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Jason Lantieri Obituary

LANTIERI, Jason Jason Lantieri, a young man from Connecticut and an Army sergeant, died in Baghdad, Iraq on Wednesday (October 10, 2007) in an accident. He was 25. Jason was born in Waterbury on July 24, 1982. He spent his early childhood in Naugatuck, and then moved to Killingworth, where he graduated from Haddam-Killingworth high school and played basketball, soccer, and baseball. He went on to earn a bachelor's degree at Western New England College in Springfield. Jason enlisted in the Army in 2005, and he was sent to Iraq in 2006. He was promoted to sergeant while in Iraq, and Jason was due to come home in December 2007. Jason's vivid spirit and mischievous nature left their mark. Here's one story told by Jason's best friend, Steve Haeckel. One day, playing golf with friends, Jason belly-flopped into a pond on the fairway of the eighteenth hole as a thunderstorm approached. "We're going to get wet anyway," Jason said. There was almost nothing Jason wouldn't try, and there was no dare Jason wouldn't take. Jason's contagious smile and his permanent optimism pulled him out of plenty of scrapes. Throughout his short life, Jason always dreamed big and lived life to the fullest. Jason was an avid fan of many sports, but waffle ball had a special place in his heart. His waffle ball bats, customized with electrical tape and all sorts of geegaws, were a perfect example of Jason's tinkering. He always had a good idea how to make things better, faster, and stronger. Jason is survived by a large family; his parents, Jon and Kathy Miller; and his brother and sisters, David Miller, Sarah Greenaway, and Rachel and Amy Durette. He was "Uncle Jay" to seven nieces and nephews. He also leaves behind several aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandmothers. Jason's mother, Karen Lantieri, died several years ago. Jason's many friends around the world are devastated by the loss. The family will receive friends from 5-9 p.m., Wednesday, October 17, at the field house of the Haddam-Killingworth High School, 95 Little City Road, Higganum. Services will be 2 p.m., Thursday, October 18 at the High School with burial to follow in Evergreen Cemetery in Killingworth with full Military Honors. In lieu of Flowers memorial contributions may be made payable to the Jason Lantieri Memorial Scholarship Fund c/o Steve Haeckel, 134 Salem Drive, Cromwell, CT 06416. Swan Funeral Home Clinton is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 14, 2007.

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RIP

Andrew Barnes

October 10, 2013

^ years and counting, Brother! Your life will always be remembered by everyone who was blessed to see it! I love you and miss you! Geronimo!

May 28, 2012

Thank you Liz

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May 27, 2012

Thinking of all of our military heros, past, present and future. Thank you!!!!

Thomas McNally

May 27, 2012

We will always remember and NEVER FORGET!

May 26, 2012

RIP Jason - a day does not go by that we don't think of you!Darius reminds me so much of you and he has your athletic ability. Love and Miss you Aunt Paula

Katy Armenia

May 25, 2012

Today my daughter who is eight was asked to do a grave rubbing at a local cemetary of a soldier in honor of memorial day. Each day we pass this cemetary without knowing who lifes lay underneath the markers we were driving by. My daughter was drawn to jasons gravesite and stood crying wondering how and why people fought in wars and lost lives... I wanted to know more about jason and the internet instantly connected us to jason. Having a face, a memorial beyond the grave rubbing, truly makes one appreciate the sacrifice these young people make for our country and freedom
Every day.. God bless jason and his family and truly this is a memorial day in his honor..

