandez-Cervantes
December 26, 2002
To the Rios Family,
My deepest sympathy goes out to your family. I am very sorry for your loss. Although I really hadn't talked to Tony since he left Redemptorist, he was in my brother Sonny's class, I remember what a good guy he was. He and my brother used to hang out sometimes and he was always real nice to me and my sisters. He will be missed so much.
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