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Betty Jo Christensen Tonge

Betty Tonge Obituary

Betty Jo Christensen Tonge "She is more precious than rubies..." 1/13/1932 ~ 4/7/2009 My Bride, our Mother, Grandmother, Sister, Cousin, Aunt, and Friend, Betty Jo Christensen Tonge, returned to Heavenly Father on April 7, 2009 after a short, valiant and painful battle with Lung and Bone Cancer. She passed away holding the hand of her devoted husband, daughter and granddaughter. She was born in Salt Lake City on January 13, 1932 to Joe L. and Susan Worthen Ellis Christensen. She graduated from West High School. She attended LDS Business College. She married her sweetheart, L. Glen Tonge, on August 4, 1952 in the Salt Lake Temple. She dearly loved her eternal sweetheart of over 57 years. Betty Jo was an inspiration to us of all good things. She was happy and outgoing. Her positive attitude is her great legacy. She was a great example of loving everyone unconditionally and was a friend to all. Her mission president said "Why can't all sister missionaries be like Sister Tonge." Betty Jo was an active member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and had a testimony of the restored gospel. She served missions with her husband in the Iowa Des Moines Mission, Seoul Korea Temple. She served several part-time missions to the Church Office. She also was a Ward and Stake Missionary. She enjoyed being an ordinance worker in the Bountiful Utah Temple. Over the years she served in the Primary, Relief Society, Young Woman's Organization and MANY, MANY, MANY music positions. The Spirit of Heavenly Father was present whenever she played the piano and organ. Her husband and family always came first in her thoughts, deeds and actions. She enjoyed spending time and going on outings with her family, and the special moments she had with her sweetheart, her Charlie Brown. She made birthdays and holidays magical. She was so supportive and was always there for her family. She was their best "cheerleader." She was generous with her talents and taught her husband, children, grandchildren and many others how to play the piano. She nurtured a love of music to her family. She was a music connoisseur. One of her favorite traditions was the families annual Messiah Sing In. She enjoyed the atmosphere and endured University of Utah football games to be with her family. She loved genealogy and was working on their family history book, The Family Tree, with her husband. She took time to enjoy life and gift shops! Betty Jo had many dear friends who loved her and she loved them. She continually thought of others and was gracious and kind to everyone. She was a light to our lives. She is survived by her husband Glen; daughter Julie, (Ray) Hilton; daughter Marjorie Tonge-Mac-Donald (Dan); son Matthew (Catherine) Tonge; 15 grandchildren and soon to be 11 great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her parents Joe and Sue Christensen, her sister Colleen and son Joseph Tonge. Funeral services will held Monday, April 13, 2009 at 11:00 a.m. at Chapel Park Ward building at 2285 South 200 West, Bountiful, Utah. A viewing will be held Sunday, April 12, 2009 from 6:00-8:00 p.m. at Russon Brothers Mortuary, 295 North Main, Bountiful, Utah and from 9:30-10:30 a.m. prior to the service. Interment will be at Bountiful City Cemetery. Online guest book at www.russonmortuary.com The family wishes to thank Hospice Community Nursing Service Staff who cared for our mother, Jocelyn Christie, Steve Dobin (Chaplain), Geri Adler and Abi Williams.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Apr. 11 to Apr. 12, 2009.

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Patti Gilbert

April 20, 2009

Dear Glen, so sorry I couldn't make it to the funeral or viewing but want you to know you are in my prayers and I hope to come visit you soon. Hope you are doing ok. May Heavenly Father be closer to you now and comfort you at this time. So sorry. Love, your cousin, Patti Westberg Gilbert

Rodney & Marcia Ford

April 18, 2009

We are deeply saddened to hear of the passing of our dear friend, your wife, mother, and grandmother. She was indeed an amazing person. We loved working with both Betty Jo and Glen in the Bountiful Temple. Their powerful influence in the lives of their children is clearly evident. We know she will be deeply missed by family and friends. We pray that the Lord's comfort and peace will attend you in this time of your loss.
Elder y Hermana Ford (Rodney and Marcia)

William Gee

April 15, 2009

Bro. Glen & Family,

We all have lost an Angel but for a moment. Betty Jo was truly a sweetheart. A lovely daughter of our Father in Heaven. Her wonderful example, her faith and her testimony will ever be with us. Each of you truly are very lucky to have a wife, mother, and grandmother who is one in a million. I have meet many many people from all walks of life and none that I know of are without GILE as she was. What a wonderful trait. She actually glowed with personally and testimony. If only Launa and I could be like her. We are so blessed in having known her and look forward to seeing her again. Launa & I love the Tonge family.
Gratefully,
Launa & Bill

Mike Postma

April 15, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of Sister Tonge's passing. She was one of those neighbors that was so sweet and kind.

April 13, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. I have such great memories of "Grandma Tonge" from growing up with Hilary. She was always so sweet, but funny and happy. I especially enjoyed seeing her in the Temple. She will be missed.

Love,
Juliann Kitzmiller Peacock

April 13, 2009

Tonge Family,
I enjoyed your mom as my visiting teacher. I loved her very much. She was such an inspiration to me. I will miss her a lot. My heartfelt prayers go out to your family.
Joan Sellers

Pat Evans

April 13, 2009

I am so sorry to here of the passing of Sister Tonge. I enjoyed working with her on the Thursday shift at the Bountiful Temple. She will be missed.

April 13, 2009

Dear Tonge Family:
We were so sorry to see of the passing of your mother and wife. Our hopes and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Art & Denise Brems

Steve & Jen Christensen

April 12, 2009

We loved having Betty Jo as our choir pianist. She was wonderful at sharing her musical abilities with us, she was always smiling and cheerful, and she was always patient with us and willing to laugh at herself. We will miss her and know that she is doing much good on the other side of the veil.

R&J Longhurst

April 11, 2009

We feel so blessed that Sister Tonge was a part of our lives. Her influence and loving example to my boys has and will always live on in thier hearts.

Barbara

April 11, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of this sweet and wonderful lady!! She always made me feel special. At this same time I found out about the passing of Joe and what a shock this is to me too. I'm so sorry for your family to have lost two special people in such a short time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all, especially with you Glen - you are a wonderful man!!

Laura (Mills) Wirthlin

April 11, 2009

I have many fond memories of Betty when we were members of the South Bountiful First Ward. She wrote some of the most wonderful music for our roadshows in the South Davis Stake. I will always remember the times I babysat the children and how gracious Betty and Glen always were. May God bless and comfort you in her passing. Much love.

Peggy GRAHAM

April 11, 2009

What an angel lady! Gone much too soon! Our love to all of you she left behind....
Best blessings of peace, comfort & healing.
Love, Peggy & Gordon Graham

April 11, 2009

Sweet memories and wonderful lady. What a great couple and inspiration to some of us for many years.

Lane & Julie Ward
Lehi, Utah

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