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for Joseph McCarthy
Nanette Sagastume
September 6, 2025
I know today is a difficult day for you. Just know that Joe's sacrifice will never be forgotten in our family and that we send love to you.
Mom's heart
September 6, 2025
Thank you for your amazing sgort life. You have given me so many extremely fun loving memories and story to be told by those who had the luck of meeting you
To keep you in my heart and mind everyday. unfortunately there is this day's memory that battles for tears from my smiles
Mom
September 1, 2025
9/1/2004
Last time my ears heard yoy voice. So excited and happy for your field promotion to Coropal
My heart hears it everyday since!
Little did I know that was a forever NEEDED memory
Mom
August 14, 2025
Here we go again!
As the day gets closer my emotions play with my mind.
Miss you and still broken as if it was 21 years ago
Mom's heart
March 4, 2025
21 years since I last seen your face and hugged you!
I frozen in my steps and couldn't walk you to get on your bus that was taking you back to Iraq.
My heart must have known it would be the last time
My heart explodes ever time a mile mark comes up...I start to cry without knowing why.
And i look at the date and see it represents you!
I love you Joey and miss you alway
Mom
Mom
December 25, 2024
Only hole in our day was You not being here. 21 Christmas without you!
Mom
November 28, 2024
21st year without you with us at our Thanksgiving table
Forever missed and always thought of.
I love you so much Joey.
Mom
September 6, 2024
Joe, it is so surprising to me that I still feel so sad after all this time. I still feel so much pain when thinking of you missing out on soo much life. My heart is never full. It has a huge piece that died 21 years ago.
I see you in my sleep. You are always with me. Wish it wasn't just in my dreams
I hope all the parents that share this day have found some level of peace.
I miss you forever.
Mom
Nanette Sagastume
September 4, 2024
As September 6 approaches, this 20th year marker must be particularly difficult. Know that Joe is never forgotten and that I send you all love and hugs.
Mom
May 26, 2024
Mom
May 26, 2024
Mom
May 26, 2024
Joe's Mom
May 26, 2024
Joe's Mom
May 26, 2024
Joe's Mom
May 26, 2024
Joe's Mom
May 26, 2024
Memorial day. A day to remember. We share this day every year as best as we can. Every year we make sure the 300 veterans Graves have flags flying on them....we visit and encourage other to visit the Apache County Memorial.
This year we invite a group, Nation of Patriots to visit it and welcomed them to lunch.
We were proud to share you with them how you inspired the centerpiece for this Memorial.
Dad took the photos..thank you for the lights you sent down on the photo.
Always in our hearts our fallen.
Thank you to all that served our country and didn't return to us. Your time to rest from your fight. You are missed!
Nanette Sagastume
May 24, 2024
Remembering your sacrifice, Joe, on this Memorial Day, as well as that of your family. You are not forgotten...
Nanette Sagastume
March 21, 2024
Happy heavenly birthday, Joe! You are not forgotten.
Mom
March 20, 2024
Mom
March 20, 2024
Mom
March 20, 2024
Holy Cow 41 years ago (3/21/83) you entered our world. Little did we know 21 years later (9/06/2004) you'd be taken from it....I miss you so much my baby boy.
Mom
September 6, 2023
Mom
September 6, 2023
Mom
September 6, 2023
Mom
September 6, 2023
Mom
September 6, 2023
You're nephew Joe..Steph..and..Dad
Also new photos someone posted of you!!
Mom
September 6, 2023
I was buying your Snicker and someone figured it out He made the purchase for you!
Never forgotten!
Mom
September 6, 2023
Forever love
Forever sad
Forever pain
Forever missed so much words can not express
I love you so very much my heart
can't heal
The pain I felt the day you came into this world is nothing compared to the pain I feel ever since you left it!
