Sha-Lene Irene Allen

1985 - 2004

Sha-Lene Irene Allen

1985 - 2004

BORN

1985

DIED

2004

Sha-Lene Allen Obituary

Published by Hackman Family Funeral Homes - Rosenberg Chapel on Apr. 14, 2004.
Sha-Lene Irene Allen, 18, of Sturgis died April 13, 2004 at her home. She was born December 13, 1985 in Dowagiac, Michigan a daughter of Timothy R. and Ja-Lene (Sandberg) Allen. In 1996 the family moved to Sturgis where Sha-Lene attended Sturgis and White Pigeon Public Schools. She had been employed as a dietary aide at Life Care Center, LaGrange, Indiana and most recently as an assembler at the Sturgis Journal. Sha-Lene collected elephants, butterflys, and dragons and also enjoyed drawing, fishing and the out-of-doors.

Surviving are her mother and step-father Ja-Lene and Junior Graham of Sturgis; father Timothy R. Allen of Jackson, Ohio; two sisters, Mar-Lene Allen of Sturgis; Kcar-Lene Allen of Jackson, Ohio; maternal grandparents, John (Ed) and Karen Sandberg of Sturgis; paternal grandparents, Charlene and Russell Allen of Jackson, Ohio; paternal step-grandparents, Harlin & Betty Graham of McArthur, Ohio; great-grandmother, Esther Flory of Decatur, Mich.. Maternal great-grand-parents Leo and Mable Piersall of Robinson, Ill.; Aunts and uncles, Mitch & Jo-Dean Lord of Sturgis; Eddie & Jan Sandberg of Sturgis; Michael and Sharon Fraley of Sturgis; Robert and Vaughn Allen of Jackson, Ohio; Rebecca & Ron Hargett of Jackson, Ohio; Pamela & Joseph Patterson of Jackson, Ohio; Delana & Robert Wells of Wilkesville, Ohio; Jill & Jeff Lowery of McArthur, Ohio; Brad and Brenda Graham of McArthur, Ohio; Tim Graham of McArthur; Scott and Laurie Graham of Jackson, Ohio; Preceded in death by maternal grandmother Sandra Lee Sandberg; paternal great-grandparents, Bob and Betty Stone;

Friends and relatives may call at the Rosenberg-Schipper Funeral Home Ltd. of Sturgis after 2:00 P.M. on Saturday where the family will receive friends from 2-4 and 6-8 P.M. Religious services celebrating the life of Sha-Lene will be held in the Rosenberg-Schipper Funeral Home Ltd. of Sturgis on Sunday at 1:00 P.M. with Rev. Ray Piersall of the Crawford Co. Christian Center of Robinson, Illinois officiating. Interment will be in Lakeside Cemetery, Decatur, Mi.

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April 8, 2024

Beckie Hargett posted to the memorial.

April 8, 2023

Beckie Hargett posted to the memorial.

April 8, 2023

Kelly Sommers posted to the memorial.

Beckie Hargett

April 8, 2024

Oh my sweet niece! You are missed and loved by so many! I can’t believe it has been twenty years since I seen your beautiful smile or heard your voice. No matter what was happening when you walked into a room we always knew you would make everyone laugh. I often sit many days and wonder what you would be today or how many children you would have.
I’m sure you are enjoying your grandma and grandpa up there with you. Give them lots of love from me and save some for yourself! I love and miss you my little princess!

Love,
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

April 8, 2023

My sweet Sha-Lene how I miss you! I oftentimes think how life would be if you were still here with us. What you would be doing in life and what kind of mommy you would be. A great one I know!!! You’re truely missed every single day. I think of you with every butterfly or elephant I see. I will see you again someday on the shore of glory! Till that time keep looking over your loved ones down here. Kiss grandma and grandpa for me. I love you Sha !!!

Kelly Sommers

April 8, 2023

Miss you

Kcar-Lene Cross

April 9, 2021

I think of you often. Really wish I could speak with you again... I love and miss you dearly...

