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Howard Mathews Obituary
He is survived by his wife, Jacquelyn Cohan Mathews; two sons, Timothy Armor Mathews and Mackenzie Anderson Mathews; his parents, Howard B. Mathews Jr. and his wife, Helen, of New Bern; a brother, Clayton Mathews and wife, Anne, of Gainesville, Fla.; a sister, Susan Oliver and husband, William, of Hastings, Neb.; maternal grandmother, Alice Coggin of Lincolnton; mother-in-law, Elizabeth Cohan of Charlotte; and a brother-in-law, Richard Cohan and wife, Emily, of Welford, S.C.
Andy was born September 25, 1967, in New Bern. He was the art director with Hero Games and a faithful and devoted member of Believers Fellowship, where he was a member of the worship team.
A celebration of Andy's life will be conducted at 4 p.m. Friday, December 5, 2008, at Believers Fellowship by John Bullock with a reception to follow.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Believer Fellowship, c/o Andy Mathews Fund, 727 Old Graves Mill Road, Lynchburg, Va. 24502
Heritage Funeral Service and Crematory, Lynchburg, Va., (434) 239-2405, is assisting the family. Memories and thoughts may be shared with the family at www.heritagefuneralandcremation.com.
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Susan (Scott) Higgins
December 17, 2008
Coach Mathews and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I recall such wonderful times in High School with Andy and you. May God grant you the strength to get through this very difficult time.
Frances Barron (used to be Phelps)
December 12, 2008
Howard, Helen, Susan & Clay,
I couldn't believe it when I read in the Sun Journal about Andy's death. I knew already of the Christian heritage of the Mathews Family and it showed throughout Andy's obituary. The Mathews Family has had a positive influence that is far reaching. The strength and peace you have within comes only through our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I love your whole family!
Vince Wilson
December 9, 2008
Mathews Family--
I'm sorry to hear of Andy's passing. I'll always remember him as a kind-hearted, warm, friendly person all the years growing up with him in New Bern. My thoughts are with you all.
W Jason Allen
December 8, 2008
Andy, you will be sorely missed. Until next we meet...
December 8, 2008
Lynn,
You and your children are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jimmy and Stephanie (Delery) Helms
Marilyn (Jones) Glover
December 7, 2008
Mrs. Matthews, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Leah Ratzlaff
December 6, 2008
Susan and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss. Please know all of you are in our thoughts and payers. Tom and Leah Ratzlaff
David Lambright
December 6, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.
Kent Blandford
December 6, 2008
Matthews Family,
I am so very sad for your loss. Andy and Clay are two of the most decent people I remember when I think back to good ole New Bern Senior High days. You should be proud of your sons. May he rest in peace.
Carol Oliveira
December 6, 2008
To the Matthews Family:
Our heartfelt condolences go out to you in your time of need. We never had the privelage of meeting Andy, but from the testimonies of his friends and family we feel like we did. Our lives are less complete for not knowing him. We are here if you need anything.
Jack Butler
December 6, 2008
Andy was my friend. He will ever be my friend. His encouragement and good cheer helped me through some of the great tragedies of my life, and for that I will always be thankful. My heart goes out to Lynne and the boys, for their loss is a hundred times mine, and mine is near unbearable.
Zach Butler
December 6, 2008
He helped my father through some true catastrophies. They were the best of friends. I'll miss him so.
Paul and Margaret Scheele
December 5, 2008
Our deepest sympathy for the entire Matthews family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Ben Langdon
December 5, 2008
A friend who was a long way away but as close as an email. You will be missed Andy. Right across the world.
Deepest sympathies to Lynne and the boys.
Katy Weatherly Benningfield
December 5, 2008
I wrote a special note about how much Andy father, Coach Howard Matthews, meant to me. I graduated in the same high school class with Andy, but his dad was a special teacher. I grieve for the entire family.
Katy Weatherly Benningfield
NBHS, Class of 1985
Raleigh
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Rev. A. Matson, D.D.
December 5, 2008
To Andy's family:
My heartfelt condolences for your loss, it is indeed a profound one. Andy was my "online friend," though I regret having to reduce his friendship by qualifying it so. Andy was a good man, a gentle man, a funny man, a humble man. He personified "kindness" for me and his voice in email and the forums was always one of tolerance and respect for others. I pray that legacy (and his love of music!) will live on in the sons he loved so dearly -- you are all in my prayers.
Sue Grainger
December 5, 2008
I knew Andy only as an online presence via email and forums, but in those mediums I came to know a very good man and a very good friend. He carried especial love of his family with him at all times, and he gave generously of his time and energy to his friends as well. My heartfelt condolences and sympathy go out to you all.
Joe Heckman
December 5, 2008
Coach and Mrs. Mathews,
I am sorry for your loss. I remember Andy from the Boy Scouts and school. May God be with you and your family.
Woody and Brenda Coggin
December 5, 2008
Lynn, perhaps during the lonely times you can read the things people write and be comforted by them. Andy was extremely sensitive and I know has blessed many people as he allowed God to use him to do so. Please know that you, Tim and Mac will be in our prayers. It is impossible to know what to say at a time like this other than that we love you dearly and know that God will enfold you in His loving arms.
Charles Swindell
December 5, 2008
Coach and Ms Mathews,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss and sometimes there are no words to express our true feelings. I had not seen Andy for many years but remember him well. As long as we keep Andy in our thoughts and hearts he will always be with us.
Rob Rogers
December 4, 2008
I only knew Andy through e-mail, but he was a great man and I'll miss him terribly. My deepest sympathies.
Kimberly Johnson
December 4, 2008
Lynn
I am so sorry that I am not there right now. The students and staff here in Trinidad have been praying for you and the boys. As we had praise and worship last night, I kept thinking of Andy on keyboard. I will be home next week, so I can give you a hug then.
John W Stuart
December 4, 2008
To all of Andy's family...
I am so sorry for your loss. Andy was my best friend in high school and though we didn't keep in touch as much afterwards, I can't imagine those times without him. I'm sure he will be greatly missed by everyone that knows him. My prayers go out to his family.
Kristin Griffin
December 4, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Mathews. I am so sad to hear about Andy. He was such a special friend to my brother John. He always made us laugh and he will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all and with Andy's wife and children. Kristi Stuart Griffin
Jack Godwin
December 4, 2008
Helen and Howard,
We're so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Jack and Trish Godwin
Diane Willingham
December 4, 2008
Dear Mathews Family,
I am praying for you during this time. When I reveiw the blessings in my life, I happily count my friendship and time spent with Andy and the rest of your family. May you find rest in God's love and peace with your friends during this time. God Bless.
Wendy Carey Mumy
December 4, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Mathews,
I am so sorry to hear of Andy's passing. He was such a special person and I feel privileged to have called him my friend. You should know that he was much loved and will be greatly missed.
Pat Vestal
December 4, 2008
Love and prayers,
Billy and Pat Vestal
New Bern, Nc
Steve Hale
December 4, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. Your family holds a special place in the hearts of many of us from New Bern. My prayers are with you.
Kim Jennings
December 4, 2008
Lynn,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the boys during this most difficult time. I know he was an amazing husband, father and friend to those who knew him. He will be greatly missed!
The Jennings Family
Durlene Coburn
December 4, 2008
Howard and Helen,
Please know that you are in our prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
God Bless!
Cindy Hawkins Norris & family
December 4, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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