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Shawn M. Dunkin

Shawn Dunkin Obituary

Sgt. Shawn Micheal Dunkin, was killed in action on Feb. 19, 2007.

He is survived by his wife, Ashley Hodges Dunkin; his parents, Micheal R. Dunkin and Darlene Kelly; a stepmother, Janice Dunkin; and stepfather, Donavan Kelly; his sisters, Tracie Dunkin and Erin Jackson; a brother, David Long; a grandmother, Arley Dunkin; two nieces and two nephews.

Shawn and Ashley met in 2001 while Shawn was stationed at Fort Hood, Texas, and married in Plano, Texas, Aug. 14, 2004, shortly after Shawn's return from his first tour in Iraq.

He was a wonderful husband and son with hopes and dreams of one day being a wonderful father. Shawn would have celebrated his 26th birthday on Feb. 27, 2007. He was recognized the first time for his bravery at the age of 12 when he rescued several girls from drowning in a river. He was recognized again when he received a medal for heroism while trying to help a fellow soldier who was injured, and has now made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.

A funeral service will be held at 10 a.m. Friday, March 2, 2007, in the East Chapel of Chattanooga Funeral Home. Interment will follow in the National Cemetery with full military honors.The family will receive friends from 4 to 8 p.m. Thursday at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made in the name of Sgt. Shawn Micheal Dunkin to Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, KS 66675-8517, or on line at www.woundedwarriorproject.org.

Arrangements are by Chattanooga Funeral Home Crematory and Florist East Chapel, 404 S. Moore Road, Chattanooga, TN 37412.

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Published by The Progress-Index on Feb. 28, 2007.

Memories and Condolences
for Shawn Dunkin

98 Entries

Tracie Dunkin

June 21, 2025

If you are reading these messages, please consider donating to the Sgt. Shawn M. Dunkin Scholarship Fund, a 501(c)(3) non-profit company that awards scholarships to high school seniors. For more information, please contact Tracie @ 502.381.3815.

Charlie Gili

August 17, 2021

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Shawn Michael Dunkin US Army Sergeant.

We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Mark Niemann

May 3, 2018

#NeverForget

Thank God for men like Shawn.

Mark Niemann

May 11, 2017

I wear Shawn's name on my wrist everyday as a way to honor and remember him.

I didn't know Shawn; but I wish I had met him. He didn't know me but sacrificed his life for my freedoms. And for that, I am grateful.

Billy Howard

January 21, 2013

Didn't know Shawn myself but I am friends with Tim Albright and want to thank Shawn and his family for service and sacrifice.

December 3, 2012

IN MEMORY & HONOR OF SHAWN.

Michael Lee Johnson

March 30, 2012

Michael Dunkin, I just saw and read about your lose. Thank you Shawn, for your service. Michael Lee Johnson

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2012

To the family and friends of Sgt. Shawn M. Dunkin:
Always remembering Shawn. "Some gave all."

Will Kalin

February 18, 2012

I didn't know you were remembered here, this way. Never knew that there were so many who remembered and respected your sacrifice. I still get choked up every time I see your picture in the squadron hq, still have a hard time with feb 19. You'd think it would get easier as the years have passed, but it still lingers with me, the memories of that day and the faces of our platoon in the days that followed. Sometimes I still wake up at night, the dreams are still so vivid in my memories, like reliving every detail. Serving with you, Bowe, and Cleveland was an honor. Take care of them and yourself up there.

Kris Gadsden

August 31, 2011

Woke up this morning, sad cause I was missing all the good times we had in Texas. Heely'ing all through the mall, parties at Airport, and trying to catch road cones while riding down the highway in the back of Sandy(the pickup truck). Wonk, Chill, Sarah, Pistol Pete, Vicky, Scrappy, C-Bo, everyone was there. It was such a vivid dream that I swore it was real. I woke up crying because I would never be able to see my brother again. I miss and love you so much man-Loki

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Shawn M. Dunkin:
Please accept my remembrance of Shawn on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

kennedy ridenour

May 10, 2010

hi uncle shawn. i miss u this week end i get to give a speech just for u. i really miss u and wish u were here. love u

kennedy ridenour

March 11, 2010

its late 1235am i cant sleep to much on my mind. i miss u u missed a lot grandma bday. your bday i still throwe a party for you. i miss you a lot and i love u talk too u soon

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Shawn M. Dunkin:
Remembering Shawn on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Gena French

February 18, 2010

I walked down to the beach to watch the sunset tonight. While I was there I noticed a Navy ship on the horizon and of course my mind went to the military and then to you. I can't believe it will be 3 years ago tomorrow. Someday I will tell you how much knowing you and loosing you has changed my life. I love and miss you very much.

kennedy ridenour

February 13, 2010

not many people know u as well as i do. i know that u never let any thing get in your way u fight and u win. u just didnt win this time. u still are a hero to me. so i six days it will be the day u died and i know that know one will hold in there cry i know i will cry alot. on your brithday i will bake u a cake and blow out a candle just for u. i miss u and i wish u were here. i love u SGT. SHAWN M. DUNKIN.