A happy day for us all
SEPT 20TH 2003
I will always remember those words you said to me that day.." This is the happiest day of my life, mom"
1 year later it was the sadest for all those you left
Mom
Nanette Sagastume
September 5, 2023
Joe's sacrifice has not been forgotten. Nor has your sacrifice. Surrounding you in love
Mom
March 21, 2023
20 years ago today you step into your last journey
40 years ago today you took your 1st breath
I miss everyday the opportunity to have watched you develop into a great husband and to become an amazing father
You came to me with such pain
And you left me the same. This pain has never gone away
Till we see each other again
I love and miss you Joey
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Mom
September 2, 2022
Mom
September 2, 2022
Mom
September 2, 2022
Mom
September 2, 2022
Well...here it is again...nothing I can say I havent said 18 times at this time of year. I miss you Joey. How I wish this never happened. But if it was just that simple. It's not. We will have to deal with this till the day comes when I come to see you. I have been blessed with your sisters...dad...and your nephew. I know you are still watching us all. I feel your hugs. I know you feel mine.
Another year another stab at my heart. You think it get easier. Never will be the same without you. We have learned to tolerate but not forget
Love you baby...
Nanette Sagastume
September 2, 2022
Another Labor Day approaches and I can only imagine these days don't get easier with time. I just want you to know I am thinking of you, Chris and Rhonda, and your family and continue to honor the life and sacrifice of Joe.
Mom
May 27, 2022
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May 27, 2022
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May 27, 2022
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May 27, 2022
Mom
May 27, 2022
I love and miss you Joey each and everyday
I hope people remember what memorial day means to those who have served and they families
Hugs and kisses always
Mom
Nanette Sagastume
May 26, 2022
On this Memorial Day weekend I want you to know that Joe is not forgotten, nor is his sacrifice (and yours) taken for granted. Our family will always keep Joe's in our heart. A big hug to you, Chris and Rhonda.
mom
June 1, 2021
just received a new picture of my baby boy! sharing it with you all
Welcome Home Memorial Day 2020
Mom McCarthy
May 28, 2020
Something AMAZING Happened today... Your sister was given a bracelet that was found at Lyman Lake. It had your name on it. You figure you knew it needed to come home. She will cherish it forever! Miss you every day and always
Mom's Heart
September 2, 2019
I miss you as much today as ever. I love you always and forever
Joe's mom McCarthy
May 26, 2019
We miss you Joe.
Dont shop this weekend. Visit a Veteran's memorial with a younger generation to keep our fallen soliders and Marines gift forever respected and remembered!
Nanette Sagastume
May 25, 2019
Hugs to Joe's family. I know this has to be a difficult weekend for you. Know that he is not forgotten, nor is his sacrifice taken for granted. God bless you. And thank you, Joe.
Mom's Heart
September 7, 2018
Joe I wake up to another September 6th and though I try to fight through it as if it's just another day The Big Empty spot in my heart reminds me that you no longer with us I can't help the feel angry often wondering why you but I know why you God blessed our family for 21 years by giving you to us then for his own reasons he decided the time was over we try to live our life as if nothing happened but in all of our hearts we know what happened and it will haunt us until we get to see you again I love you son I miss you I wish you were here I wish your nephew got to know who you are other than through the memories of your sisters your mom and your dad however we're doing a pretty good job he has a good idea just exactly how special you are and now he's taking that role in our lives so every day we tell him how special he is and how much you would have loved him had you got the opportunity to be here with him till we meet again son I love you watch over us
Mom's Heart
September 7, 2018
Joe I wake up to another September 6th and though I try to fight through it as if it's just another day The Big Empty spot in my heart reminds me that you no longer with us I can't help the feel angry often wondering why you but I know why you God blessed our family for 21 years by giving you to us then for his own reasons he decided the time was over we try to live our life as if nothing happened but in all of our hearts we know what happened and it will haunt us until we get to see you again I love you son I miss you I wish you were here I wish your nephew got to know who you are other than through the memories of your sisters your mom and your dad however we're doing a pretty good job he has a good idea just exactly how special you are and now he's taking that role in our lives so every day we tell him how special he is and how much you would have loved him had you got the opportunity to be here with him till we meet again son I love you watch over us
Nanette Sagastume
September 4, 2018
Thinking of you, Chris and Rhonda and your family T as you face yet another September 6. I will always honor Joe's sacrifice. Sending you all love.