Tyler Duchesneau

February 19, 2012

As I look through all these pictures of u I remember that night u left for Iraq. You and I were playing ping pong in the day room of building 626. Shortly after u and my dad and the rest of u guys left and I couldn't wait for u all to get back. The day my dad (u friend and platoon sgt Neil) told me of your passing I didn't know what to do. Your a great man and everyone misses. Something like this shouldn't happen to amazing people like u. One day we'll all be together again and I can't wait for that day

James Hursey

December 30, 2011

Jason its been along time. I just came across some pics of us at Jim creek. Wow man we had some crazy nights. Wish you was here to bring in the new year. My first shot is for you just like old times. Just thought I would let you know that I named my son after. God speed

Memorial at FOB Iskan, Iraq

Andrew Barnes

November 18, 2011

Given to Soldiers at his memorial

Andrew Barnes

November 18, 2011

Given to Soldiers at his memorial

Andrew Barnes

November 18, 2011

Tom McNally

November 10, 2011

I knew Jason from basic training..I along with Our fellow Wolverines at Ft Benning have lost a great friend and man. I have a picture of Jason the day before we left for Christmas exodus. I would love for his family to have a copy; [email protected], god bless

Peggy Childers

October 10, 2011

To the family and friends of Sgt. Jason M. Lantieri:
Please accept my remembrance of Jason on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Nathan Lucas

September 3, 2011

Hey Jason,

I just wanted to say thank you and let you know that I got battle feild promoted to Staff Sergeant. We all miss you tons and just wanted to say thank you.

ALL THE WAY LETS GO AIRBORNE
SSG NATHAN B. LUCAS

Nathan Lucas

August 3, 2011

As I sit in Iraq for the second time, I was asked to wright about what makes me strong. As I think about what makes me strong I think of a Soldier, a friend, and someone we played cards with. As I wright I talk about you Jason Lantieri and how you drive me to be a better NCO and Leader for my Paratroopers. I recall a time that we were playing soccer and you were on the side lines kicking the ball with my son. It is the soldiers who selflessly hand over their values without even being able to take credit for what they have given to the United States, the Army, their Families, Friends, and fellow Soldiers. Thank you Jason for giving me freedom, and thank you to the family for your ultimate sacrifice.

Codi Maguire

July 26, 2011

Miss you buddy. We'll meet again one day.

Andrew Barnes

July 24, 2011

Jason, it was an Honor to serve along side you and share the same promotion to Sergeant with you, brother. I miss you with all of my heart. I miss our nights out, and our time together!

Peggy Childers

October 10, 2010

To the family and friends of Sgt. Jason M. Lantieri:
Remembering Jason on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Amanda Gospodnetich

April 4, 2010

I wonder if you hear me....

kendall sexton

December 2, 2009

i went to wnec for one year and the best thing i took from it was being your roommate. you are missed and will always be.

Amanda Alhadi

June 3, 2009

Hey Jason! Thanks for being you. I wish I would have had the opportunity to get to know you. I know that you are Joe's best friend and he misses you dearly. He is in Afghanistan now. Please watch over him with your Angel Wings. God bless!

Carolyn Malchow

May 7, 2009

Thanks, Jason, for visiting me!

Joseph Alhadi

December 30, 2008

SUP BIG GUY . U ARE MISSED DEEPLY , U WERE MY BEST FRIEND , EVER SINCE I GOT UP TO ALASKA , U TOOK ME UNDER YOUR WING AND HELPED ME OUT WITH A LOT. YOU ARE A GREAT LEADER , PERSON, AND U WILL ALWAYS BE A GREAT SOLDIER . U WILL FOREVER BE MISSED AND NEVER FORGOTTEN .. .

Kenna Larra

December 9, 2008

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In Memory of Jason ~ (Debra Estep)

October 10, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Jason, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
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Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
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Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
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Safely Home

Michael Iezzi

October 10, 2008

Jason,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.

Peggy Childers

October 5, 2008

To the family of Sgt. Jason M. Lantieri:
Jason gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Heather Zelvis

September 22, 2008

Jason,

Not a day goes by that we don't think of you, Lia talks to you in her prayers at night. You are her angel and Mia's too! We love and miss you deeply.

