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MESSICK, Wiley Sanders

Wiley Sanders Messick was born March 5, 1929, in Pike County, Alabama, the son of Verbia Travis Messick and Mary Carter Messick. Wiley went to elementary school in Goshen and Abbeville, Alabama, and graduated from Abbeville Secondary Agricultural School in 1946. He obtained business (1950) and law (1953) degrees from the University of Alabama and a Master of Laws degree from Georgetown University in 1956, the same year he was admitted to the bar of the United States Supreme Court.

Wiley was commissioned as a second lieutenant in the U.S. Air Force when he received his B.S. degree in May, 1950. In June, 1950, the North Koreans invaded South Korea, and Lieutenant Messick was called to active duty. He served 21 months at Sheppard AFB, Wichita Falls, Texas, and remained in the Air Force Reserve for thirty years, retiring as a colonel in the Judge Advocate General's Corps.

Wiley practiced law in Abbeville from 1953-1954 and served six months of 1954 on the General Counsel's staff of the Southern Natural Gas Company (now Sonat, a division of Kinder Morgan) in Birmingham, Alabama.

While in Birmingham, Wiley met Betty Dotson, daughter of missionaries Hattie and Clyde Dotson. They became engaged before he left for Washington, where in January, 1955, he began a congressional staff career as assistant to Congressman George Andrews of Union Springs, Alabama. Wiley and Betty wed at Trinity UMC on June 18, 1955. They had three children, Mary, Sandy, and Carter.

In December of 1956, Wiley became Counsel to the Senate Small Business Committee and assisted the Chairman of the Committee, Senator John Sparkman of Huntsville, Alabama. In 1961, Senator Sparkman named Wiley as Executive Secretary on his office staff. In 1966, Wiley became Sparkman's Administrative Assistant. The Senator encouraged the Johnson Administration to appoint Wiley as the Small Business Administration Southeastern Regional Administrator in Atlanta, where he served over fourteen years as a career SBA leader responsible for eight southeastern states. Wiley was Chairman of the Atlanta Federal Executive Board in 1972. He later worked as Deputy Regional Administrator and Deputy District Director in Atlanta, retiring from SBA in March, 1994, at age 65. During his last year, he was designated Acting Regional Director in the Clinton Administration. He served SBA again as a retired disaster loan officer and public relations officer after Hurricanes Floyd, Charlie, Frances, Jeannie, Katrina, and Wilma, and after floods in Ohio. After retirement, Wiley served intermittently for over ten years as an arbitrator for the American Arbitration Association on Georgia and Alabama cases, ably assisted by Betty.

Wiley began life as a devout Southern Baptist, but he later became a Presbyterian. He was active in leadership positions in three churches in those denominations. Additionally, Wiley became a trained and active Stephen Minister at Johns Creek Presbyterian Church.

Wiley's greatest satisfaction, aside from family, church, and career, came from two long periods of service as trustee of KingsBridge, a not-for-profit retirement home begun on the property of Briarcliff Baptist Church. The family is grateful to KingsBridge (Wiley and Betty's residence since 2016), Personal Care, and Capstone Hospice for the excellent care he received during these last difficult months.

Wiley remained a lifelong passionate Democrat. He enjoyed discussing politics with family and friends, and hosted many lively holiday gatherings.

Wiley was preceded in death by loving parents and grandparents; and brothers, Jac Dorr Messick and Douglas Messick. He is survived by his devoted wife of 68 years, Betty Dotson Messick; daughters, Mary Messick Tallant (Rick) of Winterville, Georgia, Sandra Messick McClanahan (Gary) of Tucker, Georgia; son, Wiley Carter Messick (Carol) of Dallas, Texas; nine amazing grandchildren; and five great-grandchildren, all of whom he was very proud.

Wiley's memorial service will be held at 1:30 PM on Sunday, April 28, 2024, at KingsBridge in Atlanta. The following day, his ashes will be interred with military honors at the Georgia National Cemetery in Canton, Georgia.

Donations may be directed to the American Parkinson Disease Association or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Apr. 14, 2024.

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Allen Bowns

May 28, 2024

Wiley Messick was a Charter Member of the Rotary Club of Johns Creek and has been an Honorary member of the club till this day. I enjoyed the many conversations I had with him and his wife Betty before they had to move. He will be missed. He loved people and wanted to provide service. He was a proud Democrat and a big Alabama fan.

Bill Federhofer

May 3, 2024

I work with Wiley when I was district Director of the Kentucky district office for SBA. He was a fun gentleman and a great knowledge base for the many years that he worked with SBA. I waited each year after retirement for his Christmas card which was full of current events and political events.

Bill Federhofer

May 3, 2024

I work with Wiley while I was district Director in Louisville, Kentucky for SBA. He was a fine gentleman and a great friend. And I certainly enjoyed talking politics with him after we retired.

Dwight Folmar

April 17, 2024

My wife Pat and I were saddened to learn of Wiley's passing. I am a Carter cousin - my Mother and Wiley's Mother were first cousins. I only got to know Wiley in the 1990's, shortly after we had moved back 'home' to South Alabama, when I was asked to be a Trustee for the Elam-Davison Cemetery Trust for two cemeteries just outside Goshen, AL. I was privileged to serve as a Trustee with Wiley for around 20 years. He faithfully attended the annual Trustee meetings and I thoroughly enjoyed visiting with him. The Trust certainly benefitted from his sound advice and counsel on all matters pertaining to the perpetual care of the cemeteries. He was keenly interested in the Cemeteries and appreciated the part they played in the lives of our ancestors.
He also was a faithful attendee of the annual Carter Family Reunion and often shared family memories and anecdotes with the rest of us. He never failed to ask me about my immediate family members. For many years the organizer of the reunion would distribute a list of the 15-20 oldest living Carter relatives. Each year, Wiley would laughingly remark that he was 'moving on up' the list. Now he has without a doubt 'moved up' and we will miss him. May God bless each of you.

Douglas Crane

April 15, 2024

As a political science professor and Southerner I enjoyed my many conversations on various topics with Wiley. He was a good man and wanted good for mankind! RIP my friend!

Cliff Davis

April 15, 2024

Betty and Family,
Wiley will be greatly missed by all who knew him. While I only knew him in his retirement years he was a great example of how a Christian Man should live. His wisdom and kindness were exhibited in so many ways. When Wiley and Betty moved to Knightsbridge a piece of magic left Johns Creek Presbyterian Church but he went on to bless others.

It was eye opening to read of his many accomplishments in service of our nation and our community. What an amazing life he led!

May God bless you all in your grief.

Cliff Davis
Johns Creek Presbyterian Church/The Church of the Hills

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