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Mary Choiniere Obituary

Mary E. (Stone) Choiniere

Greenfield, MA - Mary Elizabeth (Stone) Choiniere, aged 61, passed away tragically in a house fire on November 13, 2024 in Greenfield, MA. Born on November 6, 1963 to Richard and Eleanor Stone, Mary was known for her vibrant personality and indomitable spirit. Throughout her life, she brought joy and laughter to all who knew her, characterized by her kindness, caring nature and generosity. Mary's feisty, outspoken demeanor coupled with her quick wit made her a memorable presence.

Mary grew up in Holyoke and attended Holyoke High School. She dedicated many years to the hospitality industry, serving as a waitress and bartender. Mary met her husband Donald "Butch" Choiniere, while working at the former Bills Restaurant, marking the beginning of their loving partnership. She was well regarded by both customers and coworkers, creating lasting friendships and fond memories. Most recently, Mary worked at the Rendevous in Turners Falls, where she continued to be a cherished member of the community.

Mary's zest for life extended beyond her professional endeavors. She was an active member of her local gym and enjoyed hosting gatherings for family and friends. Her love for her dogs was evident in her frequent visits to local parks and river swims with them. Above all, Mary cherished her family, dedicating her time and energy to create a warm and welcoming home.

She is survived by her husband, Donald "Butch" Choiniere; stepsons, Donald Joslyn and Brandon Choiniere; grandchildren, Abigail, Aiden and Ashton Joslyn; siblings, Richard Stone, Susan Stone, Kathy Stone, Candy DeRoy, Debbie Rigali and Lisa Stone; many nieces and nephews; and her mother in law, Bert Choiniere.

Mary was predeceased by her parents, and two sisters, Bonnie Stone and Kristine Fortune.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Franklin County Sheriffs Office Regional Dog Shelter, 10 Sandy Lane, Turners Falls, MA 01376 or at the Rendevous to benefit the displaced survivor of the fire, close friend and tenant Dan.

Calling hours will be held Friday evening (11/22) from 4-6pm at the Kostanski Funeral Home, 220 Federal Street, Greenfield. A brief service will be held at 6pm at the funeral home.

For condolences, please visit www.kostanskifuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Recorder on Nov. 20, 2024.

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Brian Ferreira

November 26, 2024

Please accept our deepest condolences.

Martha & Brian Ferreira

Jessica Choiniere

November 21, 2024

We will love and miss you always, Mary. Thank you so much for everything you have done for me, and I will never, ever forget you.

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Jess Choiniere & Karen Palmer

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Nancy Judge Howe

November 21, 2024

"Sending our deepest sympathies to the entire Stone, Choiniere family. Words cannot explain the terrible loss of a family member so young. Stay strong and cherish your memories. Joe Judge and family

A friend

November 20, 2024

Condolences to the entire Stone family I'm praying they get peace for this unexplained passing of Mary

Mary K. Bathelt

November 20, 2024

So sorry for your loss...may her present always be with you.

Dan Seward

November 20, 2024

Rest in peace Mary.

carol kinkaid

November 20, 2024

I met Mary when she worked at the Blue Bonnet Diner in Northampton. I was a regular there. When I told her I had worked at the Yankee Pedlar with her sisters Susan and Bonnie an immediately connection was made. Had not heard about her tragic death. I am in total shock.

Tina

November 20, 2024

So very sorry for your loss. Sending Brian a hug. Prayers to the family.

Beth Stetzel

November 20, 2024

Thoughts and prayers for Butch and family. Mary was a force to be reckoned with. Her incredible skillset in customer service elevated many waitresses over the years. I have fond memories of many Christmas Party's at Bill's and whooping it up with Mary & Butch. Rest in peace sweet girl.

Jeanie sullivan

November 20, 2024

Debbie and your entire Family I send Hugs and sympathy to all of you. Love Jeanie sullivan.

Kathy Brunelle

November 20, 2024

I am thankful for the opportunity to have reconnected over the past few years. Despite the challenges you faced, your positivity was always inspiring.

Rest in peace, Mary.

You will be reunited with Bonnie, Krissy, and your parents. May you find peace and serenity in your new journey.
Love You
Kathy Brunelle

Paul Czupkiewicz

November 19, 2024

RIP Mary. We had a great childhood. The memories will last forever. Fly with the Angels.

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