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for Stephen Castner
Charlie Gili
March 19, 2017
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Castner Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Stephen W. Castner US Army Corporal. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
June 3, 2015
I didn't know Stephen but, I'm sending my condolences to his family and friends. Micah 4:34
Peggy Childers
July 24, 2013
To the family and friends of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
Always remembering Stephen. "Some gave all."
Leila Campbell
May 6, 2013
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
February 26, 2013
Just thinking of you today!
July 4, 2012
I am sorry for the loss of Stephen Castner. thinking and Thanking him for his military service on this 4th of July 2012.
April 23, 2012
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
December 15, 2011
Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved ones this holiday season. Happy Birthday!
December 15, 2011
Happy Birthday! Hope you are celebrating big time.
July 25, 2011
Hard to believe it has been five years. We all got together at Woods National yesterday and shared some great stories. RIP Castner
Peggy Childers
July 24, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
Please accept my remembrance of Stephen on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Roger De Coster
May 29, 2011
Rest in Peace Brother!
SSG Roger "Chico" De Coster
Las Vegas, NV 1/221 CAV
Member of A CO 1/121 FA OIF July 06-July 07
May 8, 2011
To the family of Spc Stephen W Castner:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 29 May 2011. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 200 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one. The Memorial Garden’s perimeter will be manned by members of the Patriot Guard and a honor guard from AMVETS Post #1 of Mendota will be posted at the entrance.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of our nation’s wars.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “A Believer’s Look at War.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 28 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 29 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Peggy Childers
July 24, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
Remembering Stephen on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
July 24, 2010
Thinking of you today. It's hard to believe that it has been 4 years today, since the awful news. RIP CPL Stephen. W. Castner
April 30, 2010
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 30 May 2010. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses to represent all of the wars in United States history and give honor to all who have served their country and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “A Day of Remembrance.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception; weather permitting will be outside of the Chapel.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 29 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 30 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
December 14, 2009
Happy 31st Birthday. We all will be drinking a beer for you today!
Peggy Childers
July 24, 2009
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
Stephen gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Cozette Haggerty
May 9, 2009
Re: SPC Stephen W Castner
Hello,
I represent PRAYER SHAWLS 4 FALLEN SOLDIERS (PS4FS), an organization that since October 2007 has sent over 2,800 prayer shawls to military families who have lost a loved one. We are an organization of over 240 groups from all over the country. We make every effort to reach families even when post cards are returned after they have moved. Would you kindly send me a contact email/address so that we may send a loving hand-made prayer shawl to the family? Thank you!
Cozette Haggerty, Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers
Email: [email protected]
Website Address: http://webpages.charter.net/ps4fs/shawls
Leila Campbell
May 1, 2009
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 24 May 2009. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled “Answering the Highest Call.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the memorial garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception in the Chapel’s Fellowship Hall.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (612/970-7866) or email ([email protected]) the office and leave your name and contact information.
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat 23 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun 24 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Kenna Larra
March 30, 2009
“”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
December 15, 2008
Happy 30th birthday. We all will have a Miller today in your honor.
November 11, 2008
Thank You for serving our country. Thinking of you on this Veterans Day.
SSG Ben Hurley
November 1, 2008
Stephen and I served in A Btry 1/121 FA and Kuwait together. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten.
July 24, 2008
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
July 24, 2008
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
In Memory of Stephen William ~ (Debra Estep)
July 24, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Stephen, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
June 1, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Castner!
Leila Campbell
April 29, 2008
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Casner:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 25 May, 2008. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “The Price of Freedom” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Sat. 24 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sun. 25 May, a “PrayerVigil for Peace” will be held. You are invited to stop by and light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one’s cross in the Memorial Garden, then enter the Chapel for prayer.
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
December 15, 2007
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Laura and Coly Vandegriffe; 2007
Laura Vandegriffe
December 7, 2007
Castner will never be forgotten and will always live on in our hearts and mind. I was stationed with him in Cheyenne. He will always be with us.
August 17, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 1, 2007
It's hard to believe it has been over a year. Just know that Stephen will always be remembered. He is a true American Hero.
July 30, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Castner and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Leila Campbell
May 4, 2007
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Memorial Day Sunday worship service at 11:00 a.m. on 27 May, 2007. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the neighboring states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.
I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain, LTC Kenneth L. Beale, Jr. will preach a message entitled “Remembering” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. An honor guard squad will be on hand to fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played.
As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (612/970-7866) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans’ name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org
If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.
Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Administrative Assistant
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org
Laura Cameron
September 13, 2006
To the family and friends
I have only just begun this journey and may not have known your loved one personally. I grew up in a small town in Wisconsin and felt I needed to extend to you my deepest condolences.
No words will ever express the grief those close to this lost treasure are feeling. I can only say that I can share this grief as I too lost a loved one July 8, 2006. I will continue to pray for the safety of our soldiers and especially the family and friends of our lost hero’s. I only hope the memories will carry us through. I will continue pray that you also will believe and know that our heavenly father will not give us more than we can handle.
As always I read (and cry) through the memorials of our lost hero’s, So many people have already expressed the things I would also say. I am amazed and take comfort that so many people care. I can only thank you for the sacrifice you and especially Stephen have made to protect our country. As others have said “I am only an email away.” I would be honored if you so choose to share about this fine hero.
Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28
Laura Cameron
(CPL Joseph P Micks KIA 7/8/2006 Ramadi, Iraq)
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
August 24, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Castner family in the loss of Stephen. I did not know Stephen, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Stephen you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Pat Lorenzen
August 23, 2006
Castner Family: I am very very sorry about the loss of your precious soldier, loved one. I know words are meaningless @ a time like this. But please know that there are many many Americans whose hearts are heavy for you. We do care. We appreciate Stephen & consider him a hero. I am praying that you will have added strength & peace in the days to come. Sinerely,
Joan Campbll
August 20, 2006
Steve & Kay, My heart goes out to you. My son, Kevin spoke very highly of Steve, and all of the 121FA will miss him very much. God Bless.
Lynn Castro
August 17, 2006
Your in my thoughts and prayers, as my husband is part of the 1-121 FA. Thank you Spc. Castner
Rebecca D
August 15, 2006
I'm from Gulfport,MS and I want you to know that we are very very sorry about what happened to your son. I think about this every night when I go to sleep. Please know that we are a kind-hearted people and this hurts us so much because we love him like he was our own native son. I'm so sorry for your lose and pray for your family. We have cried so many tears this past year and so sorry that there are more to shed.
Justin Nichols
August 10, 2006
Mr. & Mrs. Castner,
I would like to express my deepest condolences for your loss. Steve was a good friend of mine and I worked under his guidance for many years. He made a difference in every life that he touched. He was a great person and his memory will live on in everyone forever. I will miss him.
Rex and Lela Blankenship
August 9, 2006
It is with sadness that we read about the loss of your son our deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family.
Mary Lemke
August 7, 2006
Your family is in my thoughts and in my prayers. Your son was my sons roommate in Iraq. DJ spoke very highly of Stephen. Stephen also made a video for my son while they were in Mississippi. He will treasure it always. God Bless You All.
Sherrie Strabel
August 7, 2006
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. My son was deployed along with your son and my thoughts are with all of the families who have service members over seas and abroad every day.
Sally Leong
August 6, 2006
To the family of Stephen,
It is with sadness that I read about the loss of your Stephen. His bravery and courage will not be forgotten.
Sally, Three Fawn Meadows Farm
Lee Sirotnak
August 5, 2006
Please accept our condolences for your loss. You will be in our prayers, that the Lord provide you comfort and peace in memories of Stephen. God Bless.
Jim and Donna Laue
August 5, 2006
Dear Ones, We are members of the Belted Galloway Society, so you may not know us. But that aside we are so deeply sorry for your loss. we can't not imagine the pain. Just know that our prayers and thoughts are with you. We pray everyday for our young men and women in harms way.
Diana Biesek
August 4, 2006
We are sorry for the loss of your son.We will keep you in our prayers.
Our daughter is in Iraq at this time...
God Bless
carol Maumee
August 4, 2006
Dear Castner Family
Our family would sincerely like to express our sympathy over the loss of your son. As a proud militay family, yours have given the ulitmate sacrifice for which there are no words - Our hearts, and prayers go out to you in this time of mourning. Thank you ~
Lovingly, The Maumee Family
Teresa Fellows
August 4, 2006
My sincere and deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you. My Best Friend's son DJ was roommates with your son and the other injured soldiers in Iraq. I will continue to keep you in my prayers always. God Bless.
Kari Mork
August 4, 2006
Mr. & Mrs. Castner,
I am really truely very sorry for your loss. I know there is nothing anyone can say to make this easier for you, but please know that you son is a true HERO to all of us. Thoughts of many are with you at this time of great sorrow. My husband is in Kuwait right now with C-Co. 1-121 and I want you to know that no matter what, you will always be a part of the 121 family. Please feel free to contact me if there is anything I can do. May God watch over and Bless your family through this difficult time. My heart goes out to you during this time & in the days ahead.
