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Betty Stachler Obituary

STACHLER (nee Kincaid), Betty Jo

Betty Jo Stachler (nee Kincaid), died peacefully in her home early in the morning on August 9, 2021. Betty is preceded in death by her husband, Robert G. Stachler; her daughter,

Deborah A. Lahrmer; her

father, Thomas J. Kincaid; her mother, Nellie G. Kincaid and her brother, Thomas P. Kincaid. Betty is survived by her four children, Tom (Patti), Rob (Corinne), John (Kelly Dean), and Kelly Britt (Kent); and her brother, James G. Kincaid. Betty is also survived by seventeen grandchildren and two great-grandchildren, whom she adored.

Betty was born on May 31, 1934, in Beckley, West Virginia, and was raised in Dayton, Ohio. Betty graduated from Stivers High School in Dayton, Ohio, Stephens College in Columbia, Missouri, and ultimately earned her degree in dental hygiene from The Ohio State University in Columbus, Ohio.

In 1957, Betty moved to Cincinnati, Ohio, to join her husband and begin her career in dental hygiene. However, Betty's

principal vocation was raising her family of five children and supporting her husband tirelessly as he built his law practice. Betty was vivacious and had a huge heart for everyone she

encountered. She loved to read, travel, and entertain in her home in Hyde Park. She rarely met someone whom didn't

become a friend. Betty loved and supported her family and friends in any way possible.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Mary Catholic Church in Hyde Park on Tuesday, August 17, 2021, at 11:00 AM. The family will greet visitors from 10 AM till 10:45 AM at the church. Burial will follow at the Gate of Heaven Cemetery. If desired, memorial donations may be sent to the charity of one's choice. Condolences to rohdefuneral.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Dayton Daily News on Aug. 13, 2021.

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Ryan Conners

August 23, 2021

The Conners Family has so many fond memories of Betty and Bob Stachler and family We had some great fun times My prayers for you all of peace and comfort in your loss.

Lisa Chambers

August 20, 2021

Hi Tom and Family. So sorry for your loss. Your Mom sounds like a wonderful, warm person. Lisa Chambers

Cheryl Burgess

August 17, 2021

Tom, so very sorry to hear of your mom's passing. May you find comfort in all the wonderful memories of love and laughter you shared with her. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

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Mark and Brenda Reese

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Kevin and Vivian Ryan

August 16, 2021

We offer our Prayers for the Stachler family during this difficult time.

Kurt Rinke

August 16, 2021

Sorry for your loss John & Family. We’re thinking of you and our hearts & prayers to you all during this difficult time.

Mark Freytag

August 15, 2021

John, so sorry to hear about the death of your mother. I pray your whole family will feel the shalom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Jane Welling

August 14, 2021

It was an honor to work with both Mr. and Mrs. Stachler. They were strong supporters of St. Mary School. And they gave us their great kids each day. Some of my favorite memories involve a member of the Stachler family. May Mrs. Stachler be at peace. And her family too.

Faye and Al Castrucci

August 12, 2021

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Ann Lumb

August 12, 2021

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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Memorial Events
for Betty Stachler

Aug

17

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 10:45 a.m.

St. Mary Catholic Church

Hyde Park, OH

Aug

17

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

St. Mary Catholic Church

Hyde Park, OH

Funeral services provided by:

Geo. H. Rohde & Son Funeral Home - Cincinnati

3183 Linwood Avenue, Cincinnati, OH 45208

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