Beckie Hargett

April 8, 2021

Oh my sweet Sha .... I sure do miss you bunches! Yet another year has gone and missing you is just as real to me. So often I talk to you , hoping that you can hear me and know how much you are loved. I’m sure your having a blast helping Grandpa Allen outside or just sitting an fishing. The apple tree you planted is so big and your grapes are growing up the tree. We miss you ! Forever in my heart!

Always Aunt Beckie

Kelly Sommers

April 8, 2021

It's that time. Love u

Beckie Hargett

April 8, 2020

Miss you so much! I think of you so much ! Wondering what you would look like and how many children you would have. I would never bring you back to this old world, but it would be so great to have one more tight hug from you. To hear your laughter and see your beautiful smile. I cant believe you have been gone for 16 years. You are loved! I miss you my sweet Sha-Bug! Always on my mind forever in my heart! Love Aunt Beckie.

amber shepherd-shotzman

April 9, 2019

It still feels like yesterday. Some days when I need someone to talk to you, I see butterflies outside my window. Have fun up there and watch everyone.

Kcar-Lene Cross

April 8, 2019

It still feels like just yesterday you were here. I still wait for you to show up some days. I love and miss you; I wish we could talk.

Beckie Hargett

April 8, 2019

My sweet Sha-Lene I love and miss you so much. I often sit and think of you and all the great memories we made. You were always the first one to get everyone laughing. I cant believe we are coming up on 15years without you. Even tho you are not here ... you will always remain in my heart! So enjoy all those beautiful days in heaven with papaw Allen. I know you two are fishing and enjoying the outdoors. Continue to watch over us and I will see you in each butterfly that passes by! I love you bunches sweetheart! Aunt Beckie.

January 5, 2016

Good morning my lovely granddaughter just want to say Happy New Years to you miss you bunches. Grandma loves you so much Give grandpa a hugh for me love you so much Grandma Allen XOXOXO

December 23, 2015

Hi my sweet granddaughter grandma want's to wish you a Merry Christmas I miss you so much You are in my thoughts every day. Take care of grandpa for me. Love you sweetie hughes and kisses Grandma Allen

Kcar-Lene Cross

December 14, 2015

I love and miss you.
I really wish you could be here.

Amber Shepherd-Shotzman

December 13, 2015

Happy Birthday

December 31, 2013

Happy New Years sweetie grandma Allen sure does miss you Love you so very much give grandpa a kiss from me All my love

Beckie Hargett

December 29, 2013

Love and miss you !! Happy New Year Sweetheart.

December 15, 2013

My precious granddaughter you are missed every day you are in my thoughts always sending you birthday wishes and love take care of grandpa for me. Love and miss you grandma Allen.

KcarLene Cross

December 14, 2013

Love and miss you

December 14, 2013

My darling granddaughter I miss you so much. I remember when you and grandpa planted your apple seeds in the back yard you know what honey we get apples off it every year. Sending you birthday wishes and while I'm at it give grandpa Allen a big hugh for me Love you and think of you all the time Love and Hughes from grandma Allen

amber shepherd

December 13, 2013

Happy Birthday Sha. We all love and miss you. Keep watching over us.

Beckie Hargett

January 20, 2013

Love to you Sweetie. You are on my mind tonight. Forever in my thoughts!!
Love You,
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

January 10, 2013

Hello my dear niece... I love and miss you so very much. Well we are into a new year already. Please keep watching over your family and know that you are never far from our thoughts ...you are always in our hearts.
I LOVE YOU, SWEETIE !!!!
Aunt Beckie

Rebecca Hargett

December 26, 2012

My dearest Sha-Lene ...I love and miss you so very much. Well we have just came through another Christmas season. Things where just not the same this year without my family here. I missed you and grandpa so much. It seems that since you and grandpa have been gone things are just falling apart here. Give grandpa a kiss for me and keep a few for yourself. Till we meet in heaven again..hug and bunches of love to you!! Merry CHristmas !!
All my love,
Aunt Beckie

Kcar-Lene Cross

October 7, 2012

Always and forever.

I LOVE YOU SHA-LENE !!