Kennedy Ridenour

February 12, 2010

i miss you. when i hear your name i cry and think how much i miss u and love u. im 12 now its been a long time. i havent seen u in forever it feels like. u were my best friend and when i saw u i thought that was the bravest man and how i looked up to u.
we all miss u and we all love u. i cant wait until i see u again. hopefuly not soon but i do wish u were here. i think the last time i saw u was a new years u were so happy and seeing u made me happy. i only saw u about 1 a year and when i did i was as happy as i could be. some times i cry but i know that u love me and i know that u didnt want to leave but god has a plan for all of us i jsut dont know why he took u away from us. it just hasnt been the same with out u. i love u so much and there not a day that goes by that i dont think of u. i just wish u were and i love u.

December 25, 2009

I'm creating a family receipe book and got to the Egg and Sausage bake. I've named it Shawn's favorite Christmas Breakfast Casserole. You loved for me to make Christmas brunch-we couldn't do breakfast because you were impossible to get out of bed! I miss you.

Matt Hapgood

December 23, 2009

I know Shawn's father and wish I had the pleasure of knowing Shawn. My deepest sympathies to his family for his ultimate sacrifice.

Tracie Dunkin

November 17, 2009

I turn 35 this Friday. I wish you could be here to share my birthday with me. I miss you, Shawn.

kennedy ridenour

July 31, 2009

He was my Uncle and my friend. He was the only one that I could talk to. I loved him very much. He will always have a place in my heart. His picture hangs in my living room. I love him very much and will always miss him. I love you and see you in heaven.

Samantha Langley

July 6, 2009

I never got the pleasure of meeting you, but you will forever and always be a part of my heart.

Debra Fletcher

May 26, 2009

Never did I meet Shawn M. Dunkin, never heard the sound of his voice or had the opportunity to shake his hand, but because of two young soldiers, battle buddies who became friends then brothers during their 1st tour of duty in Iraq, I got to know Shawn through stories and photographs. He was a handsome and confident young soldier who my son, Sgt Caleb Fletcher told me he trusted with his life without a doubt or hesitation. In remembrance of this modern day hero who was called home to receive God's peace, I pray you find comfort in knowing that we honor Shawn's contribution to uplift humanity, that he is not forgotten and his memory lives on in our hearts. Although he had to say goodbye for now, know that God cares for our earthly pain when our loved ones are called home. Until you meet again remember that his soul lives on.
God bless.

Peggy Childers

February 19, 2009

To the family of Sgt. Shawn M. Dunkin:
Shawn gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Kenna Larra

February 13, 2009

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,400 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna

Cozette Haggerty

February 12, 2009

Hello,
I represent PRAYER SHAWLS 4 FALLEN SOLDIERS (PS4FS), an organization that since October 2007 has sent over 2,700 prayer shawls to military families who have lost a loved one. We are an organization of over 238 groups from all over the country. We make every effort to reach families even when post cards are returned after they have moved. Would you kindly send me a contact email/address so that we may send a prayer shawl to the family? Thank you!

Cozette Haggerty, Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers
Email: [email protected]
Website Address: http://webpages.charter.net/ps4fs/shawls

Jan Dunkin

February 3, 2009

Shawn,
I don't write here very often, but this month is always hard. Your death and your birthday. There's no place to send you a card. There's no place to call and say happy birthday. I miss you so much, and you are always in my thoughts and heart. Your father and I have done what you would have wanted. We are coping. We talk about you often. We look at pictures. Sometimes I just stare at your pictures and still can't believe it, but in our grief, we are proud of you. Such mixed emotions grief and pride, and so hard to deal with. I know you are in a good place, no pain, no suffering, but we still miss you here. We will always love you.

Maureen Radtke

February 2, 2009

Shawn,
I did not know you. I thank you for serving this country. It a shame what happened to you over their. You sister is devoted to you. She loves you dearly. I pray for you and your family all the time.

God BLess You!

Savannah Hodges

July 24, 2008

Shawn you were my brother-in-law and I love you no matter what!

Tracie Dunkin

July 20, 2008

Shawn, I had the best story to share with you today! I felt as if I'd been physically hit with a brick when I realized I couldn't talk to you. I miss your wise words and your goofy laugh. I will never forget. Shawn, you are my Hero! Love, Me.

