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Joyce Harn Obituary

HARN (Hayes), Joyce Ann

Joyce Ann Harn, of Redondo Beach, CA, passed away on August 5, 2023 at the age of 90. She was the daughter of John W. Hayes and Hope A. Hayes. In her youth, Joyce attended Lincoln Elementary School and Wilson Junior High School in Hamilton, OH. Joyce was a 1951 graduate of Fairfield High School. She was awarded a Bachelor of Science Degree in Music Education from Miami University in 1956. Joyce began her teaching career in Mooresville, Indiana, where she taught school from 1956 until 1960, when she decided to move to sunny Southern California to teach there. She met the love of her life four years later. She and her husband, Keith Harn, were married in 1965. They bought their dream home in Redondo Beach, CA and that is where she lived until her death. Joyce taught school for the Los Angeles Unified School District for 28 years. During the last few years of her career, she worked out of the central Los Angeles office as coordinator and arranger of educational camps all around Los Angeles County, which touched thousands of young children. She retired in 1988. In retirement, Joyce and Keith were actively engaged in many projects together and shared some great travel adventures. In the 1990's, Joyce fell in love with quilting and made numerous beautiful quilts for family and friends. Many quilts still adorn her home.

Joyce also became an active member of the Manhattan Beach Neptunian Women's Club (NWC), a philanthropic organization which encourages and supports youth to reach educational goals, a very natural fit for Joyce. At her first meeting, one young girl was awarded a scholarship to Miami University of Ohio to study music education. From this point on Joyce became an enthusiastic club member. Joyce became very involved with the NWC book club and for a period of time was one of its co-chairs. After Joyce's passing the current book club president wrote a beautiful and loving article to the book club members about Joyce. In part, it states, "… But most importantly she shared her love of reading with all of us. Joyce was a voracious reader and when she reviewed a book or talked about an author, she inspired you and you wanted to read that book or author. I always thought of Joyce as the "heart and soul" of the book group."

Joyce's long lasting and central personal passion has always been music. Joyce has "indulged" herself in music from learning to play the piano early in life to her college education. She regularly played the piano at NWC events; she encouraged everyone to enjoy listening to music; and she regularly attended the Los Angeles Philharmonic concerts with her brother, Willis. Joyce has a whole room of her home dedicated to music and musical instruments.

Of most importance to Joyce has always been her love of family and friends. While still physically able, Joyce hosted social events with friends that made everyone feel welcomed, at ease and well nourished. Joyce's family meant the world to here. She adored her husband, Keith. She felt of Keith's two children, Toni and Keith Jr as her own. And, of course, she has extended that love to their children and to their children's children.

Joyce has always been especially close to her two brothers, Willis and Jim. Jim and his wife Jill have two boys, John and Jeff. John and his wife Aimee now have a new little girl, Neale. Neale is the most recent addition to the children in Joyce's life. Joyce, in the last few months of her life, has been filled with hope for the future upon getting to know Neale. Joyce has always been known for her joy in life and her radiant smile. Joyce sees her great niece, Neale, as the future bearer of the "joyful" title.

Joyce was proceeded in death by her husband, Keith Harn, her father, John Hayes, and her mother Hope Hayes. She is survived by her two brothers: Willis Hayes, Jim Hayes and his wife Jill (Holroyd) Hayes, their two sons, Jeff and John and wife Aimee and Neale. She is also survived by her daughter Toni Demarco and her daughters, Megan Musich and partner Nicholas Harlow, Nicole Wilkinson and husband Dean Wilkinson, Laurel Demarco and husband Nicholas Monahan, and her son, Keith Jr, and his three children, Brandon Harn and wife Rebecca, Gary Harn, and April Pham and husband Quoc Sang Pham. Joyce has nine great grandchildren and one great niece.

A Memorial service is being conducted in Torrance, CA on August 21st, at the Halverson, Store and Murphy mortuary. Joyce's remains are being transported back to Hamilton, Ohio for burial in Rose Hill Cemetery along with the ashes of her husband, Keith. A visitation and service will be conducted at the Rose Hill Funeral Home, 2565 Princeton Road, Hamilton, Ohio 45011 prior to interment at the cemetery on August 28th, beginning at 10 AM. Dr. Richard Rhodus, pastor at West Side Baptist Church, will officiate.