Beckie Hargett

October 6, 2012

Beckie Hargett

October 6, 2012

As you can see from all the entries made in your book you where and still are loved so much. You touched so many lives and you shall never be forgotten!! I do miss you smile and your saying please can we try it just once ... you always were up for a challenge. I love you my sweet niece. Till we meet in heaven I send kisses and hugs to you and grandpa.

Jessica Pridgeon

October 4, 2012

I still cant believe ur gone i miss seeing ur face i know ur looking down on everyone u love and just know we are looking up in the stars remembering ur smile u always had on ur face!

Beckie Hargett

September 16, 2012

My dearest Sha I love you sweetie !! I miss you so much... think of you always and often wounder what you would be doing if you were still here with us. It is so hard most days to believe that the holidays are here again and you and grandpa have the best seat watcing over you family. give grandpa a hug and kiss from me and I love you both ... keep watching over us till we get to join you in heaven...
All my love,
Aunt Beckie

Charlene Allen

August 28, 2012

My darling grandaughter just want you to know that I love and miss you so much; Someday I'll strole over heaven with you and grandpa and well have a beautiful reunion. What a joy that will be. Take good care of grandpa for me. Sending hughs and kisses. All my Love Grandma Allen

Charlene Allen

July 17, 2012

My darling grandaughter I love and miss you so much. Doesn't seem like eight years since I saw you. You are very precious to me. I know you and your grandpa Allen are having a real good time together. He loves you so much. Your daddy misses you to. I send my love to you every day. May God watch over you and your grandpa. Love hugh and kisses always. Love Grandma Allen

Kcar-Lene Cross

July 16, 2012

I love you, but you know that.

Beckie Hargett

April 7, 2012

Hello my swwet niece... well tomorrow is Easter and I remember all the fun we had watching you and the other kids hunt easter eggs. I can remember how you would watch the other kids baskets while they looked... and you'd take there eggs..lol I so miss you, but the memories keep you here with me. Give grandpa a hug and kiss from me an keep some for yourself. I love you so much.
Forever missing you,
Aunt Beckie xooxxo

Kelly Pridgeon

April 6, 2012

Well it's almost that time of year again, no wonder I've been thinking about you so much lately. Whether its a butterfly or someones unique laugh, the thought of you always makes me smile. Where would you be now? I think about that one a lot. I wish your family love & hope everyone's doing well. :) Love you & still miss you all the time girl!

Jonathan Maines

January 6, 2012

sha-lene i think about you all the time and i remember all the fun we had as kids. you were one of my best friends and i miss you a lot. I know that your in a good place and that where ever you are your making everyone around you smile. <3

Timothy Allen

December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas sweetie I love you always and I miss you so much, I think of you often you will always be in my heart. Daddy

Beckie Hargett

December 23, 2011

My dearest Sha-Lene I love you so much... and there is never a day that goes by without me thinking of you! You are missed each day and even more on the hoildays. It seems now that you an grandpa are gone there is no Christmas spirit left in our family. I try but it is so hard to do it by myself. Please watch over us an give grandpa a really big hugs from me. I know you will have the best Christmas of all ...you are with Grandpa, but mostly you get to celebrate Jesus' birthday. Merry Christmas my sweet niece ...
Forever remembered in my heart,
Aunt Beckie

Rebecca Hargett

December 13, 2011

My dearest Sha-Lene just wanted to let you know that you are always on my mind. Happy Birthday my sweet one !! Today we would be celebrating your 26th b-day. I can remember the look on your face each time a b-day cake was made for you ... I love you so much my dear niece !!
Forever in my heart,
Aunt Beckie

Kcarlene Cross

May 25, 2011

I love you still...