THANKS TO THE WONDERFUL MEN AND WOMEN THAT HAVE GIVEN THEIR LIVES FOR OUR C

July 18, 2008

know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Travis' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

July 17, 2008

All my life I have heard about Heaven. I have heard various Pastors and teachers talk on and on about various aspects of Heaven and, as I am prone to do, I began to doubt if they really knew what they were talking about.

I remember as a child thinking of the "streets of pure gold " which are promised and thought, "How could we walk on them?" I have heard that pure gold is soft and has to have other metals mixed with it in order to give it hardness for wear-ability, in jewelry for instance. Of course, I was thinking of being in my present body when I get there. The Preachers also talked long (and loud!) about gates of pearl and I wondered why anybody would want a gate made of pearl and indeed why Heaven would even need a gate (probably symbolizes security). I guess I was a literalist unless told, “what I was hearing was not necessarily meant to be taken literally.”

Some other descriptions really piqued my interest however. When my Pastor talked of the River of Life I could picture a beautiful river winding gently through a nice warm land with people and animals lying on the banks (no chiggers) enjoying the warmness of the sun and having no need for suntan lotion. I also pictured this river literally providing life, not only for those who drank from it but through a system of canals, giving life to the whole countryside. There would most likely be neither rain nor need for rain because that would keep the people from being out in the warm, life-giving light.

I heard that there will be no need for light because the Lord will provide the light or "The Lord Himself will be the light". That made some sense to me as a child but later it made a lot more sense when I realized that not only does the Lord provide the light in a literal sense (we can't conceive a place where there is no light as we know it) but more importantly, in a spiritual sense. Of course, as we learn more about light and how it may provide almost limitless energy for us on the Earth in the future, we can see an even greater application in this sense in Heaven. We will have a limitless source of energy, which will be provided by the Lord, whether it is literal light (energy as we know it,) or spiritual light (we shall know as we are known). It really makes no difference as far as I am concerned because the Lord will provide it.

The last two ideas I remember hearing discussed and about which I have read, are the greatest source of joy for me. Revelation tells us that the Lord will "wipe away all tears". To me, that is such a marvelous concept that I can't fully grasp it. There has been so many times in my life when I have wept tears that came from a broken heart, that I can scarcely conceive of a place or a situation in which there would be neither need nor stimulus for tears or sorrow. Just think, no more loss, no more disappointments, and no feelings of sadness. What a wonderful benefit of Heaven, in the absolute presence of God!

The last I will mention is the statement that "The lion will lie down with the lamb". For a while that meant little to me because I simply couldn't imagine a helpless lamb resting or taking a nap with a lion which is one of the most ferocious beasts on Earth and that eats lambs! It made absolutely no sense to me. As I have lived a few more years (I am now, 8/1/05, age 75) I can now "see" that scene much more clearly. With all the violence, hatred and mistrust in our world, I want very badly to be that lamb and take a nap, using the soft belly of a lion as a pillow. I would like to be able to rest at the den of a rattlesnake (I really can't imagine that!), I want to have a tiger for a house pet and not be afraid he would eat the dog---or me! In other words, I want to live in a peaceful place where there is no fear of being harmed, where my wife can be an hour late getting home and I will see no need of calling to see if she is all right in a world that has gone mad.

In short, I really don't know what Heaven is like but I imagine a place where there is peace, safety and complete good in the full presence of God, with no fear, no mistrust, no sorrow, no illness, no aching joints; just the joy of being with Him and all his people, whatever that entails. When this happens there will be no end of it. No more parting with our loved family and friends, "and thus we shall ever be with the Lord". I don't really want to go right away but when the Lord calls I will welcome it! "Even so come, Lord Jesus".

July 11, 2008

A Prayer For Our Soldiers ~~

DEAR FATHER UP IN HEAVEN
WE COME HUMBLY TO YOU TODAY,
THINKING OF OUR SOLDIERS
WHO ARE VERY FAR AWAY........

WE ASK FOR YOUR PROTECTION LORD
PLEASE KEEP THEM SAFE AND WARM,
AND WHEN EVIL LURKS AROUND THEM
KEEP THEM FROM ALL HARM........

BLESS EACH FAMILY AND THEIR CHILDREN
WHO GO THROUGH DRED EACH DAY
WONDERING IF THEY WILL COME HOME
OR ARE THEY GONE TO STAY.......

GOD PLEASE PROTECT OUR SOLDIERS
WHO FIGHT FOR OUR COUNTRYS NAME,
PLEASE DEAR LORD KEEP THEM SAFE
AND BRING THEM HOME AGAIN........

OUR COUNTRY STANDS FOR FREEDOM
WE FIGHT TO KEEP THE CAUSE,
WE MUST ALL STAND TOGETHER
NO MATTER WHAT THE COST......