PO2 Suzanne Arroyo USN/ret
May 26, 2018
I still remember you, and think of you often. You will never, ever be forgotten, and you, and everything you are, and the kindness you've shown won't be either. You mattered.
Mom's Heart
May 25, 2018
May 28th is a day for us to remember all who gave their lives for this country. It's not a day for great purchasing deals! Please take this time to visit a grave or memorial with your families and keep our fallen in your hearts and minds. Teach our future generations that these brave men and woman must never be forgotten or taken for granted. For they are loved and missed very much by so many who's lives were blessed by knowing them or by living in freedom because of them!
My son you are one of them. I miss you daily
I can't wait to hold you in my arm again.
Thank you God for letting me have him. Even if it was too little of time.
Nanette Sagastume
May 24, 2018
Thinking of you and your family on this Memorial Day, and grateful for your sacrifice
Mom's Heart
September 6, 2017
well it's here. I woke up to that chill that hits my bones. The day I woke up watching the news and saw 7 marines and 3 Iraqi forces were killed in a car bomb attack. The day your father and I waited all day to be sure it wasn't you. Then when we thought we were clear of this horrible tragedy.... 2 men were at our door...Our lives changed forever... Are hearts broken forever...A saddens,so heavy, that lives behind every smile... Joe was gone.
Joey I miss you so much. I hope Nana hugs and kisses your face for me everyday until I can do it myself.
Mom
September 2, 2017
13 years everyone's making memories and you will never make anymore. All I have for this day is the memory of hearing your voice for the last time. It will always be burnt into my mind. I love and miss you so very much son...Till I can hold you in my arms again...a tear will always be in my heart...
Nanette Sagastume
May 26, 2017
Your sacrifice is remembered with gratitude on Memorial Day and every day.
Mom's Heart
March 24, 2017
I love you always...
Mom Heart
February 28, 2017
Another year...I miss you soo much. 13 since I hugged you, since I kissed your face, since I couldn't say goodbye. Little did I know why!
I love you son ...forever!
Mom's Heart
September 20, 2016
It's been 13 years since you told me today is the happiest day of your life...
Mom's Heart
September 5, 2016
Here we are 12 years. I will take a deep breath and push through it. I love and miss you soo much. Visit me in my dreams. I'd love to see you smile.
I miss you everyday.
Nanette Sagastume
September 2, 2016
Thinking of you and your on this Labor Day weekend and sending love and hugs to your family.
Derek Jackson
July 1, 2016
Placed a virtual poppy for a man who died on the Somme in 1916. Then I Googled the man's name and found another hero. God bless from Derek and family in Salford in the United Kingdom x
Mom's Heart
June 21, 2016
Just really missing you today
mom's heart
March 21, 2016
Happy (sad) Birthday I miss you so much
jb
September 6, 2015
Willie Wonka's kindness lives forever in our hearts. We won't forget
Mom My Heart
September 6, 2015
Wow another year has passed. I cry. I miss. I hurt. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS & FOREVER!
Nanette Sagastume
September 5, 2015
Remembering September 6, 2004 and sending love to Joe's family.
Nanette Sagastume
May 22, 2015
Honoring your sacrifice this weekend and throughout the years... Phyllis Carter used to also write each Memorial Day; she is no longer on this earth. I remember for both of us.
Wreath Across America
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Wreaths Across America Comes to St Johns
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Veterans Memorial Dog Tag case left side Fallen Right side Some who served
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Apache Co AZ Veterans Memorial Look what you inspired!
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
we all miss you
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Rhonda McCarthy
March 21, 2015
Jen, Steph Joe
Mom
March 21, 2015
Happy Birthday Son...I Miss You....ALWAYS
Phyllis Carter Family
September 6, 2014
I woke this morning with the strains of the Marine Corps Hymn running softly through my mind. May God continue to hold the hearts of your family and friends through this tenth anniversary year. Your picture will forever be in my memory.