Kelly Pridgeon

May 24, 2011

Hey girly. 7 Years has come and gone...and yet you're still here with me. I'm thankful for that, because someone said once that I could forget. I didn't believe them then, and nope, never will! :) I still think about ya, and when I try hard enough...I can even here you laugh!
I definetly miss you just as much now as I did then and guess that'll never change. I sure hope you've found hapiness and hold it every day. Find me when the time comes, girl...we've got a lot of catching up to do. :P

Beckie Hargett

April 7, 2011

My Dearest Sha-Lene,
I so miss you our sweet girl !! I know that you are up there in the best place possible, but it never stops us from wanting you here. You an Grandpa Allen are getting ready to plant the garden by now.. I hope you are watching over your family an know how much we miss you both. Kiss grandpa for me an I can't wait to hold you both again. All my love to you !!
Forever,
Aunt Beckie

Charlene Allen

April 6, 2011

Hello my precious grandaughter you are so miss here. I know it's been to long but I miss you every day. I know you are up there with your grandpa and you make him very happy. You two were always planting or working out doors together and it made him very happy. Take care of grandpa until I get there Ok honey. I send all my Love and Hughs to you and you will always be in my heart forever. All my love Grandma Allen

Beckie Hargett

January 3, 2011

I love an Miss you bunches !!!

Beckie Hargett

December 20, 2010

Hello sweetie I love an miss you very much. Another Christmas is here an without you an grandpa things just aren't the same. I know we must go on but I don't think it ever gets any easier..... Give grandpa a kiss an hug for me an keep one for urself. I love you always !!!!
Your missed always,
Aunt Beckie

Kcar-Lene Cross

December 19, 2010

I love and miss you. Really wish you was here for my own selfish reasons... Always and Forever...

Beckie Hargett

April 23, 2010

Hello my sweet niece.. I know it's been a while since I've wrote sometihing in here. I think of you often (like every day)! I do miss you so there are many times that I wish I could just hold you again... but in my heart your memories will always be. Please continue to watch over all your family an know you are MISSED Very MUCH !!!
All My to you,
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

August 14, 2009

Hello my Sweet Niece, first I must say I Love an MISS YOU very much!!! There is just this big whole in my heart.. I miss you, Grandpa ,Jason an so many others. I get jealous at times cause I know you are all together up there having your own party. I'm getting ready to go to work so I must go. Take care of Grandpa an let him know I love an miss him.
All my love to you Sweetie,
Aunt Beckie

Michelle Benders

August 14, 2009

Hi Sissy,

Just wanted to stop and let you know how much I miss you! Alot has been going on and I dont know if I am strong enough to handle it. How are grandpa and jason. I miss you all so much! Please watch over everyone which I already know ur doing! I love you with all my heart. Your big sister, Michelle

August 13, 2009

hello my sweet babie girl uncle eddie got himself a notebook with wireless so now i can read and write on your sight i miss you so much people say it gets easier with time they are so wrong when something new happens i want to share it with you but icant i know you already know what im talking about you are watching from a distance and i know that someday we will stand togeather again know that you are loved and greatly missed i love you too much momie

Beckie Hargett

June 18, 2009

Hello Sweetie, It's just Aunt Beckie again. I do miss you so very much right now. By now you know that Grandpa Allen is up there with you. He couldn't wait to talk with you an take you fishing again. Please take care of him an spend lots of time with him so he is never alone. I know there is no more pain in his body so for that reason I'd never ask him to come back here. Just continue to watch over us your family needs that now. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH !!!!! All my love to you an Daddy!
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

March 28, 2009

Hello my sweet niece I just wanted to stop by an let you know that I miss you very much...well I did it I went to work at Wal-Mart in the bakery. I remember you saying that working at Wal-Mart would be cool so I'm doing this for both of us. I love you so much. Keep watching over you family, an know that I love you an I miss you like crazy. You are forever in my heart !!!
All my love to you ,
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

December 27, 2008

Hello my sweetness, I just had to let you know that I was thinking of you. I Love an miss you very much. Well another Christmas has come an gone an u were in our hearts an thoughts. So many times I have told myself that if I had known it was our last yr together I would have made many more memories.. but truefully dear even with missing you like I do I know you are much better in heaven with Jesus. You got to go to the best Christmas /Birthday party ever. I Love You so much continue to watch over your family an know I think of you every day.
All my love to you,
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