Take Care & God Bless!
Sincerely,
Kari Mork
Kathy Grow
August 3, 2006
God keep you and yours under His protective hands. Your son is a Hero. God Bless You.
Dennis Jansen MSG MPC RET
August 3, 2006
Nothing can fill the lose of a loved one, especially a child lost to war. But have comfort in knowing there are many strangers praying for you and your son. There are many veterans who understand why he was doing what he did and that he will always be remember by his fellow comrades!
We thank you for raising such a fine outstanding American Hero!!
Noemi Castillo
August 3, 2006
Dear Family,
Our deepest sympathy, thoughts, and prayers go out to you and your loved ones. We thank him for giving his life to make our lives over here safer. For that we are truly grateful. Our loved one is currently serving with the 1-121 in Iraq, and we pray that God will help you and comfort you during this difficult time.
Tom Fuqua
August 3, 2006
Yesterday I took my 43 year old son to the emergency room for excessively high blood pressure. Five hours later the scare ended with him going home and ok. Last night I suffered through many thoughts of what I could have been facing today. This morning I read of your loss and though I can't say I know your feelings, I can say I have a good idea. I'm just an ole southern boy so please allow me wrap my arms, my prayers, and my love around you and your family. My heart will be with you in the coming days and I shall love, respect and honor your son's contribution to duty, honor, family and our country , forever.
Warmest regards, Tom
Jina Finn
August 3, 2006
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of need. I am a friend of a woman whose brother served with Stephen.
Nikki Castillo
August 3, 2006
My heart and prayers go out to your family during this difficult time. My brother is also in Iraq with the 1/121st FA. My prayers also go out to all American Soldiers for they have lost a brother. Your son is a hero and will never be forgotten. Thank you Spc. Stephen W. Castner
Kristina & Bert vonDohrmann
August 3, 2006
Dear family,
At this time of such sorrow, we grieve with you, God calls home all of us eventually- we just never know his reasoning- trust that your son is now safe and in loving care. His work for our earthly freedom from represion is not in vain and appreciated greatly by many. Our thoughts are with you. God Bless
Stephen nelson
August 3, 2006
After reading some of these letters Ican't possibly add any greater words of encouragment for I haven't experinced the loss that you have your son must have been an extrodinary person like allof the armed forces for if it wasn't for these brave men and women we would not have the freedom most of the world urns for god bless your son and your family .My family thanks you from the bottom of our hearts The Nelson family
Claudia
August 2, 2006
Dear Castner Family,
My deepest condolences go out to you. My brother is in Iraq right now with the 1/121st. May God Bless You and help you through this difficult time.
Vinnie Suha
August 2, 2006
Steve and I used to work in the UW-Milwaukee computing department. Steve was one of the nicest people I've ever met. He was much deeper and more thoughtful than he wanted others to know. He often gave me advice about life and I'll always remember it. Steve was well-loved by all of his co-workers and will not be forgotten.
Debbie Cardon
August 2, 2006
Dear Mr.and Mrs. Castner,
Iam so sorry for the loss of your son Stephen. May you find comfort in Gods eternal love and peace.
My son in law also is in the 1-121 FA.
God Bless you
Debbie Cardon
Mary Whittier
August 2, 2006
To the family of Spc Stephen Castner, I send my sincere sympathy to the family and friends of Spc Castner. There are no words to express what we are all feeling. My son is also in the 1-121 FA. God Bless.
Dawn Mork
August 2, 2006
God bless you and your family at this time of sorrow. Try to find some comfort in the pride and joy your son has brought to your life.
August 2, 2006
We did not know Stephen . We heard about the tragedy from the news.Our hearts are breaking for you . Stephen was very brave and a true hero. We are so sorry for your loss.
MELLISSA/JAMES PUMMILL
August 2, 2006
STEVE TOUCHED OUR ENTIRE FAMILY. WE WILL MISS HIM. HE WAS A DEAR FRIEND TO OUR SON JUSTIN AND A JOY TO OUR FAMILY.
Tania (Ponfil) Switon
August 2, 2006
Mr. and Mrs. Castner,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Stephen. Fighting for our country is one of the greatest honors but one of the saddest when there is a loss. I did not know Stephen directly but if he was anything like his mother, I'm sure he was one of the nicest men that there were. God bless to your family. Your former student from the Class of 1987.