Daniel Torres

September 17, 2008

I want to send my condolensce to the family and to friends of Jason. Jason was a good friend of mine. I met him at Basic Training and we then went on to AIT and Airborne School together. It is very unfortunate that he is not here anymore. He was a good spirit and a good person to be around. I was blessed to have met him. Like many people have said, he had a great attitude, never judged anyone, and he was very respectful towards others.

celeste crawford

July 13, 2008

thank you for everything you have ever done you are loved and missed everyday by me even if i dont show it there is not a day i dont think of you and wonder what it would be like if you were here i love you and miss you

celeste crawford

July 13, 2008

sgt lantieri i miss you so much i wish you was here we need you but i know that your on to bigger and better things and we all love you watch out for us i so wish you were here i miss you so much

July 4, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Lantieri!

Zona Browning

June 14, 2008

My son David Miller was at Fort Benning and Fort Leonardwood with Jason. I had several phone conversations with Jason while the boys were together, and I met him at their graduation from Fort Benning. Jason was a good friend to my son, and helped to make a very difficult time more bearable. I know he will be missed.

DAVID MILLER

May 28, 2008

Jay was a very good friend, not knowing him as long as some, I met Jay at basic training at fort benning and also trained with him at fort leonard wood, some most memorable days not forgotten. He was a real motivator and had a never quit attitude. His personality was one of a kind, he made the best of every day. He will always be remembered as a friend you can count on. SGT MILLER

An Army honor guard carries the casket of Army Staff Sergeant Eric T. Duckworth during funeral services at Arlington National Cemetery

Sonya Duckworth

May 20, 2008

I of course did not know Jason but I wanted to send my deepest sympathy. I lost my husband on the very same day. Oct 10th 2007. SSG Eric T Duckworth. Worst day of our lives. I am really at a loss of words but I wanted you to know that your family is in my thoughts and every day prayers.....May we always remember the precious life they gave foughting for our country. Fallen but Not Forgotten...May they Forever Rest In Peace. All Our Love...The Duckworth Family

P. Wakeman

December 11, 2007

Our family sends you love and support, and hopefully you will find some small peace in knowing that the country mourns with you.
Deepest respect,

Colleen Canestrari

December 2, 2007

Its been a little bit since Jay's passing and he is still in my thoughts. I am thankful for the chance to get to know him, whether it was ridiculousness on the late bus or just cracking comments in the halls, high school wouldn't have been the same without him. His smile will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace Jay, you meant so much to so many.

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

November 27, 2007

Rest in peace.

Brad Stueber

November 27, 2007

I did not have the joy of knowing Sgt. Jason M. Lantieri, but I grieve with his family and friends over his passing. I will be praying for each of you as you go through this most difficult of times. I hope you will let the Holy Spirit comfort you and bring peace to your minds and hearts. Jason, thank you. You are our hero and we all honor you for the sacrifice you have made for freedom. We will not forget you. Now rest in peace, our son.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

November 8, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Lantieri family in the loss of Jason. I did not know Jason, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jason you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

November 5, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Lantieri and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Racquel Duchesneau

November 2, 2007

My family and I will miss Jason very much. He was a great person and a wonderful spirit.

Kevin Archer

November 2, 2007

Jason,
I will miss you very much. I will not forget the sacrifice you have paid for this country.

Lindsay

October 31, 2007

I'll never forget Jay. He was one of my best friends in college and after. He had an amazing personality that is unforgettable and I only wish I knew more people like him. Jay's smile was contagious. I'll never forget our time spent together at WNEC, summers in CT, road trips to Long Island, or visits from Alaska to North Carolina. Whenever you needed him, he was there. Rest in peace Jay. You will be missed everyday.

Allyson Byrne

October 29, 2007

This all seems so unreal to me. Although Jason and I lost contact after high school he always remained in my thoughts and prayers. He always made me laugh. I'll never forget the time we spent at Deer Lake on the rope swing. I'll never forget the trips to Six Flags and Riverside. This is a terrible loss for the world. Jason was an amazing person and I was so lucky to have spent the years I did with him. I can only hope that now he is in a better place watching over all of us and smiling.

Bill Turley

October 29, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

7th grade Louisburg Middle School

October 25, 2007

We care and share your sorrow and pride.