December 13, 2008

Hello my Sweetness, I just wanted to wish you a very Happy Birthday! I have thought about you all day.. I had to go into town today an seen so many nice things you would love an of course it made Aunt Beckie cry just knowing how much you are missed by everyone. Christmas is fastly coming upon us an I still remember that last Christmas we had with you all the funny things you said an the hug you gave me before you left an told me you would always love me ..well sweetie, I will always love an miss you also. Well continue to watch over us all an know some day we will see you again in Heaven.
All my Love to you,
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

November 30, 2008

Hello my Sweetie,
Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you as always. You were surely missed at Thanksgiving.. Mar & Kc both showed up with there beautiful babies. I know if you were here you would have them so spoiled. I Miss you so much an so does so many others. Keep watching over us an know you are loved so much.
All my love
Aunt Beckie

Russell Allen

November 29, 2008

Two days past Thanksgiving 2008 and I still miss you like crazy. Your birthday's coming up in a couple weeks and GOD do I wish you were here to celebrate it with us. I'll never understand why you were taken. My only hope is that I'll see you again one day... sooner or later. I love you, Sha!

Beckie Hargett

October 28, 2008

Hello my sweetness, I just wanted to stop by an let you know that you are always on my mind. I miss you so much. Well I took Elizabeth trick or treating, an I couldn't help but remember all the times I took you an the other cousins. One the way home I always had to put the candy in the trunk so you an Russ wouldn't eat the others candy. I do miss those times but we have our sweet memories of ya an I thank God each day for that. Take care an keep a eye an us all . We love an miss ya much.
All my love ,
Aunt Beckie

Michelle Benders

October 26, 2008

Hey sis,

Its been along time since I have posted anything on here. I always think of you and miss you. There are times I really need you and I look at the sky and know ur watching over me. Ur niece and nephew are doing so well. Growning and a handful. When Hailey looks at the sky at night and sees a star, she says mommy there is Aunt Shalene. I love you sissy

Rebecca Hargett

September 22, 2008

Hello Sweetheart .. just wanted to let you know that I miss you so very much..well we just had another Apple Festival an I know how much you like to go to them with me. I thought about you while I was up there walking around..but I know you are walking on streets of gold there is no way I could ever take that from you. Some day I will be there with you; till then continue to watch over all of us an know you are loved an missed very much
All my Love to ya sweetheart,
Aunt Beckie

Russell Allen

July 30, 2008

hey squirt! It's been way too long since I've put anything on here for you. I have a daughter now. Shes almost 2 and just as ornery as we were growing up. I really wish you could be here to give her the hugs and kisses I know shed get from you. She knows your picture on the wall and blows kisses to it every time she sees it. I don't know how I've made it this long without you, but OMG do I ever miss you. You were (and always will be) my best friend. I haven't been the same since you left this life behind. Sometimes I wish I could just come be with you again. I'm having a pretty rough time right now with some things and its making me miss you even more. I love you Sha.

Beckie Hargett

July 11, 2008

Hello my sweetie...well we have passed another 4th of July.. I was thinking of you while I watched the fireworks.. I know that if you were here you would have been right there in the rain with me watching them... I miss you so much an theres not a day I don't think of you. Keep watching over us an some day I shall hold you in my arms again in heaven!! Miss you so much sweetie love you always..Aunt Beckie

Amber Shepherd

March 20, 2008

Hello hun,
I have been thinking about you lately. Whatever i do at work or school you are on my mind. I miss you so much. I could really use you right now. I know you are watching over me and everyone else you love. I miss you and love ya

Amber Shepherd

February 26, 2008

Hello hun! Another Christmas and New Year's have come and gone. I was thinking about you the whole time. I was really thinking about you on your birthday. i remember in elementary school how we told people we were like sisters since our birthdays were three days apart. I miss you so much. Another has started, just keep an eye on us. We all love you!!!!!!