SO DEAR FATHER UP IN HEAVEN
WONT YOU HEAR OUR PLEA,
BRING PEACE TO EVERY NATION LORD
SO OUR COUNTRY WILL BE FREE........

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

2 Cor 4:16-18 Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.
The Goodness of God shines brightly through the lives of Travis' family even in this tragic loss. PTL they know the hope that comes from knowing Jesus and they will see him again one day. May you always find comfort and strength through Him-God will lift you up through others at times... and has certainly shown Himself gloriously through each of you!
Phil 1:12-13 I see being lived out in this time... :-) God Bless and

July 11, 2008

THERES A VERY SPECIAL PLACE IN HEAVEN
GOD PLACED IT THERE JUST FOR YOU,
FOR BEING SUCH A BLESSING ON EARTH
AND THE SWEET THINGS THAT YOU DO.

YOU HAVE HELPED ME BELIEVE IN ANGELS
WITH YOUR SWEET AND GENTLE WAYS,
YOUR COMPASSION OVERWHELMS ME
AND HELPS ME THROUGH ROUGH DAYS

YOUR REWARD IN HEAVEN WILL BE GREAT
FOR LOVING THE WAY THAT YOU DO,
AND CARING FOR THE NEEDS OF OTHERS
AS GOD WOULD WANT YOU TO.

YOU ARE INDEED A SPECIAL ANGEL IN LIFE
THATS WHY I HAVE TO SAY,
I WILL CHERISH YOUR FRIENDSHIP FOREVER
AND YOU ARE IN MY HEART TO STAY.

June 20, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Dunkin!

charlie daniles

June 10, 2008

Cherish all of the memories that you all spent together. Believe me, I know that it will be hard at times but God will see you through it all.
I know that with the holidays, the first one of being without your loved one is very hard but God will see you through. Your family will forever have my prayers and just know that this is the time that you must come even closer than ever. It will take each of you to help the other one out.
I love you all with the love of Christ and I pray that God will continue to wrap His loving arms around you.

wendell wilson

June 10, 2008

My precious one, you’ve gone to be
With our Savior in Heaven above.
But I’ll be waiting for our next embrace
And hold your hand with love.
God chose to take you ahead of me
And sadness still fills my heart.
But someday we will be joined again
And never again shall we part.
I know you’re in God’s hands right now
With no pain, or sorrow to bear.
For you’re in a place of peace and love,
Of which I look forward to share.
Your face I see when I close my eyes
And sometimes there’s a tear or two.
But because I’m only human dear,
It’s my wanting to be with you.
I will be strong, and live my life
Until God calls me home.
Then meet me at those Golden Gates
Where God, is by His throne.
Oh yes, I shall be waiting
On that glorious day to arrive
With you and Jesus by my side
It is then, I will feel alive.

wyatt family

June 10, 2008

sherry wilkins

June 10, 2008

To The Family,
When God calls He knows what's best. He let's us know that it's time to rest. His arms open wide as He brings us in; never to wander or roam again. Gently he slumbers upon His breast He says, "Sleep on my child, just go on and rest." You'll be at peace; you don't have to wrestle for your job is done as His earthly vessel. You've been a good soldier; you've fought a good fight, now go on home to His heavenly light. He kept the faith and in Him He did trust so now he says goodnight and rest

A True Christian while on Earth and a True Angel with Our Father In Heaven to watch over us all now.....

steven david franklin

June 10, 2008

Tears Drops

They say memories are golden,
Well, maybe that is true;
I never wanted memories,
I only wanted you.

A million times I needed you,
A million times I cried;
If love alone could have saved you,
You never would have died.

In life I loved you dearly,
In death I love you still;
In my heart you hold a piece
No one could ever fill.

But now I know you want me
To mourn for you no more,
To remember the happy times
Life still has much in store.

Since you’ll never be forgotten
I pledge to you today;
A hallowed place within my heart
Is where you’ll always stay.

If tears could build a stairway
And heartache make a lane;
I’d walk the path to heaven
And bring you back again.

Our family clan is broken,
and nothing seems the same;
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.

Our prayers are with you all at this time. May God comfort and keep each of you.u to come home.

Tracie Dunkin

May 6, 2008

Still, not a day goes by that I do not think about you. I get so frustrated some days. I pick up the phone and I scroll for your number. It's never there. So much I want to tell you, so much I need your advice with. I love you, Shawn.

Tracie Dunkin

December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas, Shawn! A day that used to be so happy seems to have lost its meaning. I held back tears in front of Mom as I opened my coloring book and crayons. I remember last year how you razzed Mom for not sending you your crayons. And this year, I'd give anything to be able to hand you mine. I miss you so much. Thank you for being such a wonderful man. Thank you for protecting my freedoms. I love you, always.

Dameion Mayfield (USN)

November 7, 2007

Be Still

Be still like the grass on a melancholy summer day
Be still like desert shrub.