Nanette Sagastume
September 6, 2014
Ten years ago today. Such a long time to miss someone. Thinking of you and sending love.
Mom
September 1, 2014
today marks 10 years since I spoke with you. It was a great day for you. You were so happy. You became corporal. I love and miss you everyday. I have received such great comments from people on the veterans memorial. You'd be proud to know that you touch so many even in your death. I love you baby boy...till I am with you again...I will cry for not having you here.
Love you Joey
mom
May 26, 2014
Our 8th BBQ fund raiser was today. I am so happy to see people join us to help recognize our veterans and the fallen.
A day with so many reminders of pain turns into a happy occasion from the support we receive bringing you guys to their hearts and minds. Most of all to see our veterans speaking to each other and sharing things they probably have kept to themselves for years.
It was a sad day for us and yet a good one.
I love and miss you son...till I see you again I will do my best to smile for the world, and bring happiness and recognition to those who served and came home. To certainly always help people to remember yours and so many others sacrifice.
love you Joe!
Nanette Sagastume
May 23, 2014
Remembering on this Memorial Day weekend with sadness at the loss of such a young life and with gratitude for your sacrifice, Joe. Thank you.
Mom
April 4, 2014
Wow 10 years ....
If a few day that famous picture was taken. You touched so many with your simple action.
I can't help but wonder how many still remember it. I do. I remember the phone call afteR it published and you telling me "Hearts & Minds Mom"
I miss you so much Joe. I miss you everyday!
Till we see each other again I will cry for you. Till I hold you in my arms again, I'll be sad.
Thank you for letting me know you are with me when my sadness is at it worst
Luv you son
mom
November 28, 2013
I miss you so much. I hate the holidays without you. I stay strong for JoGa we wish you could have met him he is Awesome
Nanette Sagastume
September 5, 2013
Sending love to you, Chris and Rhonda, on this September 6. I cannot forget Joe's sacrifice.
Nanette Sagastume
May 27, 2013
Honoring your sacrifice and that of your family this Memorial Day and throughout the year.
Mom's Heart
March 3, 2013
9 years........
i remember you getting your wisdom teeth pulled for the deployment....i remember you wanting steak so bad that you didnt care how much pain you were in you were eating it..in a room full of different beer bottles on the wall and you too young to have any..... I remember us standing in line at the movies and you and steph started your goofing around....I remember the softball game you guys were able to get dad to run......i remember wasing your gear and you not happy i shrunk something....i remembering you and amanda carefully packing your things....i remember the look on your face as you made eye contact with me that early morning as if you already knew how this was going to turn out.... I remember seeing baklava (hehe) and scolding you for picking on him...I remember the deck where all the buses were lined up ready to take you boys away....i remember dad and steph fetching you burger king breakfast and you already were on your bus and steph running around calling you to find you and give you your breakfast........i remember amanda snuggled deep in your arms as we waited....i remember i could not come to you as if my legs were frozen to say goodbye perhaps i knew too....i remember waiting in the parking lot of the shopping mall for your buss to pass and waving goodbye forever
Joe I REMEMBER and i will till the day we can hug hello!
love and miss so still so very much....
mom
December 25, 2012
Boy Joe the years continue to pass as if nothing is wrong...But I will always remember and always smile and cry it life without Joe. Sure do miss you son. I love you..
Mom
Craig Stoneberger
December 23, 2012
Thank you Lance Corporal McCarthy and family.
Nanette Sagastume
November 10, 2012
Thanks to you and others who have served, I have been able to live in a safer world. Thank you.
Phyllis Carter
September 6, 2012
Every Labor Day and every September 6th anniversary. Thank you for your hearfelt sharing, Rhonda. The idea of that picture in bronze brings tears to my eyes. And while I have made a personal commitment to always remember these seven 2/1 heroes and their heroic families, you have helped to remind me of the ongoing support the living Marines and soldiers need, and that after returning is as important as while deployed.
Prayers and Blessings.