Beckie Hargett

February 22, 2008

Hello baby gurl..just wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you. I miss you so. I keep a picture of you on my desk pin board so I get to see you every day an tell you how much I love you. Please continue to watch over all of us ..Grandpa is really sick an I just don't know how much longer were going to have him here with us, but I know that when the time comes that you will be there waiting for him. We have alot of snow here now. I remember that you always like to hide an throw snowballs at us when we came out of the house. I must go an take mawmaw to town but I will try to write more often ..I LOVE YOU !!!!
Aunt Beckie

Beckie Hargett

December 27, 2007

Hello my sweetie...Just wanted to say I love you !!! I miss you so much, but I think of you every day. Well another Christmas has come an gone. Most of the family was here an that was great. Now were looking at another year right around the corner. Just contiune to watch over us an know we love an miss you very much.
All my love,
Aunt Beckie

Tim Allen

December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas my beautiful girl,I miss you so and think of you each and every day,you are always in my heart and mind. Keep and eye on your family and friends as we all need a touch from above.till later, All my love Daddy

Beckie Hargett

August 12, 2007

Hello my sweetness,
I miss you so very much. You are forevery in my heart an the hearts of those that LOVE YOU! Long as we remember you an the silly things you done to us an for us; you will never be gone. Your memory will live forever. I wish you were here to see your nieces.. there both vey beautiful like there mommies. It is hard to believe that they are a year old. Well sweetie keep watching over us an know that you are forever in our smiles that comewith thoughts of you. Love you ,Aunt Beckie

Courtney Hollingshead

April 29, 2007

hey hunny,
it's hard to beleive it's been 3 years but still so fresh in our minds. i miss you every day we have the pictures with all of us together in high school on "the wall" hanging in our living room. you are so missed here. you touched our lives in such a great way everyday we spent with you and continue to touch us even after.

I Love you and miss you very much ! bye hun

Beckie Hargett

April 17, 2007

Hello my sweetness, It's so very hard to believe that you have been gone from us for 3yrs. I think of you all the time. Yesterday I was looking at our last christmas pictures...I would have taken so many more of you an Vaughn if I had even a ideal it would have been our last with you both. You will never be gone long as I hold you in my heart like so many others. I Love you so much sweetie!
Love forever,
Aunt Beckie

michael ewing

April 16, 2007

sha-lene you are so missed in so many ways you were a great friend and a very specail person we all miss you so much

MICHELLE

April 15, 2007

ps

I LOVE YOU

Michelle Benders

April 15, 2007

Hi sis! I cant believe you have been gone for 3 yrs now! I miss you more and more each day!

Amber Shepherd

January 21, 2007

Hey Sha,
I wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. We all miss you so much. You are on my mind all the time. Keep watching over us all and we see each other sometime soon.
Love Ya,
Amber Shepherd

Beckie Hargett

January 15, 2007

Hey Sis,
I just wanted to tell you I love an miss you so much. I sure thank God for all the happy memories he has let me have of you. Grandpa an Grandma talk of you often an remember the little girl that helped out on the farm. Well your daddy has another b-day coming up an I know you are always in his prayers an every thought. We all miss you so much! Continue to watch over everyone, and someday I will meet you by the River! Love you sweetie.
Aunt Beckie

Stacy Atsaphanthong

January 10, 2007

hey sha-lene well I finaly did it I am a med student in indiania and all I keep thinking about is how we would tell eachother what we wanted to do after graduation. you were going to join the national guard and I was going to become a medical assistant. I hope you can see how much I wish you were here. I love you, Stacy Atsaphanthong

Beckie Hargett

December 27, 2006

Hello my sweet gal,
Just wanted to let you know that you were with us in every way this Christmas. Your daddy gave everyone a picture of you in your prom dress.So I had to put it under the clock so everyone could see it. Ofcourse we all watch the clock for some reason. I was a little jealous cause you got to celebrate your birthday with Jesus birthday. I love an miss you bunches my sweet one.
Love you forever,
Aunt Beckie

Courtney Hollingshead

December 25, 2006

*Hey Babe*
Merry Christmas!!! We all think of you often and miss you everyday. I wish you were here to celibrate with us but I know you're watching over us! I Love you so much. Your picture is everywhere in our house (oh yea Lou and I have a house). and we both miss you very much.

Happy Late Birthday 21 BABE crazy huh.
well i love you and miss you very much and will see you again!

