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Memories and Condolences
for Vincent Pomante
David Rollan
December 6, 2014
I think back to Ramadi of us hanging out at the "coffee tent" laughing and listening to music . I miss you bro. 8 years ago today we lost you. RIP...
You are not forgotten
Ben Wykes
July 9, 2014
Had a Newcastle recently, thought of the half dozen times we had a case on a Sunday nite in the barracks....on account the bars were closed. I miss ya bud.
Charlie Gili
April 14, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Pomante Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Ian
December 6, 2012
Thinking of you and your family today. Six years have passed and I will always remember you and keep you and your family close to me.
We miss you always
Ian Short
May 29, 2012
Yesterday my children asked me why we have memorial Day. My answer was you. They were to young to remember seeing you. to know you, but i talk about you proudly. Remembering how brave you are, How determined you are. How much you mean to so many people. Memorial Day is to let us know you volunteered to protect us. I will continue to take the long way home so i can pass your memorial hoping you here me say hello. I want your family to know how much you are thought about. I want my children to know you. We talked about you. they wanted to know....
David Scheitlin
May 5, 2012
Hey brother, its been around 5 1/2 years now. I still think of you everyday, see your smile everyday. The time we spent together still brings a smile to my face and I continue to share the stories of us. I'm still trying to find a peace in my heart. Watch over me on my 5th tour now. I know I'll see you when the time comes. We'll have a nice camel to smoke when we do! I love you man, I miss you always, and you are never forgotten.
Brian Mooney
December 15, 2011
Hey buddy, tomorrow marks the 5th year. There are very few days that I dont think of you. As time goes by, you seem to be in my mind more often. Thinking of you today!
Peggy Childers
December 6, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Vincent J. Pomante:
Please accept my remembrance of Vincent on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
October 21, 2011
I Miss you brother
Nicky Leischnig
December 8, 2010
We will never forget you buddy.Always remember the days with you!
Ricky Leischnig
December 7, 2010
Wir werden Dich niemals vergessen! Still thinking and talking about You... We miss You!
Carl Thomason
December 7, 2010
Hey buddy your are truly missed. I cant believe its been four years since we took our last ride together. I wish you, Capt Mustache, and Maj Mclung made it also. I think about ya everyday. Miss ya. Watch over me once again as I go back over to the mountains. Miss ya
Peggy Childers
December 7, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Vincent J. Pomante:
Remembering Vincent on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
t Folkers
December 6, 2010
Damn Brother
October 26, 2010
I too think about you and your selfless service to our country!
I can only think of the pain your family has endured with losing a special person like yourself.
May God Bless all of the persons that miss you as we continue to pray for his support.
Det Mike Pavolino
(former SRO WSHS)
Joseph Baird
September 18, 2010
Hey Pomante, just stopping by to tell you that I still shink about you alot. You truely were a great friend and You will be missed. Save me a seat and I'll see you when my time comes. You'll forever be missed & remembered.
Top E
July 2, 2010
"Veej" You are so missed. It has been almost 4 years and I still tear up every time I think about you, Travis and Megan. I walk this earth every day thanking Megan for the 'gift' of life so I can see my children and hug my wife. To Travis for always having a great story and to you for all the good memories and laughs we had smoking our cigars! You guys made the time in Ramadi fly by, life without you guys is tough, but I'm grateful to have had you in my life and I promise to earn every day I walk on this earth as a tribute to your sacrifice.
Top E
Ian Short
June 2, 2010
Memorial Day has passed and has never meant as much to me as it does now. Remembering VJ and what he gave for my family will always be honored. I pass his resting place weekly always giving a silent hello and a thank you.
We miss you always,
SGT(ret) Dominic Mele
April 10, 2010
My condolences to the family and friends of Spc. Vincent J.Pomante III,
I just wanted to let the family know I wear your Son's name on my right arm, I also was in Iraq 03-05 and again 08-09. I just wanted you to know that he is not forgot.
Jane Short
February 5, 2010
Happy Birthday VJ We miss seeing your smile, but still feel you in our hearts.
