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Michael Fielder Obituary
Michael was born in Dallas, Texas on September 17, 1971 and moved to North Carolina in 1984. After graduating from high school Michael served in the United States Navy from 1990 to 1994 aboard the U.S.S. John F. Kennedy. Michael graduated from North Carolina State University in 1999 magna cum laude with a Bachelor of Science in zoology and received a doctorate of veterinary medicine in 2004 from the North Carolina State College of Veterinary Medicine. After graduation from veterinary school Michael was commissioned a Captain in the United States Army, where he served in the Veterinary Corps.
While in the service Michael's awards and decorations include the Navy Good Conduct Medal, the National Defense Service Medal, the Iraq Campaign Medal, the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal and the Army Service Ribbon.
Michael was preceded in death by his father, James Fielder.
Michael is survived by his beloved wife, of nine years, Mary Thompson Fielder; his mother and step-father, Janet and Jesse King; step-mother Cathy Fielder;, sister, Allison Butler and her husband, Wes; brothers, John Fielder and his wife, Carrie, and Will Fielder and his fiancee, Dr. Elaine Nelson; mother and father-in- law, Margaret and A.B. Thompson Jr.; sister-in-law, Emily Cobb and her husband Barry; sisters-in-law, Laura Thompson, and Sarah Thompson; brother-in-law, Captain Arthur Thompson and his fiancee, Jessica Horton; grandparents, Lila King and Frank, and Chris Graves; as well as two nephews; and a niece. Michael also leaves his "four-legged- children" dogs, Bucket and Haley; and his cat, Frankie.
Michael will be remembered as a devoted husband, beloved son, brother, and uncle, faithful friend, and a skilled and caring veterinarian. He was extremely well liked by the soldiers under his command, and he will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him.
A celebration of Michael's life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Monday August 27, 2007 at Hudson Memorial Presbyterian Church, 4921 Six Forks Road, Raleigh, NC.
The family will receive friends in the church parlor immediately following the service.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Captain Michael Shean Fielder, D.V.M. Memorial Scholarship established for deserving veterinary students at NCVMF, Inc., 4700 Hillsborough Street, Raleigh, N.C. 27606.
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Memories and Condolences
for Michael Fielder
Howard Johnson
May 28, 2019
I think of you often Michael. You would have been a great part of the team....
Rickee Dozier
September 18, 2017
Michael, I've kept your mom company while you've been in heaven. We talk about you and your precious life, sense of humor, love for family, love for your patients. Remembering you today with love, Rickee
Buster prepping for the 1700 CUB
CAPT Steven P. Gardiner, USN
September 17, 2017
Well, Doc; Buster finally passed away, at the ripe old age of 12 years...still remember helping you neuter this crazy cat - trying to get him sedated, but he was such a block of muscle that he just kept absorbing it...nevertheless, he had a great life, here in Massachusetts, and you were a big part in making that happen. Thanks for everything.
March 7, 2016
Just thinking of you Michael. Remembering all the "little boy" memories. Such fun and joy with the cousins, bringing laughter to everyone. Say hello to Kim and to GG.......we love you, the Robertses!
March 6, 2016
sitting here tonight wondering how long it will be before I see you I'm ready to see you love you to the moon and back Dad
May 26, 2015
THINKING OF YOU TODAY....LOVE YOU TO THE MOON AND BACK.......DAD
jim alfredsen
May 24, 2015
rest in peace bro
Rickee Dozier
May 23, 2015
I see your picture on my desk every day, Michael. I see you in my mind dressed for Ali's wedding. I hear you making your mom laugh with one of your silly comments. You remain in my heart that laughing boy who loved BIG.
Ian Johnson
May 22, 2015
I'll never forget you Mike! This holiday is for you. Ian
jan King
August 28, 2014
The moment that you died, my heart was torn in two, one side filled with heartache, the other died with you.
I often lie awake at night,when the world is fast asleep,and take a walk down memory lane with tears upon my cheeks.
Remembering you is easy, I do it every day, but missing you is heartache that never goes away.
I hold you tightly within my heart and there you will remain.