Elesa Fox

December 15, 2006

Hey Sha!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY....gee we are all getting to old, But were still gona miss ya not matter how many years pass, just keep watching all of us Love ya
Lisha Fox

Beckie Hargett

December 14, 2006

Hey Sweet Sha-Lene,
Just wanted to tell u Happy Birthday! And let you know that you were in my thoughts. Grandma Allen and I were talking yesterday about you, an how you love to get those gifts for your birthday. Knowing that in a few days your getting more gifts for christmas. I sure miss you like crazy. Keep looking over your family an friends an know that you are always in our hearts an prayers.
Forever my sweet girl,
Aunt Beckie

Michelle Benders

December 12, 2006

Happy Birthday Sis! I know its tomorrow!!! I really do miss ya!! Pleade keep watching over everyone!!! I love ya sis!!

Michelle Benders

December 3, 2006

Hey Sha! Well, another birthday of mine has past and christmas is coming and it makes me miss u more every year. Just thinking about the time we cute the trees aross the street from the trailer and brought them home even though we werent suppose to. I just wish you were here to see ur nieces and nephew. I know they would love ya! Please keep an eye on everyone for me cuz I cant!! I love you always and forever!

Beckie Hargett

December 2, 2006

Hello my sweet Sha-Lene,
I miss you so much...I sit many times an just look at your picture. An remember all the silly things you an the other kids got into all the time. The holidays are her again an you will be here with us in our thoughts an our hearts. I remember how you love to ride around an look at the Christmas lights. I love you more than words can say. Watch over us, an I can't wait to have you in my arms again. Happy Holidays my sweetie.
Love you always,
Aunt Beckie

November 4, 2006

HEy SHa,
I wanted to tell youi how much everyone misses you. I just went through another funeral. I love and miss you.
Amber

Pam Patterson

September 20, 2006

Sha-Lene,

Hey baby, Aunt Pam sure does miss you bunches. I am at work looking out the window at the Apple Festival going on, and remember how you used to love going to it. Boy you should could put away those candy apples..lol Sweetheart I miss you so much! My heart aches to see you again. Well, Dj is getting married the 21st of next month, can you believe that~Bobby is doing good he graduates this year. He has a girlfriend, he's just crazy over her. Uncle Joe is doing good, please watch over them for me, and keep them safe. Well, sweety I will write again later.

I love you bunches and bunches~Miss you more than words can say!



All my love~

Aunt Pammie xoxo

Amber Shepherd

July 18, 2006

Hey Sha, Its been a while since i wrote you.. Everything is going crazy. I miss you so much. I know everyone is missing you. I guess i will write you later



Love and miss you

Amber

Lisha Fox

June 18, 2006

Sha-lene

Hey there! Gee so many things that I wish you could be here for!! Elijaa is three now! He is getting so big and MeAn...ooh man you oughta see him! Temper Temper!

I sure do miss you, keep watchin over everyone. Someone has to keep us outa trouble! :) Love ya!!



PS...if anyone has any reason photos of Sha, could I please have one for my scrapbook greatly appreciated!!!! [email protected]

Michelle Beaver

June 15, 2006

hey sha....i miss you like crazy!!! sorry i havent been here much to let you know whats going on??? just dealing with you niece and waiting until ur nephew gets here..i have less than 4 weeks...please watch over everyone......i love you sis

Beckie Hargett

April 14, 2006

Hello my dear Sha,

I just wanted to let you know that you are in my heart an thoughts each day. The funny little things you use to do still bring laughter to me. I love an miss you bunches. It is really hard to believe that it has been 2 yrs. We all miss you so much. Take care an continue to watch over everyone till we meet you in heaven by that bright river. Then I'll chace butterflies with you.

I love you forever.

Aunt Beckie

Stacy Atsaphanthong

April 6, 2006

I wish you were here with Eric and I, my grandmother just passed away and I know that having you here to help me greive would be nice I love you and Miss you. I know that in a few days it will have two years here with out you and I will pray to you and for your mother father and sisters to get through it with out a strugle.