Donna Gillette
December 25, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
SP4 Nilburn Stepp
December 9, 2009
I to was station in Giessen, Germany for two week in 1983, I was there for the exercise "Return of Forces to Europe". I remember the trip, it rained almost the whole time. But having my buddies next to me is what it is all about. You may be gone Vincent, but I belive that your family and friends are smiling when ever they talk about. Life is a wonderful gift and that gift you gave to America. I want to thank you Vincent and your familyfor my gift of Freedom.
Kris Froiland
November 13, 2009
I remember it like it was yesterday. Comin off a 4 day trip into the desert. Tired. Hungry. Walked into the px on Camp Ramadi to see Pomante's head up high, smiling. Waving to say hi to me. He always had that goofy smile on him. I think that's what I miss most about him. His calm, relaxed attitude. We never really got to hangout in Iraq too often. Different teams, different areas. But when we did he always wanted to go back out. He always had that itch to go out on patrol. I remember telling him in Tall Afar before the move to slow down. You're gonna get plenty of chances to go out. He didn't like that. He wanted to be out all day. All night. Helping in whatever way he could. I miss him so much. Such an amazing and inspiring person. Murray misses you too buddy. You're always in my thoughts.
November 11, 2009
VJ, it's hard to believe it's been almost 3 years! Rest assured there's not a single day that passes that you don't cross my mind. You and your family are in my prayers each and every night. So many of us miss you and think of you often. The most amazing thing is the fact that you're still inspiring so many people to better themselves and go through life with the same positive and enthusiastic attitude that we all knew you for. Thanks so much for everything you've done and continue to do for all of us who knew you AND the many Americans who didn't. Happy Veteran's Day to a true hero in every sense of the word.
vince briga
November 11, 2009
Vince, I ordered a memorial bracelet and Your name came on it. I wear it with pride in your memory. God bless You on memorial day.
November 11, 2009
Thinking of you today and everyday VJ.
xoxo
November 10, 2009
So many of us will be thinking of you on Veterans Day, VJ....
Jarrod Kennedy
November 10, 2009
Vinnie, Just thought you'd like to know I'm making a donation to the wounded Warrior Project in your honor. I wish I knew your family's address so they could receive the donation card, but maybe they will learn of it someday.
Carl Thomason
October 14, 2009
SPC Pomante, I miss you and wish you were still with us. I cant believe it has been almost 3 yrs since you left us, We had great times in Iraq and Germany. I wish we could erase that day you and cpt patriquin, and maj mclung were still with us. On behalf of the PSD Team "Regulators" We miss you and rest in peace.
Scott Sansone
September 23, 2009
Thanks for serving our country with such honor.
WSHS, Class of 1979
July 24, 2009
I love you, brother. I think about you every day that passes.
Nan Thompson
May 24, 2009
The Thompson family is thinking of you this Memorial Day weekend VJ. You were a great young man, and we miss you very much.
Karen, Amy, and Vince, our prayers are with you.
Brian Mooney
March 19, 2009
SPC Pomante was a dear friend of mine overseas. We would stay up late into the morning talking, and just being ourselves. We've lost a great soldier, friend,and family and i will always keep Pomantes family dear in my heart for the tragic death of such a noble friend.
Kenna Larra
February 27, 2009
We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna
Peggy Childers
December 6, 2008
To the family of Spc. Vincent J. Pomante:
Vincent gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
In Memory of Vincent James ~ (Debra Estep)
December 6, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Vincent, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep - Aleandri
Twinsburg, Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
NA NA
December 3, 2008
Thank You Mr. Pomante just tonight my daughter who served with you spoke of you. The highest respect to you and your family.
From Texas
SSG Joel Gibson
November 7, 2008
I knew SPC Pomante as part of Ready First Combat Team's staff. I worked nonstop from Dec. 4 to the morning of Dec. 6, and when some media folks needed to go to breakfast, Pomante, noticing how dog-tired I was, offered to take them so I could grab some sleep. Some sleep turned into 6 hours. Upon waking up, I found our staff had lost 3 valuable members.
Helping to pack up his gear, especially the 'Only Pomante' stuff like the tomahawks was hard, but I can't even imagine how hard it was to receive those neatly packed boxes. SPC Vincent Pomante was one of the most unique individuals I've ever had the pleasure of spending time with, and I know my world got a little grayer when we lost him.