James Rourke

October 24, 2007

Thank you for serving our country.
Even though i didnt know you
you will never be forgoten

SrA James Daniels

October 23, 2007

I still remember clowning around in class together through all four years of school. You will be missed by all and we will always remember the good times.

Sandy Hock

October 19, 2007

To the family and friends of Jason.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this sorrowful time. Even though I did not know Jason I feel as if I did. You see, Jason was the roommate and very dear friend of my son Nathan. Jason and Nathan went on what sounded like an awsome trip to Europe over the New Year. I have only seen some of the pictures but I know that they had a blast.

I want to thank you for Jason and everything and everyone that he has touched. I know how Nathan felt about him and how much he will be missed.

May God bless you.

Sandy Hock
Mother of Nathan Lecrone
Bagdad Iraq/Anchorage AK

Cary Chadwick

October 19, 2007

Jay Jay, you made us all cry our hearts out yesterday. For all those tears that were lost, a thousand more would have to be shed to equal the amount of smiles you have spread across this state, country, and world, for you have touched many. You will never be forgotten as a son, soldier, and friend. You will be missed. Rest in peace.

shawnee (Austin, TX)

October 19, 2007

You are an American hero and will not be forgotten. Thank you for your service to this country.

..

October 19, 2007

Jay~I still remember meeting you for the first time at wnec. My college days would not have been the same without you. I will cherish the memories I have of you....always and forever. FL.
~~~friend

May you forever rest in peace.

October 18, 2007

David Foreman

October 18, 2007

I remember our senior year in high school we had tv class with each other and made the most hilarious skits together. He had an awesome sense of humor and could make anybody laugh at any given time. You touched alot of peoples hearts Jay were gonna miss you bro! You are a true hero.

Elaina Johnson

October 18, 2007

Jay was one of the most charming, caring people I have ever met. I met him my freshman year as we were both members of WNEC Soccer teams. Throughout my four years, I have so many great memories of Jay. Whether it be Jay being the life of the party, spring break in Miami, playing sports or just sharing a laugh. Jay is an unforgettable person who left behind such a legacy. We all love and miss you Jay...

elizabeth zahller

October 18, 2007

Dear Loved ones, Jason was a proud young man with commitment and bravery for his country. He help keep all americans from harmsway. He was a Hero he will be remembered as a braveheart. Jesus took him home to a beautiful Heaven. He would want his loved ones to know how much he loves you and that you a part of his heaven. You will all be together again . sincerely, elizabeth zahller soldiers angels support team. You are in our prayers and arizona sends their love and support and we too grieve for Jason.

Kori Simmons

October 17, 2007

Your smile will me in my mind forever, when I say you lying there today it wasn't you, you were stiff, cold and unemotional. Plse be the angel that you are and keep all of our friends safe. You are a sparkel in so many people's eyes-kori

Eileen Tupper

October 17, 2007

To the family of Jason Lantieri,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. I too have a son presently serving in Iraq in the USMC. I cannot fathom the pain and sorrow your family and friends are feeling.
Hero is not a strong enough word to describe what you have given for our freedom.
Your sacrifice and willingness to stand up for what you believe is unmeasurable. Rest in Peace, hero and angel.

Joey Ferrigno

October 17, 2007

Jay, I cant express all the memories. you, joel, steve, myself, and everyone else. you always brought a smile. you will be missed bro.

KIM ADDESSIO

October 17, 2007

RIP JAY WITH YOUR MOM YOU WILL BE TRUELY MISSED.
THANKS FOR ALL YOU DID FOR OUR COUNTRY YOU ARE A HERO

Louisburg Middle School 7th grade

October 16, 2007

We care and share your sorrow and pride.

Sarah Clark

October 16, 2007

I was one of the hundreds of friends Jay had at Western New England College. There's no way anyone who graduated in 2004 doesn't remember him. He made such a positive and lasting impression on everyone he met. We are all so sad to hear of his death. My heart goes out to his family.

Harry and Happy Mongillo

October 15, 2007

I was saddened to hear about the death of your HERO. We can't imagine the pain you are going through as parents of two sons stationed in Iraq and two daughters stationed in the states. We wanted you know that your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. We want to thank you for the greatest sacrifice you could give; your son.

haila birnbaum darcy harris

October 15, 2007