Michelle Beaver

March 17, 2006

hello sissy!! well you are gonna have a nephew!!! we are naming him tyler alexander.....hailey is getting really big and acts just like me....LOL!! she has curly hair...dont ask me where she got that from!!! well i really miss you alot!!! please watch over everyone especially mar and kc!!!



love



michelle

Pam Patterson

March 14, 2006

Sha-Lene,

Hey sweetie, I sure do miss you~I think about you all the time. you are so special to all of us. Please watch over Dj~he is having a really hard time right now. Just know you are in my thoughts everyday and ~I love you so much~



All my love,

Aunt Pam

Beckie Hargett

February 26, 2006

Hello my sweet Sha,

I just wanted to let you know that you are always on my mind. I miss you so much...an could have used your help this week. Uncle Ronnie an I are moving into a new home,an you always like to go through my things like makeup an hair pieces! you could have taken some of them an made less for me to pack. (haha) I do miss you I have the picture of you an Russ that I love on my desk an it always brings joy to me an many memories too. Well sweetie keep watching over all of us an I'm waiting till we meet again.

Love you Sweetie,

Aunt Beckie

P.S.

Ryan is getting married on March 4th an DJ in Oct. I'm sure they both wish you were here! LOVE YOU!

Stacy Atsaphanthong`

February 6, 2006

Hey Sha-lene,

I just wanted to let you know that i miss you, Jeorge, Eric and I were talking about how when Eric would go to class Jeorge and us would play paper hacky sack that was so much fun we all miss ya.

Love ya,

Stacy

MICHELLE BEAVER

February 2, 2006

HEY SISSY! I REALLY DO MISS YOU! I AM SORRY I HAVENT WRITTEN IN AWHILE! I FIND OUT NEXT WED WHAT WE ARE HAVING!! I CANT WAIT! EVRYTHING WITH THIS BABY IS OKAY SO FAR! HAILEY JUST TURNED 2 LAST MONTH! HER HAIR IS CURLY LIKE YOURS! HAILEY HAD A GREAT CHRISTMAS CUZ WE WENT HOME AND SHE SPENT MOST OF HER TIME WITH DAD!! SHE IS OFFICIALLY A GRANDPA'S GIRL!! I KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING OVER US BUT PLUS WATCH OVER KC AND MAR! I AM WORRIED ABOUT THEM!!





I LOVE YOU SHA



YOUR BIG SISTER



MICHELLE

Amber Shepherd

January 31, 2006

i miss u so much. i could use some advice from u rite now. i know u are watching over everyone and trying to make sure everyone is doing okay. Espically your sisters. I love you and miss you so much.

Beckie Hargett

December 29, 2005

Hello Sweetheart,

I just wanted to let you know that I think about you all the time. Well another year has came an went we sure missed you an Vaughn at Christmas...I know you would have loved it.. we had it at your dad's this year an it was really nice. He even had your little tree up. But I believe in my heart that you had a even better Christmas than we did for you got to spend it with Jesus an be at his birthday celebration! Well Kc came for christmas but Marly didn't make it an I missed her so much. Just continue to watch over all of us an know that you are always in our thoughts an forever locked in our hearts!

LOVE YOU Forever,

Aunt Beckie

Stacy Atsaphanthong

December 28, 2005

Hey girl,

I know that I havent written in a while but things just got crazy between a close person and I. I just wanted to let you know that I miss you and I pray for you and to you all the time. I miss everything we used to do together, luv ya,

Your girl,

Stacy

kelly pridgeon

December 25, 2005

Merry Christmas. I love you! :)

Elesha Fox

December 18, 2005

Hey there Sha!!

Just wanted to drop ya a little not to say Hi and see how you have been its been so busy latley with christmas and everything Elijaa is waiting on Santa Clause although he has already went though all the presents and found his Choo Choo! I know you had a wounderful birthday, and hope you the same for christmas. I talked to Kcarlene the other day she seems to be doing ok, hope her the best and Mar too keep looking out for them!!! I miss you!!! Merry Christmas and happy New year i know you will make it the best!!!

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