Jason Little
October 15, 2008
He was my team mate for a lot of my time in Germany. He would have been with us in Iraq if the higher ups hadn t seen what a great driver he was;and he was the best. I spoke for you at the memorial in Ramdai, I hope I did you right by it. Rest in Peace my friend.
folk
September 11, 2008
Vinnie, Know you are up there looking down at us and prolly just smiling. You are a special person! You were so proud to take the fight to the enemy...RIP
June 15, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Pomante!
Marcus Byrne
April 25, 2008
I knew SPC Pomante from our times in Hohenfels and Graf doing fire support. He was always good spirited and always had a joke, and knew his job. He was a great soldier and a great person. The hardest memorial ceremony I've attended yet. He will be missed.
caitlin short
March 31, 2008
Veej- Thinking about you- and your sister and parents today. Also about all of the lives you touched. So many things bring you to my mind. It still hurts because of who you are and just what a great soul you have. Really love you and your family.
t
March 10, 2008
RIP VJ, We all miss you! Always there to tell a joke, have a smoke, or whatever else was going on. We will sit, drink and be merry and listen to some OAR once again bro.
Ken Z
March 6, 2008
I've only just learned of what happened to VJ. I only worked with him for my last two months in Iraq, but have only good memories of him as a stand up guy and a good soldier. My condolences to his loved ones.
John Elko
February 14, 2008
I knew SPC Pomante from Brigade staff, but more from our time in the Underdog Cafe, an improvised coffee bar built by soldiers behind the Brigade HQ. Every Thursday night they had an open mic night, and every Thursday Pomante came out to hear SFC Williams play guitar and myself tell jokes. He was always the first person I went to after I came off stage, to see how he liked that week's jokes and to ask for notes, and he always knew the latest releases by the best comedians, not just the popular ones. On the few nights that SFC Will couldn't play, and hardly anyone came out, Pomante and I would still sit and talk. He had great stories from home, of crazy stuff he'd done with his friends growing up. Every Thursday SFC Williams would play Eric Clapton's "Tears in Heaven," and dedicate it to the Soldiers we had lost. After V.J. was killed, it took on that much more meaning for me, as I would sit and look at the chair he should've still been in. He was so well liked on staff, everyone felt they had a friend in him and not just as a Soldier or work-aquaintence. He was so easy going, and once you got into telling stories back and forth with him, you almost forgot where you were. He is and will be greatly missed.
CPT John A. Elko
Maggie (Johnson) Anderson
December 6, 2007
One year ago, this December 6, a special man was taken while serving in Iraq. Army Specialist Vincent James Pomante III, was such a big name for such an easy going guy. He was known simply as V.J., which was often slurred into “Veej” at that. I can say pretty confidently, he was the only V.J. to grace the hallways of Westerville City Schools, the wrestling mats in the gym, the rowboats for CREW, or the theatre at Westerville South. The only V.J. to sport a mullet in twenty-first century suburbia, the only V.J. that could make me a kite that would actually fly in eighth grade shop class. Although we all laugh, because it is a rare person who can get the word “mullet” worked into their funeral service, that is also the reason losing him has been so hard – he was truly a one-of-a-kind. V.J.’s younger years were surely a whirlwind for his parents – he was always on “GO” and always looking for an adventure. At Westerville South, almost everyone knew him, which is quite an accomplishment in a school of almost five hundred students. And as an adult he was flourishing into an extraordinary human being – well rounded and educated not by school, but by the world around him. And after death, he is remembered as a “good hearted warrior”, a “true hero”, “bursting with energy”, “a sweet gentle soul” (online guestbook at Columbus Dispatch Obituaries). At his funeral he was awarded the Purple Heart (an award to any member of the Armed Forces who has been wounded or killed while in enemy combat) and the Bronze Star (an award to any United States Army soldier who has distinguished themselves by heroic and meritorious achievement or service). I write this as my way of remembering my friend, and to help everyone else remember too. The loss of this man has left broken hearts all over the world. I find a little peace, and maybe you will too, in these song lyrics when thinking about V.J.: “Just remember this, I’m in a better place where soldiers live in peace and angels sing “Amazing Grace” (Tim McGraw, “If You’re Reading This”). We all still love you V.J.