Be calm and you will hear your loved one speak, in the stillness, in the calm, their love resounds.

If you are still this promise I make, you will hear the voice of your loved one helping you along your way.

August 9, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Dunkin and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

August 2, 2007

If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised LE RON A. WILSON (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Ashley Dunkin

June 20, 2007

It has been 4 months since I have heard your voice. I miss you so much! I love you with all that I am.

ashley dunkin

May 29, 2007

I just miss your smile so much, your laugh, your i love yous, i just miss you. more than you will ever know.
your wife

Phyllis, Sandra and Lisa

May 28, 2007

To the Dunkin family, We lost our brother CW2 Dwayne Moore on April 19, 2007. We never knew that our hearts could have such sorrow. We thank you for sending us your condolence for our brother. Our prayers are also with you. We find comfort in knowing that we will see him again, and we also would like to express the same sentiment to you, "You will see him again". So when you laugh, know he laughs with you. When you hurt, he knows your pain. He is continuing on in heaven, because death is like the turning of the page from one chapter to the next. God's peace, until we see them again.

Darlene Gardner

May 6, 2007

I know you made your sister proud. You're a hero and I'm grateful for your dedication to our country.

ROBYN Garside

May 6, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOUR FAMILY. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Mary Ghaney

May 4, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tracie Dunkin

April 19, 2007

It’s been two months and I still don’t know what to say on here. I’ve looked at Faces of the Fallen almost every day for at least the last three years. I never wanted to look at it when you were on your first deployment. I watched the number go up and I cried for every soldier we lost. I never wanted to sign a guestbook, because I knew no words could comfort the families. I never wanted to be one of the families on here. I wanted to be at every funeral, but knew that my presence would change nothing. My being at your funeral didn’t bring you back.

Our grandfathers went to war and they came home. Our father went to war and he came home. You went to war and you came home. You went to war again, and came home in a private jet, draped in a flag, with a Hero’s welcome, to a home in hallowed ground.

It hurts to laugh; it hurts to enjoy the day. I shouldn’t want to have a good time when you can’t drink a beer with me. I fell asleep with your picture the other night. Tim came home from work and found me. He put your picture back on the mantle and opened a beer for you. I woke up the next morning and started to chastise him for leaving a full beer untouched. Then he told me he left it for you. There are tears in your beer.

I drove down to the house in Radcliff one night. I felt I had to. I wanted to be in a place where you had been with me. I took a picture of the house. I wanted to touch the grass and run through the backyard. But I couldn’t. So, I went to the bus wreck memorial.

You were only 7 when that happened. But I remember you asking about our next door neighbor, Chad. When I told you that he had died, you said “that wasn’t very fair.” What did you know about fair at 7 years old? Must have been a lot, because you showed that fairness as a man in every deed you did.

I’m afraid without you here. How will I deal with the parent people? How will I fix their hearts? What will I do when they come to meet you? Why did you leave me alone? Why is every day more difficult than the next? Why is it getting harder instead of getting easier?

I’m thankful for the time we had. I’m thankful that the last words we spoke to each other were “I love you” and “I love you too.”

I miss you, little brother. I love you.

Sandy Bonesteel

April 16, 2007

As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.

Jackie Sloan

April 11, 2007

You know I knew the Bowe Family for 7 years. They are wonderful people. Lori has always been their for me. Her son Matthew Bowe was the most greatest kid that I have ever known and when I heard your son was also their I was really sadined. It is something that needs lots of healing and time.I lost my son when he was 17 and believe me it is the hardest think I have had to go through.I give you my deepest smyapath an concollences. It is a rough road to travel and lots of things will not ever be the same so I am here for both of your families.

Helen Rogers

April 6, 2007

You gave the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. God Bless Shawn's family in this very sad time. Know Shawn is in heaven smiling down on you.

Blessings,
Helen Rogers

Jan Dunkin Your best friend

April 2, 2007

Shawn,
This is first time I've put an entry on anything. I remember the first time we met. We were snow skiing. You took me down a slope that I wasn't "good enough" to go down, but you stayed with me. I remember the late nights in Columbia with you helping me get transcripts out, your trips to Kinko's, and your counting pages for me. I think so many times about your call to me to tell your dad you had joined the Army. You were across the street from the recruiting office at a McDonald's. I never dreamed then I would be writing this now. Your dad and I miss you so much. I have my favorite picture of you that was taken at your wedding. It is so you. Your blue eyes and warm smile. It was a wonderful day. I know you know everything we are going through and how much I miss you, but that picture gets me through it. I remember the time you said, you are not my mother, but you can be my best friend. I miss my conversations with you. I would always look for you on the internet at 9:00 a.m. That was our time. We talked about so many things. Looking back they seemed so unimportant, but it was what you seemed to want to talk about. We shared other things, things that were very personal and I was both honored and surprised you shared those with me. I will keep those in my heart along with all the other "little" things that have now become so important to me. Yesterday was my birthday. I kept feeling something missing. It was your call. Thank you for wonderful memories of a wonderful "stepson" who felt like my own son. I miss you and will always miss you. It was an honor to be your stepmother. I love you so very very much.
Your "best friend",
Jan

Jan

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

March 31, 2007

Only heroic warriors know when it is time to give your all. Rest in peace and forever live in our memory.