Until the joyous day arrives when we will meet again. - unknown
To the moon and back...mom
Colleen Wallace
April 18, 2014
Mike, I still think of you often. Your life and laugh will not be forgotten.
Rickee Dozier
October 13, 2013
beautiful life
janet king
October 12, 2013
i miss you.
janet king
May 2, 2013
You don't get over it, you get through it...
it doesn't get better, it gets different...
Everyday, Just like me,
Grief puts on a new face. mom
Rickee Dozier
February 24, 2013
Michael, your mom has missed you so much, but I want you to know that she has been such a beautiful witness of trusting the Lord to help her through each day, and knowing she will see you again. She has helped so many people through their loss because of her love of you and her love of God. We talk about your sweet and wonderful life and always cry and smile at the same time.
February 23, 2013
If I could have a lifetime wish,
A dream that would come true,
I'd pray to God with all my heart for yesterday and you.
A thousand words can't bring you back,
I know because I've tried.
Neither will a million tears,
I know because I have cried.
You left behind my broken heart,
And happy memories too.
I never wanted memories,
I only wanted you.
Author Unknown
xxoo, mom
February 18, 2013
In memory & honor of Michael Felder. Forever remembered; we remain in debt to him for his service and sacrifice.
allison
November 28, 2012
I have never for one second stopped looking up to you. I love you, big brother, and I miss you so much.
Mary
September 12, 2012
This week has been a difficult one. It is hard to believe that you welcomed Cathy mom into heaven a few days ago. I am sure that you and Jim were glad to see her. I miss you all and as always, I love you.
Until we meet again...
Mom
August 24, 2012
I thought of you
with love today,
But that is nothing new.
I thought of about you yesterday
And each day before that too.
I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.
All I have are memories,
And pictures in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake
With which I will never part.
God has you in His keeping,
But I have you in my heart.
Gone, but not forgotten
This pain, i cannot hide
In memory, I see
A million tears, I've cried.
If love could only have saved you,
you never would have died.
It broke our hearts to lose you.
But you didn`t go alone.
For a part of us went with you...
the day God called you Home.
~Author Unknown
August 20, 2012
Sweet Michael, your smile lit our hearts, and your humor cracked us up. It's hard to believe you've been gone five years, missing you hurts like it was yesterday.
Mary
August 20, 2012
It is hard to believe that it has been 5 years since you became my angel. I miss you every day and my heart hurts as though I just got the news.
If only there were a way I could see your sweet face or hear your mischievous laugh just once more.
I love you...always.
Janet King
August 19, 2012
It may have been five years ago that we lost you - but my heart hurts like we got the news today - i love you precious son...to the moon and back :)
Mary
June 29, 2012
I miss you...I love you...and I know I was blessed to have been loved by you.
May 29, 2012
Celebrated you yesterday and knew in my heart that you were standing tall in a different "army". Love you to the moon and back............Dad
May 29, 2012
Kathy Wight, Houston, TX
May 28, 2012
We remember Michael as a smiling happy boy with a twinkle in his eye. And how proud his parents were of him as he became a vet and went to serve our country in Iraq. We are so very grateful to him for his ultimate sacrifice and to his parents for the son that they raised. May God continue to bless and comfort all his family.
Jennifer Carter
May 28, 2012
Thank you for your courage and may God bless and comfort your family. Jennifer Carter- Rockingham, NC
Juliana Shinn
May 28, 2012
Thank you for your service.
Howard
May 27, 2012
RIP Dr. Fielder. I am so sorry for the missed opportunity to work with you...
Mary
May 27, 2012
I miss you every day and I see you everywhere. I know that you are always with me, guiding me through life until I see you again. Remembering you and all of our heros that left us too soon.
I love you, always!!
Renee Gainey McGrew
May 27, 2012
Wendy and I were just talking about you the other day. She was talking about the time you took the end of year test at Temple and made pics out of the bubble answers! You were a great guy and missed by many!
Debbie Thompson
May 27, 2012
Never knew you on this earth,
But we will meet some day.
Since I know and love your mom,
It's for her now I pray.