Matt Johnson
August 24, 2007
I wasn't available to make it to the funeral and have regretted it since. Due to recent events in my life I decided to do a search for VJ and came across this. We all know how good a friend he was to everyone and I could only imagine how good a son and brother to Amy. He'll always be missed and loved in the hearts of everyone luckily to have him pass through our life and remembered as the good hearted warrior he had always been.
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
August 4, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Pomante and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! It is especially sad to lose a fellow member of the Buckeye state. May God bless all of you!!
Taunda Dye
June 18, 2007
Please accept my condolences for your loss. My son (Gary White) was serving with him at the time in Ramadi. He was deeply affected and by his and Patriquin's passing. Gary had nothing but good things to say about him. I also have a photo of your son taken there by Gary. Such a beautiful smile. If you would like a copy please contact me. God Bless.
Robyn Garside
April 9, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Ian Short
February 8, 2007
The day's seem to go by bringing a new memory. Memories i dont want to forget. Memories i may not have remembered had he came back safe.
Some way i wish time could change to make a new memory. An amazing memory to talk about. I know Vj was needed. He was there for a reason. Just like everything else he did and now gone for a reason. He was needed somewhere else. Somewhere he is making memories. I am grateful i had my time. When our family needed him, a little 6 year old boy, busting through the back door faster than he came through the front. His energy felt by everyone. Always bursting with energy. He brought us all a laugh, I look back now and realize why he was there. We all needed our time with Vj to make an unforgettable memory to brighten our day.
Thank you Vj. You brighten my day.....
Remember your time with him. Let it brighten your day.
Tom,Ricky, Ian & Ole
February 6, 2007
We thought of you with love today
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday
And days before that too.
We think of you in silence
We often speak your name.
Now all we have are memories
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake
With which we'll never part
God has you in His keeping
We have you in our Heart.
Glen
January 29, 2007
“Soldier”
To Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Lee Sirotnak
January 26, 2007
Please accept our condolences for the loss of your loved one, and our prayers that you find peace and consolation in God’s grace. We are indebted to your Soldier for his great sacrifice and we will not forget.
Karen Hickman
January 20, 2007
I am so sorry for the loss of Spc. Vincent J. Pomante. If there are brothers or sisters , please contact me. I am the Founder of Gold Star Siblings, Inc.
God Bless.
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
January 5, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Pomante family in the loss of Vincent. I did not know Vincent, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Vincent you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Gary & Connie Patriquin
December 29, 2006
Karen Vince and Amy
Our heart felt sympathy goes out to your family. Be proud of all VJ accomplished in his life and May God Bless your family.
Trudy Lowe
December 28, 2006
My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.
Shirley (Martin) Benson
December 24, 2006
Vince, Karen and Amy,
I know that I haven't seen you for a very long time but I wanted you to know that I was thinking of your family. I just learned today of VJ's passing. The last time I saw VJ and Amy was when I baby sat for you when they were very young. I know it is a difficult time for you all but I keep thinking that VJ was received with Bill waiting for him. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Take care of yourselves.
Garnet Jenkins
December 23, 2006
My deepest and most heartfelt sympathy to the family of Spc. Vincent J. Pomante, with a multitude of Thanks for this Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
The price Vincent and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May he Rest Safely, in God's Care and may God's Loving Peace and Comfort be with the Pomante family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, 12/6/67.
Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrow.
Isaiah 53:4
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Vincent. Quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
Paula Thistlewaite
December 23, 2006
Dear Karen and Family,
Our heartfelt love and sympathy go out to all of you. Our daughter, Sarah, knew VJ and Amy from Whittier Elementary and beyond.Our nephew, Paul Carrier, was on South's wrestling team with VJ. A sweet, gentle soul is in heaven and we all pray you can find some comfort in that. VJ is a true hero. We will keep your family in our prayers, always.
Sincerely,
Sarah, Paula, Jim Thistlewaite
Connie Miller
December 21, 2006
Vincent & Karen;
My deepest condolences to you both. I had the pleasure of watching VJ in sports with my son Doug Crawford in middle school. He was just as determined as my son was in wrestling. Such a young soul gone but you should be proud of what he stood for. Protecting our Freedom.
Michelle Johnson
December 19, 2006
Karen,
I was shocked when I learned of your son's passing on the news Saturday evening. I am so sorry. No one should ever have to lose a child, there are no words that I can say. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I haven't seen you in years, but my heart goes out to you and your family. If I can do anything, please contact me. Michelle & Philip Johnson (Franklin)
Michael Cassady, Chaplain, USAF
December 19, 2006
"May the choirs of angels greet you.