Michael Iezzi

March 30, 2007

Father we entrust our brother Shawn to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Shawn in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.

Nancy Christner

March 30, 2007

To Darlene, Shawn's mom. To say thank you for his sacrafice would never be enough. My friend, I am so sorry, and know you have a tough time ahead. I have been praying about how to be a comfort to you, God bless. I am so sorry. Nancy

kristopher Gadsden

March 29, 2007

To the Dunkin family,
My deepest regrest go out to you all in the loss of your son. I've knew Shawn for almost 6 years. In that time he became one of my most trusted friends and we could always be found together. Shawn was a great soldier and an extraordinary person. Anyone who met him immediately liked him and his infectious way of life made all want to be around him. I will always consider him to have been one of my greatest friends. I pray that God eases your pain through these tough times in dealing with the loss.

Kris "Loki" Gadsden

Ashley Dunkin

March 28, 2007

To my husband my love,
It has been over a month since you left us, I have not even looked at this guest book until today. I never in a million years thought I would see your name here. I will never forget the first time I laid eyes on you. I thought to myself, "my god he is wierd" but I also knew from the time I laid eyes on you that I would know you forever. You filled my heart with love and my stomach with butterflies. You were my best friend, partner in crime, and love of my life. You knew me better than any other person in the world. You could look at me and tell me exactly what I was thinking. I look back over the past 7 years that we have been together and think, " I am so proud of him". I watched you grow from a 19 year old teenager to at 26 year old man. You made me tick, you gave me hope for a wonderful future. We spent all of our time together and had a blast doing it. God we smiled all the time. We were truly the ultimate mushey couple... and I loved it. You gave me some wonderful memories, the first time you told me you loved me at midevil times, going on road trips together, you asking me to marry you, getting married, moving to ny together, and when I told you that you were going to be a dad, the excitment that came over you was so wonderful. You would have made a wonderful dad. God sometimes has different plans for us and you came in my life for a reason. I want to thank you for making me into a woman, a better person, a stronger person, and the happiest wife in the world. For you and me it is not over it is until we meet again. See we are soule mates and I know that, the day will come that we will be reunited again. Until then my sweet love Rest in Peace and I will see you at Fiddlers Green. And you better have a miller light cold and waiting for me. I love you with all of my heart and soul.

Trudy Lowe

March 28, 2007

My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.

Mom's favorite pic of Shawn and Ashley

March 26, 2007

Chattanooga National Cemetary

March 26, 2007

Shawn and Tracie

March 26, 2007

suzette

March 24, 2007

Dear Dunkin family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy on your loss. My heart breaks when i sign another guest book of a fallen soldier. My prayers,heart and thoughts are with you always. My god comfort you in his loving arms at this difficult time.

Sgt. Shawn Dunkin,
Thank you for serving and protecting our country. Im so grateful to you and all the soldiers. You are my hero. Even though I never met you, you are my brother in spirit.
May your rest peacefully in heaven dear sweet soldier

Debbie Elam

March 18, 2007

My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Chairman for the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. Volunteers of the VMQP have a project to make and present the immediate family of each fallen soldier from the State of Virginia with a memorial quilt. Please contact me at the following:
Debbie Elam, Co-Chair
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
800 Hallsboro Road
Midlothian, VA 23112
Home Phone 804-794-6364
or you can email me at [email protected]. We hope to hear from you soon! God Bless.

Fred (USMC Ret.)

March 16, 2007

It is with the deepest sadness that I ask the family and friends of a brave young Soldier, Sgt. Shawn Dunkin to accept the offer of my most sincere and heart felt condolences. I hope that you know that your loss is shared and mourned by millions of Americans. Most of whom you don’t know and in all probability will never meet. We sincerely appreciate the sacrifices made by your patriot.

Freedom is not free; it is paid for by our heroes, and for those who fight for it, Freedom has a flavor the protected will never know! This young soldier made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.

I know the pain parents feel when they loose a child. I lost a son 19 years ago. It is a pain that defies description. It is a pain that never goes away. It is a pain that will never end. It is a pain that is all consuming.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

May God Bless and keep you today, tomorrow and forever!