Janet King
May 27, 2012
The warriors that fought for their country, and bled,
Have sunk to their rest; the damp earth is their bed;
No stone tells the place where their ashes repose,
Nor points out the spot from the graves of their foes.
They died in their glory, surrounded by fame,
And Victory's loud trump their death did proclaim;
They are dead; but they live in each Patriot's breast,
And their names are engraven on honor's bright crest.
~~ Longfellow
Rickee Dozier
May 26, 2012
Remembering you today, Michael, and always, such a funny young man! You always made me smile.
dean jenks
May 26, 2012
I miss you more than i can say. Your name lives on in the stories i tell my kids. I wish they could have known you.
April 15, 2012
I prayed for him
Mary
April 10, 2012
I miss you and I love you...always
Rickee Dozier
December 25, 2011
thinking of you today and how much you meant to us all
Janet King
December 24, 2011
In my heart and on my mind...Love you and miss you, mom
james alfredsen
September 3, 2011
rest in peace buddy.good times on the USS JF Kennedy
Rickee Dozier
August 20, 2011
Sweet memories of a wonderful young man, you loved well and were loved.
janet king
August 19, 2011
Thoughts today,
Memories forever.
i love you...mom
Peggy Childers
August 19, 2011
To the family and friends of Capt. Michael S. Fielder:
Please accept my remembrance of Michael on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Mary
August 19, 2011
I miss you more than I can say, but I know that you live on in my heart and you are always with me... and watching over me. Until we meet again in heaven, I love you! Always
Mary
August 18, 2011
If I had a single flower for every time I thought of you, I could walk forever in my garden...
mom
July 4, 2011
Up Above ~ a poem from a friend
4 July, a holiday,
But I am not so sure.
My boy won't be here to share,
His escapades from war.
Marching bands and fireworks,
A time to celebrate.
But for those who ache inside,
It's open for debate!
Time for picnics and parades,
Baked beans and apple pie.
That's not true for those like me,
Whose loved ones had to die.
Sure I love my country,
And I'm so glad we're free,
But this day holds pain and grief,
For Gold Star moms like me.
You can hold your hero close,
And share his pride and joy.
I hold lifeless photographs,
And memories of my boy.
So no, I'm not real thankful,
But I'll turn to my God.
He knows my deepest sorrow.
He's been where I now trod.
Go ahead, enjoy your day,
My hope is up above,
In glory with my Savior,
Who holds the boy I love!
June 28, 2011
I'm thinking of how you gave joy to so many people, especially, Mary, Janet and Ali.
~Mary
June 27, 2011
Thirteen years ago I promised to love you forever. That was one of the best days of my life and my promise still holds true. I miss you and I love you, always.
janet king
March 28, 2011
My heart still aches in sadness, and secret tears still flow, what it meant to lose you, no one will ever know. ~ i love you ~ mom
Mary
November 18, 2010
I miss you...I love you. Always.
rickee dozier
November 12, 2010
Every time I see one of our own in uniform, I think of you, and I thank them for serving. Your picture is next to my desk, with your mom, ali and your dog. You are precious and wonderful.
November 10, 2010
Its taken time to write this note. There are things you should know. Your team adored you, your fellow OICs admired you and I learned from you. What you taught me changed me and I am forever indebted. John Donne was right, the bell tolls for us all, because the world became less that day.
mom
October 29, 2010
Remembering
Go ahead and mention my loved one,
The one that died, you know.
Don't worry about hurting me further.
The depth of my pain doesn't show.
Don't worry about making me cry
I'm already crying inside.
Help me to heal by releasing
The tears that I try to hide.
I'm hurt when you just keep silent,
Pretending they didn't exist,
I'd rather you mention my loved one
Knowing that they have been missed.
You asked me how I was doing
I say "pretty good" or "fine"
But healing is something ongoing
I feel it will take a lifetime.
by Elizabeth Dent
Peggy Childers
August 19, 2010
To the family and friends of Capt. Michael S. Fielder:
Remembering Michael on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
August 19, 2010
I can't believe that 3 years have passed... we still think of you often and remember with smiles, the time you spent in London, and with us.. watching Top Gear & eating curry..squishing in the car to return to London...