May all the holy martyrs welcome you at your coming.
And may Lazarus, once poor, welcome you into your eternal home."
Diane, Matthew, Ryan, Austen and Saylor
December 17, 2006
Karen, I never met V.J., but I watched him grow up through photos on your desk. I heard you laugh as you would tell stories about him and I saw how proud he made you. We are all proud of his service to his country and our prayers are with you .
Raymond & Teresa Heizer
December 17, 2006
Karen, I've known you for years and have heard you talk so many wonderful stories about V.J. Not only was he a hero, you are one too because you raised him to be such a wonderful, brave human being. We (the Aiello family and the Heizer family) said a prayer for him at Thanksgiving for his safe return, and words can not express how sad we are for your loss. Please find comfort in the fact that you will all be reunited one day forever. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Manuela Wagner
December 17, 2006
Wir waren zu tiefst bestürtzt als wir diese schreckliche Nachricht erhielten. Wie immer sterben die besten viel zu jung und wir hoffen da wo du jetzt bist geht es dir gut. Desweiteren möchten wir seiner Familie unser tiefstes Mitgefühl aussprechen.
WE WILL NEVER FORGET YOU AND YOU WAS A GREAT GUY
Marcus and Manu sowie David
THATCHER ELY
December 17, 2006
Vince, Although haven't seen you in years please accept my condolences. I would of come to the funeral but I was closing my restaurant/coffee pub
Marcia Cullen
December 17, 2006
Karen and Family,
VJ rowed on the Westerville Crew team with my son Charles, and I vividly remember his smile and jovial spirit. Sometimes feelings go too deep for words, and this is one of those times. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our daily thoughts and prayers.
Chuck and Gaylee Green
December 17, 2006
We are so sorry for your loss. Being parents of a son and a daughter there is no loss greater than that of one of your children. We pray for your strength to endure and God's peace to be with you. May the precious memories you'll always cherish bring you comfort.
Mike, Amanda & Andrew Rose
December 17, 2006
Karen & Family,
We were so shocked and saddened to read about VJ. We know words aren't enough but know that the arms of those who knew and loved him are surrounding you all! Keeping you in our prayers.
anonymous
December 17, 2006
God bless your son VJ and keep him in his arms so tight, Your son was a hero and that will never die. May you find peace within.
Pat Scott
December 15, 2006
Karen & Family,
I spent an hour in the card store trying to find a card with the appropriate words...only to realize there are no words that can even come close to giving the comfort that I would like to be able to offer. However, I commit to continually lifting your family up to our God in prayer....asking for the peace that only He can give. God Bless you and keep you in His circle of mercy now and always.
Ben Roush
December 15, 2006
VJ always had a Smile for everyone and an ability to make anyone laugh, no matter how serious a situation. That made him hard to coach, but a great friend. I'll miss him. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Mike and Lois Burney
December 15, 2006
Karen, Vince and Amy
Our prayers are with you today and in the years to come. We were priviledged to watch VJ grow up. VJ was a son every parent would be proud of. We will forever be thankful to VJ for his sacrifice.
Alex Roush
December 15, 2006
We are going to miss VJ more than we know yet, and we can learn from how he lived his life. Do everything with a smile, and enjoy the people you love. They can be gone before you even know what happened.
Jeff Sheets
December 15, 2006
Karen:
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your son.
Beverly Fellows
December 15, 2006
Vince and Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. V.J. was indeed a special person and was a true patriot. We remember him as a youngster during his visits to Grandma Melba's house in North Carolina. Even as a young boy, he exhibited so many wonderful qualities. Your family is indeed in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please do not hesitate to let us know if there is anything we can do for you or for Melba.
E.
December 15, 2006
My thought are with you all during this difficult time. V.J. has the admiration and appreciation of a nation. May you find comfort in knowing that.
Tom & Carole Turner
December 15, 2006
Karen, Vince & Amy,
Greater love has no man than to lay down his life for his friends. I also believe that goes when serving your country. Karen, you told us many times that VJ was proud of what he was doing for his country. When we were told of what happened we sat in stunned silence. Our thoughts and especially prayers are with you, the family and VJ's comrades. He is a true American hero.