Rest in Peace brave soldier; you did your duty with great honor, dedication, distinction and in the highest traditions of our great country.

Semper Fidelis

The O'Neill Family

March 9, 2007

Ash....

I never in a million years thought that I would be sitting here writing this for you to keep forever but here it goes. You and Shawn were and will always be family. There is no way I can look acrross the parking lot and not think about either you. The memories of all the times we shared are everywhere.

Only Shawn would have been there with Travis, decorating the garage with carpeting and pictures so that they had a cool “home” to hang out in. Travis and him were the pair trying to make the front yard as halloween as possible in such a little place. I will never in a million years forget when you were there when I need you both the most and Shawn came and spent the night so I could help another. Ambyr talks about Shawn and the outfits he would wear while riding his bike in the parking lot and the fact that he would always stop to help her put her chain back on.

Ashley we love you and please know if you need us we are here for you. Don’t hesitate to call. You will always be family .

Shawn you will be greatly missed by us. Everyone who you came into contact with is definatley missing you and you have enriched all of our lives by just knowing you!! Your memory will live on forever. There is no way you will be forgotten. Know that when we are looking up and smiling it is because we are thinking about you with great fondness and missing you.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

March 6, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Dunkin family in the loss of Shawn. I did not know Shawn, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Shawn you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Mike Barbree

March 6, 2007

Sgt Shawn M Dunkin. Stand down soldier your duty to Country is done.
I pray that we ALL will be found worthy of the price Sgt Dunkin and others have paid for our Freedom.
To the family:
I pray that your loss and pain will be tempered by the knowledge that Sgt Shawn M Dunkin is a True American Hero.
I hope that the Patriot Guard Honored Sgt Dunkin as he wished. The U.S. has lost a Patriot, a Soldier, a Hero. Lets not use the word Hero lightly. Life is a choice and Shawn stood when others wouldn't. For that I am eternally grateful.

Karen Hickman

March 5, 2007

On behalf of Gold Star Siblings, please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Bob Wonsettler

March 5, 2007

Mike,

I don't know what to say. May GOD bless you and keep you.

Jim and Jayne Kirk, SMSgt - Retired

March 5, 2007

To Michael and family,
We are so saddened to hear of your loss. We offer our sincerest sympathy and prayers, that God will give you comfort during this difficult time.

Wanda Reeves

March 5, 2007

To the family of Shawn Dunkin
Our prayers are with you.
As Jack and I think of Shawn, all we see is a liitle boy running to keep up with Zach and Tracie.
He was always so liilte. But from what we read he grown into a big man. It hard to say anthing, but we send our deepest codolences.
May your memories bring you comfort.
old friend from your past.
Jack and Wanda Reeves

Amy

March 4, 2007

I never thought that I would ever be going through something so horrible with one of the greatest friends I have. Knowing Shawn, even though briefly, was the most fun I have had in a long time. Shawn always had a way of making me laugh and most times had me rolling. Good love and marriage is hard to come by and Shawn and Ashley were a walking example of what "true love" was all about. I like to surround myself with good people and positive thinkers. There was never a time that I felt a need to sway from Shawn and Ashley's friendship. Ashley and I shared our dreams and our fears all the time and never would I have believed that our fears would over power the dreams. I am truely honored to have known Shawn and I am forever open armed for Ashley and Shawns family and friends. I have learned alot of Shawn this past weekend and I have also learned what the altimate sacrifice really means. My heart breaks to see so much pain and to feel so much emptiness. Shawn, Dave and I will be here for Ashley always. I am so glad you had the opportunity to find what you did with Ashley. She will heal in time and there are so many people to help her at her own pace. We love you!

CW4(Ret) Doug and Ann Petersen

March 4, 2007

My prayers and thoughts are with all the family members of Sgt. Shawn Dunkin. Shawn was a great American, serving his country with pride. His loss is shared among many and we all grieve, but should we also share in the joy of having known Shawn and how he touched our lives.

Mike Dunkin

March 4, 2007

Looking back as I sat reading your emails and writing my responce through tear filled eyes I realize I forgot to include a thank you from the some of the most important people in Shawn's life. His stepmother/best friend and my wife Jan Dunkin, his sisters Tracie Dunkin and Erin Jackson, his brother David Long, his Grandmother Arley Dunkin, and two nieces, Kenndey and Jenna and two nephews Jake and JJ.

Jim and Cindy Stoneking

March 4, 2007

May the blessing of Heavenly Father be your companion at this time as well all of the years that will pass before you can once again be with Shawn.
His smile and innocent youth will be a part of our memories forever.
He will always be our Hero...his dedication and valor is truly a reflection of the teachings of his Father, Mike.
Although we are at a loss of words to truly express our thoughts at this time, please know that our thoughts and prayers will be with Shawn and his Family.