Tania L. (Ponfil) Switon
August 2, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner:
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
August 2, 2006
Thank You and God bless you for giving the ultimate sacrifice for freedom.
Melissa Schalles
August 1, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My husband is also over there with the 1-121 FA, he is part of the backfill for the unit. I am the civilian contact for family support, and was tasked with the duty of making the calls to the families here in Nevada. I can say there were thousands of tears shed, and even more prayers said on Monday for you and your family. I did not know Stephen, but I am a soldier's wife, and know the patriotism, and love for his country that Stephen must have held. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless!
Larry and Betty Ottesen
July 31, 2006
To the Stephen W. Castner Family, no words are great enough to take away your sorrow at this time. I hope you will take comfort knowing your sorrow is shared by a family whose son/brother is also part of the 1/121. Rest in the Lord during this difficult time.
Michelle Campbell
July 31, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. My husband is part of the 121 and got to know Stephen well. We will never forget his patriotism, service & dedication. God Bless
Brenda Towne
July 31, 2006
I am very sorry for your loss. I never had the chance to meet your son, but my son is in the same unit 1-121st. When I recieved the call my heart went out to you and your family.You have gave the biggest sacrafice of all. I know this is not in vein and that God has a bigger plan in this war. Stay strong and know that you are still apart of the 1-121st family if you need anything. Rest in peace young solider your work on earth is done. Thank you
Brian Czarnecki, PGR Member
July 31, 2006
Please accept my most sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your brave hero.
Jim Fiste
July 31, 2006
My prayers for God's strength and peace are with you and the family. Spc. Steven was a hero and a few of the special people who have helped preserve all that we enjoy. May the Lord be close to your side.
Patriot Guard Rider
John & Rita (USAF Vets/PGR Members)
July 30, 2006
We send our deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Stephen. Please know that he is a hero and will never be forgotten. May our brother rest in peace.
Julie Sosinski
July 30, 2006
Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers since Monday, July 24th. Stephen was an outstanding citizen and a devoted soldier. We thank you for raising such a fine young man. As a veteran, and the mother of a son in the 121 FA unit, I can promise you that your son will NEVER be forgotten. He remains in our hearts, always.
God Bless America
Jessica Gast
July 29, 2006
My prayers are with you, the family and loved ones of Spc. Castner. My love is serving with the 1-121 and my heart is full of pride and thankfulness for all our soldiers for their sacrifice. God bless you in this difficult time.
Jim & Sandie Preders
July 29, 2006
May the Lord richly bless all of your family for the sacrifice you have made. Like God himself it was his one and only Son. We are here for you as another family with a son who is part of the 1-121, lifting you in prayer.
Kathy Dawald
July 29, 2006
Our hearts ache for you. May you find comfort and support from those who appreciate and value everything your son stood for. We, too, are parents of a soldier in the 1-121st and extend our deepest sypathies.
Keith Kruse PGR member
July 29, 2006
Spc. Stephen Castner, your duty, courage and sacrifice makes you a real American Hero. Our prayers and thoughts go out to your family and firends. Thank you for our Freedom. God Bless You !
Briana Kurta
July 29, 2006
Stay strong, it's going to be tough but you'll make it through it. I'm sorry for your loss. My husband is part of the 121 and I know he would say the same.
Barb & Gary Mikeal
July 29, 2006
God bless you and your family, I can only begin to imagine what you are going through. My son is with the 121st in Kuwait right now. Your son is a hero, and for that we thank you and your whole family for the sacrefice he has given.
Rocky Napier
July 29, 2006
My Heart and prayers go out to your family. We will never forget Stephens service.
Patriot Guard Riders
Del and Net Meyer
July 29, 2006
To the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner- with prayers of thanks for your loved one's life, and prayers of comfort for you.
"...God will tenderly comfort you..."-2 Corinthians 1:7
Our son, Sgt. Luke Herbst is also from the National Guard 121st FA.
May the Lord be your strength.
Tom Ballmann
July 28, 2006
My sincerest condolonces on your loss. Your son is a Hero, whether You think he was or not. He will be remebered as the Hero that he was. With deep gratitude, and sincerest thanks.
Garnet Jenkins
July 27, 2006
My deepest sympathy to the family of Spc. Stephen W. Castner and a multitude of Thanks to this young hero for his service to our country.
May he rest in the Mighty Hands of God and may God's Grace and comfort be with the Castner family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
Romans 8:18
May the memories of your loved one live in your heart always.
Softly and slowly....
Time heals...
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
July 27, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 26, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
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