Rhonda Joe's Mom
September 4, 2012
Eight Years Later...
Eight years ago our family received the worst news possible. Joe was killed in Iraq while serving this country in the United States Marine Corps. It was the end of one nightmare and the beginning of a new one. Life without Joe.
As a family of a military person we learned the hard way about fear and loss. We were blind to what that really meant until Joe volunteered to join. After our worst fear turned into reality it opened our eyes to our community and how they greeted his return home to his final resting place. It was amazing for lack of a better word.
several months later we were asked to help our local American legion to gather names for our veterans who had passed in our two cemetery. So with pen and paper in hand we set off to complete this request. What we found , at the time, 125 veterans were laid to rest in our small cemeteries. What we also found was most were from the WWII era. With just a few Korean vets. Wow that didn't even get close to reflecting all of our Korean vets Vietnam vets gulf vets or other who have served over the years in either conflicts around the world or service in peace time. So We dug a little deeper and found that there were well over 80 plus service men and woman who died while serving throughout our county. WE WERE NOT ALONE!
There were and still are those military family who have or are currently living that same nightmare. There are so many of our brave American who have returned home and silently live amongst us. "Silent Heroes". We knew we had to do something to show those families as well as all that we have these humble people who we pass each day, or have meet with or worship next to and never thought to say Thank you to them or their families.
We were approached by a bronzing company who wanted to make Joe's picture a statue. They thought the action of this young man was worth a thousand words about our country's service members. That is what started the journey to show thanks to our veteran not only our fallen but to all those who served this great nation!
Nanette Sagastume
September 3, 2012
Even though today is not the same date, I always remember that awful Labor Day. Thinking of you and your family.
Nanette Sagastume
May 26, 2012
I do not forget the sacrifice you--and your family--made. Thank you for your commitment to protect us. It's a gift I can never repay except by not forgetting. Semper Fidelis.
Audrey Holt
September 18, 2011
The Hero's Ball was beautiful, and Miles Crosby was amazing. Your mother cried and laughed when she saw your mating ritual video. Your family loves you and works to continue the things you felt were important during your life. You are missed.
Peggy Childers
September 7, 2011
September 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Joseph C. McCarthy:
Please accept my remembrance of Joseph on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Nanette Sagastume
September 7, 2011
I shall always remember Joe's sacrifice. God bless.
Phyllis Carter
September 6, 2011
Seven years today for seven sets of family and friends, and only a few days from the tenth anniversary of 9/11; that day that changed all our lives forever. Ten years ago last week or so, I was at Camp Pendleton watching my young 2/1 Marine graduate from boot camp, with pride that he had made it through the tough thirteen weeks. Didn't have a thought of what was to come; that the six hundred new young Marines I watched on parade would be a number soon surpassed in military losses. Some of these seven young men we remember today likely joined after 9/11, willing to make the ultimate wartime sacrifice if they were called, as we now know they were. The years pass, but it still seems like yesterday to me, so I can not imagine what it is like for the families. But we remember and I'm proud to call their names from memory, with a thought as well to the brave Iraqi interpreters who died with them on September 6th, 2004.
Michael Allred, Mick(Nygard-)Bekowsky, David Burridge, Derek Gardner, Quinn Keith, Joseph McCarthy, and Lamont Wilson. We have searched them each out and brought them to life in our hearts. Gratitude, prayers and blessings to each family member and friend.
Mom
September 4, 2011
Joe I am so sad. I keep waiting for that day to come that brings me peace with your death. JoGa has brought happiness back into such a sad house. However you not being here is still not acceptable. Sadness is always in all of our hearts.
Miles Crosby has been able to locate your Mr St Johns performance and I can not wait to see it! We hold a ball each year to honor your life. Thank you for giving us so many gifts with your wonderful life that we are able to look back and see you always smiling or you making someone else smile. I can not wait to see you so we can see each other and smile again. Tell Nana And Poppy I love them and miss them soooo much too.
Statue of Joe & Iraqi Kids for or Veterans memorial
Rhonda McCarthy
September 3, 2011
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