i read about this heartbreaking event -- and having grown up in chester (vrhs '71) i just had to be in touch. if there are words, i don't know them, but he sounds as if he were a most wonderful guy, and please know many people are thinking of you with heartfelt sympathy.

Dave Monroe

October 15, 2007

A truly noble and heroic calling can only be met by a certain few. Be assured that your Jason was of those few. He is and was what make this country great to this day. Thank you for allowing him to serve in highest esteem, and always know that he will be forever remembered as a Hero of many millions of grateful Americans. With heartfelt sorrow to family , and friends.

Larry Jenkins

October 15, 2007

To the family of Jason Lantieri;

My thoughts and prays go out to you and your family. I got to know Jason when he was 14 years of age. I worked with him for about 8 years and watched him grow from a young adolecscent into a positive young man. I learned so much from Jason as he was so resilient despite all that he went through growing up. He was fun loving, caring and always upbeat. He always wanted to explore the world that was his dream. He passed away while being honorable in serving his country. Jason is a success story that will never be forgetten. You will be sorely missed.

My Deepest Sympathy

Larry Jenkins

Jason Masi

October 15, 2007

I went to Western New England College with Jay for 2 years. I lived with sophmore year and still hold those memories close to my heart. He was an amazing person and always knew how to make people smile. He was an awesome person to share great experiences with which I will never forget. Thanks for all the fun times and may you rest in peace.

Kristen Roffi

October 15, 2007

I was lucky enough to know Jay - I graduated with him from Western New England College in 2004. Jay was in my circle of friends from the very beginning.
Jay was just a great person. It's so hard to describe how amazing he really was and I'm sad I never had the chance to tell him. He always wore the biggest smile on his face and could make a room full of people laugh. He had determination to succeed and never asked anyone for anything.
Losing Jay seems unreal, and it won't be real until we lay him to rest. I always said with pride I had friends serving in Iraq but never fully comprehended the danger they were truly in. My heart goes out to those who have already lost a loved one and to those that still have ones serving.
Jay will never be forgotten and I have realized how many lives he has truly touched, including mine.
RIP Jay.

Margaret Franzi

October 14, 2007

To Jason's Family and Friends
After losing my young cousin Oct 16,2004, in Iraq, I know the heartache that you feel at this time. My God bring you peace in your heart with fond memories of Jason that you hold so close. A Hero Forever in Our Hearts.

We salute you

October 14, 2007

Our thoughts and prayer are with Jason and his entire family at this most difficult time. He sounds like a lovely young man.

Barak Strindberg

October 14, 2007

Jason:
You will be missed by all.

Barak

Liz Fournier

October 14, 2007

Jason was one of the funniest people i've ever met. He was sincere and genuine amongst many other things. I will never forget how much he touched my life. We love you Jason, you'll be in our hearts forever. <3

A Friend

October 14, 2007

I have been reading the MySpace blogs, the articles, and have been trying to come to terms with the fact that this is real. I feel that I need to let people know the uniqueness that Jay was. I spoke to Jay before he was deployed to Iraq; of course taking for granted the fact that I may never speak to him again. As simple as our conversation was, it is etched in my mind.

See, I saw Jay pretty much every day for 4 years of college and even though keeping in touch is often hard to do you, always thought that when you needed a line dropped or a comment to make you smile that well he would always be there...whether it be a year ago or 5 years from now. See the thing with Jay, for me, was that you talked to him once and you truly believed that you made a great friend. He never judged you; he made you feel comfortable. He always made you smile, even when you thought that there was nothing to really smile about. Every time he would walk into the room, and just by being there, he made people simply smile. He had that persona about him...that type of personality where you just wanted to be around him, you were drawn to him. You could be the most crowded of rooms, the busiest of bars...it didn't matter...he never failed to go out of his way to wave, say hello, or just say something that you just wouldn't forget...because quite frankly he was unforgettable.