Mike Dunkin

March 4, 2007

Thank you. It is very important to have the support of friends and family at is time for the Dunkin family. On behalf of his wife Ashley, his mother Darlene, and myself. we thank you for your kindness.

B C

March 4, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the wife, family and friends of Sgt. Dunkin. I pray God will surround you with love and strength. Your loved one will always be remembered with pride and gratitude for his service to our country. Thank you Sgt. Dunkin.

Lori Bowe

March 4, 2007

To the family of Sgt. Dunkin,
You don't know my family but my son PFC. Matthew Bowe was killed with your son on Feb.19th,2007. It is hard to say anything but we send our deepest condolences to you and your family. I'm not one for words because I still can't believe my son is gone but we will never forget him as the same with you. If there's anything we can do please let us know. We would love to talk with you and see what your son was like. He did give the ultimate sacrifice for his country but it still don't make it right or help pain your feeling. People say it will get better with time but I don't think my heart will ever be whole again.
God bless and take care.
John & Lori Bowe
Parents of PFC. Matthew Bowe
KIA 2/19/07 Bagdad, Iraq

Glen

March 3, 2007

“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers

Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still

We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever

Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away

Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go

We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light

Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray

Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound

Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go

Lee Sirotnak

March 3, 2007

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy for your loss. We will be always grateful for the sacrifice that your Soldier, Shawn, made. God bless you and your family with comfort and peace. We will not forget.

Family of Sgt Joel Smith 3/66 AR,1/8 CAV Fort Hood,/490 CA BN The Hampton's

March 1, 2007

Ashley and family
Thank you so much for the life of Shawn. You are so brave to allow America to share Shawn. Thank you for Shawn's patriotism, love of Army, love of America, his bravery, commitment to freedom and wanting others to be free. I am so sorry for your greatest loss and will be forever in your debt and will always stand taller and prouder when I see old Glory waving freely in the breeze. Always faithful and you are in our prayers.

Roger Langlo

February 28, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Kelly McPherson

February 28, 2007

Ashley,
My sincere condolences go to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

(Cousin) JoAnne (Briggs) Quinn & family

February 26, 2007

To the family of Sgt. Shawn Dunkin.
Our deepest sympathy and heart felt prayers go out to you all.
May the Blessings of GOD and his Healing power surround you.
Hero is an often misused word these days but you can be assured Your Shawn is listed among those heroes who have gone before him defending us all.
GOD BLESS.

Beverly Gilchrist

February 25, 2007

To the family of Sgt. Shawn Dunkin May God be with you all, and know I'll be thinking about all of you. Know that God has another angel! Aunt "Bev" Briggs, Gilchrist

Dewayne Standridge

February 24, 2007

Sgt. Dunkin, God Bless You & May You Rest In Peace!

Gena French

February 24, 2007

Shawn,

The first time I met you I didn't know what to think of you. The guy in the huge UFO Pants, hat on backwards, and those ugly yellow tennis shoes...what were you thinking? But my daughter fell in love with you and so did I.
You spent every weekend and leave in my home while you were stationed in Fort Hood and I saw the boy in yellow tennis shoes turn into the man in uniform.
When you returned from Iraq in 2004 you asked my daughter to marry you. There was never a doubt that you and Ashley were meant to share your life together. She just told me a couple of weeks ago, when I caught her smiling at a picture of you, that she still got chills and butterflies when she looked at your picture. It was only 4 weeks ago when you were having a "web cam date" that I heard her laughing so hard at somehting you were saying. You were her perfect solemeate and she yours. She loved being the wife of a solider and she loved the military almost as much as you did, but you already know that.
Ashley has been very strong and I know you are proud of the way she has handled your death. You both have given the ultimate sacrifice for your country. Don't worry about Ashley her family and friends will make sure she gets through this.
I am so honored to call you son-in-law, friend and now hero. You have made so many people so very proud. I will miss you deeply.

Mom F

Garnet Jenkins

February 23, 2007

Please know how Deeply Sorry I am to learn of the loss of Sgt. Shawn M. Dunkin,
The Price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Shawn rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord be with the Dunkin family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.

"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
Romans 8:18

May the Peace of God and your memories of Shawn, remain in your heart always and give you strength through the difficult days ahead.
Softly and slowly, time heals.

SHIRLEY DONEY

February 22, 2007

GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIEND YOU HAVE EARNED YOUR WINGS IN HEAVEN

February 22, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Dennis (USMC - Viet Nam) & Pam Robertson

February 21, 2007

We are saddened to hear of the loss of another young soldier, a hero. May God comfort and embrace you during this time of great sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Uncle & Aunt to Lance Cpl James R. Davenport KIA 11/22/06

Gary Allain

February 21, 2007

you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

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