In lieu of flowers, friends and family are invited to make a donation to the scholarship established by Joyce for music education students at Miami University. You can make contributions using the following link: www.givetomiamioh.org/HarnScholarshipFund. Alternatively, you may mail donations to Joyce Ann Hayes Harn Fund, 725 E Chestnut St., Oxford, OH 45056.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal-News on Aug. 25, 2023.

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Mary Campbell Ralls

October 4, 2023

I always enjoyed Joyce´s humor and her great love of books and life!
I got such a kick out of her glasses collection.
They always matched her outfit.
She is dearly missed.

Beth McLaughlin

October 3, 2023

I have done several searches for Mrs. Harn over the years but just tonight decided to try to include her maiden name in my search. She was my 6th grade teacher at Crestwood Elementary in the early 1960´s. She was a gentle soul , so kind and an amazing teacher. I have so often wanted to reach out to her and tell her of her influence on me. It sounds like she continued to have a positive impact on so many! My condolences to her family at her passing but at the same time, what a blessing to have her in your lives. Sending love and gratitude.

Wayne & Lynn Aspey

September 1, 2023

Dear Jim & Family: What a heartfelt, touching, and loving obituary for Joyce; I know how close you were to your family, and Lynn & I extend our deepest sympathy to you all. I shed my personal tears for you in honor of our long friendship! I felt I knew Joyce after reading your beautiful tribute and seeing the wonderful, smiling, loving photos. A lifetime to cherish! Our deepest sympathy and warmest love to you all! Wayne & Lynn Aspey

Laura Johnston

August 29, 2023

Jim, it is so nice to learn more and see the lovely pictures of the sister you so adored and always talked so highly of. To you and all that she touched so deeply, may the experience of knowing Joyce better your lives even now that she has transitioned <3 My heart is with you.

Ellie O'Rourke

August 28, 2023

We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Joyce. We are neighbors and dear friends with Jim and Jill Hayes of Redmond, Washington. I know how much she was loved and will be missed. May her memory be eternal.

Jim Hayes

August 27, 2023

Jim Hayes

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Jim Hayes

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Jim Hayes

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Jim Hayes

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Jim Hayes

August 27, 2023

This group of pictures were all taken this year and are some of the last pictures taken of Joyce. Two were from her 90th birthday party. One is of her enjoying the sunshine in her driveway in mid July. The one of the three of us was taken after Joyce and Willis had been separated for two months due to Willis´s illness. The last photo of Willis and Joyce at dinner was taken just three weeks before Joyce passed away. It was the last time she was able to go out. These are all priceless moments in Joyces´ life.

Jim Hayes

August 27, 2023

Jim Hayes

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Jim Hayes

August 27, 2023

Great memories from past family milestones. The pictures are from Joyce´s 80th birthday party and from John and Aimee´s wedding reception. So many big smiles from Joyce. She was always there for family.

Tim Leach & Mark Dammann

August 26, 2023

We will dearly miss Joyce, but will continue her legacy of joyfulness and love.

Joyce touched countless lives. Each in a different way. She enjoyed spreading love and joyfulness. For me, it´s these past few years that I have learned her most important lesson.

When faced with her final few years, she could have retreated to her space, feeling defeated and spent the time feeling sorry for herself. Instead, accepting her limitations and working from her home, she began thinking of ways to use her time in productive service to others. She knitted scarves to provide warmth for those in need, beanies for newborn babies. She set up a scholarship fund for future students of music. She appreciated quality time with friends and family and carried on living a life. Waking up each day and putting her most into that day.

That took courage, strength and fortitude and I admire her for that resilience. We may not all have the same strength as Joyce, but in our own ways, we can take this lesson and apply it ourselves. We all have limitations. We all have our own hurdles to overcome. By making the best of each day, using what resources we have, to give back in whatever way we are able, we keep Joyce´s spirit alive through laughter, love and service to others.

Mary Ralls

August 26, 2023

Joyce was always positive, kind and generous with her love.
I knew her through Neptunion Women´s Club.
She shared her great love of books with us all.
We adored her piano playing.
Peace be with her on her journey.
I will think of her whenever I see the color pink!

Donna Palatchi

August 25, 2023

No words can bring comfort or take away the loss of your beloved sister but know she has touched the lives of so many people in her long life and brought love and joy to all her family. You´ve been blessed to have her in your life and she you. May God hold you and comfort you at this time.

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