Nina, Curtis, Marco & Federico xxx
Michael Gonzalez
August 19, 2010
Hey Brother, SPC Paz reminded us of you today. The guy misses you, we're both still out here in the desert. You were always a cool cat, catch you on the flip-side Sir...
The one and only SGT Gonzo
Mary
July 27, 2010
I was talking to Brooke last night about our amazing memories from July 26, 1996. Such an awesome day and one of my favorite stories to tell about us. I miss you so much, but I know that you are always with me. I love you!
dean jenks
July 26, 2010
a smile came to me today as i remembered you. i wish you were here to revel in the exploits of our youth with me. ive told the kids so many stories and i know they would have loved you, just as i do.
rickee
June 17, 2010
As much as I miss you, I can see you around the Throne of God, singing the everlasting song. I love you, Michael.
Mary
May 31, 2010
I miss you more than words can say. I will love and cherish you everyday... until we meet again!
Aunt Vivian
May 27, 2010
Memorial Day is approaching, a day when we honor all of our fallen heroes. Michael will always be in our hearts not only as a hero for his country, but as our nephew, our cousin, our grandson and we miss his smile, his jokes, his laughter. May you rest peacefully in the arms of God, Michael.
Granny King, Jimmy & Vivian Roberts and families of our boys, Dean & Sean
barb whitehead
May 25, 2010
The NC Run for the Fallen will honor fallen troops from North Carolina at a Memorial Run on Saturday, May 29th, 8:30am, Ayden Grifton High School track, Hwy 11 S. Ayden NC. Each troop will be honored by a runner/walker who carries a flag in his memory for one mile. Please come join us in honoring our fallen troops. For more information contact Kathy Moore at 252-746-3435 after 5:00pm or email at [email protected]
ali
May 25, 2010
miss you big brother...
mom
May 9, 2010
A million times I've wanted to talk to you, A million times I've cried,If love could have saved you, you would never have died. It broke my heart to lose you,but you did not go alone,for part of me went with you,the day God called you home. i love you son...
Gwen Davies
March 8, 2010
I did not get a chance to meet Michael while I worked for Vet Services, but I wanted to let you know that as a mother my heart breaks for you and I wish you peace.
March 6, 2010
i miss you; i miss you; i miss you.
mom
December 25, 2009
When we lose someone we love,
We learn to trust somehow
That a new life in a brighter place
Is just beginning now..
A place of grace and peace and joy
Beyond all time and sorrow,
Where loving hearts who part today
Will meet again tomorrow.
mom
December 17, 2009
Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you so much. ~Edna St Vincent Millay
Bill and Saundra Whiddon
October 1, 2009
Captain Fielder, we salute you and your family! From the moment we met you, as a small boy, you were both beautiful and special...and filled with that incredible confidence that comes from being loved! Our heartfelt gratitude goes to your family whose courage and patriotism is matched only by that of those brave patriots like yourself. Rest in Peace HERO, you are always remembered with love and respect.
mom
September 28, 2009
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.
Vivian Roberts
September 18, 2009
i don't know what to say, except that we miss you, even though we did not see you as much as when you were young, we think of you often.....and love you much, granny, uncle jimmy and aunt vivian
Chris, Suzanne, Luke and Winnie Stewart
September 18, 2009
We thought about you quite a bit yesterday. We wish we could see you checking out the yard in your scrubs or driving off into the dark morning or "swimming" for disc golf frisbees. You are greatly missed.
September 17, 2009
i love the pictures that Will and Mary posted...i think if those sunglasses were removed i could see that mischevious ~ wonderful ~ heartwarming twinkle in your eye...oh i miss you...i miss you so much...
i love you to the moon and back...or, as you changed it...i love you to the moon and iraq...mom
rickee
September 17, 2009
From the curly headed little boy, to the fine man you became, I was privileged to know you and love you. And, now, I miss you.
Mary
September 17, 2009
So many memories are racing through my mind today. It should be a day to celebrate. It is difficult, but even though we cannot celebrate another birthday with you, we can celebrate your life and the way that you touched all of our lives.