We are available to all of you, whatever you need
Cindy Myers
December 15, 2006
I never had the honor of meeting VJ, but I do know of him through his friend, BJ Dinsmore, and I would like to add my condolences in your loss. My heart is breaking for all of you. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers and that I feel VJ has a new seat of honor in heaven as an advisor to the angels that are protecting the soldiers that are still in IRAQ. May God grant you the peace that passes all understanding as you go through this terrible time.
Rick Singletary
December 15, 2006
Dearest Vince, Karen & Amy,
Unfinished chapters of V.J.’s life can only be imagined. As the “whys” and “what-ifs” linger, take comfort in the memories and in knowing those chapters never lived would have certainly mirrored those you shared. You are neither alone in your grief nor in your pride. Those of us who knew V.J., and a nation not so privileged, share your profound sorrow and abundant pride. Let’s pray that V.J. is one of the last to sacrifice his unwritten chapters.
With love,
Nicole and Doug Jones & Family
December 14, 2006
Vince, Karen & Amy:
I'm so proud to be related to an amazing person like V.J., even if it is somewhat distantly. I just wanted to send a quick note to let you know that you're in my family's hearts and prayers.
With love and deepest sympathy.
(Aunt Amy Capparuccini's grandaughter/Janet's daughter)
Linda & Arley Webb
December 14, 2006
Dearest Vince and Karen,
Please know that we are grieving with you and your family through these very dark days. It is always difficult to let go of someone you love, but neither of us can imagine what it is like to lose a child. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are constantly with you.
With Love,
Bob Butler
December 14, 2006
Vince, I was truely shocked and saddened when I saw your son's name in USA Today as one of the casualties of this awful war we are in. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will say a prayer for V.J. and your family, and please know you all have my most sincere condolences. I could not even imagine the pain you all are feeling at this moment and for years to come. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers through this tough time.
Sincerely,
Bob Butler
Mike and Jane Fishbaugh
December 14, 2006
Karen and Family:
Karen, it is so hard to come up with words that will ease the burden of the loss of your son. Please know we share the sorrow of your loss. Our prayers are with all of you.Your son is a hero not only in our eyes but also in God's eyes. Heaven has now improved by the presence of "V.J.". We are there for you for anything you may need.All give some but V.J. gave all.May God Bless Over All Of You.
Paula Entrekin
December 14, 2006
We are so proud of VJ and what he was doing. We will miss him deeply.
Our love is with you, Amy and Vince.
Love Paula and Bob and family
Ann Napoletan (Jessi Napoletan's mom)
December 14, 2006
My prayers are with you all during this extremely difficult time. VJ remains a hero in all of our eyes.
Mindy Willey
December 14, 2006
Karen, My heart is deeply sadden on the loss of your son. We are not to bury our children but please know that your son died valiantly for his country and we are all so very grateful for his courage and bravery.
I know all to well your heartache and pain but know that V.J. is in a much better place and the Lord has two very special angles our little boys.
Your freind
Mindy Andrix Willey
Ted Thompson and Janet Bradley
December 14, 2006
Vince, We are so sorry for your loss. Words can't even begin to express the sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to let us know.
Fabienne Butler
December 14, 2006
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Sandy Chafin
December 14, 2006
Karen & family,
So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you're going through, but pray for your strength to endure and God's peace to be with you. May the precious memories you'll always cherish bring you comfort.
Dee Winn, & Josh Pederson
December 14, 2006
We feel so gravely sorry and our hearts go out to the family and friends of V.J.. Having never known V.J., but having the opportunity to be close friends with his Father, we know the pain He is feeling and our prayers go out to all who knew and loved V.J.. We are proud that V.J. not only served his country but truely felt in his heart that he was doing what was right and felt good about what he was accomplishing in his tour of duty. It is hard to lose someone so young and full of hope for the future. May God comfort all who will have a void in their lives and hearts now that V.J. has gone to God.
Jane, Doug, Caitlin & Brady Short
December 14, 2006
Karen, Vince and Amy,
Words cannot express the loss we feel.
We are there for you for whateveer you need. We respect your wishes for no flowers and will always Remember the son and brother with the smile that he carried and passed along to all he met.
All our love, The Short Family
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