I don't know what it was about him...I guess that is what made him so unique...he was just Jay. Now I wasn't his best friend or even in his closest circle of friends and there are a lot of details that I left out of this email or else I could go on forever...but his family and his community need to know that Jay was everyone's friend, he was the reason we smiled, and he was...well...simply put...he was Jay. He accomplished more than most ever will, he saw the world like no one else could see it and all in all he did it with that Jay smile. Unfortunately for those that have never met him, there will never be another Jason Lantieri in this world...Fortunately for those that have; he will be making us smile forever.

Always remembering

Paula Davino

October 14, 2007

To my beloved nephew - you are safe with your mother now.
Love, Aunt Paula

Sue Hobbs

October 14, 2007

Thank you Jason for your service to our country. You did your family and your country proud. I salute you.

To the family....I share your loss. I lost a nephew in Afghanistan last month. I know your heart is breaking right now. hearbreak

An American

October 14, 2007

...Now arises from hallowed ground a delicate cloud of bugle notes that softly say, Farewell Soldier, a grateful nation remembers...

Carol Cline

October 13, 2007

Sgt. Jason Lantieri & Family:

Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.

To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.

October 13, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Sandy Bonesteel

October 13, 2007

As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.

Jessica Bell

October 12, 2007

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. To the friends and family of this brave soldier, you are not alone in your grieving: too many know the pain you are experiencing. Wear your gold star pin with pride and close to your heart. In loving memory of my little brother, also a fallen spartan hero, Cpl. Michael W. Davis KIA 5/21/2007 Baghdad, Iraq.

Chaplain Dan Gates, Georgia Society SAR

October 12, 2007

With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Sergeant Lantieri. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!

Valorie

October 12, 2007

My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007

SHIRLEY DONEY

October 12, 2007

REST IN PEACE JASON, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

Gale Poindexter

October 12, 2007

I am writing to offer my condolences to your family over the loss of your HERO Sgt Jason M Lantieri. I also lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.

When things settle down, I recommend that you contact a man named Michael Reagan @
www.michaelgreaganartist.com


He will draw one portrait of the fallen soldier. He does this for free and will draw any picture of your choosing. He has drawn presidents and other celebrities. My husband and I got one and it has helped me with the healing process. Michael is a truly gifted artist that captures the very essence of the person he draws. I look at my picture everyday and it gives me a connection that I cannot explain.

I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.

Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service.

(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis-KIA May 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)

Debbie , Kenny Coffey

October 12, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers out to the LANTIERI family,Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HEROES will NEVER be forgotten,Rest well brother that star spangled banner will FOREVER wave,Your name stamped in steel shall FOREVER be clutched in the tallons,And your spirit will FOREVER soar high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation.COME by NORTH--COME by SOUTH--COME by EAST--COME by WEST, We were all gathered and united on that great day as strangers,And upon those last [4] spoken words we are FOREVER BROTHERS!..............HU..RA......SEMPER FI............B.V.C.

Michael iezzi

October 12, 2007

Father we entrust our brother Jason to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Jason in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.

Garnet Jenkins

October 12, 2007

Please know how Deeply Sorry I am to learn of the loss of Sgt. Jason M. Lantieri. The Price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.

May Jason rest safely now, in the Loving Care of God and may God's Healing Grace and Comfort be with the Lantieri family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Young Heroes for their Sacrifices, my brother among them. Killed in action in Vietnam, in 1967.

"I consider that our present sufferings.
are not worth comparing with the glory
that shall be revealed in us."
~ Romans 8:18 ~

May the Peace of God and your precious memories of Jason, remain in your heart always and give you comfort and strength through the difficult days ahead.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.

October 12, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)

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