This picture always makes me smile. Hopefully the sun is shining with you today.
I miss you and I will love you always.
Will
September 16, 2009
Often a memory jumps in my mind and I smile. I miss our laughs and think of you all the time. Thank you for all the love you shared.
We miss you Michael
I'll post a pic that always makes me smile.
allison
September 16, 2009
This year it's tomorrow that's proving the saddest day for me. You should be here and we should all be celebrating your birthday.
I miss you, big brother. I miss your humor and your adventurous spirit. I miss hearing you gush over some new gadget or toy you'd gotten and seeing that twinkle in your eye when you'd played a good prank on someone. I miss the all-grown-up friendship we started to have.
I'll always look up to you and be thankful for the time all our lives were blessed by knowing you.
Love you, miss you, think of you often...
August 30, 2009
I would like to think that we would have been such good friends if given the chance. Your mom and dad mean so much to us, and they miss you something awful. But we'll keep them well loved and hugged until they see you again. :-)
With love,
The Haut House
Dava Hunt
August 22, 2009
Mary, I can not believe it has been 2 years. I think about him often and how much he loved being a veterinarian, and married to you. He loved his animals andwanted to take care of those who needed him most. Take care and know that I am thinking of you and your family.
Jamie Logan
August 22, 2009
Dear Jess and Jan,
Just know that your love of others has caused us to love you much in return. That love for you has caused us to want to help you bear your sorrow, if only through prayer...and we are still praying. Love ya ! Jamie, Shai and Bree
August 22, 2009
Miss you.
Love,
Jess
Sandy Shofner
August 21, 2009
My heart goes out to you all! I was just thinking about Michael the other day, knowing how proud you must be of him and much your heart still misses him. You are in my thoughts and prayers always!
August 19, 2009
two years...how can it be? it all still seems so surreal...your smile, your laugh...that MISCHEVIOUS twinkle in your eye...
i miss you so much...You loved us well Michael...
~ mom ~
Mary
August 19, 2009
Honey,
It is hard to believe that it has been two years since I heard your voice. I miss you more than words can say, but I know that you are okay and I know that you are with me always. You greet me with sunshine every morning and say goodnight with the stars. I feel you in the breeze, pushing me forward through all that life throws my way. Thank you for loving me so much. I miss you and I love you!
Peggy Childers
August 19, 2009
To the family of Capt. Michael S. Fielder:
Michael gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Mandy Gordon (Whiddon)
June 16, 2009
I knew Michael when we were kids. He was one of the brightest shining personalities I have ever experienced. He used to tell us he was beautiful because that's what his mom told him all of the time and they were both right. How wonderful to know that he grew up to serve in such a unique and inspiring way.
Janet and Jesse, I cannot even imagine but my prayers are with you and yours.
debbi
May 19, 2009
Michael, reading the posts I can tell how much you were loved by your family and friends and just how much they continue to love and miss you.
May God bless your mom and family as they continue to grieve your death from earth and learn to live each day without your presense in their life
http://goldstarfamilysupportgroup.com
In memory of my son
SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III
KIA 11/12/2006 Samarra, Iraq
KarenBrown Howell
February 26, 2009
At Rohanan prior to me moving to Raleigh, you were a friend. You helped me with my Science homework, and wrote me strange but extremely funny notes, of which I still have. You made big impressions on small interactions and I will never forget you!
dean jenks
February 18, 2009
you were in my dreams last night. you were fit and smiling like a mischievious teen. i hugged you and you said you missed us. i still find myself doing things and thinking i cant to tell mike. we are ok here thumper, a little emptier but comforted knowing you are at piece. i love you
mom
February 4, 2009
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Kenna Larra
December 15, 2008
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dean jenks
November 14, 2008
i still miss you. i find myself soinning the yarns of our youth more and more. i wish i could see your face
Vivian Roberts
August 21, 2008
We get together, we talk about old times, when we were young, children growing up together, playing and enjoying life....we think about Michael, and the thoughts are good. It's still hard to believe, but the memories are good and for that we are thankful. We love you Michael....the Roberts family and GG
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